Uni Advice

Vitamin_ABCDE · 2020-09-04T01:12:25+00:00

You're not gonna like reading this but University is not the place for relationships. You're just shooting yourself in the foot by already being in a relationship.

Also you'll be living in a shared apartment with 7 women??? Boy, run.

boy_named_su · 2020-09-03T23:57:15+00:00

that's a sign of introversion. you like socializing, but it tires you out

that's okay. don't feel bad about it.

keep the socializing short. have time to wind down after. space things out. have a bath. meditate. listen to relaxing music

watch standup, take an improv class, put on up-beat music, drink some coffee before you go out so you're in a positive mood

inkwind · 2020-09-04T11:23:34+00:00

These are signs of an introvert. You recharge when quiet/alone.

A good way is to think like you're giving away a box of candy per day. Give em away only to people you admire and not waste your candies on dead end people.

I'd recommend joining clubs like improv,running etc. Excellent for getting chicks while having fun and naturally building skills and social circles. Bums are usually not in these clubs. Win-win.

Uni is for building relationships with successful people while also getting knowledge on the side. Don't have too much fun.

I'd not expect the gf or any physical relationship to last. Start learning to build abundance.

notcasualcock · 2020-09-04T12:28:41+00:00

So you're moving into student halls. Well done, that's the prime environment where the fucking happens.

There's so many opportunities available to you. Make the most of them. What sports club are you planning on joining? You should absolutely join one, even if you don't currently play/are not good at the sport. The sports culture in UK universities is crazy, your experience in uni will be double as exciting if you are in rugby, football etc.

Your relationship will probably not last through the 3 years of uni. There's so many girls for you and so many guys for her. You will likely lose trust due to the massive hook-up culture promoted at uni / student accommodation. It's easy for me to suggest breaking up with her now to avoid all this but I understand it feels difficult and you may want to stay together.

Just think of your future self, will you look back and wish you made the most out of the opportunities available? Or will you be glad you stayed with the same gf from your home town?

bruiser18 · 2020-09-04T22:17:11+00:00

Dump girlfriend
Game women
???
Profit

Title	Uni Advice
Author	mxstafaaa
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	September 3, 2020 11:50 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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