Got a girl coming over tomorrow before I go to work 21:00. Met her at a party, we made out. She found my snap and added me. Went on coffee date and been to her place once.

I know both Rollo and a lot of the EC's here say it's not worth if she doesn't put out early but think I have read a post/comments where it differs when they are virgins.

She told me it when we met at her place, I tried to escalate as much as possible but her family was home. I do believe her actually because she acts very shy and insecure about herself. According to my bestfriends girlfriend, who happens to be her best friend she is a virgin.

Now how should I proceed? 2 steps forward 1 step back, act more beta BFish? Or just go along like usual. I have practiced what I have learned here and she thinks im a player and that she is just one among many etc.