I was reading through No More Mr. Nice Guy and he stated that one of his clients had something called 'Vaginaphobia'. He loved the attention of women but would hesitate when the situation would lead him to sex (in hot tub with coworker in string bikini - refuses to go upstairs with her when she asks for example).

I've had it happen now twice or 3 times where when I get a girl I find really attractive in bed with me, I start seriously hesitating even if she's giving me all these signals. Any ideas or advice? It's like I freeze or get paralyzed and hope she does something....

Note - I did read Sex God Method and side-bar, maybe I just need more practice and internalizing? I have no problem with escalating to makeouts or getting them to my place, but when it comes to the act i just freeze sometimes