There seems to be two approaches when it comes to flirting with women. Subtle, and overt.

Examples: Her: Have we met?

Me: "I've definitely seen you before... Hmmmm... Ah! I remember"

"What?"

"In porn"

Giggles

"Don't worry, your secret's safe with me"

"I'm not a porn star"

"It's OK. My last girlfriend was a pornstar ...... she just doesn't know it yet." etc

That would be an instance of overt sexual flirting. I find myself naturally inclined to speaking like that. Yet here on trp there is an emphasis on insinuation and implication.

Am I handicapping myself with the lack of subtlety?

But at the same time, being blatant effectively filters out those unworthy of my time. It effectively polarizes people. The girls who like how I speak, aren't difficult to nail at all.