Good morning, first of all thanks for your time answering peoples questions.

I’m still at the beginning of swallowing the pill. I have one plate currently but the situation with her is going down south in terms of my control over our status.

For example: I’m not really sure how this happened, but she got me to agree that we are not committed, but we should let each other know if we will be seeing someone else (This is retarded in my opinion but I’m not sure how to revert it)

Also, there’s another problem where she started texting me every day random things like “good morning” “how was your day?” “Good night” and I feel like ignoring these texts is not the right move here if I want to keep the plate (not sure what to do about this too)

I know her schedule at night, she has nothing to do and she usually texts me and lets me know that she is going to sleep. Last night from around 10PM she was not answering her texts until this morning. This is a clear indication that she is fucking other guys but is not informing me (obviously). my only concern is that I go down on her (she especially enjoys that) and I’m not going down on a pussy which other guys are fucking (it’s going to be hard to explain that one to her)

Overall I feel like my situation is getting a little bit (maybe a lot) retarded with her and I would appreciate advice on this whole thing.

Please only constructive criticism and advice

Sorry for the rant.