Went out, zero approaches

fawndelmahjunk · 2018-06-22T06:43:26+00:00

approach

SirKolbath · 2018-06-22T07:06:39+00:00

I think you might be looking at this the wrong way. Savor the small victory. You went out. That's a good start. Next time you can work on approaching.

I also think you may be putting too much focus on approaching women. Try approaching people. Male or female shouldn't matter. The object is to strike up a conversation. Get comfortable with that before you worry about trying to bring a girl home so you can climb on top of her and move up and down in that curious way you humans find so agreeable.

oneredguy · 2018-06-22T06:46:02+00:00

Approach.

You still think girls are somehow better than you.

Girl power.

So stronk thinks the desperate girl. Maybe he'll notice me ..

Man why can't you just get to this point?

Our women need us. To put them into their place, while they shit test us about it. Do you really want them to suffer? 😢

4SkinFred · 2018-06-22T06:43:25+00:00

Actually approach

AnotherDisposableMan · 2018-06-22T07:00:53+00:00

college night ftw

get out of your head.....u couldn't approach? no one was stopping u except urself

next time, talk to everyone, guy or gal

Black_m0ngoose · 2018-06-22T08:28:52+00:00

Read /u/Heathcliff--'s recent post about random acts of kindness, or something to that effect.

Treat every aspect of your life like lifting weights, start with the baby weights and work your way up to the bigger numbers.

Start by talking to any girl you come across, and exchange a couple words. Eventually, your body will stop flooding your brain with adrenaline every time you make contact with a feemale.

FearGarbhArMait · 2018-06-22T12:25:06+00:00

Just drink alcohol and go out with the intentions of fucking a woman. Inhibition lowers and you start using that old fashioned monkey brain that gets ass.

aaaGreg · 2018-06-22T13:03:02+00:00

Accept that you will fuck up the first 5 openers. But you’ll get better. And then you’ll fuck up more. And then you’ll get pretty good.

Just fucking do it. In a year you’ll look back and say, I wish I had started approaching sooner.

JSuma · 2018-06-22T13:49:38+00:00

Approach guys first. Try and make friends, easy enough. Then approach women, not even the most attractive, just try and get their interest, escalate a tiny but, then dip off, they’ll prolly look for you later anyways. Then go for the girls youre interested in. Imagine them takin a dump if you still look at them like mythical creatures, then approach. Baby steps are okay, as long as it’s constnt progression

purplefidgetmidget · 2018-06-22T22:42:51+00:00

There is never a perfect time to approach. So don't look for one. Just do it regardless.

bruiser18 · 2018-06-22T09:48:14+00:00

Wtf? What's your question here? You want to approach, you didn't, so what should you do next time?

Approach...

returnofthemackX · 2018-06-22T12:36:01+00:00

I think everyone here is a little too harsh. Approaching is fighting your mind. It will come up with every excuse in the book to NOT approach that girl over there.

You have to call your mind out for it’s bullshit and just do it. Consistently.

BluePillsAddict · 2018-06-22T19:33:53+00:00

Start with one approach. Just one. Then when she politely tells you shes busy and you dont know what to say you can go home that night and cry and jerk off and everything will be fine. Next time, you do 2 or 3. By that point you'll say, hey, getting rejected isnt so bad. Then you'll do 4 or 5 then problem solved.

valerioluc · 2018-06-22T11:06:02+00:00

Maybe you don't wanna do it...

Title	Went out, zero approaches
Author	RedNightOwl
Upvotes	5
Comments	17
Date	June 22, 2018 6:39 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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