Went out alone

Quaternionz · 2018-10-07T06:10:15+00:00

Personally I don't do clubs.

When I go out solo I go to bars around my city that have pool tables. I hang out, drink, and play pool. Sometimes I bar hop, other times I'll stay at a single bar all night. If I start at 6pm and stay out until closing at 4am it can be 10 full hours of playing pool and drinking. A lot of people filter in and out during that time, girls included. Game opportunities abound.

It also looks less awkward being alone when you're there to play pool. It's OK to be out alone playing pool. It's less OK to be out alone hitting on girls. Plus if you play for long enough you start making casual conversation with people, and then suddenly you're with them and not really alone anymore.

Also, you just meet people and develop a social circle in the local bar scene, which is a plus for your game in the long term. It's social proof. It looks really good when you're gaming a chick and every single person who walks by goes "Brrooooo! Hey! How's it going!? Let me buy you a drink!"

daddydraper · 2018-10-07T06:51:09+00:00

First of all, stop using the terms "sets." Makes me cringe like a motherfucker. It's all founded upon the strategical, singular-minded, facade-promoting pick-up artists who like to "trick" women into thinking they are attractive.

Anyways, the real fucking and attracting doesn't happen at nightclubs—it happens at the after-parties.

Girls will leave the clubs with the same group they came with. Get into the after-parties where the real fuck-fest happens.

lozboss · 2018-10-07T19:53:26+00:00

Mate don't go gaming solo in nightclubs. You automatically get branded as a wierdo.

Bars are a better idea for solo game. Better still look for large bars that also have a small dancefloor. Meet them at the bar then escalate on the dance floor.

Tousen71 · 2018-10-08T19:21:23+00:00

I agree. Bars are cool but don’t stay longer than an hour or so. Grab a drink, pull out your phone, and work on something. An idea for a business, a script you’re working on, etc. Then leave and go somewhere else.

Be focused and busy, not a lookie-loo.

Ideally a bar with a pool table is best. If not, find one with decent seating in the evening (before it gets dark) and go out with a book.

Title	Went out alone
Author	PussyofBengal
Upvotes	5
Comments	5
Date	October 7, 2018 6:00 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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