Please be harsh on me, I still have blue pill in me, but read the sidebar and really improved the past 5 months since I've been reading red pill.

Also read NMNNG, Rational Male, Subtle art of giving a fuck and more. I'm also lifting 3-4x/week.

I'm 23 probably an HB7.5 , since I'm also self-employed and can basically do whatever I want. Looks are decent.

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Meet this girl at a party and went on a few dates with her. I really liked her and made her my LTR without doing anything more than kissing - due to her being virgin. She told me she wants sex before marriage. The dates went always really good, nothing compared to dates I went on before. But nothing escalated further than making out. 2 weeks after making her my LTR I had to leave the country I live in for 1 month due to some stuff I had to handle. I felt like she kinda lost attraction over this time. When I came back she told me she's glad I'm back now and that it's a fresh start for the relationship

At the beginning of us dating, she told me she used to have a friend she made out with all the time though, even sneaked out of her house to do so. Today I asked her if she wants to go to my apartment later, she said she can't because her parents don't let her to.

I know she basically tells everything her mum and told her a lot/everything about us dating so far but I still don't see the reason why she won't come over.

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Is it worth the wait, trying to escalate the next few times we meet and then end in 3? weeks if nothing happens?

I know Tomalli says no, but want to get your turn on this.

The thing is I'm also a virgin but have not really a problem talking to girls, the problem I have is escalating with them. I've made out with a ton, fingered some but never got to the point of having sex.

I know this question has been asked a ton of times and I've read a lot of the posts about virgins but the thing which is making me suspicious is that she sneaked out of her house before, just to make out with a guy when she was like 18, so I don't see the reason why she wouldn't come to my apartment.

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TL;DR: I've dated this girl (22) for 1 month, then made her my LTR due to many Green Flags - Christian, Good Father, Great Family, Virgin, etc. - In an LTR for basically 1 month now, won't come over to my apartment because her parents don't let her to but sneaked out a couple of years ago to make out with a friend.