Sorry in advance for the big paragraph, need some good honest advice here though.

The same thing keeps happening with any Woman I get close to, they won't go out with me, but at the same time they are absolutely crazy about me and get obsessed with me. Literally last Woman this happened with she has been stalking me and because I refuse to give her attention anymore whenever she just happens to 'bump' into me she will cry and beg for me to be back in her life etc. I've spoken to my friends about this a few times and they seem to think that Woman get scared of committing to me because of who I am, I'll explain all this now.

(I'm a really modest guy and I hate to talk about myself like this, but for you guys to understand I need to explain). I'm 20 years of age, musician, don't get me wrong, i'm a nobody in music, been on the radio a couple times, but woman love musicians right? I also run a videography business where I film bands and Live gigs, due to this I get to hang out with famous people from time to time, even befriended a couple. Where I am from i'm also a very well known and highly respected person too, because as my friends would say i'm a bit of a 'unique individual'. I dress 'different' is one way to put it, kind of person you wouldn't forget, but in a good way. I get a lot of woman after me, whenever I go out to bars etc all eyes are usually on me, often when I walk in a bar I will hear people mutter that 'I could fuck anyone in the room'. I wouldn't say i'm an amazing looking guy, above average, honestly not in great shape, not fat or anything but not toned either, but the way I dress definitely makes up for this. I would say i'm naturally an alpha too, I don't even mean to or think about it, just the way I act and talk, everyone hangs on every word I say pretty much all the time, even if I were to say start talking to a random group of guys, right away they will all hang on every word I say.

I've tried to condense that as much as possible while still hopefully painting the picture. Due to this my friends think Woman get scared of committing to me, I can bed plenty of woman, but that isn't what i'm looking for. I want a relationship and this is where the problems occur. My friends say because of my whole image and I get a lot of woman after me etc it scares Woman into actually getting closer with me because they think i'll get bored and go out with someone else etc because of how easily I could find another girl?

To me this just sounds stupid, I always thought Woman would want to go out with a successful guy, so I must be doing something wrong, I just can't gather what. Any insight would be great.