Background

I need feedback on what I should've done, so I don't run into this issue again in the future. Went out solo to the bar last night. I'm in my Early-20s, confident, and had my appearance in check.

  • Approached this cute girl. She shit test me in the beginning, saying she was too old for me -- she's 29 i'm 23 -- and I just laughed it off and pretty much ignored her shit tests and kept talking to her.

  • Sat down next to her and after maintaining frame and amused mastery one thing leads to another, we were making out 10 minutes later.

  • A good song comes on and I lead her out to the dancefloor. Get in the zone and I'm enjoying myself and so is she it's very obvious she is digging me. We stay for at least half an hour and I can tell she is really getting more into it with her dance moves.

  • Near the end of the night we leave the dancefloor and sit down at a table and things start to heat up -- we're all over each other.

  • Eventually, Her girlfriends come to our table and talk with her and she signals them that she is okay and that they can leave without her, or whatever the hell they talk about, they tell her to get home safe and then they leave the bar to get an Uber ride home.

  • Except one of her friends comes back and decides to stay at the bar, she wasn't cockblocking us or anything. -- She did her own thing talking to some other guy.

  • It is very obvious that the girl i'm with is really into me, based on the nonverbal and verbal cues she was giving me, so I ask her if she wants to get out of here and she just looks at me with bedroom eyes and nods her head. At this point, I am thinking I have it in the bag and this is probably where it goes down hill from here.

Here's where things go Down Hill:

This girl agreed to leave the bar with me at the end of night. My place was 40 minutes away, with a single bed in my room laying on the floor with no boxspring, so I asked if we could go back to her place. Her mother was there, so it was a no go. Offered to get us a room, and she gave me a look of disinterest that she was not about going to a hotel either. First time of the night I feel like I don't have a plan and wasn't able to think on my feet quick enough... I just.. blanked. She then takes my phone and gives me her number and says, " I want you to call me/text me." I'm a little bit disappointed, but I think to myself I can meet up later and close.

Maybe I should've been more persistent about the hotel, or taken her to the back of my car? She leaves with her friend and her friend keeps telling her that she can get an Uber home herself, and the girl I was with kept saying no its alright -- not in a, "get me out of here" type of way -- and they leave together. I was just there not offering any other suggestions, or being persistent, my mind was blanking and I'm kicking myself for it.

I go home and pass out. Wake up the next morning and texted her, "glad we met let's together again soon." She texts back 5 minutes later, "I'd like that." Somehow I managed to fuck it up though after she added me on Snapchat and after that it seems like her interest dropped. But, that is for a completely different time. I'm chalking it up as if nothing is going to come from it and I'm trying to get over it, but I'm just really pissed at myself right now. I feel like I was a salesmen about to get a client to sign a major deal and at the last second didn't close the sale because I wasn't persistent enough or creative enough. What should I have done differently near the end of the night to close?