This is about the girl from my last post*

TLDR: girl freaks out because I made a joke about hanging out with someone else and left her on read for 4 hours. And now I'm a manipulative POS.

I was getting high IOIs from this girl and she would blow up my phone constantly. So naturally I would ask her to hang out and we did multiple times, one time we were on the beach and watched the sunset and it felt like no time passed before the sun came up again. Her friend likes one of my guy friends, she would tell him that all they would talk about would be me. She even referred to herself as to being whipped infront of me.

Two days ago I asked her to hang out after 12am (I was getting off work that late) and she said she was tired and was going to go to bed. I told her I'll stop off for like a hour because I'll be passing her apartment on the way home from work. She said no because she knows that I'll keep her up till like 6am again (this has happened multiple times) and that she really needs sleep. I told her that's cool I'll just go hang out with someone else then. I ignored her for like 4 hours.

I eventually text her again around 11pm and shes pissed/upset saying that I was manipulating her into thinking that I'd go sleep with another girl and that if it was in the reverse that I'd feel the same way. I left her on read and called her when I finished my shift at 12am. She sounded like she was either tired AF/having really bad allergies/has been or was crying.

She brings up the sleeping with other girls thing and I ask her "what made you think I was going to go sleep with another girl, what happens if I was actually planning on hanging out with one of my boys instead?" She said that she knows that I talk to other women (I literally dont because I'm busy with work and school, she doesnt know that because the guy friend she knows is a legit hoe and gets women easily) and I just kept silent and she went on saying that I'm manipulative and that I'm guilt tripping her blah blah blah. So I laugh it off and change the conversation to me trying to come over and shes not having it.

Next day, my brother is in town and he asked me to hang out with him and his girlfriend. Since I dont want to be a third wheel I ask her to come hang out with us. She agrees but she has dinner plans with one of her girlfriends prior and I tell her cool. Shit happens at work and I'm not going to be leaving after midnight again. I let her know and she says that shes going to go home after dinner because she doesnt feel comfortable waiting till midnight at a bar for me alone. I ask her if her friend would wait with her and she said she doesnt want to stay out late. I'm trying to figure something out to possibly have her wait and nothing working out so I tell her "well its gonna suck for you because you wont be able to see me tonight" and she loses it again by saying I'm manipulating her into hanging out with me. I tell her I'm going to call her after work.

I call her and shes saying that I'm throwing out red flags and that I'm manipulating her and that it's becoming a pattern in the last 24 hours blah blah blah. That I'm moving way to fast for her (when shes the one who keep bringing up relationship/dating stuff) she told me to back off and to figure my shit out before hitting her up again and that she needs to focus on finishing this semester out because she might fail and shell have to pay her dad back 30k. We were on the phone for 2 and a half hours. Never hung out with me brother...

I'm confused as fuck by this, she was throwing out high IOIs and shit tests and now I'm manipulating her? Is this a shit test as well or did she lose interest in me? I havent been telling her anything that would make me simp, like "oh your beautiful". She throws fishing lines out for that but I keep quiet. The only thing I've said that might of been simpish is that I enjoy spending my time with her, which I actually do. What do yall think, should I back off or should I push my luck?

Before yall say that shes fucking another guy, I'm not naive but I've also seen her snapchat and hinge and they are DRY as fuck. Most times I speak to her are peak booty call hours and she always replies withing 1 to 10 minutes. Until I tell her to go to sleep because it's now 4am and she wakes up for an 830 class.