What a bitter pill..

Docbear64 · 2017-09-04T01:33:47+00:00

If you invest in a woman to be happy then you're making an investment for the wrong reason . Uncle V says it best women are a lagging indicator, women are drawn to success like moths drawn to flame or lightbulb . They don't help the light to shine any brighter they are just there for the warmth and energy it provides .

You have to be the baseline of happiness in your life. If a dog , a house , and the comfort and security of yourself is what it takes to reach that baseline then that should be your goal .

Because even if the most perfect woman came into your life and left it you'd still only be able to truly depend on the man you see in the mirror.

VVingless · 2017-09-04T02:51:25+00:00

One problem I have with the Red Pill Philosophy (I don't subscribe to it as an ideology, you should still think for yourself) is that it implies that you should always pursuing women. The problem with this is that sex and relationships sometimes that aren't important for us at certain parts of our life.

If you find yourself rarely checking out women, not giving a fuck about the dates you go on, and feeling totally unfulfilled from having sex with new women, it's proof positive that women generally do nothing to bring a sense of contentment to your life. I learned this this year, after having the most sex with the most attractive women in my life, I felt completely numb and apathetic after sex.

Women (with rare exceptions) do nothing to improve the quality of your life. Perhaps you should focus on self-development and when you have your shit together, pursue women as a side-hobby, if you're interested. But remember that you don't have to give a shit about them. Sometimes it may help to emphasize them and focus on yourself. I know this sounds very MGTOW-like, but it lacks the bitterness and fear/hatred of rejection that many of them seem to have. Rejections don't even affect me anymore because I've realized that my happiness is paramount and women need not always be a part of it.

mrHappyPotatoe · 2017-09-04T01:44:53+00:00

Yeah. Love doesnt exist. Bukowski said it well. Love is like morning fog that burns with first daylight.

Dog is better bet!

Il128 · 2017-09-04T09:28:13+00:00

Never ever live for women or a woman.

You focus on you. You make you happy.

All else comes after that.

Men are like rain in the desert for women. When she has one she blooms and when he's dried up she waits for another.

Women do nothing for you other than from time to time, you get to see one flourish, but never forget that, that's all she gives you.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-09-04T01:29:09+00:00

You figured it all out. They're just complements to a man's life, nothing more.

listen_more · 2017-09-04T01:29:40+00:00

You learned the rules to the game. Play how you like now.

oldredder · 2017-09-04T13:42:21+00:00

truth. Most women are not worth investing in. When guys figure that out and use them and refuse to invest those women get mad but unlike men who DO realize they need to improve who they are, women stubbornly refuse to believe they can or should improve and that's the end of it.

Title	What a bitter pill..
Author	JeffreyDoe
Upvotes	4
Comments	16
Date	September 4, 2017 1:19 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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