Weird situation but I'll try TL:DR it as much as I can.

  • I'm a 6'5 semi muscular (1 year training) guy
  • Met some hb7 at a social event outside a bar
  • Hit it off from the beginning and had sex on second date.
  • Continued dating for a while for hours on end (literally most of the day)
  • Had a few disagreements and arguments but always fixed it somewhat
  • Still had sex and dates
  • Was never official
  • She broke it off after a month because we weren't compatible, (She always gets angry if I say something wrong)

Didn't hard next her but kept her on snapchat. We still chatted and agreed to be casual. Met her in person 2 weeks after break up and it was good vibes again. Had sex again and went out together.

A week later, we went out again but she got triggered over something about me saying I don't care about her (drunken rant). I tried remedying it but it seemed to not work.

Went home and went no contact.

She popped up again asking if I have anything to say and that I don't care. Had another phone call and this time, it was very standoffish with her saying she's done trying to make me understand where I go wrong and that I never seem to get it.

On the phone after a few minutes of silence I said:

"OK (name), it was nice meeting you, I wish you luck with the future and your studies etc", then I ended the call.

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I was about to hard next and delete but didn't. She called back 5 minutes later and was like she still wants to talk to me and be friends (I don't mind being friends since we still fuck), but it feels weird.

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Would you all hard next her and be done with or would you feel like you would stay in contact via snapchat and use her as a tool to motivate yourself harder at gym, studies and financial gains? I feel like "glowing up" would show how far I've come and that she's missing out.

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I also feel like I could still fuck her but don't want to turn into an orbiter if there's no sex. How is there a way to see if this would be the case?