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Few things, at least... Small issues become big issues thanks to the internet. A woman can get groped on the bus in some remote village and it 10 million people will see about it in the news. Nobody can understand the scale of any problems anymore because the news coverage and the number of people that read about it has no connection to the severity of the incident. Women are driven by emotion and now they have access to all these outrage stories, so they get together to spread more outrage stor…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 02:00 PM
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Yup, it's all hard work.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 01:25 PM
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Luckily this subreddit is for debating red pill, so if ever there was a way to hash it out like respectable adults, this is the place. So, ignoring your silly insult, why don't we do that like two men?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/18 12:27 PM
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Take it as a lesson, women aren't impressed by that shit anyway. I make stupid amounts of money and own a house and a low end sports car and none of that has ever done a single tiny thing to improving my chances with women. Women are only impressed by your stuff if either lots of men are visibly impressed and respect you more for it, because they use men to work out if you're high value, or if it's so ridiculously high value that they are certain men would respect you for it (e.g. owning a huge …
/r/askTRP13/10/18 12:26 PM
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Are you saying that if you phone your mother and say "Hi mom, you're a bitch", or even "Hello bitch, what's going on", that she shouldn't be offended because sticks and stones? What if you address every mom in this way. Or every woman. Surely you see the difference? You're just coming across as somebody very angry and you're not appreciating that most people don't like to be referred to as 'bitch' because of their gender, anymore than some tumblr SJW would refer to all men as being dickheads. "H…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/18 12:22 PM
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Yup. Absolutely. There's no such thing as the alpha male of the world. There are only alpha males of the hierarchies. Wherever men assemble to perform a task, or form a group, go to class at school, or anything of that nature, they will construct a hierarchy. The popular guys will be at the top, they're usually handsome, strong, and witty. Then it goes down and down with the losers at the bottom. If you're at the top, you're the alpha male. Men will respect you, want to be your friend, generally…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 12:09 PM
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Maybe they should have used that in the open letter to the reddit admins. "We only refer to women as bitches for the lulz. You understand, right?". The post title itself would slot nicely into those of /r/incels. They tend to dehumanise women because they're frustrated at being either unable or unwilling to accept the game, and play it. If anything, the game is stacked in your favour after you find TRP, so why you'd feel the need to resort to incel behaviour is beyond me. I guess I'd think of wo…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/18 11:51 AM
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I have a friend who is exactly the same, I trickle red pill truths to him and he often agrees and says he does stuff like that but the reality is, he is the most beta guy I've ever met and does nothing of the sort.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 10:58 AM
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The most important thing is how your photos look, not how you look. Both in terms of your activities - how you portray yourself, and the lighting/photoshopping you do to make yourself look better. 99% of tinder is actually getting a girl to meet you, once they do, provided you've not lied outright about your height by 5" or so, they'll stick around for the date even if you're uglier than your photos. Provided your game is tight, you can win them over. The fact that so many online dating dates fa…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:27 AM
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Those are all in the sidebar, you should get reading, instead of asking us to tell you here.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 09:31 PM
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I would say your chances are close to none. One of the lesser rehashed things about TRP (and it's in the sidebar somewhere, rollo mentioned it iirc) is about the dominance hierarchy, which thankfully has been brought mainstream by Jordan Peterson. Quite simply, to obtain a mate, observe men. In all things, tasks, games, sports, etc. men will arrange themselves into a dominance hierarchy. To build a bridge, in a classroom, at a chess tournament. The alpha male is the one at the top of the hierarc…
/r/askTRP01/10/18 09:26 PM
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Puberty is going to be a real shock for you
/r/askTRP01/10/18 09:14 PM
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CICO I'm on a crazy cut right now, except for today I've binged like a fatty because I am sick. Lift hard and frequently, cut your calories right down, watch the weight fall off.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 09:13 PM
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"Being healthy and in shape is very important to me. It makes people more attractive and I enjoy feeling strong and healthy. You should see some of the people at the gym, damn, they look fit."
/r/askTRP01/10/18 09:11 PM
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/r/askTRP30/09/18 04:40 PM
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Walk away. Phone the police. My friend did the same thing you did, woke up in hospital with a split head, lucky to be alive.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 04:36 PM
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I read that 50% of people who immediately take the test a second time get a different result.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 04:34 PM
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Doesn't look like he wants sex though, he wants a woman.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 07:56 AM
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Being attractive as a male is being dominant and strong. If you avert your eyes out of what's essentially embarrassment because a girl meets your eye contact, then you're showing you're supplicant to her. You shouldn't stare but you shouldn't look away as a response to her seeing you like you're trying to hide the fact you were looking. You should just look at whatever you want to look at, because you're a man and you're in charge.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 07:47 AM
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I don't disagree, lifting is very important, but there are so many posts telling people who are finding it hard to step into the gym to 'just step into the gym bro' like that will somehow help them do it. It's like someone trying to quit smoking, they tell you they tried to stop but they can't for more than a few days. The solution is not 'get some discipline bro, just stop smoking, it's easy, don't be weak'. They'd already have done it if that were the case. The solution is to form a plan. Give…
/r/askTRP30/09/18 07:38 AM
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If you mouth-breathe your way up to a female human and tell her her shoes are ugly she'll sleep with you -how most of reddit views TRP, helped in no small part by incels invading
/r/askTRP30/09/18 07:31 AM
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Yeah, but you don't want it to be a circlejerk either, any community needs to be partially open. Plus I want to save as many confused men as I can, which is why I post almost exclusively on here. Don't get me wrong though, I like this setup but I am just thinking about survivability on this platform.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 07:30 AM
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Yeah, it's a tricky one to divide since many measure their self-improvement by how successful you are in society with women. We could teach them the reality which is they need to be the best male in the group to get the women. It's wonderful that Jordan Peterson has opened this concept up, because although I understood it before he's pushed it to the fore of the debate - that men arrange themselves into a hierarchy for a specific task/field and women are attracted to those at the top. So as a se…
/r/askTRP30/09/18 07:24 AM
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Yeah, asktrp is much better than theredpill these days because the replies tend to be genuine red pill replies, and you can get a lot of advice and information there. The main RP subreddit tends to be a bit diluted with incels and wannabes, and has a post every 10 minutes from someone bragging about a badly disguised oneitis lucky lay that barely used any TRP philosophy, or yet another rehashing of "how to git gud, step 1, git gud" usually in the form of 'how to motivate yourself to get to the g…
/r/askTRP29/09/18 12:42 PM
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You'll be fine. Yes, women look for an emotional rock, someone who is unwavering and strong, especially in a crisis. If you exhibit that you are this person, she'll be super attracted to you. TRP often says that if you lose this women will lose attraction. Once a woman has invested in you (ie not a plate fucking 5 guys), this isn't the case. Women lose attraction when men show beta traits. What most people don't realise is that crying and being emotionally vulnerable or weak are not beta traits …
/r/askTRP05/09/18 11:43 AM
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Sorry, my post comes a bit late. To keep excitement long term you need to have a push/pull dynamic. She needs to be on her toes, that you might leave, that other girls find you attractive and that they might, if you're not careful, be able to seduce your man away. She also needs to ride the emotional rollercoaster, she wants to feel, it is her raison d'etre. So some drama that culminates in a show of strength by yourself as you don't flinch and give in to her demands will send her tingles off th…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 07:24 PM
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Ah but is the availability of alternate options reducing the number of men trying for the real thing? I thought initially that there isn't much difference though, between lots of desperate men and women that don't want them, and no desperate men and women that wouldn't want them. But women would assess their self-worth differently, if there were no desperate men trying to bang them. Also the rise of women getting fat and lazy must be playing into this dynamic as well. Almost everyone I see walki…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 07:17 PM
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This is probably the best advice. The 7 year itch. You can have a great relationship when the hormones are flying and everybody is happy, but over time it will start to fail. The solution is to understand what makes it fail, and the answer is, lack of TRP methods of keeping excitement.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 03:31 PM
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I'm sure that if you stick with TRP, you will.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 03:08 PM
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IMO this is one of the things that TRP came up with that is very poorly worded. It makes it sound like you cannot charm your way into a girl's pants, that either a girl likes you or she doesn't. Obviously, this is false. A girl likes anybody that can show high SMV. It boils down to one thing, and that is the only power you have to affect women's desire is your own SMV. You can't persuade her, brag to her, show off your sports car, you can't buy her gifts, promise to walk the dog and clean the ho…
/r/askTRP26/08/18 03:03 PM
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Some girls ain't into it, even if they can enjoy it, they just don't want it. It's no big deal.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 04:27 PM
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Yup, I am also in the same shoes. I think the key is finding a girl that you actually like spending time with, so you can hang out, and date casually. You can still keep them as a plate, if you're careful, but TRP or not we're programmed to have fun playing with the opposite sex, in a childish way that you can't do with other guys. They're like children, after all. Reading the other comments I have to disagree with many of them. I find that becoming a more self-sufficient person makes me less in…
/r/askTRP25/08/18 01:05 PM
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They look at her and think 'shit I wish I could get a girl that hot' or 'why is she into him so much', or my favourite, 'why is he barely talking to her and pushing her around'. You can see the gears turning in peoples heads as they think these things.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 11:13 AM
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Well, what's the point of just banging girls a couple of times and moving on? It's quite similar to the solipsistic nature of women that is criticised so much, just acting in the moment based on your feelings and needs. I don't think you're missing anything, as long as you have your mission and you're improving your life steadily. I have tried plates and I did not enjoy it. I am not particularly sex-driven though, once you understand the game and the minds of women it kinda loses its appeal. At …
/r/askTRP24/08/18 06:16 PM
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Ooh, nice. Didn't realise there was a technical term like this. I originally read it as an informal 'xxx effect' which was quite apt but I think that definition is lost to google now. Thanks.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 08:05 AM
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daygame is a complex game with a big set of rules, in daygame if you want to know if she's interested she will not walk away when you continue to talk to her, even if she says she has to go. If she genuinely does start to walk away she's not interested so drop it. If she doesn't move but says she has to go, her biology is forcing her to listen to you because it subconciously detects an alpha male. Carry on with the charm.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 08:32 PM
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I forget the proper term but there is a well known phenomenon that most of the problem of getting motivated to do something is getting started. Like, it's hard to haul your ass to the gym but once you're there you really enjoy it. Even though you remember how much you enjoyed it the second time, you still have trouble going back there. So you need to recognise that. I'd also advise reading some Jordan Peterson, his 12 Rules For Life, because he talks in depth about fixing your life, and taking t…
/r/askTRP22/08/18 10:47 AM
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No, nor will she tell you.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 08:11 AM
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Doesn't take long to get strong if you have a good training routine. A couple of years ago I couldn't even do one good form pushup, now I can do 30 straight (bizarrely this has been and continues to be the hardest thing to improve of all my lifting)
/r/askTRP22/08/18 08:10 AM
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Try searching on google, this is like a 15,000 word essay title
/r/askTRP22/08/18 08:08 AM
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I bought some maca powder recently and man does it taste bad. I thought it'd be tasteless in a protein shake but how wrong I was. I just chug a teaspoon down with water and go 'hrrgrhgrhg'
/r/askTRP21/08/18 11:49 PM
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I don't think they are hungry all the time. I mean your calorie requirements for the day if you are sedentary are around 1500, slightly less if you're a short petite girl with no muscle mass. That's almost no food at all, you could get that in a single meal easily.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 08:22 PM
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In my experience they just don't eat much. I knew one who would come out and order a chocolate brownie and eat it and that was like, her evening meal.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 08:10 PM
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You need some experience not just ability. Believe me companies are so thirsty right now they'll hire almost anyone. If you're sitting on a company and the only thing blocking your product from getting out the door and securing a bunch of contracts for $100,000+ each is a couple of devs, and the market is completely dry, if a guy comes on with good experience, does alright on the technical test and seems like an OK guy, you'll be pissing money away not to hire him even if he's not great.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 08:03 PM
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That's the idea, you set her up to be on her guard and she'll see everything he says as a shallow attempt to get into her pants. If you don't, he'll affect her more subconciously and she'll be more into what he's saying.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:57 PM
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This is not the sub for this kind of shitpost, stick to theredpill subreddit to post crap theories All you need is a good photo, photoshop it, myspace angles, whatever. Once the matches roll in use standard tinder shit.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:52 PM
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They're in such high demand that companies will consider anyone that has experience. It's hard to get the first job without a degree though, but it's possible depending on how you get there. Friend of mine didn't get a degree, became a cheap tester, learned how to program there and started fixing bugs himself, eventually asked them to make him a programmer or he'd leave and they agreed, he was a programmer for a while then left for another company. The other company said, we need a programmer, l…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 03:42 PM
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It's killing you because you don't understand TRP. You need to read it until you get it. She's promiscuous because all girls are like that, they slut it up until they find a guy to latch onto, one that looks like he'll benefit her, and then they try to drag him down by making him treat her like a princess. As soon as he caves and starts being her bitch, she stops putting out completely and just goes full leech mode. When she drains the guy dry and he ends the relationship, she goes back into ful…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 03:38 PM
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I can sniff desperation right through it. Are you sure that's not yourself you're smelling, because this post reeks of desperation. Block her from all social media, phone number, e-mail, everything. Read the sidebar, lift, keep doing so until you understand TRP and the thought of giving gifts to girls and treating them like a queen makes you laugh at what a cuck you used to be.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 03:35 PM
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The problem of getting women into STEM has been solved then! Since Gender Studies and Psychology are social sciences by your definition (hint, they're not, but ok) they fall under STEM. Hurrah! I'm sure the rest of the world agrees with you.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 03:31 PM
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I found that hard to believe so I looked it up, and I can see jobs that state Minimum qualifications: BS degree in Computer Science, similar technical field of study or equivalent practical experience. Literally the first job I could find on google for a software engineer. Although I would consider computer science to be science.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 03:26 PM
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Read the sidebar. Seriously, asking How do I stop being weak and become strong?. Guess what. The entire sub/TRP is dedicated to answering that question. Read the damn sidebar. You just failed a ton of shit tests, that's all, all of which is detailed in the sidebar. When she says she think she's better and wants to leave you say bye and then kick her out, lock the door, and switch off your phone. When she gave you a shit test about your scared eyes you act unphased, and turn it back on her, all o…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 01:09 PM
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If you're doing STEM you don't need a second diploma, you barely need a first diploma, it's just a piece of paper to get your foot in the door. Once you have a bit of experience demand is so high for most STEM subjects that they'll hire you if your employment history shows you can do the job, bits of paper or not.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 01:03 PM
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Because this is TRP, where people get called out on their bullshit. Their bullshit being anything that doesn't adhere to the core values of TRP, becoming a man with a mission who will change the world. You're doing a non-stem girl subject, in a massively oversubscribed subject that has almost no prospects except teaching. You've come to TRP to tell us this, so obviously you're gonna get some hate. You might be better off in AskFeminists. Every girl and their dog is training to get into some form…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 01:00 PM
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Social Science is not considered to be STEM. The S in STEM refers to natural sciences.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 12:56 PM
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Seriously, why would you study that subject? Not only is it MASSIVELY oversubscribed but you can't get a real job from it, and it will teach you nothing useful. It hovers around the 2nd most popular course across all universities so there are gonna be so many graduates. And you're gonna spend your time writing essays non-stop with a bunch of girls. I'd seriously reconsider.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 11:30 AM
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He wants to fuck her, your best bet is to let her do it as others have said, but prime her first cos girls are fucking oblivious to the fact that every guy wants to fuck them, without sounding butthurt. "Prolly wants in your pants, go see if he can charm them off you." She'll be like 'what no' but then the hamster will be like 'shit, what if he does' and it'll make her more guarded talking to him.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 10:42 AM
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Heh, I understand how you feel. It's like the opening of the book The Game, essentially saying once you discover trp you'll probably wish you hadn't. I have the same issue as you, I want to want a girl. But after the chase, when they become subservient, I get bored. Like seeing a wild tiger and bringing it home and having it turn into a kitten. I don't want a kitten. I can only guess the answer is to keep cycling through women until you meet a unicorn. It can be hard though knowing that even the…
/r/askTRP13/08/18 02:04 AM
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lol that'll encourage companies to hire more women, good job #metoo
/r/askTRP14/07/18 09:18 AM
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That's complete nonsense, guys jack off because our brain is programmed to make us want to fuck all the time, and if we can't it leads to being incredibly distracted. Sure, it can be fun, but most of the time it's a chore to just crank one out so you can clear your head. It's not even remotely beta.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 09:16 AM
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Usually the feminists/tumblr ones are gross looking and overweight, they look like garbage bags filled with mayo, so when you look nothing like a cute girl because you're the blob monster, your only choice is to signal you're a girl by accessorising as feminine as possible. So they wear ridiculous dresses, dye their pink hair, act cutesy etc. to signal that they are female because otherwise who would know. I expect this crosses over into girls who are less stay puft with very low self-esteem who…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 10:59 PM
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Both dances you'd need to dance with other people that do the same dance, so they're not really that good for going out on the town. If you want to learn a dance you can do anywhere you need to do street dance or similar. You can lead a girl to dance without any kind of training, you just need to practice. If you want to do salsa or swing you should only do them if you actually want to learn the dance, because an alpha is only alpha in his own kingdom, and once you step into the classroom you wi…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:36 PM
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If you've been platonic for a while it could be either she's DTF or that she wants some validation and views you as a juicy orbiter just ripe for the picking. Also usual warnings about getting involved with roommates applies.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:31 PM
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The only way you're gonna solve this is to work through your problem. As long as you keep your frame you can just straight up tell her your dick has a mind of its own and gets a bit shy the first couple of times so we're just gonna fool around until it gets its act together. Say it like it's no big deal, because it isn't a big deal, it happens to most guys. Just don't act like a pussy about it apologising and trying to frantically explain it. Just be like, yup, it happens, deal with it. Then jus…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 03:35 PM
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It's not a shit test, it's rejection
/r/askTRP09/07/18 11:49 AM
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If you're half decent looking and confident in yourself and you implement TRP you'll have a decent amount of success.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 11:36 AM
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Maybe physically but without TRP knowledge it won't get them far. They are both getting uglier if you look at obesity statistics.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:15 AM
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Girls are getting fatter and uglier. So are guys. But if you're a fit guy the number of fit girls is seriously diminished.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:09 AM
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Sounds like your typical laziness to me. Akin to "Yeah, I should go to the gym. eats bag of cheetos and watches netflix"
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:51 AM
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Sorry but this sounds like one of those incel posts except they accidentally got laid despite their attitude to women. All I see is a post about resentment to women and jealousy of what happened in their partner's past. I think once you really swallow the red pill, like, really swallow it, it doesn't bother you anymore. Excessive sluttiness can supposedly be a red flag to an LTR but girls will lie anyway so you'll never know about that threesome she had in college.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:39 PM
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What, having a sexual history? :S
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:35 PM
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A girl can tell her husband how much she loves him, tuck her kids in, walk across the street and get railed by a dude for 3 hours and then come back and kiss her husband goodnight and you'd never suspect anything was wrong from her demeanour. Believe me, you didn't get an honest answer. You never get an honest answer. There was one thread about a guy who dated a girl who said she was a virgin but later on it turns out she had a threesome in college and banged a few dudes.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:33 PM
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Your best option is to get looking good with a shirt off and take shirtless photos.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:31 PM
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Women act using their feels-radar, the best course of action is always the one that feels right to her, which is why they never accept responsibility for anything because they have no concept of it. SMV is extremely situational, you can game one girl, get her to go home with you, but if you then turn to another girl you've never met, your smv is back at 0 again. Likewise chad the football star is gonna have girls panties like niagara falls during while they're in the stands watching the game, bu…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:28 PM
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"I'm a virgin, I've never even held hands with a girl before" delivered with amused mastery.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:20 PM
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Some of it comes from feminism trying to convert men into betas on a grand scale by telling them to treat women like princesses, and some of it comes from the same toxic feminism pervading schools and other institutions and many boys being raised almost entirely by mothers, female teachers, and ludicrous HR policies.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 06:17 PM
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"That doesn't sound great", then ignore all communication/soft next.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:34 AM
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Just a counterpoint but I sometimes find women are shit at photographing themselves. I met up with someone that looked HB6, their photos were not great, when I got there though, HB8 at least. I've had this a couple of times. So I'd go and see.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:17 AM
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Yes, I enjoy chasing girls a lot but as soon as I sleep with one, I pretty much immediately lose interest. I've won them and there is no chase left. With LTR I enjoy it more but I am so fiercely independent I hate having to schedule time with them. I cannot win, heh. When I was a punk kid and knew nothing I would break up with a girl and be devastated for weeks. Now I can date someone for months and walk away and feel nothing.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 09:09 AM
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The only problem you have is if she decides to quit her job, or if you have a different level of income then she's entitled to half of your income as well since you're now a team working together. So I'm not certain it's so clear-cut with the 50% thing. Also if your income is greatly different it will limit your ability to live in a nice house and have nice things in it. If you want a 75" plasma TV and she cannot afford half of it, or you want a big house and she can't afford her half of the mor…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 12:09 AM
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It's a few things, but mainly, you can't win over a girl with money. You can't buy her. If you want to win over women with money you have to spend it to impress guys (not on guys). Buy nice clothes, a flash car, etc. (but make sure it's things you want, don't try to get social favour just by spending money on what you think other people will like, you'll just look like a weirdo that tries to buy friends). Your guy friends will think it's the coolest ride ever and you're so cool (your social valu…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 12:04 AM
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I simply don't believe this to be true, look at all the great men in the world that have had to pay literally millions and give houses to their ex-wives. There are a lot of stories about the men disproportionately losing things in the divorce - every single one of those men was a successful guy that actually had assets to divide up. It's not like a small percentage of those horror stories, it's literally all of them. Saying your ex was supportive tends to fly in the face of some of TRP's teachin…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 11:53 PM
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If you're in an LTR (where LTR means exclusivity that you have both discussed and accepted) then you shouldn't cheat on your partner. If you want to sleep with other girls, end your relationship and sleep with other girls. In the future, keep a girl as a plate not an LTR if you don't want to be monogamous. If you want to mess around with other women then it's up to you and nobody can clear your conscience for you
/r/askTRP01/07/18 03:15 PM
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This is in the sidebar, it is one of the first things explained on the site :| Paying for girls to impress them does not score you any points, it gives you negative points. It does not make you look good. On a date it's fine to get the first round of drinks, provided you're not super keen about it. If you're like no m'lady I will pay for the drinks worry not your pretty self for I am the white knight that will quench your thirst, then her vagina will clamp shut and weld itself closed forever. If…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 03:12 PM
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What about asset splitting? As a successful man who worked hard to build up everything I have, it belongs to me and nobody else.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 03:08 PM
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Why sign a marriage contract though, you can get all of those things with an LTR. There is no risk of you walking away now so isn't it hard to apply dread to keep her interested?
/r/askTRP01/07/18 03:07 PM
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Oh man I literally witnessed this a couple of weeks ago, a guy came into the room and was trying to AMOG even though his SMV was garbage and he was being a bit of a nuisance. Guy in the group with pretty high SMV turns around and just goes 'why don't you fuck off mate'. I was like oh shit this is going to come to blows or the guy telling him to fuck off is gonna tank his SMV by showing he lost his cool and his frame. Then he follows up after a pause with 'you cheeky bastard, eh? :D' Guy was dest…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:40 PM
2

Put it this way, you don't really have a choice. You can talk to your friend, and he'll probably tell her, or you can talk to her directly, either way it'll come across as mate guarding behaviour. You'll lose SMV from lack of abundance. The only winning move is to have more SMV than him. Because it's less likely she'll be interested in him over you, and if she is, you have loads of SMV so who cares you can find another girl.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:31 PM
9

Sounds like a test, she wants to know if you'll suddenly turn beta and start asking her about her feelings, if she's OK, if she needs anything etc. Just go radio silent and focus on something else for a while. When she finally does respond, leave it a day or so before replying.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:25 PM
1

What are you trying to achieve here
/r/askTRP27/06/18 10:49 PM
5

The best possible outcome for looking into a girl's eyes is that everything in her head screams YES to her, at which point she'll do what all girls do and try to somehow signal that she's interested without actually giving any clear information whatsoever, in case it goes wrong. That's literally the best outcome you can get. It lines up with what you say about them becoming awkward and expecting you to say something. Because their monkey brain has gone YES, they've given their non-verbal cues to…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 10:46 PM
2

I didn't get laid until I was in my 20s, and I was so envious of people that did. Even at college I had little luck. Thought those young hotties were a thing of the past for me. But I read TRP and all kinds of associated stuff, put it into practice instead of just talking about it, and a 20 year old HB9 took me back to her student flat after a night out and the rest is history. I'm mid 30s. Never imagined that kind of thing was possible.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 10:35 PM
11

It's absolutely fascinating to see how hugbox subreddits that auto-ban people that post in TRP, mensrights etc. write what they think TRP is.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 02:39 PM
7

The real versions of these are The Siren - The girl that soaks up attention and orbiters and will fuck chads that are immune to her wiles. Not giving them validation will quickly make them infatuated with you if you're decent-high SMV or turn their followers against you if you're low SMV or reject them. The Defective - Girls that are crazy feminist to the point of bitterness. Usually they're not attractive. Avoid like the plague. The play girl - Any girl riding the CC. Doesn't have any bearing o…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 10:13 AM
1

Honestly, electric shock therapy might be the only way at this point.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:32 AM
1

Hmm, this has been tried but she seems unable to admit that it is her own doing or stop herself from attempting to be incredibly controlling. She's very much the victim in this.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:32 AM
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You wrote paragraphs and paragraphs of how you're not into her and she disgusts you and now you want to hook up with her? Wtf? Why are you so needy for her when you don't like her?
/r/askTRP25/06/18 10:48 AM
6

What's your actual goal here because you sound autistic
/r/askTRP25/06/18 10:31 AM
2

Sidebar bruh, shit tests 101 girls that are interested will poke fun at you to give you chance to blast through their shit tests and make them wet for you. They're handing themselves to you on a silver platter when they make it that easy.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:02 PM
3

I'd wait a couple of days. I hate sending two messages in a row. If you do get in touch again completely ignore what was said previously and start a new unrelated convo.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 03:52 PM
1

I'll always be a guy that wants to tell women how much I like them and how great they are, and put their needs first. I don't think anyone can really change their nature if that is their way. However I don't act upon it at all. I act strictly according to trp and keep an iron frame as much as I can. I understand that this is what will get women, and that this is what they really want.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 03:40 PM
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Just understand that this is what happens. It's part of what you have to put up with. It depends very much on the girl as to how much they do it. Be up front about your relationship and it will help a little. Otherwise you just have to keep putting up with it until they eventually break.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 03:38 PM
1

Fucked up IMO. You can't sit on the fence. You should say something like the first girl looks artsy and the second looks like an engineer, and you like a girl that doesn't mind getting her hands dirty, so unless you're wrong, girl 2. And you're never wrong about people. Then it's either a win that you picked her, or she will tease you for being wrong etc. And you can carry on escalating.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 12:20 AM
1

Girls are flakey as fuck. If you say no she'll hamster that it's because you're a serial killer. And unless you're God tier physique she will next you. Prior to meeting a girl you have almost no leverage in terms of dread. The rule I've seen is having sex with them twice before dread starts to work. So make the call.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:57 PM
1

Yeah. I need a way to shut this kind of person down without being a douche myself. Like I can't straight up say oh so you live in your parents spare room? Without sounding like a dick for attacking him. I need to be more machiavellian. Hmm.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:52 PM
1

Yeah. That's why I'm so confused. The guy shouldn't command any respect at all. Yet he does, people appear to like him despite his constant doucheness and putting people down while overexaggerating himself. If I were to take a shot at him by highlighting one of those things, I'd be the villain. It's so weird.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:43 PM
3

No more Mr Nice Guy is best but you could also go for Men are from Mars Women are From Venus as an even softer intro to the former. Heck, even The Game might work under the ruse of giving it to him for the lulz.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:40 PM
2

Think of walking into art gallery because you're bored but curious. You walk around and look at each piece of art one by one. This is a good desireless approach. The museum curator watches you and sees a sophisticated relaxed guy that is looking for something that appeals to him. By contrast, picture someone that looks around quickly and thirsty without taking anything in for the most expensive piece, then starts spewing bullshit about how great it looks to the curator. The curator rolls her eye…
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:36 PM
2

Wtf
/r/askTRP22/06/18 10:59 PM
1

Man this is like that great 4chan post about the kestrel or whatever https://i.imgur.com/OR2DK.jpg
/r/askTRP22/06/18 10:45 PM
1

There is never a perfect time to approach. So don't look for one. Just do it regardless.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 10:42 PM
1

Interesting read. Not sure I agree with it though completely. I feel women just float along on the tide of their emotions and they'll all cheat even if you're alpha, because awalt. And they'll cry and beg when their emotions change afterwards upon realising how much they've fucked up a great relationship. Although it won't be from a place of guilt as he says, just from a place of mitigating any damage their actions might have caused with a solipsistic obliviousness to their own nature.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 10:17 PM
1

Mostly, yes. It is like a more primordial version of trp and it dabbles in a wide range of different pua techniques and focuses a little more on pua than the basic principles of trp. But it certainly has some good wisdom you don't really see on trp.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 10:42 AM
1

Yup plus I feel absolutely fuck all. Might as well thrust the air. Tried every brand and size I could find including some very expensive ones and absolutely no dice.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 09:48 PM
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TRP is not a movement. It's just a collection of theories and philosophies. Lack of TRP concepts in general knowledge certainly contribute towards suicide though. Boys raised by women instead of alpha males lose their sense of identity and get told to be something they don't want to be, deep down.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 08:50 PM
4

Amused mastery is what you need, banter and teasing are normal and healthy. As long as you stay aloof and humoured she doesn't have the power to make anything a serious issue.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 04:31 PM
7

treat her like shit Dunno have you tried punching her in the face? It sounds like it'd be a more effective way to get the abusive relationship you seem to think you want. /s TRP is nothing to do with being abusive, you have evidently missed the point of it and sound like a terrible person. TRP is about understanding that what feels right (stuff like white knighting, telling her she's a princess, being subservient to her needs etc.) is not what will make her happiest. It's not about being abusive…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 04:29 PM
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Depends on your macros. I personally eat chicken, vegetables rice, bacon, eggs, protein shake. That's 90% of my food intake. If I'm eating out it tends to be the same, if they have a mixed grill or steak type thing I'll have that, otherwise I'll have a bunless burger doubled up with salad instead of chips.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 01:44 PM
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I don't know about those but on Tinder girls will say they hate it and yet I sat next to a female friend who said it was vain, and then proceeded to swipe right on all the shirtless guys. I would say get a shirtless pic taken by someone else not at the gym if you have a good physique, try to pretend it's casual (on the beach, or something). Women will say they don't like it but they'll be the ones interested/swiping for it.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 01:42 PM
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It's a different approach to OP, not a different approach to mainstream. Also a lot of people use Tinder, IMO it's pretty true to reality where you see a hot girl and approach, you're not approaching because she has interesting hobbies or you like the same music, or some online dating bullshit, you're swiping/messaging because you want to fuck her and there's absolutely no pretense or other garbage to get in the way. It's the same criteria you'd use in a bar.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 11:31 AM
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That is a different approach though, meeting randoms is one way to get girls, but also fostering a social circle in which you have high SMV is another. Meeting people casually at events and connecting with them, such that when they look up later they see someone with a high SMV also has its merits I think. I don't really understand instagram though it seems like a place women go to ensure they're depressed and alone in their 40s because their constant validation farming inflates their sense of s…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 11:23 AM
1

How much time elapses between each time you contact/see her? Does she get time to miss you? She's probably off riding the CC and not particularly fussed about any one person
/r/askTRP05/06/18 11:16 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1BxFlmb6S6E
/r/askTRP02/06/18 08:54 AM
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It is trickier but after reading about a homeless guy that would shower in the gym and try to game women to sleep in their bed instead of in the park, I believe anything is possible. Just tell them that you're renovating your place / buying a new place / just moved to the city / some bullshit and so all your shit is piled up in your parents house and you're crashing there for a couple of weeks if it really bothers you.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 08:53 AM
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As someone that was in a similar situation in childhood with regular beatings, I cry in this situation too. It was only problematic in school because teachers can yell at you. Now, I'm never in a situation that this occurs. If people yell at me now I get angry instead. It really does a number on you, but it mostly stems from the idea that you think you're inferior to other people. That's the problem you need to tackle. Increase your SMV and try to be mindful of times when other people respect, t…
/r/askTRP02/06/18 08:49 AM
1

The whole show is worth a watch, although the first episode of season one is very bizarre. All the other episodes are spectacular. The final season after Netflix bought it is a bit hit-and-miss, I enjoyed the first and last episodes but the rest were mediocre. Don't forget the Christmas special episode they did too, that was probably one of the most disturbing.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 08:45 AM
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Be cordial, don't act butthurt, but don't validate her in any way. Her end goal is for you to go back to being beta and validating her, that's all she wants from you. If your social status/SMV goes up in the group it means your validation will be worth more to her. The only way you'd end up sleeping with her is if you maintain frame and never show a single bit of beta whilst still shooting up in SMV and social status in that group. Until she gets to the point where she's going nuts because you'v…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 08:24 AM
1

Hahaha. I never believed this when I was in my 20s. Now in my 30s it happens a lot.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 11:42 PM
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If it's a shit test then don't let it bother you and go chat up some girls nearby. If it's not, and she doesn't make quick small talk with whoever she bumped into and then exit the convo, it's just straight up disrespect and you should just walk away.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 11:32 PM
1

Usual advice Cut out your shit friends Compartmentalise others, I. E. Only hang out with them at certain events, avoid bringing them to others.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 11:18 PM
1

Usually sore the next day but not always, lack of doms doesn't mean lack of gains. I wouldnt worry and I would focus on your metrics. If the weight isn't going up then you've stalled and something isn't right. Otherwise, it's fine
/r/askTRP31/05/18 11:15 PM
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You'll be fine. When I did IF I had a coffee with milk every morning.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 11:13 PM
5

Really? I find that calf raises and reverse raise burns my legs with the power of a thousand suns and I sweat like a pig. One of the most torturous routines I do. Maybe double check technique, and do a progressive non stop set like 10,8,6,4,2
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:52 PM
2

Personally I only use swearing for effect. Because people know I don't particularly swear much, when I do, it creates extra impact which can be very useful to get the sudden attention of the group or make something funny even funnier. I think if you swear all the time you lose the ability to express a big range of emotions because people will just become desensitised. Also it might cause offense in many places which can hurt you.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:52 PM
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Absolutely this so much. I went to the pub earlier for food and the options are all 600-1000 calories, almost all of them are ("Add chips: 600 cal"). Obviously you're not gonna have just a burger on its own, you're gonna have burger+chips. So that's like 1400 calories+ Staggering how that's considered a normal meal, and it's mostly carbs. I opted for chicken burger (breast), doubled up, no bun, salad instead of chips (no dressing) with extra bacon and cheese on top. Yum. Came in around ~650 tota…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:50 PM
1

Alpha qualities. Except alpha qualities only work when you string her along for commitment.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:47 PM
0

It gets laughs but it dries up vag like a damp sock in a sauna. I completely cut it from my life, I just regret it took until TRP to realise the damage it was doing. The genuine guidance is never to do it, except on rare occasions to be unexpected. Obviously this excludes A&A where you're practically rolling your eyes as you say it. Example of when it's done in A&A (and thus fine): Her: I thought I'd be able to check out your package in those tight shorts but I can't see much of anything. You: Y…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:41 PM
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Oh man if only there was a sidebar that answered questions like this. Maybe we could call it "Got a stranger pregnant: a guide" and put it on the right hand side in the sidebar I really tried not to be cynical on this account but I just can't help it
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:39 PM
1

What's your macros
/r/askTRP30/05/18 03:37 PM
2

Hahaha this is great, I've never known what to reply to that kind of validation seeking message that will express how little I give a shit. Much better than 'cool.'
/r/askTRP30/05/18 03:09 PM
1

Hehe, you said below to use dread. But yeah, if it doesn't work, don't waste your time and move onto the next girl.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 03:07 PM
0

Dread exists for a reason, why do people insist on hard next every time anything happens. Play the game, it's all a normal part of the process, they act up, you amp up the dread, they fall in line. Hard next is only for unacceptable stuff, not for every day girls being girls stuff.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 03:04 PM
1

If you get a PT make sure you tell them exactly what you want, they work for you. If you want to just learn strong lifts then tell them that's what you want to learn. Otherwise they'll run you through their normal PT program which will involve lots of stuff about diet, some cardio, and just a variety of exercises. I told the guy I want to work on form and nothing else, so that's what we did, it was a bit tedious doing deadlift after deadlift with a small weight, but oh so worth it.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 10:53 AM
1

You need to find someone to go with or get a personal trainer. I did stronglifts for months and eventually I got a personal trainer because I was hurting myself on some of the lifts. Turned out my technique was complete and total garbage and some lifts I was doing just plain wrong. Tons and tons of practice later and I am half-decent, plus I know a lot more about lifting in general. There's a good app called Jefit which is free and shows you all the exercises for different body parts and how to …
/r/askTRP30/05/18 10:12 AM
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One on one is all about fantasy, if you both ran a fantasy kingdom how many wizards would you have? Who would take care of the dragon problem? This kind of stupid fantasy conversation is exactly what women love oh so much. It's make-believe and you can keep a conversation about it going all night, interweaved with talking about each other. A group is more tricky, mixed group you're better off talking about something interesting and plausible, like ask people if you had self-driving cars, should …
/r/askTRP29/05/18 11:08 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nosedive fantastic episode.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 05:59 PM
3

IMO it's ok to ask, the general problem is you need to escalate hard with tinder and it's also a numbers game. Don't ask what they're doing, what they're up to etc. it's boring. Your opener is good. Follow PUA advice and make a guess about her instead of asking what she did, and IMO escalate to silliness. The ones that are receptive to this you have a chance with, the others I'd ditch. Also, try not to use question marks. "Your submissive eyes gave you away. How many convenience stores have you …
/r/askTRP29/05/18 05:58 PM
2

Yup. There's a girl in my phonebook who sent me pictures of shit she was doing, for validation. I always ignored it or replied 'nice', but I wondered why she kept doing it since I never gave her any significant validation. Then I realised one day she sends it to almost her entire friend list but words it as if it's individually targeted. Her entire life is spent trying to make her look like she's having a great time and doing great stuff but it's patently transparent. After I witnessed that it o…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 05:18 PM
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PUA is a subset of TRP, you're already doing it, don't decry something that's a key part of TRP. The PUA I was referring to was using conversational techniques that make girls feel comfortable and enjoy conversation. I'm not talking about party tricks but I'm talking about asking the right sort of questions that make them open up. Once you get this going they'll open up and you can begin the usual teasing/banter, and escalate it although to a much lesser degree than more flirty and outgoing wome…
/r/askTRP28/05/18 09:05 AM
1

Some people are shy, if you're into shy girls then that's what you need to do, if you're not then sure move on
/r/askTRP28/05/18 06:13 AM
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Trp is a sexual strategy of men and women, your question makes no sense in the context of trp. Might as well ask how A Guide To Raising Cats would deal with raising an elephant.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 11:52 PM
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You need to match her energy level, and then do what you were doing, try to coax her out of her shell. If you're dominant and talkative it works on most girls no problem but shy girls like that you need to tone it right down to their level, so they're not feeling so out of their comfort zone talking to someone so hyper. Relatively. You need to use pua conversation as well, it is easy to turn the conversation into an interview and that is not good. Techniques for getting her attention and interes…
/r/askTRP27/05/18 11:45 PM
4

That would only happen if we could collectively pass this feminist shit test. If we created something that made women feel dominated by men but on their own terms by society in general, that might do it. But I doubt it is possible. The next step will have to be sex dolls or female substitutes that are enough to stop thirsty betas shovelling their validation on any woman they find. Women are incapable of noticing that false validation is fucking up their lives until they hit the wall and it's too…
/r/askTRP27/05/18 11:43 PM
1

I think reading ask trp and the sidebar of trp and if you get really stuck asking here is more the sufficient.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 11:40 PM
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1 isn't amplifying it is the opposite and 2 is a bit creepy, 3 is a bit non sequitur I'd stick to classic a&a like 'it's OK I keep a stepladder under my bed' or 'it got me that acting gig as an oompa loompa', or 'yeah I'm such a midget I could be mini me's mini me'
/r/askTRP27/05/18 11:36 PM
1

No, because my plates would get pissed off when they realise I'm spending time with other girls and I can't be dealing with the extra shit tests every time I want to fuck them. I mean, they know already but they choose to ignore it and I'm happy to keep that illusion.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 09:30 PM
77

I think you should screenshot your reply for future reference when this chick goes batshit insane on you.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 02:05 PM
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I would disagree, I've been in the same situation as OP, although I wasn't interested a HB5 was flirting with me and I flirted back even though I had no intentions. In the group a HB9 who I've known for a while and who is in a relationship was giving me the eyes all a night, after previously showing no particular interest. Women are paranoid and insecure, I doubt they have any kind of confidence of being hotter than another girl. You can shatter a girls confidence in herself just with one off-ha…
/r/askTRP27/05/18 11:59 AM
4

Sounds like a sign of getting older to me. The older you get, the less fucks you have to give. You save 'em for what's important.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 11:08 AM
1

I'm no expert on tinder game but she seems interested and you handled yourself very well IMO. What I would do in your situation is wait until late the next day, no morning keen-ness, and ask her what her schedule is for the next couple of days, so you can add yourself to her calendar, or something similar. I always find trying to pin girls down for a time/date is very difficult, because you say 'drink tonight?' and they reply 'I'm busy tonight' and don't say anything else, cos they're stupid and…
/r/askTRP26/05/18 11:04 AM
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Sounds like you played it perfectly until the last part. In a relationship or with a plate, absolutely you should have done that. As a Tinder hookup you're probably never going to see her again unless you fuck her, so I wouldn't have issued such an ultimatum. Usually in that situation it's good to pull a page from How To Win Friends And Influence People which is a good book but very rarely one I cite on TRP. In this instance you should wholeheartedly agree with her. This technique also works for…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 11:20 PM
1

I don't think I've ever talked to a girl in a club, other than maybe 'hi'. I just smile, dance, get close, and make out.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 11:10 PM
1

If she comes back it will be to get validation from you, she will be nothing more than a leech for your time and attention. It will seem appealing at the time but it is an incredibly bad idea. When a guy cuts off a woman like you're going to do, she will turn into a siren and try to seduce and lure you back to her so you can provide her with validation, attention, resources, time. In exchange she will be flirty and playful and nice, suggesting that maybe you can get back together, but she doesn'…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 11:05 PM
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Unusual, women generally like validation. But fair enough, looks like I misread the situation.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 09:36 PM
1

One of my girls does this, I reply usually twice a day.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 09:07 PM
1

I'll give it a go, thanks.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 09:05 PM
3

Yes. To correct a girls behaviour, withdraw validation and attention rather than get butthurt. Soft next her for a few days or say no worries. If you ignore her for a few days she will automatically understand that she fucked up. If she genuinely didn't know she should have explained, apologised or had a good reason. That said, maybe she just was tired and didn't want to come over though. Chalk it up to bad luck. Unless it happens a lot it's probably not unreasonable.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:56 PM
1

Join the subreddit r/braincels
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:53 PM
2

Oh you youngsters!
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:51 PM
9

My only thought is lawyer the fuck up immediately if you want any kind of custody of your kid. Then you need to be polite but keep ironclad frame. Don't argue and shout, you're basically hard nexting her, and you'd normally ghost her but with a kid you need to seriously figure out what you're going to do. Sounds like she's transformed into one of those psycho women that will fuck you up to get your alimony, child support and steal your kid. Prepare for the absolute worst. Talk to a lawyer as it …
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:45 PM
1

Sounds like me. What advice do you have for that?
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:35 PM
1

Why, is she not putting out?
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:34 PM
4

Sounds like she cheated one and a half months ago, regretted it, and deleted all her male friends to remove temptation or as some kind of misdirected penance. She realised that you are much more important and your smv is higher than the alpha dick she took and in realising this your smv has gone up a lot, and now she's dread gamed herself.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:29 PM
2

Sounds like your lack of escalation dried up her panties and she decided it wasn't worth the hassle. She is probably looking for someone dominant to take her home and fuck her brains out.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:26 PM
7

Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day. Fibonacci.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 07:09 PM
1

It might be that she's actually concerned about disease. Funnily enough my plate just told me she's been worried about it for a while, followed by saying 'probably should have had this conversation weeks ago :S'. Classic. Easy solution, tell her you're going to get tested. Then get tested. Lots of free resources out there. That's what I've done. Kit will come in the post, do whatever it wants, send it back. It's a good idea regardless, and although you can probably use A&A to force her to submit…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:53 PM
1

Firstly... Oneitis. It is unhealthy and unattractive to be so obsessed over a single girl that you are dependant on them for your well-being. Doesn't necessarily mean you need 5 girls on the go, but you need to be comfortable with yourself without any girls. Secondly, for there to be a chance you need to start the 12 levels of dread or however many levels it was. You can google that. Thirdly, the second point won't work unless you sort your frame out and stop being weak. You need to be the emoti…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 05:26 PM
10

You've lost your frame big time, and expressed a ton of beta traits. She has been acting weird, tried to kinda breakup with me She's fucking another guy. took her phone to the toilet No need to confirm, she's fucking another guy. At least don't get caught though, c'mon. Distrustful and insecure, bad for the frame. saying she wanted to sleep and didn't care about me Correct move when a girl says this is to say 'okay'. Never try to argue with her or convince her with words, logic, etc. A girl's on…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 12:07 PM
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Women have a reality distortion field, controlled by the SMV of the guy. Once you've broken through her resistance and got her into your frame and you're fucking or whatever, she'll see only your SMV. You can be dog ugly and she'll find you attractive. Objectively she'll know that you're not, but girls don't think objectively, they think only emotionally. Whatever her guy is or has, is exactly what she wants/needs/is perfect for her. SMV is one hell of a drug I'd also add that women are paranoid…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 11:50 AM
0

You've done a good job of misrepresenting every single point I made lol, kudos. You've expressed yourself with anger and extremes, it suggests 'payback' but it's like kicking a wild dog for biting you because you knew it would probably do something like this. You know she's gonna end up giving in to temptation. It's in her nature. Just because the relationship ends doesn't mean that there wasn't 5 years of great memories and emotional bonding. The past isn't magically gone. The emotionally detat…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 11:44 AM
1

Find other people that like what you like, and hang out together. Look for meetup groups that have social events for things you're interested in, so you can talk shop with other people. Where I live there are social events for just about anything you can imagine, and they sometimes have monthly workshops or guest speakers etc. at the pub so you can socialise and also learn more about your hobby.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 11:32 AM
1

Shave your head, sort out your diet for bulking, go to the gym and lift. Personal trainer if you can afford it. Take out all your frustration at the gym. It's the gym's fault you're having these problems and with every lift you're sticking it to the man, you're crawling out of the hole. As you get stronger you'll feel more confident, like more of a man, and you'll also notice people give you more respect. Address other areas like hobbies and interests. Replace negative parts of your life with po…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:53 PM
9

I don't usually do what we did yesterday This is girl talk for I fucking love what we did yesterday and I want to do it again, but I need reassurance that I'm not a slut. Correct answer is something to feed the hamster. Basically say you're right, it was a bit crazy, I don't usually do that either/it was my fault I just couldn't resist you being such a temptress. Invite her to come over and keep your clothes on to admire your collection of 19th century vintage telegraph poles, then when she show…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:50 PM
61

Genius, this guy has figured out how to give her exactly what she wants
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:40 PM
1

But... you knew she was going to do that eventually. It's like getting a rescue dog that occasionally pees on the carpet, and then being like this dog is awesome, then one day it pees on the carpet and you're like WTF?? HOW DARE IT DO THIS! OUT WITH THE DOG. Like, you knew the dog would do that eventually when you adopted it. If it's a deal breaker, that's fine you can let the dog go back, but the idea that you'd just incinerate it then yawn and wonder what's for breakfast is pretty naive.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:32 PM
1

An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. But more seriously, we know women are children and accept it, why not accept the fact they have no idea what they want or how to take care of themselves, too? After 5 years even if she cheats on him there's still five years of history between them. You can still be deeply emotionally bonded to a person and cheat on them, it's how women will smile and have a lovely happy life with their husband and kids and act like everything is perfect whilst secre…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:27 PM
1

I wouldn't be so sure about the happy part... But it is what it is.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 08:51 AM
3

So much this. Anger phase is recalibrating yourself. Your beliefs were all wrong and you have nothing to fall back on when you're confused or trying to understand women anymore. You've been tricked and you don't yet understand how the world really works. And the new belief system seems wrong and hostile and impossible and misogynistic. And all your goals of true love and happiness and marriage you begin to recognise are impossible fantasies. You've seen behind the curtain and there's no going ba…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 01:13 AM
5

Always say yes to that question, in some way shape or form. I usually answer 'yes, well, hmm. It's complicated.' You can also a&a. 'dozens.' If she's asking she's potentially interested.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 01:07 AM
6

Going beta is saying the opposite of what you said lol. Tell her you care for her, treat her like a princess, don't make any decisions yourself always ask what she wants instead, don't be dominant in any way. Her vag will be dry enough to start a camp fire by the end of the conversation.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 11:23 PM
2

We can know, we have all been there.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 09:51 PM
1

When I read that first page of The Game and he said that once you read this book you will wish you hadn't, or words to that effect, I thought it was hyperbole. But that plus Trp leads to this wonderful anger phase. And you'll never get to experience those wild romantic emotion filled rollercoasters ever again. Every move and reaction is now tick tock calculated, you're never confused why a girl does a thing, or flooded with joy when she agrees to go on a date with you. It's called Trp for a reas…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 09:50 PM
1

I'm the same usually, just lose all libido. Shrug. Maintain high smv, please her in other ways, fuck her the 2nd or 3rd time. Most girls only look badly at sex when you're not enjoying yourself, they think it is them. Show you give no fucks, tell her it happens, shrug, carry on. Obviously wont work for ONS but anything else it'll be fine
/r/askTRP23/05/18 04:38 PM
1

Anything. Playing the guitar. Rock climbing. Photography. Running. Literally anything. Pick something you want to do though. Never do a hobby for the sake of it or only for meeting more people. It has to be something you enjoy.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 04:23 PM
1

Lift like crazy, find a hobby that you really enjoy and throw yourself into it. That will solve both your main problems. Don't game women at your hobby, use your hobby to improve your network of male friends. Once your SMV is higher in that group, you can hang out with some of the members externally to the hobby, build up bigger social circles, and then you'll find there are lots of approachable women in your life without chasing every one you can find at your hobby. Often hobby groups have low …
/r/askTRP23/05/18 11:35 AM
4

Various TRP truths. Women are biologically programmed to pretty themselves up and make men come to them. Prime example, personal trainer at the gym, tall, professional athlete, shredded and good looking. Goes to a club last week for his birthday with his teammates. The entire night girls walk up and dance in front of him, "accidentally" touch him, etc. for the entire night. They never initiate anything but basically their core desire is to attract attention indirectly. What happens in rom coms a…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 11:31 AM
1

Plate asked me this, I slapped her ass and said I like your cute little ass. She grinned like a Christmas tree. Don't take questions like this seriously.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:52 AM
1

This is better advice. I tried to do the math and I wasn't losing weight until I cut another 400 off what I thought was already 500 under. I counted everything meticulously. I think I was just way more inactive than I thought.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 12:11 AM
2

A woman will never relate to you. This is what you need to do.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 12:08 AM
22

I think you should see other dogs
/r/askTRP23/05/18 12:06 AM
1

This is not good advice for day game. You may as well apply it to getting a girl. Be nice, be sociable, try even though you're nervous. This is blue pill. To do day game you need skills and technique. You don't try trp without your basic skills like a&a pressure flip abundance mentality. You need to learn the similar skills for day game, which it your opening technique, bringing her into your frame, rapport establishing etc. Just doing your best is gonna yield the same results as just being as n…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 11:59 PM
7

Honestly, if you're as you describe you'll be able to tell. At the end of the date, give her a hug goodbye before your final goodbye, i.e. don't say blah blah nice date blah blah blah maybe see you blah blah goodnight, hug, walk home. Instead, say 'that was a great date' and give her a hug first. Now step back but keep holding her hands/arm/whatever. Pause for a second, and look at her reaction. If she pulls away, looks like she wants to leave, etc. it means she's probably not up for a kiss. If …
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:04 PM
2

Can a parent love a child, knowing that the child will eventually leave and start their own life? Is it really love if that happens? Yes. Remember, it's just your turn. So you can have "love" while it lasts. Love is really just bliss where you're happy with one girl enough that you don't need a harem and you don't long for something else.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 09:16 PM
1

Two reasons, 1, it's funny cos it's a cliché 2, a PUA conversation technique is to always be specific, it's much more amusing/interesting to add details like that when using A&A
/r/askTRP21/05/18 09:13 PM
1

They all say that shit when they find out you're banging another girl. You have to wade through the shit tests and hold your frame until they are broken in.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 08:18 PM
6

The winning move is not to play. Never get into an argument with a woman, your logic has no power here, she is speaking in emotions. Should have A&A'd, told her you're a slut, or that a 300lb black dude named butch did it, but you cuddled afterwards. Amused mastery is what you needed I think. No comfort text. No you shouldn't have waited. Soft next after an outburst like that and she'll fall in line. Don't apologise or show weakness that you were in the wrong. I'll repeat - soft next, don't talk…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 08:17 PM
4

I find if I don't my clothes get all wet. I take all my clothes off, grab my towel, walk to the showers, have a shower, dry myself mostly in the shower (we have cubicles with saloon style mostly opaque glass doors), walk back, put my boxers on and finish getting dry then get dressed. I don't parade around nude, I hold the towel in front of my junk while walking to/from the shower just to be discreet about my magnum dong but nobody really gives a shit about being naked.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:38 PM
5

Yeah but a lot of women have had it DRILLED into their heads that you don't put out on the first date or you're a slut, and although you can if you have a lot of skills/SMV get past ASD/LMR, sometimes you can't overcome this because it's such an integral part of their minds. Sometimes it is literally that they want to fuck and you've done everything right, but they won't because of this rule. Second date you'll be fucking like rabbits, because she's not a slut any more (bless the hamster).
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:24 PM
2

Yeah but that's different, your LTR will turn into The Crazy Train with emotions all over the place as she tries to maintain the level of relationship. Whereas a plate with boundaries will know her place in your life, and will only occasionally pull shit to try to upgrade it.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:02 PM
6

The best method is to read the sidebar, seriously, there's a ton of info dedicated to it.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 11:53 AM
1

You can only climb up the relationship ladder, you cannot climb down. It's just how it works.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 11:52 AM
2

It's annoying, I've given up on LTRs because every girl no matter how cool and interesting turns into that, it seems. Then you act more distant and it just makes them want you more, like a leech. I don't know what the solution is.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 11:51 AM
12

This is girls for ya, I kiss my plate on the neck and she can't even stand up, she turns to jelly and starts moaning. It's great when I do it in public when she's not expecting it.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 11:36 AM
1

That's fair enough, I was probably a bit harsh. You just need to avoid all arguing and discussion, it's not a discussion it's you informing her of what's happening. It'd be wise to write down for your own sake the reasons you want to break up, the problems etc. so you can read it back to yourself and be confident that it's the right decision.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 11:12 AM
2

I personally don't know any good books on the subject but I am sure they exist. I'm not really sure where I learned all my info from, all over the place I guess, I've been following TRP for a long time. I've not actually done daygame before but I use the same techniques on tinder dates etc. and after a lot of practice (dates I couldn't close) I started to get pretty good. Most tinder dates start pretty much 'hey' 'hey' 'fancy a drink?' 'sure' so almost all the day game stuff applies.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 10:19 AM
6

I'd either text or call her towards the end of her holiday so it isn't ruined, explain that you've given it some thought and you're ending the relationship. Move your shit out, explain briefly why, then after she gets back, talk to her. People will no doubt say to ghost her and you should do this, but I wouldn't do it completely to begin with. If you want to be nice, presumably after 5 years you care for her a bit. She's just going to want to go through the five stages of grief. So let her text …
/r/askTRP20/05/18 10:08 AM
21

Yes, it's a dick move to break up with someone when they're away after a 5 year relationship. It's not the wrong move, you should definitely break up, but you should have the balls to do it to her face, not SMS her 'sry bby g2g thx 4 the 5 yrs cu'. If you want to take the coward action then fine but it looks like your post's purpose is to reduce your own guilt by getting some other people to agree with you that it's acceptable to dump a girl after 5 years by text while she's away. It isn't. Also…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 09:53 AM
6

Have you never met a girl before, this kind of drama happens all the time when you have a high SMV and start ignoring/rejecting girls.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 09:50 AM
12

So much this. Got a mate who dances like a special needs kid. Gives absolutely no fucks, he goes there to dance to his favourite music. Dude is a girl-magnet.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 09:20 AM
1

I used to go out drinking with a mate of mine, and when we saw a girl, we'd always rate her opposite. A HB9 to me was a HB5 to him, and a HB5 to me was a HB9 to him. It was perfect because we never hit on the same girls. Some of the girls he ended up with were ugly but dude was happy as pie. It can certainly be a factor.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 11:54 PM
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Sounds like you've got the openers down but you need to work on your conversation. I recommend reading some books/material on PUA. It's a huge topic so I can't really type it all out, but there are certain key things you need to achieve. I'm gonna give you some top tactics. You need to be confident, talk to her, be direct about your sexual intentions, etc. which you've already got. You then need to get into a silly conversation, where you can shit test each other. A great example is that scene f…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 11:03 PM
3

You're in control of your own life, do the things you want to do, if you don't enjoy a situation, leave.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 08:22 PM
1

Correct, if you want those things you have to work for them. You have to engage with women, talk to people, improve your skills, your mission, your hobbies etc. The thing you should NOT do is hide behind excuses. Perhaps check out what Jordan Peterson said to his daughter. Go and do something otherwise you'll just be another person that didn't get anywhere, spending their time telling people excuses.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 08:18 PM
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Stop hiding behind excuses, start lifting more
/r/askTRP19/05/18 02:09 PM
2

checkmate
/r/askTRP19/05/18 01:23 PM
4

They're incredible paranoid, like levels of paranoid you can't even imagine. We've all heard the story of some guy who thinks the FBI are wiretapping his head and that UFOs are real and his friends have been replaced by clones, well, that's the same level of paranoia that all women have all the time. You can say the smallest thing and they will hamster over it for days. Just the most innocuous comment will send her hamster spiralling out of control. "Did you wear that top yesterday?" "Your hair …
/r/askTRP19/05/18 09:49 AM
3

How do I do the TRP guise
/r/askTRP19/05/18 09:41 AM
0

I disagree that TRP implies no morality. Your morals are up to you, TRP is just a big theory of relationship and gender dynamics, it has nothing to do with being moral or immoral. If you want to cheat on your girl it has nothing to do with TRP, you will not get an answer as to whether it's acceptable or not from TRP because it just has nothing to do with it. This is your cross to bear. The only thing TRP will tell you is that you should really define your relationship up-front, so nobody is left…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 09:38 AM
1

I never use stuff like 'lol' or smiley faces in texts, and I never use exclamation marks unless absolutely necessary, in the above case it would sound butthurt without one. I understand what you're saying but that means loss of frame and SMV, dread is part of what keeps her wanting you so you should always keep it at a high level. If she thinks you'll forgive her she'll be fucking other guys the first time one of them smiles at her. You'll find out if she's cheating anyway if you read enough TRP…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 09:32 AM
1

Yup. Cost me about 15 bucks.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 11:06 PM
0

S'alright innit
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:52 PM
1

in the first 25 years of my life ftfy ftfm :(
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:44 PM
3

Damn that's some straight up dark side shit, I love it. I was going to say something a little similar I read somewhere, might have been in The Game or might have been somewhere in the Rollo material, which was to draw attention to a negative trait that she will find unattractive but without sounding like a whiny bitch - so a backhanded compliment if you will. I've not done this before so I don't have anything prepared, but a poor example would be to say "He dances pretty amazing for a short guy"…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:43 PM
5

She's a plate, so it doesn't matter what she wears or what she does. It probably depends on her opinion of you, because although a girl is a plate to you, you can be anything from an occasional booty call to a guy that any second will be the LTR of her dreams (so she thinks). If the former, it's a shit test, if the latter, she may very well be asking permission and will do whatever you say. Either way, it makes no difference if she's a plate or LTR really, you can't control the hypergamy. A&A. "…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:17 PM
1

Can you give a specific example? It will help. I just A&A usually. I mean it depends on your definition of force, but if she makes a decision for me and I don't mind, I usually say 'OK then boss' and tease her for telling me what to do. Pretty much all girls hate being in charge, so I just annoy her by asking "What do you want me to do next boss? Should I walk on the left or the right boss? Can I go back to being in charge now boss or are you still having some fun pretending? Oh, so kind. It's b…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:46 AM
1

You should say "Let me make it up to you". Go out for drinks, buy a drink for yourself and her, commiserate the loss of her phone case with a toast, then enjoy your night.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:36 AM
1

What you mean is, she'll damage herself when you walk away and she has her exciting new sex, then realises the guy cannot replace the actual relationship part of your relationship, and comes running back, only to find the door closed and her trapped outside in the cold. You've played it correctly. If you let her back in as an LTR you might as well install a cat-flap for her promiscuity.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:20 PM
3

Is there a question in here or...
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:17 PM
6

Please, for the love of god if nothing else, take this advice to heart.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 11:52 AM
3

Sounds like you need more typical relationship breakup advice. Firstly, it gets better over time. Realise that you're idolising her. Your mind makes her seem like she's better than she actually is when you're apart. Secondly, there are plenty of other women out there, that are better than her. I read a story of a guy who followed TRP, got so good he realised that instead of getting with any girl that was HB7+ he could actually use it to deny girls that were HB7+ until he found a girl that he lik…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 11:48 AM
4

Welcome to the anger phase, sort of. The easiest way to look at it is by looking at videos of dogs on youtube. Seriously, go to youtube, type happy dog, look at cute videos of dogs that are bouncing off the walls happy. Why aren't you jealous of those dogs? They have everything, they're taken care of, they go on adventures, they don't have a care in the world. The reason is... you're not a dog. You're also not a woman. You measure yourself using one method, and you measure her using another, and…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 10:34 AM
2

This may depend on your personality and the types of people you generally connect with, but I have only met one girl that started ordering all kinds of kinky toys and shit, was completely open about sex, and would entertain just about anything and was so relaxed about it that I felt I could be relaxed. Everyone else, the trying new stuff, toys etc. pretty much all had to be initiated by me. They were still up for it but sexually adventurous girls like that for me at least, are pretty rare.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 09:39 AM
5

I think she might view the incident as you being weak, and so it might hamster at the back of her mind and permanently affect your SMV. Your best bet would have been (may still be) to shrug it off, say what the shit who does that, and then ignore it like it was nothing. Don't try to rationalise with your girl as that never works, just tell her that it was fucked up and you're angry (girls like it when their partners are angry, they like emotions). Also be angry (outwardly, even if you're not, pr…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 09:33 AM
4

I didn't read your story but to answer the question in the title. No. Never. Yes, it sounds butthurt and lame but I think it's actually quite important. I usually reply "I'm not a shelf" and put it onto the floor. If I absolutely have to hold it I'll make a big thing of it, or I'll say no, watch her get flustered, and roll my eyes and say something condescending like 'dear me, give it here'. There was an article about this floating around somewhere in the past, but despite being a small trivial …
/r/askTRP17/05/18 09:23 AM
1

All women are promiscuous women. People here just seem to alter their behaviour based on whether they 'find out'. It's like a sort of denial. Just because a girl had 40 dicks before you doesn't mean she's going to have 40 dicks after you. The people before you were likely when she was in college and riding the CC, and with non-alphas that didn't understand TRP. And even despite that, although you've got a good chance of pinning a girl down using TRP by the time she's past that phase, it's still …
/r/askTRP17/05/18 09:15 AM
1

Yes, I think they always need an excuse, and as we know even the most ridiculous flimsy excuse is often enough for the hamster for example with ASD, you can literally reply to her saying 'we won't have sex' with 'that's fine we'll just cuddle', get into bed, 10 seconds later, fucking like bunnies. I think it's just natural to always have something to fall back on in case a person tries to hold you responsible, because girls do not accept responsibility. So if she does decide to cheat, or install…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 09:12 AM
2

For a while I continued to go from girl to girl one by one, since I never liked the idea of multiple girls, but I kept things very plate-like. Very recently I decided to try plates, so I have a couple going plus ONS, but tbh I think I prefer just one, it's exhausting finding the time to hang out with two of them and I can never remember which conversations I had with which one. Plus I get so much more shit testing because neither of them are so happy I'm dating other girls lol, it can be exhaust…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 09:08 AM
2

Yeah, it really threw me. It actually made me much more alpha before I really understood TRP, because I was afraid of having to break up with other people, so I'd be much slower to show affection/commitment/validation etc. which in turn drove people wild. And I still ended up breaking up with a slew of girls one by one until I finally learned that you don't need to LTR a girl after 3 dates.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:03 PM
3

It took a good couple of years before I stopped thinking about her. That part went away, but as I say if someone mentioned her name or what she was doing, some emotions would come back and mess with me. Rather than fighting it I just accept it. I think it's normal and I just say yep, that's just how it's going to be, and then move on.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 06:59 PM
3

I get that too, with a girl I dated many years ago. She was textbook perfect, but submissive and obedient to the point where I actually had to start making decisions about her own well-being for her because she'd do anything I said without hesitation. In hindsight I should have plated her and carried on but I was a confused guy back then that immediately LTR'd everyone I met then dumped them later when I realised they weren't LTR material. I got tired of having to second-guess her all the time a…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 06:55 PM
33

Sounds like she's shit testing you with some dread. I suspect she's done with the CC and wants to lock you down to have kids. She's trying to find ways to make you commit. One way would be making you think she could get other guys to fuck her quite easily. Another way would be that she's starting to think that she's never going to lock you down, so before she starts looking for a branch to swing to, she's ramping up the shit tests to see if she can find a chink in your armour - an excuse to the …
/r/askTRP16/05/18 06:46 PM
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Well, it flies in the face of what you're saying, that girls who like a lot of sex and encourage others to have a lot of sex must be sleeping with multiple people. Which patently isn't true. There are a lot of sex-positive girls since the 1970s sexual awakening. It doesn't mean they all want their sex from 5 different people every week. Many are happy to sit on their alpha's dick for months or years and still be trying to get their friends laid. Why you'd ever dump an LTR for that is way beyond …
/r/askTRP16/05/18 05:58 PM
-4

Some girls are very sex-driven, one of my friends is and tries to hook her friends up all the time. And she's been happily married for just shy of 10 years. I'm sorry that you feel this isn't a possibility. In my experience people that are quick to talk about discarding LTRs and ghosting people for trivial reasons are those who haven't really swallowed TRP at all, and they're stuck in the machismo stage where they think they're the shit but haven't actually put anything into practice. Sounds lik…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 05:12 PM
1

But you upgrade a plate to LTR, you don't start with an LTR. You meet someone you like, hit it off, fuck them a bunch, then if you think you like them upgrade them to LTR, if not, plate or ghost. I'm not sure how you'd get to know if someone was LTR material before you were having sex with them.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:42 PM
20

That's quite the rollercoaster of a story. My first observation was holy shit. It takes a guy with fucking balls to be in that situation and manage to lose all that weight, finish your degree, start eating clean, lifting, etc. etc. you are seriously capable of some good things. General TRP mentality is to keep lifting and eating clean, practicing TRP etc. but my advice is that you need two things, you need a mission, something you can pour your energy into, ideally a job but krav maga or some ki…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:40 PM
19

Other people have said it already, that girls deliberately drag you down, but I'll just add that the solution is a bit of dread. "Yeah, I've been getting quite a bit of attention lately <grin>".
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:25 PM
1

So what did your comment mean about never finding something you never look for? What should you be looking for? It sounded from the context that I was saying you never find a girl you can keep forever, and you were saying that because I don't look for a girl I can keep forever I will never find one. Sounds like I got confused, could you clarify what you meant?
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:23 PM
2

Sounds like standard ASD stuff. Firstly agree with her, that it doesn't normally move that first etc. etc. That'll tame the hamster. Then tell her you're not sure what you're looking for, and you don't want to jump into any kind of deep relationship, so you've set expectations. Then hit her with 'the talk' lines, tell her that you really enjoyed your time together and if she thinks it's too fast or it's not what she's looking for then you're sorry to see her go because you thought you had someth…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:21 PM
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Maybe she's just getting ploughed well by OP and wants her friend to have the same thing. I wouldn't jump to conclusions and start demoting LTRs based on wanting her friend to get some action.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 02:51 PM
2

Are you saying your unicorn LTR is out there somewhere
/r/askTRP16/05/18 02:45 PM
1

Is she just saying she wants a different type of sex? Weird way to do it though. I would soft next for a bit and become very busy, give her what she says she wants, a couple of weeks toned down. Then maybe fuck her more slowly perhaps.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 02:18 PM
5

I pretty much only date foreign chicks, because they generally come without the feminist bullshit. But yes I want to see the feminist movement descend into chaos as it continues chomping at the hand that feeds it.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 12:36 PM
3

Realise that rejection/acceptance isn't the goal. Aim to have a nice fun conversation. Just like you don't lift to impress girls, you don't build muscle to impress girls, you do it for yourself and your own health/image/wellbeing. You don't (cold) approach girls to sleep with them, you approach them because you want to have a fun and flirty conversation. Such a conversation will usually end with acceptance or rejection but both are acceptable if you make it fun.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 11:41 AM
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Yet TRP hinges on the fact that there's no such thing... it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 11:37 AM
1

Yeah, probably. OP's response came off as a bit smug/patronising to me, but who knows.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:40 AM
2

This is the best reply, it really does. I've seen some shit in my time... Sometimes the pony gets a bit wild, you just have to ride it out.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 11:14 PM
1

This is a gigantic flirty ioi, she's saying it doesn't take any effort for you to get into her underwear. Just say 'the effort comes later, but it's worth it' or something. Just escalate the sexual tension.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 11:13 PM
2

It is important to do as much kino as possible without being weird about it. Tell her she looks a bit tense and ask if she'd like a massage. Works almost every time to get kino established.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 11:10 PM
6

If you're a little uneasy, build up the tension then use the mystery method, that was one of my early TRP moments. You'll soon get used to escalating once you do it a few times, but that is a good way when you're not 100% sure due to inexperience. You: “Do you want to kiss me?” Her: “I don’t know.” You: “Let’s find out.” Then move in for the kiss :) Of course, she could say two other things “No” or “Yes” and here’s how those play out. If she says “Yes” then you kiss immediately. If she says “No”…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:11 PM
3

Girls always generate excuses for their behaviour, as they cannot stand taking any kind of responsibility for their own actions, I wouldn't read into that at all.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:08 PM
4

Sounds to me like you did everything right. Ignore her and see if she tries again after realising you can take it or leave it and have abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:08 PM
1

That's cool man. Get some awesome shoes. Girls always check out guys shoes for some reason.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:06 PM
1

You say that, but I have a friend who is dog ugly and overweight and excessively talks about her problems and uses them as an excuse for her cundishuns and I thought yeah there's no way that she's getting any, then one day everything blew up because she got de-plated by a guy she was fucking for almost a year that nobody had any idea about. Desperate guys will fuck just about anything with a pulse.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:05 PM
1

I don't think there are any rigid rules, TRP is more guidelines, anyway, and knowing how some people would interpret it it's probably not a bad thing to dress without accessories. I can picture some people dressing up full peacock style with their fedora and 900 gold chains to try and impress the ladiez But personally, I've seen guys with just a small leather wristband or discreet pendant or whatever and thought damn that looks cool, so have experimented with the same kinda thing. One thing for …
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:22 PM
1

2 plates I see once a week each, + ONS whenever I have success on a friday night with my mates.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 02:39 PM
3

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/28dxl5/being_controlling_is_for_losers/
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:58 PM
0

"Thanks mate, I don't think I'm doing it wrong but I always welcome to advice, I mean, you can't always tell if you're doing it right. Do you have any tips?"
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:31 PM
2

This is the best post I've read on asktrp, well done mate that's inspirational in a genuine way
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:26 PM
3

Nope. The opposite. Since hitting the gym and gaming women I have mad respect from people to the point that I don't even know how to handle having any attention. Some of it is SMV from lifting, but much of it is admiration for being in my 30s and going home with uni students that have barely hit 20. Proof is in the pudding I guess, and if you call that SMV, then it's doing me all kinds of favours.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:22 PM
21

If you're 5'4 then no. If you're taller than average, then yes. Tinder is all about getting people to meet you, how you do that is largely irrelevant because it's only when you meet that you can game them.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:20 PM
2

Mythical HB10 will only be attracted to someone with higher SMV than herself, so that she can submit to him. Imagine what kind of guy that would have to be. It isn't anyone in your class. To even have a chance of it being someone in your class, that person would likely need to have the highest SMV out of everyone there, and the respect and admiration of their peers. If she's HB10, you'd need to be an 11. Which is one more.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:19 PM
1

It's part of peacock theory but even without that, if you don't overdo it looks good. Most models/celebrities wear things like chains, bracelets, rings etc. Just because, mancrush Jason Momoa. He usually wears some kind of bracelet at least, and he wears rings in this photo.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:10 PM
3

That's not short. If you want to break up, break up. Despite the wall of text, your reason for breaking up is unclear, 'too much work'?. If it's because you're moving overseas then tell her you're moving away so you want to end the relationship.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:21 AM
6

Hate to break it to you but all girls above the age of 15 are gonna have a double-digit n-count. Whatever they tell you you can at least double it as well. Slutshaming her will show her you're butthurt and dry up her vagina in seconds. Tell her you like what you have and you're not looking to settle down yet, if you want to keep spinning her as a plate. Remember all plates break eventually though without LTR commitment.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 09:33 AM
2

Humans have been tattooing and adorning their bodies for thousands of years. It looks badass. I'm not talking about putting a flower in your hair.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 09:28 AM
4

Good fashion sense. Learn to co-ordinate and accessorise. Also get yourself a nice cologne. Girls get close then they always say "You smell amazing". Also get complimented on looking good because I put a lot of effort into co-ordinating. I have a lot of pairs of shoes and different colour necklaces/tshirts etc. so I can create good looking ensembles. When I dress well I feel more confident which also boosts my SMV.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 09:03 AM
3

Girls not having sex on the first date isn't always a red flag, some of them have it hard-coded into their brains that having sex on the first date is slut behaviour. After that though, LMR. Her sending you all that shit is her fishing for validation. Don't give her validation, respond randomly to her texts if at all, mostly ignore them and their content. Her 'developing feelings' can mean several different things from her wanting to put you into a nice orbit where you think you can sleep with h…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 08:55 AM
1

The illusion that if you work hard you'll get your reward is a Nice Guy philosophy, in reality it's a doggy dog I know world.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 08:21 AM
4

Attraction is not negotiable doesn't mean that women like what they like and there's nothing you can do about it. It's kinda confusing in that sense. What it means is that if you have high SMV, women will be attracted to you regardless of what you look like. It sounds like you have a lot of stuff under control, but it does sound a little like you're making sex and women the core goal of your life. I understand that but you need to put your mission first. You need to be happy being you, doing you…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 08:08 AM
4

This guy gets it. You are supposed to be the alpha lion, it is completely normal for you to sometimes make a show of power, get aggressive, angry, etc. and she expects, hopes, and somewhat craves it. If you see a lion in the zoo, you kinda hope it will do something badass and fuck something up. It's like that. You're the lion. What keeps girls attracted to you is not just high SMV but being unpredictable, difficult to figure out, etc. ... anything except for boring. When she latches onto you she…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 12:01 AM
1

Why not? Some people take this stoic approach way too far until they act like a different person entirely to who they actually are. She won't mind, and you only ever have to do it once.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 11:34 PM
20

Wrong question, the question is do women like X? Yes, if other people in her peer group think it is a good thing. No, if other people in her peer group think it's a bad thing. Also bonus: No if she thought Yes, but then later her peer group told her No was the correct answer.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 11:32 PM
1

You're thinking of the minivan, 2 in the front, 4 in the rear.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:59 PM
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Yep, better not to confront her. CYA This is what you need to do. Cover Your Ass. Document everything you do, then instead of confronting her, just throw her under the bus in the most sweetly innocent way you can. Ask her questions about things she should have done. Ask her for reports and work that is her idea in meetings etc. Ask her opinion of things you know she won't have a clue about. Apologise for hogging the limelight and offer her a chance to speak when you know she has no idea what she…
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:56 PM
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I have 0 sexual experience and the last thing I want is to be known as the guy bad at sex in my social circle That's the crux of your post right there. If you get a girl into bed with you just tell 'em you've not done this before and get them to show you the ropes. Sex is about having fun in bed together, it's not some contractual obligation to procreate. You can have fun if nothing goes right and it's messy and silly, it's all about attitude. Just think if you loved ballroom dancing and you fin…
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:49 PM
1

Get the super-soaker. Yep it's all crazy. But if someone locks you in a room with nothing but a rubix cube you'll eventually try to make all the colours go on the same side, because what else is there to do?
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:40 PM
2

Although it's funny it is completely true that people who are serious about sports will use a cheap disposable watch so you see a lot of the more veteran people wearing this when you're doing sports .
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:36 PM
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The only watch you'll ever need bro, I got you. Worn by professional athletes, swimmers, scuba divers around the world. You'll get the proper respect because everyone knows a big ol' fancy watch is just going to get lost while you're base jumping and hitting the slopes and if you wear one of these bad boys you're serious about life.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:31 PM
1

Context buddy, nobody is going to have the faintest idea what you're asking
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:29 PM
4

If it works, don't break it. I occasionally do nice things but I don't do them as rewards, and if they go 'aww' I tell 'em to shut up and pretend to be annoyed
/r/askTRP14/05/18 02:23 PM
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TRP is mostly about self-improvement, so you need to lift, get a life mission and hobbies, dress well and talk to people. I'm not sure what your definition of 'be with a woman' means, but if it means sex then you can implement the entirety of TRP without getting into bed with a girl. You can talk to them and say hello, you can tease them, you can A&A etc. and just have a good time. All you need to do then is learn to look for iois and let them tell you what you can do.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:40 PM
2

I do it all the time, I've learned to show my romantic side in other ways. I'll do favours for them and help them out, even plates, but I just act like it's because it's what I do as a person, not because they're my special little angel or whatever. Secretly though it's because I love to make people happy. But I know that if I do that shit overtly then they'll respect me slightly less for it each time, AND I want to keep them as plates I don't want an LTR. I really REALLY don't want an LTR. TLDR…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:37 PM
6

Don't sweat it. If you've fucked her she doesn't give a shit what your body looks like objectively. Remember girls are all about SMV, they're attracted to high SMV, they don't see anything else. It's why they'll fuck rich old men or toothless hobos that have incredible game. I can guarantee that she doesn't even see any problems with the body of any guy she's attracted to. She will see your insecurity though, so act like you've got the body of a sculpted god and she will love you for it. I hung …
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:33 PM
1

If you care, A&A, "I know, I wax it off every morning so my spiderman costume doesn't chafe" If you want to fuck 'em up just play to their insecurities. "I know :( You've got more hair on your moustache than I've got on my whole body :(" Then turn 360 degrees and walk away.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:27 PM
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In clubs I don't bother with numbers, I just dance with my mates and various people come in and out of our group, then a bit later in the night things escalate into tons of making out, then at kicking out time head back to theirs or mine. Usually I don't bother to call them or add them on facebook or whatever they want because I just can't see anything coming of it. Usually they're much much younger and in CC mode so you'd be fighting an uphill battle.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:24 PM
1

If you actually do the things that feel like they're dick moves, after a short while you will realise that your girl loves it and then that reinforces that you're doing a good thing. For example a girl gave me a really good idea for something the other day and then proceeded to tease me that she was really smart and should be in charge because I can't even come up with the obvious ideas. I pinned her to the wall and said I'm sorry, did you say something about being in charge? She went all giddy …
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:21 PM
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I can't agree with the rivalry aspect of it, I'm not competing with anyone and I will share information and help others freely. In fact, I do already with a couple of guys who were interested in the topic and now we hang out a lot together, and wingman each other. Plus it's fun to talk about the subject with others. We have different approaches too, mine is considered 'dark side' and they consider their own approach 'light side', because we have differing opinions on a few topics. It's great. If…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 12:26 PM
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I would disagree because it's hard to get into the subject via the subreddit posts, you'd be better off linking them to some of the sidebar material first I think, or my best approach which is to lend them a copy of No More Mr Nice Guy. I think that book is the perfect introduction to the idea that women don't want someone that panders to them.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 12:22 PM
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It's not my responsibility to enlighten anyone. What I believed to be noble was actually just old Beta tendencies coming out. I'd disagree here, it's not beta tendencies to want to help out a bro. But as we've seen a thousand times you cannot throw someone into TRP. Educating them on it at all is virtually impossible but if you were to try, then you need baby steps. Throw them a copy of No More Mr Nice Guy and see how they handle it.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 12:21 PM
2

They have a point in that betas will throw you under the bus if you try to explain what's happening. I think even if you drop some subtle truths they will not believe it and it will harm your relationship.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 05:58 AM
2

All I can say is, enjoy.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 03:38 AM
3

Warsaw
/r/askTRP11/05/18 07:07 PM
3

It sounds like her request is reasonable if she is really busy with her studies. If you wanted to push it you'd just need to create some dread. Rather than remove attention to get her to do what you want, which sounds like it isn't working at the moment, you need to create some dread, without being obvious about it. Hanging out with girls is usually a good place to start.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:33 PM
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I dated a girl like this and it was fucking wonderful. I get bored of girls pretty fast because you see someone smart and sassy and then a few weeks of dating, blast through a couple of shit tests, they turn into submissive whores. Which is great but boring, the initial charm that attracted me to them is gone. Not that girl though, shit tests non stop, super cute, and hard to control. Felt like a real challenge and that I was dating someone that actually had an independent brain instead of leech…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:31 PM
1

Are you overweight? Are you wearing clean correctly laundered clothes?
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:24 PM
6

Sounds like she's confused about what's going on, she probably thinks you're pissed off or something's going on so she's tiptoeing and a little bit scared of meeting. Just tell her to come over and wear a short skirt, and get your relationship back on track.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:20 PM
1

You can have a plate relationship that isn't an LTR, where you pretty much hit them up to grab food and then have sex.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:11 PM
0

Do you feel attraction towards women? Perhaps you're asexual or have low testosterone. Most men that spend time with women enjoy their company and want to become more intimate with them, so they naturally want to have some kind of sexual relationship. The fact that you don't could be a sign that something isn't right. TRP comes after you realise you want to sex the womens but fail spectacularly because you have no idea why being nice to them doesn't get you laid.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:21 PM
2

It doesn't make any difference what field this is, the gist of what you've posted is My LTR lives in a world which contains men, and she will meet, interact, and work with some of them. How do I make sure she doesn't cheat? The answer is TRP, sidebar basics, dread etc. but also that it's just your turn. Your turn can end at any time, you cannot control it without becoming paranoid, controlling, and mate guarding. So carry on TRPing, maintain a healthy life, balance, don't make your LTR the focus…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 11:46 AM
5

Me: That wasn't future? Dang it :( It was good until that line. You've basically backed down and de-escalated the situation. Her response to that indicates she was enjoying the roleplay and is trying to keep it going. Best response would have been to be cocky/arrogant and say something like "Oh I wouldn't be so sure about that".
/r/askTRP11/05/18 11:07 AM
53

Went there once, walked into a random bar, HB10s everywhere. Walked into another bar. HB10s. Went 'WTF?' and upon returning home, realised just how obese and fat everyone is. Hadn't seen how normalized it had become
/r/askTRP11/05/18 10:31 AM
6

She spun some lies to him about you to justify to herself her cheating. He is just calling you out on those lies. He is clueless. She is being manipulative. Ghost her.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:28 AM
1

Ah, I get it now, thanks that was informative
/r/askTRP10/05/18 10:47 PM
4

When someone says something, force yourself to not immediately react. Consider what they have said, and then choose your behaviour. At first it may take a while to get used to doing this, but it will help immensely. A lot of shit tests from girls will be to provoke an emotional response, so they'll hit you with something completely out of the blue. They're trying to shatter your frame, by making you act defensive, explaining, apologetic etc. One of the best things you can do is learn what you sh…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 03:38 PM
1

I'm sorry but I don't understand your response, can you explain it?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 03:34 PM
1

If you're serious about TRP you should stop belittling people on the internet who you know nothing about and focus on improving yourself, lest you be one of the crabs in a bucket that TRP tries to help people escape from.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 03:33 PM
8

A&A, and downplay. If asked what your job is, say you're an astronaut. Say you paint the underneath of boats while they're at sea. Don't give straight answers. Dates are about having silly fun, not an interview of your character. If people push me to answer I tell them I'm a fixer, I fix companies problems. If they still push I draw a comparison to a hero and steer the conversation that way. Like I could say I'm Mr Robot, super autistic and I stop companies getting hacked. Or I'm like Neo in the…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:59 AM
2

Ridiculous, but predictable.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:38 AM
9

I read all this stuff a long time back and I tried it all out to see if I should be acting differently. What I found is the main rule is that when you meet someone else's gaze, don't look down immediately. The best thing to do is learn to look at people as if they are an object on the table in front of you. You look at the table, you see a glass jar. You look at the glass jar, it's a jar of glue. Ok. Then you look back to what you were doing. You don't have any emotions about it you were just lo…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:36 AM
9

And if you try to go back and escalate it now she'll be immediately turned off. Ah the joys of interaction.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:27 AM
5

It's a big steaming pile of crap. You might as well say so I see you've been doing TRP for a while now, but maybe you should open up and be less stoic and more friendly a clingy to girls and treat them nice etc. because it's toxic masculinity, i.e. ideas of what men should be and do, that are forcing you to act in that harmful way. Yeah.. no. Men will often resort to violence to resolve conflict because anger is the only emotion that they have been socialized to express. Socialised by all my tes…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:12 AM
12

Because a girl doesn't invite a guy to sleep over unless she wants to fuck him.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:11 AM
3

What's your goal? If you want to LTR them then it's fine to text a bit more, but they'll catch the feels if you text them all the time and start expecting you both to be in some kind of relationship. I text more than just logistics but I reply to messages approximately twice a day. I often look at my phone to see 5 messages about random topics and I usually ignore them and reply to the last one only.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:09 AM
1

Olympic barbell is 2.2 metres long which is wider than the room I lift in! I think the barbell would be fine for 100-150kg. I am not deadlifting twice my bodyweight so I think I'm fine.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:07 AM
2

Classic LMR, the hamster wants her to feel no responsibility for what she's doing. So tell her she's right, and that it's all your fault for being so damn sexy. Then say we'll just make out and nothing more. Then make out. Keep saying no we can't do anything else whilst doing everything else. Say we can't get naked while taking her clothes off and yours. Say we definitely can't have sex whilst having sex. etc.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 06:45 PM
6

Classic shit test. Loads of correct answers. Say 'Millions.' quickly with a bored expression and immediately carry on talking about something else.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 06:42 PM
1

As I said, in my house I have a standard barbell because I don't have room for an olympic bar. My gym has olympic bars/weights plus the plastic ones for classes. I think standard refers to the size of plates it will take, i.e. 1" You can find lots of information on google. It doesn't matter what size barbell you use only the weight is important. I would be surprised if most people that lift at home use an olympic bar, those things are huge and you'd need a lot of space to use it. My gym room is …
/r/askTRP09/05/18 06:19 PM
9

It's possible, but who knows. Could have been one of a million reasons. Could have been nothing. Pretend you find out the reason. What then? The next move after knowing what the reason is, is to completely ghost her and never talk to her again. You can't rationalise, beg, persuade, convince, or influence her in any way without coming across as a giant beta. So you just need to move on. Maybe she'll want you back in the future and have some really good explanation. Doesn't matter, she'll do it ag…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:47 PM
2

Your only other move is to go total beta. Tell the guys you want to apologise to her but you want them to be there. Then apologise to her, for anything you have done to upset her, you didn't mean anything by it, pile it all on, apologise to them too. Look really sad, no amused mastery, until they all think you're pathetic. Tell them you won't talk to her again and ask her in front of them not to talk to you either. That should dry those panties out like the sahara and you'll not have to worry ab…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:43 PM
1

Olympic bar takes olympic plates which have a 2" diameter hole. A standard bar is much smaller and takes plates with a 1" diameter hole. I have a standard bar at home because I do not have enough room for an olympic bar. I don't think a standard bar has any particular set weight but mine weighs about 8kg. Gyms usually have plastic bars as well mostly for toning classes etc. which take special rubber weights that usually max out around 5kg
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:34 PM
5

Classic scenario of girl likes you, has bf, feels bad about her hypergamous nature, hamster activates and blames you even though that makes no sense, feeds her beta BF some bullshit, she feels better about it. If you maintain frame and completely ignore her it will drive her nuts because it's a type of shit test and if you pass it her hypergamous nature will tell her internal hamster 'wtf? you're sabotaging this guy?' and she'll go berserk, for better or worse.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:31 PM
2

Tell em straight up you don't want to get your ass whooped so you will not speak a single word to her, you will avoid her, you will not talk to her, and you will completely ignore her. Once they agree, do exactly that. She'll probably get pissed off but what can you do.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:28 PM
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Advice... 1) You're human. It's normal to feel grief after unexpected loss, including loss of routine. Accept that it's normal. 2) Acknowledging 1, force yourself to go and do things. Lean on friends to socialise with and help you out. Now is the time to force yourself to do things you don't want to do. 3) Accept that the reason does not matter, and that any attempts to get back with her are beta behaviour and will sabotage your chances. No, you shouldn't get back with her. Yes, she will definit…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:06 PM
-1

olympic bar is 45lbs (20kg), normal bar is about 8kg, one of those plastic bars are even less, probably 1-2kg.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:17 AM
2

You should post questions like this to /r/sex Supposedly it happens if you wake up during REM sleep (i.e. when you're dreaming).
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:11 AM
2

For sure, don't be a knowledge sponge and the same applies to TRP. It's not much good reading all the information and never putting it into practice. It'd be like learning to play the guitar by watching youtube videos and never actually playing one.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:09 AM
2

I imagine it is difficult to get started, for me, I'd need to read a bit more first. I've only recently joined tinder and it took a LOT of dates before I got good at chatting people up, mostly by applying daygame techniques I've read about and being clumsy at them initially but improving over time. I would need to learn a bit more before I started but then I'd totally go for it, if I needed to. But I already have a couple of girls on the go atm and it is more than enough.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 10:14 PM
0

Orbiting is when you want to fuck her so you give her validation/attention/etc. in the hopes she'll put out one day. You can hang out with someone because you enjoy their company, male or female, or meet them in order to use them for some ends. I'd say I'm not sure why that's a revolutionary concept but I think some people have taken TRP a bit too far in some ways. I'm meeting a female friend to play tennis together tomorrow since we met at a tennis club. We get on great but I have no desire to …
/r/askTRP08/05/18 10:09 PM
2

I slept with a girl that was 20, and had a BF for a long time, and her n-count was in the double digits.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:22 AM
1

She has ridden the CC and fucked a bunch of guys but believes the guy she's currently dating (you?) will think she's a slut if he finds out, as most betas would.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:11 AM
1

The more boxes you tick the higher your SMV goes... You can be hot, you can be dominant, you can have savoir faire... and you can still be beta. It's all plusses and minuses to give you your final SMV score. All you're saying by "How that man chooses to interact with his environment will determine how fucked over he gets." is that if you don't have any of the negative-SMV beta traits then you're set. And you're right. Wealth is not a beta trait. I make bank and yet girls I date that are earning …
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:04 AM
3

That's how you know it's working. Also note that many people give up too soon with flirting with girls, they misinterpret shit tests as rejection. She might say something like "I'm trying to enjoy my drink without being interrupted" but you need to notice if it's a shit test or not. If it is, the beta gives up, the alpha laughs and A&As, which is what she wants. She doesn't even realise she's doing it, it's like an automatic shield. But she only does it when she's interested. If she looks super …
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:00 AM
2

Cold approaching someone as they walk past you in the street already puts you at a big disadvantage. Turning that interaction around, and building trust and SMV in seconds and keeping it going for minutes in order to get a phone number is not a simple task.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:55 PM
7

When you're strutting around waiting for someone to adopt you, your only competition is everyone else.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:54 PM
1

Afraid not, my knowledge came from random books and internet videos. I know a lot about it, but I have never really done it. If I end up in a situation where I want to meet more people I will give it a go.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:53 PM
2

It sounds like you may have lost sight of your mission. Your main goals in life should be self-improvement and hobbies. If you're starting to feel needy, you've substituted one of these things for a girl, so you're using her as a crutch to support your incomplete life. You need to get yourself back on track.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 10:27 PM
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I don't think this is the right sub lol. But no, they won't care. If you go back to him just say you had it cut while you were out of town, or a friend recommended a place and you realised it's not as good as his.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 10:09 PM
4

How do you feel about dogs? And cats, and sheep, and goats, and elephants, and all the other animals. I mean, a goat is a pretty stupid animal. It's never going to cure world hunger. It isn't even going to contribute much towards society. It won't co-author a book with you or dazzle an audience at the theatre. But I don't feel any animosity towards goats, and dogs, and other animals. Why would I? Likewise, I don't feel any animosity towards the variety of human beings that are out there. Some wi…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 10:06 PM
3

Are you getting what you want? If so, not a massive problem. It's not everyone's style but being polarising is generally a good thing. If not, then you need to dial it back, or come up with a new approach. It looks to me like you're a bit too aggressive, it is important to leave a positive impression once you're gone, so I would probably suggest toning it down a bit.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 10:01 PM
2

Not sure what the burden is that's making you depressed but I would use non-romantic girls and male friends to unload all of your problems onto. In this instance though I was saying you can explain that you're 'feeling a bit down' and that she's just the thing you need to perk yourself right up. Make sure it at no point gets serious, do not start explaining all your problems etc. but do tease a lot and put a positive spin on it. The goal here is just to attend your date and have a good time, not…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 09:52 PM
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Put a positive spin on it. Nobody can tell you if you should go or not. I know how bad being depressed can be. So it's up to you - try to think of it in terms of regret. How much will you regret it if she then ghosts on you and deletes your number? The fact you've already slept together and she's meeting up again says that she's into you. Contrary to the belief of many red pill subscribers, you absolutely can use women to support you when you're down, you don't have to be the perfect bastion of …
/r/askTRP07/05/18 09:09 PM
2

I'll bullet point it If he knew you were into her, it's maybe a bit of a dick move. But it happens. She's not a unicorn, there are millions of other women on this earth. Move on. Escalate faster next time. The fact he took her back to his place and fucked her suggests that 'texting to chill in the future' is not going to get you far. You need more abundance mentality. Don't get invested in girls. Oh and one more thing, try to develop a wingman personality. You and your mates are all in it togeth…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 09:01 PM
2

Perhaps meet her for a coffee, if it goes poorly explain that it's going poorly and that you don't think you should go to vegas together. If it goes well, then escalate and have a good time in vegas.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 08:57 PM
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Why don't you just go with her and have a good time? Unless you picked a girl to have sex with that you don't actually like, you two can have a fun time together regardless of if it ends in sex or not. I am seeing a couple of people and I sometimes spend the entire day doing all kinds of stuff together, going to the beach, going for a drink, etc. cos they're fun people to hang around with. If they turned me down for sex or wanted to hang out and I knew there likely wouldn't be sex, I'd still enj…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 06:42 PM
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Yes it works, if you're good at it. It's called daygame and it requires a lot of understanding of technique and practice, and a rock solid abundance mentality because you'll get rejected a lot. Woman are biologically programmed to let you engage with them, if you can charm them they will be unable to move away and start flinging shit tests at you. They'll say things like they need to go but they won't walk away because their brain keeps them there so you can keep escalating. Yes it turns out bad…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 06:30 PM
8

Go anyway and enjoy the holiday?
/r/askTRP07/05/18 06:23 PM
1

3 hours before? 4 hours? Perhaps you are not very attracted to her.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 05:19 PM
3

The 48 Laws of Power: Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others. Act how you have to act to have a smooth life with your parents/guardians. Lift. Better yourself. Pursue hobbies etc. the rest of the time.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 05:18 PM
11

Bit confused that you're in an LTR while also fucking other girls, but think it would be cheating if she even sent a single naked pic to a guy... The rest seems pretty normal, you start ignoring her, so she tries to get your attention by showing you what you're missing. Her actions aren't part of normal dread though, you've made her do that yourself. And you're making her feel jealous on purpose because you have some worries she is texting another guy after you said it's fine if she does her own…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 05:10 PM
1

Crank one out beforehand
/r/askTRP07/05/18 05:06 PM
2

Simple harmless explanations would include, drinking too much and passing out (done that as a kid, got into a world of shit with my parents when I missed school), losing phone, etc. etc. All of which would result in her apologising PROFUSELY the next day. The fact she didn't shows that you lost her respect a long time ago, and that she's lying so something happened.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 05:05 PM
7

He cannot be saved by you, sorry. No beta can. It is one of the core rules of TRP. Every time anyone tries it just backfires. Your best chance is to buy him a copy of No More Mr Nice Guy and hope for the best. They have to save themselves, and for that, they have to realise that there's something wrong. That more effort (as in, spending time/energy/resources on women) does not equal more pussy
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:39 PM
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The two are not opposite. You should be the best version of yourself you can be, by lifting, practicing good health and grooming, finding a mission/hobby etc. You should not do these things in order to get women, you should do them to be a better person. The fortunate side effect is that it'll make you much more attractive.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:36 PM
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Fortunately or unfortunately, most people don't actually look at TRP, they just assume it's a wretched hive of scum and villany, that everyone is a bunch of nerdy pickup artists negging women and eroding their self-esteem until they sleep with them. I think they think it's some harmless circlejerk, and therefore I hope it is pretty safe.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 11:31 AM
1

No way, a wedding is the perfect fix for this kind of situation. And after that, a child. - her, probably
/r/askTRP02/05/18 09:33 PM
2

shitpost
/r/askTRP02/05/18 09:31 PM
1

12" dick Being charismatic. "If you want to get girls, impress boys" were wise words once spoken to me by a crazy guy I worked with from the USSR. Anyone that's funny, charming, witty, clever, good at banter with other lads will be popular in their group, and the most popular ones are automatically the highest SMV when ladies evaluate them and see how much status they have in their group. Even if they look like a bag of smashed arseholes have no job and are addicted to drugs.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 08:07 PM
2

It's exactly as you describe it. She doesn't want to feel like a slut. You could look at it as LMR but honestly I would give it another date before you start jumping to conclusions. After another date, if she isn't receptive, AWALT, you're more beta-bucks to her than alpha-fucks. At that point soft-next if you want to fuck her once with tons of emotional whining afterwards, and hard-next if you want to leave it, which is pretty much what the person you're responding to said.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 07:58 PM
2

I would agree and say 20+ also is average
/r/askTRP02/05/18 07:53 PM
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It is a shit test for sure. Maybe consider pressure flip though. Something like, "True, you might not be able to keep up with some of the things I can do..."
/r/askTRP30/04/18 08:36 PM
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I can see what you're saying, but TRP is built upon an understanding of The Hamster which is a tool of the woman. She will lie cheat deceive manipulate persuade beg cry etc. to get her way, and she will feel no remorse or empathy while doing so. I don't think even the most petty of men can truly do that. We're talking about people so 'petty' that if they're caught cheating they will say they were raped and maintain this lie indefinitely without remorse. I don't think men do things like that. Eve…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 05:10 PM
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I'd say zero natural alphas. Plenty of people who have made it post here. Some of us are annoyed at how betafied/cucked society has become and want to help other people get out of it. But it's impossible to do that to people that haven't already started down the path, so this is the only place it can be done.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 01:31 PM
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You can have those things without a relationship. Just date casually and be up front about what you want.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 01:29 PM
7

True, I have in fact looked at /r/incels before it closed down. But I think in general men know that we can't blame other people for our problems because nobody gives a shit, our value and SMV are both tied to our ability to provide useful functions, which in turn is usually tied to status, and thus SMV. Alpha mentality and behaviour boosts status and thus SMV.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 01:27 PM
1

At a party, or social event etc. if you're tagged in it it is a big plus. If it's a shitpost probably not.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 01:24 PM
2

Yes, I believe the majority of them are looking for a way to brand them as 'special' or 'different', perhaps as a marketing strategy to increase their HB/SMV rating, perhaps because they're insecure. for a less anecdotal response, you can look at studies of sexuality that show a very large percentage of women that would consider themselves straight either had or would have a sexual encounter with another girl. The figure for guys is very low. I suspect pretty much all girls are bisexual to some …
/r/askTRP30/04/18 01:04 AM
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This may be conjecture, but based on my experiences I don't think it's necessarily about low-SMV men, but about men that have been put into the mental friend-zone (of course, because they have low SMV). Once a girl friend-zone's a guy, any increase in his SMV hurts her ego. I think a girl that hasn't considered a guy before and is aware that he's probably low-SMV but hasn't personally ranked him can therefore rise to a high SMV, get noticed, and get laid. But a guy with low SMV that she has pers…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 12:59 AM
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Just to give a more comprehensive answer than other people, you are in an abusive relationship. In addition, you are not happy with this person. You need to break up. And it will get ugly. You're not responsible for her well-being. She sounds BPD which is a massive red-flag on TRP. Why should you do it? You're unhappy, and you're trying to please someone that isn't reciprocating. You've fallen into the blue-pill trap that if you just work harder, give her gifts, etc. etc. that she will be happy.…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 12:51 AM
1

Women are children. It's not about being funny, it's about being amusing and silly. Think more like children's entertainer than stand-up comedian. We already know they lap up A&A so just A&A all the things and you'll be surprised at how well it works.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 12:29 AM
2

Only passively. If other people tag you in stuff on Facebook it's good for your SMV. If you post stuff yourself, it usually detracts from your SMV. I don't know about instagram but I suspect it will be similar. It's about the message it sends. Does this guy have a high social status? Is this guy trying too hard to make people think he has a busy life?
/r/askTRP29/04/18 09:30 PM
1

People are saying to befriend him. I agree. However I see your point, having met many chads before who have absolutely no interest in befriending or talking to any guy unless that guy's SMV is higher than themselves - usually authority figures, i.e. the DJ/owner in a club, some minor celebrity etc. In all honesty I'm not sure there's much that you can do but I'd be interested to know as well. My best guess would be the standard TRP response to your girl talking to a guy when you're out together …
/r/askTRP29/04/18 08:06 PM
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Need to lose the glasses as well, they REALLY don't suit that face. Either shop for a new pair, switch to contacts, or get LASIK.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 08:03 PM
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Read some material on pickup artistry. Some of it is magic tricks but a lot of it is solid advice on fostering a good bond with people you meet.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 08:02 PM
2

I don't think so, as I have never really met anyone that did. Have met some post wall 40+ though that understand some aspects of it, having come to very shaky terms with the fact that they think in the moment and that their emotions the next day may be entirely different. But although I've seen them acknowledge this, I haven't seen them actually do something constructive with the information.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 07:59 PM
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No problem, sorry I was kinda harsh. Find someone that likes you for you as you are, and work on improving yourself (your self-confidence, your hobbies/interests/social circle etc.) so that you don't feel you need to change yourself for others, and you'll be a prize catch, I'm sure. Anyone that seeks advice is already way ahead of the game. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 07:29 PM
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TL;DR: If I love a man the way he ideally wants a woman to love him, will he then commit to an LTR? No, because he wants someone that doesn't bow to their emotions and pander to his whims. It's what all guys want and what we never, ever get. Remember the old adage, "Men marry women hoping they won't change, women marry men hoping they will". Sadly women always become pliant and pandering, they become subservient and obedient and lose their sense of self and their own identity. By trying to chang…
/r/askTRP29/04/18 04:30 PM
1

Yup.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 04:25 PM
3

Have you tried being direct? It sounds like you're just being weird and evasive. You don't need to be cruel either. Just tell her straight up that you've moved on and would like to be only friends, and that you don't want any funny business happening anymore.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 03:18 PM
2

What it means is "I acted upon my emotions without caring about the consequences, and I've manufactured an excuse afterwards". I think women are just pre-disposed to act like this. It's female human nature. Which is why marriage is silly and abundance mentality is key.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 01:09 PM
2

Haha, I got this as well yesterday. It's a normal part of the process.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 10:23 AM
2

I think it depends what you want. I just started dabbling in plates and to be honest I don't really like it so far. I think I'd rather have one person with more of a connection, but at the same time I've never met a single person that I'd want to date for more than a few months.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 10:22 AM
6

You go through the 12 levels of dread.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 10:20 AM
1

No context, you can't get a good answer from the community. You'd have to say who this is. Is it your mom? A plate? Your LTR? Some random girl that you're orbiting?
/r/askTRP29/04/18 12:49 AM
1

Are you talking about daygame or when you're on a date? The advice of just saying hi is pretty decent, I think it's wise to put things into a sexual mindset from the start so I would say 'I thought you were cute so I wanted to say hi' right from the get go.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 12:44 AM
1

You'd think so, but not really. It baffles me as well.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 12:40 AM
1

Weird the conclusions people will jump to to make themselves feel some joy in a sense of superiority to others.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 12:39 AM
1

Thanks for sharing man, lucky you're off the dating apps because we'll be stealing all of your girls now ;) That is a nice opener though.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 04:42 PM
4

As other user says, need context. I'm not sure I can word this right but I'll have a go anyway: One tip for people is that never getting mad with a girl is beta behaviour, it is supplication. Ever read about those domestic violence incidents where she lashes out and the guy was just trying to be nice, possibly confused or upset that he can't seem to please her? It's usually a shit test because she wants you to get mad at her to prove you're a man. She wants you to stop supplicating and be domina…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 04:38 PM
1

I believe that close fitting t-shirts look good. I look good in a close fitting t-shirt and I don't have low bf. Despite being over 6 foot and not skinny I end up buying small or x-small. They're not skin-tight but they are a good snug fit. Otherwise yes, a white or black shirt with a cardigan, jumper etc. does look pretty good. I'd say it depends on the whole ensemble and what works for you though. You should perhaps check out /r/malefashionadvice as they can answer your question better. But I …
/r/askTRP27/04/18 04:05 PM
2

There are no exceptions in trp, there are only edge cases, where uncommon personality traits meet exceptional circumstances. Once the full picture is known, the outcome can always be predicted.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:48 PM
1

Aye but the opposite doesn't hold true either, seen some guys at my gym who are 6'3" and look proper stronk but with <6% bf yet they are totally beta, no way you'd ever use the word chad with them. Likewise I know a big overweight guy who goes to a regular social event I sometimes attend, everybody knows him and respects him, highest smv people there immediately greet him, people are in awe of him. I'd say he was closer to a chad, although I've never seen him publically game women so I couldn't …
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:46 PM
4

"My love for you is like diarrhea, I can't hold it in"
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:42 PM
1

I was going to say I'd probably just A&A ("Yeah you're right, I have no idea how the world works at all, I just know girls are weird and boys are icky") but my actual response when I get disrespected non-seriously (to be seriously disrespected is rare because I rarely take them seriously) is to say "Someone's getting a little cheeky! '<comment she just said>'? Really?" then I just grab her hair tightly and physically escalate (pin to a wall etc.) and make some dominant action, and growl 'is that…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:40 PM
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I would advise contacting the police on non-emergency as they have a lot of advice on this. An ex had problems with a former boyfriend stalking her online and she had a chat with them and it made her feel 100 times better. They created a record of her call and took the information. You should do this so that if something happens like she phones your boss and tells him you raped her or something you can point him to the police report you filed, and the texts you have kept+screenshotted+archived a…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:34 PM
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Never book anything far ahead. If they say something like oh I'm busy until next week you've got a 1% chance of meeting them. I usually say aight I'll text you next week but half the time I don't even bother as I know they've probably bailed.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:30 PM
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Make her cum so hard she’s practically begging for your dick Be careful with this as sometimes her problems are because she's sexually reserved, and immediately after you do this she can feel ridiculous guilt and it can make things worse. Hooked up with a chick like that once. Once.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:34 PM
2

You sound like a perfectly healthy 16 year old. Don't worry yourself about it.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 12:22 PM
14

I think it means you're both human...
/r/askTRP27/04/18 11:48 AM
3

This is the truth right here. I always thought FWB was some kind of thing you had to pull off at the start. Instead I realise it's basically just hooking up with a girl and not treating her like a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 11:31 AM
1

I see, this subreddit has nothing to do with the documentary, it's just a coincidence that they share the same name. You should check out /r/mensrights and associated subreddits.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 02:43 PM
1

What are you trying to achieve here? You should probably ask this on /r/mensrights and they'll give you some solid info. But arguing about that stuff will completely ostracize you from everyone and I wouldn't recommend it. People will literally hate you and shun you. It might not be worth it.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:27 AM
7

Never have dinner on the first date, or even the second date. After that I find my SMV is enough that I can just pay for whatever we do that day, and then she'll pay for dinner, or she'll get the next one. Last week I took a girl for a drive to zoo, and I paid, and afterwards we went to get food and she said while we were eating dessert that she was paying for it. It's not something I am really bothered about. I don't make a big thing about paying, I just shrug and give the impression I don't ca…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:21 AM
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Acknowledge your weaknesses and find ways to mitigate them. A lot of people will say man up and get disciplined. I think this works to an extent, but I think it's better to be smart. I have two main weaknesses, one, I am addicted to junk food. Two, I don't like lifting. Two isn't really true, I actually enjoy it, I just never do want to get started, to actually do it. If I ask on TRP what to do, people will say get disciplined. But I think that's poor advice, because I know already I should do i…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:45 PM
1

No girl gives a flying fuck what any guy looks like with or without their shirt off, once you've got their attention. The last girl I slept with I joked about how she didn't even know what my room looked like since it was dark when I pulled her up the stairs and into my bed. She wouldn't have a clue if my dick was painted bright yellow.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:05 PM
1

In fairy tales they're trapped in towers, basements, dungeons, enslaved by evil sisters, poisoned and stuck unconcious. It amounts to the same thing. Men are programmed to worship the ground women walk on and to cherish, protect, and fight for them, quite literally to death. It is why white knights exist. It's why the human race exists. We can't do those things though, as TRP shows us, because if we do women will take advantage of us and we'll be orbiters. But that guy, he gets to do it and keep…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 09:36 PM
5

This is literally a disney fairy tale. The helpless maiden who must be taken care of by the strong hero. She is completely dependent on him, and as TRP tells you a woman will do literally anything for you if your SMV is high enough. Well, that guy's SMV is infinite since she has no other options. So you can have that fairytale too if you find a girl with no option but yourself. I'll add that you should probably spend some time looking at the married trp subreddit. You'll see stories about people…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 09:26 PM
1

This is a complex question and there are a lot of things you need to do. But the main one is not to daygame girls to get their number and to get accepted by them. You should daygame girls only for your own entertainment, to see what happens, to amuse yourself. You'll get rejected a lot but that's kinda the idea. Think of a tech investor that puts $1,000,000 each into 10 different companies with the hope that one of them is the next google. He knows that at least one will be successful enough to …
/r/askTRP24/04/18 08:08 PM
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Directly? Absolutely nothing. Indirectly, through watching my parents? That he's a fucking soldier, working tirelessly in a job he didn't like right up until retirement for his family. That my mother is manipulative and ungrateful, and that marriage is a really, really, really, really bad idea.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 07:47 PM
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It's your lucky day because if you've read the sidebar you'll know that women are solipsistic. They live in the now, without thinking about the future, without thinking about cause and effect, without thinking about how to get what they want or even what they want, beyond their basic primitive emotions. So the thing that gives you the most chance with women is being what they want, and right there in front of them with a shit eating grin and a bunch of charm. You're not competing with anyone whe…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 07:38 PM
1

Aye, this is good standard advice. I actually want her to bring it up though so I can blow through all those shit tests and have it defined.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 07:31 PM
1

An IOI? You went full on creeper. Earlier a guy at my gym said a guy slapped his girl's ass at the weekend and he punched the guy's lights out. You're lucky she wasn't there with a white knight. While that tactic might work it's a stupid one.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 01:37 PM
2

A small solid gem of advice here. Good post.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 01:07 PM
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I love it when this happens. A girl I am seeing tried to force me to date her exclusively as she didn't want to see me if I was sleeping with other girls. Afterward blowing through her shit test she said that she went on a date with another guy. I said that's fantastic, hopefully he wasn't as much of a troublemaker as I am, since you clearly want someone like him whereas I am absolutely terrible for you. She said that he wasn't great and she probably wouldn't go on a second date. I said he proba…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:26 AM
1

Probably when I finally decided to go to this cheesy club night my friends wanted to go to. I'm too old for clubbing, everyone there is like 20-22 and I'm in my 30s. Three weeks in a row I pulled a hb8-9 20-22 year old and went back to her dorm. Once I realised I could do that so easily, I figured I could do anything. Shortly after, I ended up sleeping with three girls, two on the same day and one the next day and it all clicked. Not completely convinced that spinning plates is for me, I have a …
/r/askTRP24/04/18 09:45 AM
2

Hahaha I don't know why you've been downvoted this is the funniest reply. I'm totally stealing this.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 09:41 AM
2

So, what you've done wrong here is twofold. Firstly you've asked. Never ask, only lead. Secondly, while she had a positive emotional feeling with you at the time, she will have lost that emotional feeling ten minutes later. In order for her to go out with you you'll need to remind her of it. So you need to work on your text game a bit, you need to get her interested. It's similar to daygame except you need to be super concise and. I can't explain it all here in a message, but you should have lea…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 11:30 PM
1

This is correct, a girl hanging out with a guy a lot is generally an indicator that she's interested and wants to fuck him but there are plenty of exceptions. I mean, TRP theory hinges off not becoming the type of guy that girls use for validation, the beta orbiter. The word orbiter is used because most girls have several of them. I would never worry about a beta orbiter hanging around a girl unless he tries to sabotage your relationship. The dude may well have been friend-zoned at age 10 and th…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 11:13 PM
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Remember the golden rule, always add the words right now to everything a woman says. She thinks you're the one right now. And she thinks about you every second of the day right now. I guarantee that even with the best of intentions she'll meet another guy and fuck him within a month of you leaving, regardless of if you try to made LDR work or not.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 11:03 PM
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Objectively, I doubt what you are saying would actually be true. If you surveyed 100 women on the street at random, I would bet that they all say it's still cheating, unless they're one of those weird tumblr types. However if you survey 100 hamsters immediately after they're caught fucking their boss at work, your results will be highly different...
/r/askTRP23/04/18 11:00 PM
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This is an excellent response because it instantly disarms him. Any continuation of his behaviour just reinforces what you said. However as the poster below says, it is better not to hang around with this type of person if possible. My friends that I hang out with, we would wingman for each other, and if a guy looks like he's having success with a girl, we'll try to help him out by distracting her friends or giving him some social proof or whatever. The best response might be to get a better fri…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 10:57 PM
2

To answer your question you'll need to explain why she wanted space in the first place, and what you want. You say she's an LTR but you're treating her like a plate in your description of how you're handling her. If you're in an LTR you don't just abandon her and go fuck another girl. You apply some low level dread and amp it up. Sounds like you went kinda nuclear. Also calling your LTR a bitch is somewhat concerning.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 09:13 PM
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My advice to you is get a hobby you enjoy and get good at it. One of the hardest things I have to deal with in my 30s is the fact that while I'm decent at a lot of things, I'm not excellent at any one thing. All my life I've busted my ass on my career and now that I'm doing quite well and I have lots of free time I cannot sit back and enjoy the fruits of my labour because if I want to do something I have to go out and learn it. Like I thought about picking up the guitar, so I go and buy a guitar…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 09:08 PM
2

So much this, haha. If your SMV is decent enough she'll be internally riding the rollercoaster of paranoia and second-guessing the meaning of everything you say if you're applying a normal amount of dread. If your SMV drops it's easier to address that than to start rocking the boat, I think.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 09:01 PM
2

You need a couple of solid techniques, and a bunch of practice. Not sure if I've actually seen much of this in the sidebar, but I am sure it's out there. The secret weapon for success in conversation, which blew all other methods out of the water, is to first tease and then put yourself into a situation together, and escalate it. As an example, the other day I went on a date with a girl and I asked her what she did for fun. She said she liked to bake cakes. I said I fucking love cakes, you're hi…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 08:28 PM
1

I'll give you a bit more practical advice. You can toy with a girl with A&A etc. but occasionally you need to give her something that makes her think you do actually like her. The problem is a lot of people assume there is no way to do that, because for sure telling a girl how you feel about her in a romantic way is the fastest way to weld her vagina shut even if she feels like she appreciates it at the time. What you need to do is give her some comfort without dropping frame. Personally, in an …
/r/askTRP23/04/18 08:11 PM
1

Heh, if only you knew.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 05:23 PM
1

Girls are solipsistic. She will want your alpha dick and be happy with until her friends say the next day that the guy is creepy or whatever at which point she'll retroactively change her mind, send her hamster spinning and work out that if the guy was as creepy as her friends told her, that there's no way she could have slept with him and she'll just decide she was assaulted/raped/forced/tricked etc. She'll suck your dick to get what she wants until it makes her look bad.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 02:48 PM
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Don't sweat it man, it seems clear to me she doesn't realise the impact of what she said, and I can guarantee that unless you invited her over, fucked her for 2 minutes then rolled over and went to sleep, that she meant it in a positive way. I'd likely have the exact same reaction as you. I'd handle it properly but inside it would slightly fuck with my head. Just remember, as other people have said, it's not about going on for hours, she'll have a better time if you throw her around like a toy a…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:50 PM
1

I might, but I'd pause first to build up some tension. If you read the sidebar you'll know that if they turn away it's yet another shit test anyway to see how you react, so you just play it cool pull her in, whisper something, build some tension and go for it again. Never force it though, never get annoyed or sulky. It's just a game. Once you've played it a few times you'll realise how easy it is. You can't go completely off a script.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 11:41 AM
1

If they're young (and if it's ONSes, even if they're not) they are probably just riding their solipsism / the CC into the sunset and will fuck things they like and then discard them. They won't order a pizza but if there's one on the table and they're hungry, they will eat it. So chances are they just don't really care, you were the pizza on the table, right place right time. Text game for this situation has to be pretty tight, you basically need to get her to feel a strong emotion, then tell he…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 10:18 PM
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Usually I just dance away myself or with my bros. If I see someone looking usually I just ignore them completely, they tend to go away and come back again, the ones that are looking so early in the night tend to be validation hunters. Once things are a bit later, I'll just approach them, dance with them a bit, then make out with them. It really is that simple. It goes exactly, EXACTLY, the same every time, I could print out a flow chart it's so predictable and easy. I'll give you the exact scrip…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 10:11 PM
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I disagree, I think he is a good example. Problem is when you're that successful and you have that much power you want more and to pull alpha moves that make you feel like the fucking incredible hulk. My idea of pulling an alpha move when I was billy beta was when I was able to kiss a girl. Alpha moves that get me going now are convincing a girl with a killer body half my age to bring me back to her place from a club. If I was at Weinstein levels of power, anything short of banging a schoolbus f…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 09:57 PM
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You are correct, #2 is not necessarily beta. You get people like ron jeremy who are ugly as fuck and get laid all the time. However for most people, to avoid being beta you need to have a sense of personal pride and mission, which means you have to work hard and lift. For most of us, if you are not physically strong looking then you are already far down the ladder of success. You might not be technically beta but you're right next to them.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 09:52 PM
2

Most likely your text-game is terrible. I have a mate like this. We both pulled and took girls back to his place. The next day I asked him if he still talked to her and said he was texting her quite a bit. That's when I knew he'd have no chance. Suspicions were confirmed a couple of days later when she ghosted him. The girl I fucked tried to add me on facebook a few days later (she legit didn't have a phone on account of losing it repeatedly, which makes sense considering she got shit faced and …
/r/askTRP22/04/18 09:45 PM
1

Lift. Make lifting part of your life, now, and it will make you a god.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 09:42 PM
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Red-pilled guy, yep. Dude was straight up ugly as sin and alpha as fuck. Could talk to anyone male or female and they'd be enamoured. Nicest guy I've ever met, also dangerous as fuck, served hard time. Insisted on buying the rounds. Could tell a story that got everyone involved. Banged more girls half his age than I've even met. Had a smoke-show partner that was clearly up for doing all the kinkiest shit you can imagine, constantly teased her about the attention he always got wherever he went. G…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 09:31 PM
1

The question is framed incorrectly. It's like asking how you can love your dog knowing it will one day die. You have a choice, you can ignore the fact it will die one day and give it all of your love, and be heartbroken. Or you can keep it in mind every day and maybe have two or three dogs so that if one dog passes away, it is less of a shock. It's up to you.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 09:21 PM
2

No problem dude, just keep practicing and you will find what works for you. Practice in every situation not just dating. You'll be surprised by how effective A&A can be. Even if you can't think of something clever and say something a little weak, as long as you have confidence it works like magic on girls.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 05:45 PM
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Yes, there is more to it but A&A is a type of teasing. You're demonstrating that what she's saying doesn't affect you, instead it's kinda cute and you're not taking it seriously. You are a king and she is the peasant that lives in the village. This is what she wants, this is what she expects, and this is why she shit tests you to make sure you are still the king. Remember that although you are belittling what she says, you are not angry, or mean, or cruel, you just think it's amusing like she is…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 04:16 PM
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It is a beta move. Life is a game of chess with many pieces. Other pieces will move in and try to take your girl. Your only weapon is your SMV and abundance mentality. It's not just a "willingness to walk away", it's also literally walking away. Your turn can be up at any time.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 02:06 PM
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Never, ever self-deprecate, unless in response to a shit test AND you make it eye-rollingly obvious. Also if this is text, never say 'haha', never use exclamation marks, try to never use question marks. If it's verbal then don't break frame, everything you say should be delivered as a confident fact. It's often great to deliver lines without smiling or laughing or showing it's a joke. The idea is to make her 99% sure it's a joke but 1% not sure. That wakes up the hamster. Girl: I am sure you hav…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 02:01 PM
2

Never ask. Only command. If you don't know when, tell her to give you her schedule for the next few days. If you know when, tell her to meet you at bar x near your place at 7pm. Have a pleasant evening then invite her back to yours to examine your collection of antique clocks.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 01:50 PM
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"I'm a super spicy curry, I'm hot and not many people can handle me"
/r/askTRP19/04/18 01:22 PM
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