At my uni it is 80% guys, this translates to the party scene as well. I've noticed that girls attention spans are astonishingly short, they will grind one man and move on to the next guy in seconds. This describes every girl at a party, they are showered with attention and it seems they are content with all the validation. I'm not trying to make excuses, but no one in our school can consistently pull every and the ones that do pull get a girl once a month and are usually the tall attractive type.

I really want to work on my game but it seems the perspective that these have girls are unrealistic compared to other universities and regular bar/club scenes. Some trp values it seems doesn't work in this arena that I've tried before with success. I'm decently attractive but not in the 1% that girls seem to shoot for.

I'm wondering if I should keep persisting with trying to learn game this way and stop bitching or avoid the alcohol and parties and focus more on myself.

Thank you for reading, any response is greatly appreciated.