Three part question.

1) What constitutes pedestalization?

2) Also, what differentiates it from supplication?

3) Personal application. I know a hot tomboyish girl and I the thought of her makes me want to get stronger and fitter than her so I can pin her down and absolutely dominate her in bed. I haven't seen other girls as fit as her yet but they would also be on the menu if they appeared.

Apart from consciouslt adding value to myself + approaching + maintaining a constant stream of teasing with the other women I know, how can I protect myself to prevent this from straying into dangerous pedestalization and/or oneitis territory?