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My point is though, aren't these types of games just immature? if two people were secure in themselves they wouldn't need to do these types of games/play on insecurity to keep attention etc
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:26 AM
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I'll be honest, that is what i'm feeling it is, would you say it is best to not bother with these types of people? I'm an open and honest person, that is why I tried to sort to see her again, I would like to see her again, but at the same time if I didn't see her it would not bother me, so I definitely wouldn't say she's got me, the whole time she has been the one chasing after me. I just like things to be straight forward instead, you wanna see me? cool, you don't wanna see me? that's also cool…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:08 AM
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Once you get on your purpose in life & start being successful, you get an abundance mindset & sex becomes readily available. Once sex becomes readily available you realise how little it's actually worth....
/r/askTRP27/03/20 07:47 PM
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If she's lying to you, then she clearly has something to hide....i'm not saying she is cheating, but still, if she had nothing to hide then she would not feel the need to lie which suggests she is up to something. If this was purely about her career why would she hide it from you? I'd walk away while you still have your dignity and head held up high, fuck the trip....
/r/askTRP03/02/20 01:43 PM
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I was out having a catch up with friends, we ended up in a club because we decided to stay out longer than expected so it was the only place for us to go at the time, i'm not gonna cut that short for a woman. My aim for the night was to catch up with friends and have fun with them, so that's what I stuck to, I only approached the girl and got her number because she came dancing over to me after eye fucking me the whole night, I didn't go out of my way to her.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 11:37 PM
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That's the plan dude, I was just wondering if i'm right in thinking this 'boyfriend' business is just a fake boyfriend shit test, I hear about it a lot and see it get mentioned here a lot, just never personally experienced it before.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:04 PM
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I don't agree with this, slept with plenty of woman from getting their number in a club, if you give a good enough impression/high enough smv it still happens.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:02 PM
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I just didn't think she would be so overt about it if that was the case, but yes, definitely a possibility
/r/askTRP24/01/20 09:59 PM
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Take note of this, great advice imo
/r/askTRP24/01/20 05:45 PM
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If you have to spend your valuable time playing childish games, then she is clearly not ltr material....
/r/askTRP08/11/19 03:06 PM
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Ok, if that's the case and how you feel about it, then just go through with it dude. At the end of the day she needs to take responsibility for her actions, this is the case for this.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:51 PM
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If an ltr ever done that to me that, she wouldn't see me again, not without a good apology and making up for acting like a child....if this was an on going problem though, I would definitely break up with her, anyone who puts up with that regularly can't stand on their own two feet....
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:46 PM
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I wouldn't let the money go, but if you honestly are in no rush to get the money and don't need it, why not maybe wait until the new year for her starting to pay you back? You honestly shouldn't care what she thinks about you either, she is clearly a piece of shit, lending all that money then doing a runner....
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:36 PM
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I can see where you are coming from, makes sense, guess it all boils down to what each individual values the most etc.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 09:11 PM
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Obviously people over-exaggerate it on here, it's the internet, people over exaggerate everything, but if you are high enough smv, you will get woman after you without approaching, of course you will get more woman putting effort in and approaching yourself, but you are lying to yourself if you think having a good smv won't get a decent amount of woman after you without approaching etc. Whenever I go out to either a party or clubbing etc, more often than not I will get several woman coming onto …
/r/askTRP07/11/19 07:52 PM
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If you invited her out and she goes home with another dude, if you have any self respect, don't call them again. Yeah, it's cool for them to fuck other people, they aren't your LTR, but if she was that interested in you and respected you, when you invite her out, she wouldn't be doing that...
/r/askTRP05/11/19 07:10 PM
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Confidence doesn’t come from knowing you’re better than everyone. It comes from not needing to prove yourself as you’re comfortable with who you are. That right there, that's what more people need to get, couldn't put it better myself if I tried!
/r/askTRP02/11/19 06:21 PM
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The only time you have a chance of something like this is if THEY hit YOU back up, if you just ghost for a bit then re-connect, never going to happen. As mentioned by other people, you really shouldn't be ghosting for this purpose, if you ghost and an opportunity comes up, takes it if you feel like it at the time, but that should not be the goal here....
/r/askTRP28/10/19 02:30 PM
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At the end of the day, it is your life, you choose what you wish to do in your life, that's the point in most of this, being able to stand on your own two feet and being able to make logical/rational decisions... personally I wouldn't live with an ltr, I like to see an ltr WHEN I wish to put time aside for her and IF I feel like it, living with one would completely remove the ability to do that, then I would end up hating her seeing her that often. After a long day of work, having time to unwind…
/r/askTRP27/10/19 06:18 PM
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Yeah, just seems like an odd situation to me, she cheated on me, so I guess you could say in a way 'discarded' me although I done the breaking up, whatever, I moved on. She's been with quite a few guys since then, but then her actions say she hasn't/can't move on even after going out with other people, odd way to go about things. Not the first time this has happened with her, literally any time we happen to bump into eachother she is like this....
/r/askTRP27/10/19 05:10 PM
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Don't think you read the post right, I never said anything about approaching her... I literally said I was 'somewhat dismissive' - she approached me and ignored her date for most of the night trying to get my attention...she went out of her way to approach me several times...
/r/askTRP27/10/19 03:39 AM
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I get that, but shouldn't she be focused on getting attention off of her 'date'? Or she could try and get attention from literally any other guy there...
/r/askTRP27/10/19 01:40 AM
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Complete waste of time, near enough everything you can learn on an 'art' based degree you can learn online for free. You don't need a qualification to get paid for anything that is art based, you need a portfolio to show off to potential clients of what you can do. I run a successful music video business, not once has someone asked to see a qualification to 'prove' I can shoot a video, my work speaks for itself, it's the same case with any art form. On top of that, most art degrees are bullshit …
/r/askTRP26/10/19 11:20 PM
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There are people that are trustworthy, albeit, it can be hard to find, but that's what vetting is for
/r/askTRP05/10/19 01:10 PM
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Confidence comes from within yourself, at your core, until you gain true confidence and belief in yourself as a person you will not understand this. It took me a good few years and a lot of self development and improvement to truly understand and appreciate this. Having achievements and being good at something obviously helps with confidence and can help reinforce your confidence even more, but if that's all you have to stand on, then you are easily broken, like a house built on sand and will ne…
/r/askTRP04/10/19 12:43 PM
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If you don't have confidence in yourself, why would anyone else have confidence in you? You may not notice it or see it, but when you lack confidence you give off negative energy and vibes, even if you don't mean to, people can subconsciously sense this, completely changes how people see you.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:37 PM
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At the time I believed the whole bs about teen years being the best of your life and I understand why a lot of people say that, you really do have a lack of responsibility and can party all the time, pretty much do whatever you want (withing reason ofc). I definitely enjoyed my teen years, i'm in my early 20's now, even though I enjoyed my teen years, I definitely enjoy life a lot more now, but that's because I decided to go against the grain and pursue my dreams which has lead to experiences mo…
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:08 PM
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This is just child-ish, makes me think of something a stupid teen would do, not a man that actually has a life. A girl does something you don't like so you go out of your way on purpose to play games and talk to other woman and hiding her phone? You should be putting your time and energy into improving your life and achieving your goals, not playing touch and go with some girl that is clearly a distraction to your life. This girl is clearly just not ltr material, any girl that was true ltr mater…
/r/askTRP03/10/19 01:37 PM
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It's not fun being stalked...
/r/askTRP03/10/19 12:51 PM
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She's clearly wanting to fuck other guy's, I know this may be hard to accept since you have been with her for a short while, but let's be honest, would you be wanting to text girls if you weren't looking to fuck them? She's using the whole, you can fuck other women to hamster in her head that what she is doing is perfectly fine 'well I told him he can have sex with other girls, so i'm sure it's fine if I just sleep with xxx on a one off'. I wouldn't even plate her, that still gives her the impre…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 02:04 PM
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Completely agree on this, if you have to go through the effort of constantly reminding your ltr she is below you and telling her you forbid certain actions, then you shouldn't be with her. You just naturally being you should show that she is below you because of your smv and how you go about life and a girl that is ltr worthy you wouldn't need to sit her down and tell her what she can and can't do. Again, this should be natural and if she does start doing things you are against, leave, because t…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:24 PM
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Going out with the mindset of purely just wanting to find and pull girls sounds boring and depressing, should be going out to have fun with your friends. Plus, if you have decent smv, you don't need to chase/hunt women, they will come to you when you are out doing your own thing with your friends and having fun. This will never happen with your current mindset though, not to sound like an asshole, but they can smell the desperation, instant turn off. Only time I find myself in a club is if I am …
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:58 AM
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She lied because she was trying to impress you and put it across that she is similar to you, we're wired to like things/people that seem familiar to us, even if we don't realise it. Clearly she had a thing for you if she was doing this. Personally I find this a massive turn off though, if someone is that insecure in themself they need to lie to impress you, then they probably don't have much going for themself.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 03:41 PM
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Completely get where you are coming from here, been feeling this the past couple of years, I still have plenty of friends and would be considered a popular person, but I feel most conversations are pointless and a lot of things feels forced, have no desire to meet new friends or learn about people. It's to the point where the only time I really want to talk to someone is when I feel there is a reason, say it is to do with my goal for example or making business connections. I think the problem is…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 01:33 AM
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Yeah, I generally have been trying to just leave them to it type of thing, but every now and then my friend will push me to the front of it all and try to get me involved, that's how we ended up arguing, I tried staying out of it all, but he brought it to me. He clearly believes her that I dislike her, for still an un-known reason, the girl can't even come up with a reason herself for why I dislike her... My friend will randomly just ask me on the spot what I think of her, I think he does this b…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:49 PM
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Yeah, that's probably the best thing to do...he currently thinks they'll be together forever.... Speaking of this, how would you say is the best way to redpill someone? Tell them to look certain things up or just best explaining things to them in person when i'm around them etc? Got another friend who I think could really do with redpill, just never been sure on how to go about it without forcing it on him etc.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:30 PM
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Yeah, 100% agree on this, my friend doesn't get much female attention and now all of a sudden a girl that is giving him pussy on the regular, he is head over heels for her, he is pussy whipped, i've even told him this, he got really upset when I said it to him...
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:04 PM
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This guy has been my closest friend for the past few years, so of course i'm gonna pay some attention to it if some girl is causing a situation like this. I think most people would pay attention in a situation like this. If it was just an average mate then I wouldn't care and i'd just cut them off, cut plenty of people out of my life the past few years, but this isn't a friend I could just cut off like that.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:02 PM
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Woman want a man, not a pre-teen, if you want to, trim, but shaving it is a no go
/r/askTRP11/09/19 01:34 PM
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She's a high value woman which means she only dates and sleeps with high value men and will be extremely selective who she sleeps with due to this. She is clearly interested, but she is seeing if you are high value enough and have what it takes to go out with a girl like her
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:34 PM
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Not sure what the situation is like where you are from, but here in England, honestly degrees are worth fuck all, learning a trade is a lot better. A short while back, say maybe 10+ yrs ago, yeah, degrees where the thing to get, but the majority of young people nowadays go to university, because now it is so common, it is worthless. Problem is most young people don't realise this, from such a young age it is drilled into our heads to get a degree and you will get a good job, personally I am yet …
/r/askTRP07/09/19 04:19 PM
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I was just saying in general treating someone different is always going to gain someone's attention, but it's a childish approach in this situation, but it's the exact approach in this case the girl is taking, but as woman are overgrown children it's unfortunately the way it goes, not saying op should do the same back. From personal experience any woman that act this way is usually worth staying away from, it's down to lack of confidence and lack of character. Woman like this you will notice whe…
/r/askTRP05/09/19 01:32 AM
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In your early 20's it's actually easy as most people in western culture at that age are not fully established as an adult, they're either a student with some shitty part time job, or just got out of university and are in a shitty part time job attempting to find a good job with their degree. Most of them dress shitty and lack any sort of identity too, they all dress the same, share the same views, forgettable people tbh. Of course what i described there isn't every person in that age group, but …
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:20 PM
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I'd say she wants to fuck you, general rule of thumb I have noticed from personal experience, if a girl for no reason at all treats you differently from everybody else, be it in a good way or bad way, usually because they have a thing for you/wanna fuck you. Her acting this way is probably due to her being nervous, feeling awkward and on top of that, unsure of how you feel back, so what's the no.1 way of getting someone's attention? Treat 'em different, it's a very childish and silly approach...…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:12 PM
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Because we all want to be tied down for the rest of our lives and waste our time, sounds great!
/r/askTRP24/08/19 11:47 PM
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Oddly enough, she took responsibility, I think it was down to the situation though. She didn't tell me about the cheating, I found out quickly because i'm a fairly well known guy, so if people see the girl i'm going out with doing some shady stuff, people let me know. At first I was unsure if it was true, but a few sources told me, so right away I just broke up with her and completely removed her from my life, that was it, no drama, just bam, done. I think she was so shocked by my actions, most …
/r/askTRP24/08/19 11:31 PM
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The only reason you should become famous is because you have done something that has added to the world and are getting recognition for that, fame for the sake of being famous is not good, sounds very self absorbed and probably won't end well.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 12:48 AM
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Yeah, you're right, I think that is the problem, lack of alphas in society, I think I just find it strange because I didn't mean to or try to become an alpha/have an alpha mindset or any of that sort, I've just always tried being myself, so I guess I naturally have alpha traits and people see that right away and want to cling onto it. I've met plenty of people trying to be alpha, but honestly, now that i'm thinking about it, as of yet i've only really met one other true alpha and we just instant…
/r/askTRP15/08/19 10:17 PM
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The problem is all of these situations I am thrown into to lead, I don't care about, I have my mission in life and that is what I am actively working towards, so when I am not working on my mission I want to be able to rest my mind, not get thrown into leading my social group.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 06:14 PM
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The problem is I am 21 years of age, pretty much everyone around my age is either a student or just got out of uni but can't actually do anything with their degree. It just seems like there is a total lack of ambition and aim with most people around my age, a lot of people say they're going to do things, but they don't.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 06:08 PM
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That's exactly it, it just feels like ever since this started happening, a few years back now, it has changed me as a person, some good ways, I'm a lot wiser now and I think it has made me realise a lot of things in life, but I feel a lot more distant from people now and a lot less inclined to even talk to people. It's something I am starting to come to terms with and slowly getting used to, it's just strange as no-one else I know has experienced this so nobody really understands or gets what is…
/r/askTRP15/08/19 06:02 PM
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Yeah, that's it, I don't like the way people constantly look to me to lead them, it's not as if I have my own things to be trying to figure out. It really makes me try and take a back seat a lot of the time these days in socials situations to avoid this as it stops me from relaxing, but it doesn't make a difference....it's not that leading people scares me, it's the fact that people rely on it and expect it from me constantly, even if it's nothing to do with me, people will look to me for approv…
/r/askTRP15/08/19 01:46 AM
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Doesn't like a fun position to be in, I wish the best of luck to you!
/r/askTRP15/08/19 01:00 AM
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You must be reacting to his treatment in one way or another that is giving him a kick. Giving the new guy a bit of a hazing for the first couple weeks is pretty standard until they settle, but a year on and he's still doing shit to you? That generally wouldn't happen if you weren't giving him something to get a kick from it, I could be wrong, just seems uncommon though, most people would have gotten bored after a year if you weren't doing something and entertaining him somehow. I'm not judging y…
/r/askTRP04/08/19 01:13 AM
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What i'm reading from this is you are both alpha wannabe's. He was the 'alpha' in the office with no competition before you joined, now you have joined he has seen you may be able to compete with him. Problem is neither of you are alpha, just trying, any true alpha would not be phased by his actions which would lead to him eventually bowing down to you. P.s. - you don't need to lift to be alpha, we are no longer cave men, alpha is mind set. Any true alpha doesn't worry about if he is or not the …
/r/askTRP03/08/19 07:42 PM
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The problem with a lot of advice people give on here and telling you what to do is it still boils down to trying to get more interest from women, that's the problem here. If the reason behind you doing these things was to get interest from women, you are always going to feel insecure. For example, working out so you look good, but if the reason you are doing this is so you get attention from more/better women and not because you genuinely want to do it for yourself and you enjoy it, it's somewha…
/r/askTRP03/08/19 07:27 PM
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From personal experience the two most important things when creating a business is having a good usp (unique selling point) and good people skills. At the end of the day, no matter what business you do, no matter how niche it may or not be, there will always be competition, so firstly, why would people come to your business or pay for your services vs the competition that will already be established and proven them self to the world. Within the world of business you are going to be thrown into a…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:50 PM
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If you just focus on your mission and are successful at it you will find you don't need to chase women, women will approach and chase you as they will see that you have something going on that most men don't, also you will gain a natural confident boost from being a success which you may or may not notice but women sure as hell do. Never chase a woman over being a success, but I would also say, it depends what you are doing to gain money? Does it make you happy? I suggest figuring out how to be …
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:04 PM
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Yeah, i've had similar replies from women in the past, in some ways I believe it and it makes sense, but at the same time if someone was that good wouldn't you try your best to stay with them instead of losing them?
/r/askTRP10/07/19 10:24 PM
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I don't understand why you would go on a date with a girl if you don't think she is worth fucking or are going to try and fuck her, sounds like wasted time and money... But definitely always put your mission first before women in any circumstance.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 10:53 PM
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If you're a good catch and not a fanny, women will chase after you. I know it's strange at first, first few times it happened to me I was a little 'wtf' about it, but now it's the norm for me to get women coming onto me when I go out to bars. At first it was exciting and made me feel somewhat cocky as I never really see this happening with other people, now it's more of an annoyance so I just shrug them off unless they do something in particular that gets my interest.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 10:37 PM
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Yeah, it's an obvs read flag which I knew straight away, just threw me off as she is a stripper, that is another obvs red flag and makes her not suitable for an ltr. I just thought in that situation she would not be so quick to jump to the gun so to speak as with that kind of job she would get a lot of male validation so wouldn't be so quick to try and lock me down type of thing.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 10:19 PM
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explain if you could please? I'm just intrigued by it is all
/r/askTRP27/06/19 12:00 AM
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Just treat them as you would a stranger, or a friend of a friend. If you have already called them out for their shit and made how you feel clear there is no need to do it any more, unless they do some other shit ofc, as I said, form now on, just treat them as a stranger/friend of a friend/someone that lacks any relevance to you, just be civil with them. By by no means let them mistake this as you wanting to be friends, do them no favours or go out of your way to make conversation with them, just…
/r/askTRP02/06/19 09:41 PM
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Platonic friendships with women are definitely a waste of time, even just as friends, drama is waiting around the corner. Acquaintances and the likes are ok, but you will never truly be able to have a friendship with a women like one of your male friends, it's just a fact. When I was young and naive in my teen years I thought otherwise and had shared a few 'friendships' with females, it later come to realization the only reason any of these women actively seeked my 'friendship' was because they …
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:01 PM
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We are not cavemen, social status and confidence trumps all... I've had plenty of experiences that have proven this to be true.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:30 PM
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As a few people have already pointed out, it's not very common for women to approach. If you want women to approach you, give them a reason why. What makes you any different, better, stand out to the tons of other guys about? You have to remember the amount of options most women have, so unless there is something stand out about you that people can grasp from the get go, why would they bother putting themselves out there to approach you when they know there are plenty of other guys willing to ap…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 02:22 PM
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haha, you've said exactly what I have been thinking for such a long time. I think there is a lot of valuable and interesting information that gets posted on here, but I also think if a lot of people on here put in the same amount of time/effort doing shit with their lives than chasing after thots they could be successful. Not here saying no-one on here is successful and does fuck all with their lives, but the amount of effort I read some people putting into chasing multiple women etc, dating sev…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 12:32 AM
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You can make life whatever you want it to be, in my opinion I think it's pretty pointless to live a mediocre life where you are just so to speak 'surviving' not really 'living'. Most people take the route of a mediocre life because it's a lot simpler and mind numbing, doesn't take much effort, just turn your brain off and follow the instructions society gives you. I can definitely see why people take this route, the lack of stress and worry compared to taking the real risks involved when attempt…
/r/askTRP12/08/18 02:29 AM
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Yeah, honestly I know what you're saying here, i'm extremely picky when it comes to woman...my friends even moan at me for it...why settle for less though? Whenever I have feelings for a woman and wanted to be closer to them I haven't exactly planned it, it just kinda happened...then what i said happens...I guess maybe I go too easy on Woman when i 'fall' for them. In the past I have purposely not been so easy on them for this reason and in the end they get annoyed at me for being 'hard to get' …
/r/askTRP12/08/18 12:26 AM
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Calibration? Could you expand on this please?
/r/askTRP11/08/18 02:47 PM
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I know the feeling dude, feel like you've described me down to a T. For me it's usually I just don't find most people interesting enough or feel close enough to them to have deep conversations with them. With my very close friends, so maybe 2 or 3 people I can sit and chat all day, anybody else though is just what you described. I find I just don't see the point with most people as I don't see the point as they aren't close to me, as harsh as it sounds, due to this I just don't care about then f…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 12:39 AM
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If she wants to meet up, just go for it, fuck worrying about no fap, Good luck.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:08 AM
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If she's into you, either one should be fine, maybe going for dinner could put a lot of pressure on her though? Depends how well you two are acquainted already, if you two know each other fairly well already and have hung out a lot before then going for dinner should be fine. If you haven't spoken much before though I would maybe suggest something a little more casual and low pressure. Good luck either way dude!
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:05 AM
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Definitely, my friends will often ask me how I can tell a women is interested in me so quickly as they don't quite realise this, it's something you will pick-up on more and more each time it happens.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:56 PM
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I'd try not to worry about it too much and just take it on the chin. When you're doing something right in life you're always going to find people hating on you but equally you will find people that support you. The people trying to put you down fear that you are above them, people get bitter and can't accept these things so they try to put people down, just laugh and petty them and their insecure mindset and worry about more important things in life.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:19 AM
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A harsh sounding truth right here.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:12 AM
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I wouldn't get so caught on being part of one of these 'high status' groups, they're honestly never as great as you think they might be. I understand where you are coming from though, you want to hang around with the popular people, be considered 'cool' etc. But of course you can never realise any of this until you experience it for yourself, that's what life is about eh? You say you have at least one person in each of these groups you are cool with, i'd start there. It's all about social networ…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:47 AM
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Girls don't want a nice guy but from what you're describing here you're trying too hard and people can see this so people see it as being a dick. You need to learn to just act naturally, girls love teasing and boldness, I would suggest trying to be a bit more laid back. It's good to be assertive and bold, but learn to know where the line is and if you are trying too hard, only way you can get away with real bold moves is if it comes off completely naturally, not as if you are trying to be someth…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:54 PM
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I think both of these points are fairly valid in one way or another, I agree with the point of an alpha in not being afraid of anyone in the room. At the same time though in a fresh social circle if you come on 'too strong' people sometimes don't take it too well. At the same time though I don't think it's too much of a wise move to do things just to appease the 'alpha' in that group, as soon as you do that, you will be written off as below him, but it is also the 'safe' option. Just hold strong…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:38 PM
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From personal experience what i've found is these type of people are just jealous. They usually try so hard to be 'somebody' and get noticed and it never really works because they're just a try hard. Then when they see people who can go through life just being their natural self and having a strong frame, due to this usually being a popular person but without being a try hard, they hate it. They wish that they could do that and it makes them feel insecure that they can't do that. I don't very of…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 02:37 PM
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True that, just really frustrating when you see this going on constantly, I put it down to immaturity.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 02:39 AM
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I'll be honest here, didn't read the big load of text, firstly I will say as most people will agree, the last thing you want is to chase after an 'attention whore' - they're a waste of time. To answer your question though, if you want her to regain interest in you, ignore her, stop giving her your attention. Any time I have done this, with enough time they always come running to me, but honestly, they aren't worth your time, i'd suggest moving on.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:45 AM
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I know the feeling dude, been in similar situation may of times, just don't put her on a pedestal. I get it, you guys really click so you are afraid of possibly doing something wrong and losing her etc, unlike the other girls you didn't click with, hence why you are alpha around them, as losing them doesn't mean anything to you. As hard as it is, you just gotta not put her on a pedestal. All things will seem fine at first, but eventually she will see this and take advantage of the situation and …
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:45 PM
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There's no way to tell for sure unless you go and ask her, but I would say it's more than likely the case she has something against you for not going out with her. If that's the case, she doesn't hate you, more the fact you not going out with her hurt her ego, I wouldn't take it personal, just what people are like. Just carry on acting 'normal' with her, the way you always do and don't let it effect you, with enough time everything with figure itself out. Plus, at the end of the day, it's her pr…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 11:57 PM
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When I realised life is just too short and to follow my goal/purpose in life in life I had to not give a fuck and go for it. Possible failure is scary, but what's worse is never going for it in the first place, you are forever left with 'what if?'
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:03 PM
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Don't put them on a pedestal/treat them like anything special. Don't be afraid to tease them and call them out on shit either - these woman constantly have guys running after them doing whatever they can in hopes of a fuck, but if you can truly portray to them you don't give a fuck and you're higher than them, but without being an asshole, then they will notice you and you will get their attention. The key is to not try too hard in the not giving a fuck, that's how most people fuck up. They try …
/r/askTRP25/04/18 02:53 PM
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