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LTR is against weed

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February 9, 2017

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Title	LTR is against weed
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	5
Comments	26
Date	February 9, 2017 3:35 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5sxo2u/ltr_is_against_weed/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/ltr-is-against-weed.181514 https://theredarchive.com/post/181514

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[–]jttjt -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

I think what your taking away from it is again too simple.

I didn't read it that way

So you think what I'm taking away from it is too simple then you go on to admit that you didn't even consider it from my perspective? You just considered it from the perspective of "you shouldn't be smoking weed every night anyway because that's bad so you should listen to her." That's the obvious kind of advice you will find on r/relationshits. The red pill way to have an LTR is to set the frame from the beginning and hold it at all costs. This doesn't mean my girl can't suggest I quit smoking weed every night but it does mean that if I want to smoke weed every night I'm going to do it and she has to deal with it, just like everything else I want to do. And if she can't deal she's gone.

"Stop having negotiations with women. Stop trying to give her things to make her happy so that she lets you go out to fuckin hunt and let you go out to drink. You have to say “look sweetie, this is how it is” and you have to be ready for her to walk out of your life." - Patrice O'Neal

[–]Certifiedfamilylaw1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

This back and forth is getting increasingly retarded.

I did consider it from your perspective, but read it differently. The big misunderstanding between us is that I don't believe this is type of frame holding thats anywhere close to productive for an LTR. Considering he wants to continue this relationship, its almost childish to put your foot down over something like this, never mind that its operating from a limiting mindset.

If he wants to smoke weed every night and she continues to bitch about it, he has to be willing to take the L - that point may come and I wouldn't have an issue. My take is that why not try something different if he is enjoying the relationship: she might be so plugged into his shit that she might actually want whats best for him because it might also be whats best for her.

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