So I have been on about 5 dates in the past few weeks with different women. The problem is they all feel the same and go the same way.

I don't know why but I'm curious and I like to ask questions about their life and what they have going on. These kinds of questions end up taking the conversation down a rabbit hole. I had one date tell me she was date raped and woke up in a hospital on our first date. Another tell me she has a kid with a guy who's in and out of jail.

Nonetheless this kills the attraction when I hear this kind of shit. Red flags go off everywhere in my head and all I hear is RUN!

I've read on here to keep the date in the moment and not talk about the past or future. I mean I feel like I run out of shit to talk about.

Any help would be appreciated.