Uncomfortable without shirt

BondageB · 2016-07-22T23:19:19+00:00

People wont care about how you look. Dont think about it. When hanging out don't think about what people would think about your body. Relax and have a good time.

a_nus · 2016-07-23T03:56:03+00:00

Don't give a fuck. Your attitude speaks a thousand times louder than your body. I've seen fat dudes at the beach that ooze more confidence than athletic guys who seem to be trying too hard to look good (flexing their abs, only moving in certain ways, etc.)

dumbTRPguy · 2016-07-23T04:48:33+00:00

The more you show it bugs you the more others will be bugged by it. Odds are, you will be uncomfortable and someone will say something unkind. Treat it like a shit test. A&A or amused mastery.

Zunscriii · 2016-07-23T10:55:27+00:00

Why are you anxious ffs? You're probably going to look better than at least 80% of guys there. Most guys look like shit, take comfort in that.

Also, you are a man, you're not supposed to be self conscious about your body. Go out there and slay dragons.

MattyAnon · 2016-07-23T16:08:20+00:00

Any tips and advice are appreciated

yeah, lose the moobs.

you are not confident because you don't want to show off what you see as a second rate product.

happily however you're probably in better shape than anyone else, so strip your shirt off and revel in "I don't give a fuck". Learn to accept and relax with your discomfort. Fuck it all, it's fine, quit being a baby and suck it up.

Title	Uncomfortable without shirt
Author	blue_dover
Upvotes	4
Comments	5
Date	July 22, 2016 11:04 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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