What did I do wrong here

WIA20XX · 2019-11-06T13:46:03+00:00

You basically don't know what you're doing and have the wrong expectations. Fucking a neighbor is already bad business because it fucks up your op sec with other bitches.

This girl sees you as a dick supplier. She doesn't want to cuddle if her pussy is wet.

If she actually liked you for you, and prioritized you, she would be texting you.

She doesn't have you on the starting team.

So you came into the situation with the wrong idea, dick failed, cuddled a bitch that wanted to be fucked, and tried to smooth over the bullshit with bad memes.

Take the L and learn from it.

You can still send your text messages or whatever, but your balls are in her court.

Gaidsbola · 2019-11-06T14:36:03+00:00

Sometimes you’re fucked if you can’t get a boner with some women. Some women don’t care and some will ghost you. It’s either a validation thing or they see as less of a man. Idk. Wouldn’t worry about it. Go find more plates or fwb’s

KillaJewels · 2019-11-06T14:51:54+00:00

I recently started hooking up with my n[ei]ghbor last month.

First mistake right there.

she got home from Vacation and I asked her to come over, she did, couldnt get a boner for whatever reason. We made out and cuddled for a few hours and she left.

She ignored my message and I haven't heard from her since.

Edit: for more context, when I text her Im usually initiating our next meet. Also she had done this once before and after 5 days she ended up reaching out. But now this is the second time and its now been like 2 weeks.

Sounds like you need work on your D game.

Dilduo · 2019-11-06T15:46:00+00:00

You text her way too much man.

You text her the day she's back like you were waiting for her

Then 2 days later

Then 2 days after that. I wouldn't respond to you ether, you seem desperate.

Wait 2 weeks minimum before reaching out. You have to give them time to hamster spin. "why isn't he texting me oh my goshhh "

First time getting a number 3 day rule After 2nd meet 2 weeks.

Talk to other women, it will make it easier on ya and will fill up your schedule.

Stop texting her and when you eventually bump into her in your neighbourhood act like she didn't ignore you and just say hey what's up, quick banter for 30sec-1 min then say you have to go your in a rush

Title	What did I do wrong here
Author	sootlord
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	November 6, 2019 1:14 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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