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Downvoted for linking British clickbait. Sit in the corner and think about what you did wrong.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:09 AM
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Two of the best quotes I've ever heard on this topic . . . The expression "he's a nice guy" or "vehhhhry nice guy" meant "he's an idiot (but nice)"; "he's an idiot" meant "he's an idiot (but not nice)". As to "He is arrogant", it meant that "he is smart" *and* the speaker is envious; "he's a smart guy" meant "he's smart" but the speaker is not envious. -- Nassim Taleb (who is notoriously arrogant and proud of it) You need haters in your life. If you don’t have haters in your life, you’re not doi…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 09:51 PM
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Grow the fuck up. You sound like a fuckin incel who thinks we're at war with women. Appreciate these guys!! They're helping you differentiate your brand. While all these chicks are dealing with dudes fawning over them, you're the cool motherfucker who treats them differently. (I'm presuming you at least have an ounce of TRP-informed judgment.) Nothing is harder in life than differentiating your brand, defining what your selling point it. These guys are doing all of the hard work for you by actin…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:27 PM
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They form a cocoon, undergo metamorphosis, and emerge as a butterfly. It depends on how well they maintain themselves. I'm 42, and I know chicks that are 40-ish who can still ride the carousel because they kept their figures. Mostly with guys their age, but occasionally a younger guy when alcohol works to their favor. I also know former hot chicks who look like the ate Jabba the Hut and went into a deep depression who are on track to die childless. FTR, it is crazy how many in both categories en…
/r/askTRP04/11/20 03:51 PM
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It's worth noting that AskMen aggressively bans and shadow bans people associated with certain subs. Selection is an extremely strong force.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:44 AM
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Remember that weight training buys you core stability. Not only will that improve your posture, but it will help you age better. I'm 42, and I'm getting old enough that I hear stories from older friends and family members about their doctors telling them to strengthen their cores and legs to avoid falls. It's a million times better to have a lifelong habit of weight training than to try to adopt it when you're like 65. Trying to add positive weight later in life is a bitch, but you'll have a dec…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 11:20 PM
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Calibration is a bigger deal than most folks understand. If you start just pounding away and being a complete prick all of the time, you'll wear people out.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:20 AM
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One thing guys frequently get wrong about push-pull methods is that they go all-in on push-push-push. Don't get me wrong. From experience, it can be entertaining. However, a lot of guys like the push-push-push approach because they feel like they're getting back at women for years of being ignored. While the push-to-pull ratio in a relationship should be more push, there's a limit. Generally, when a woman admits a limitation, flaw, weakness, or decline in value, it's not the time for pushing. Wo…
/r/askTRP20/09/20 07:18 AM
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I've never run into that. I come from car culture so I'd probably just bore her to death with car details. "Is that the one with the 5.7 Hemi?" Remember, she's trying to show her value. Anything that makes her feel like she's not up to the current task will shut her down quickly.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 07:08 PM
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This is an attempt to demonstrate value. She wants to show you that she's in-demand. I usually try to find a funny way to put the whole story down without being too much of a dick. Years ago I dated a chick who told me she had fucked an NFL player. Without missing a beat, I told her, "Punters don't count." Also, she's probably signalling some risk-taking behaviors. That's usually a greenlight.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 04:36 AM
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Does anyone here hold their shit as long as they can and then just drop a beastly deuce that fills the bowl? Is this an effective way to assert dominance? I feel like leaving a clogged toilet behind after a good flush makes a real point, but I'm worried that caring about what other people think of my shit makes me beta. Is my shit game tight enough, or should I keep working on it? I have aggression farting down, but I feel like I can improve on the shitting front. Also, I'm still not even sure h…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 06:07 AM
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She's trying to train you to be her alpha male. Note the strong emphasis on plans. Women approach this issue from one of two angles, depending on their circumstances. Find a guy with most of the right traits, and then train him to focus on the ones that benefit her in stable life. Find a provider, and then coach him up to be tougher. #2 tends to be the option for women that can't nail better guys down. #1 tends to be the domain of women who are close to the wall or at least aware that it's ahead…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 11:05 PM
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Warning: this is not actual advice, but just me being me. I'd have instantly cracked a joke about an MMF threesome. Probably something like the BF deserves a chance to consent before she commits him to something that drastic. Again, not actual advice. Just the sort of thing I'd instantly think was funny and throw at her because lulz.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 05:46 AM
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In my experience, dudes get jacked to make up for other shortcomings. No social skills, or hideous looks. I mean, I've seen a lot of muscleheads who look like someone with Down's syndrome fucked Lou Ferrigno to produce them.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:42 AM
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He didn't say spelling skills. I think it's pretty on-brand.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:40 AM
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have no real hands on experience with technology Have you met the hands-on crowd in the tech world? Jesus Christ, I knew a kid who was so spergy his GF had to drive him to and from work because he'd start counting the mile markers instead of paying attention to traffic when he drove. (Yes, he had a GF. And yes, she was a gross goth chick.) I'm sorry, but I wouldn't let most truly tech people handle a corporate meeting to save my life.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:38 AM
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QAnon has entered the chat.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:09 AM
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The amount of science-fiction that's becoming reality . . . I tell ya.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 01:45 AM
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Okay . . . so?
/r/askTRP17/07/20 02:34 AM
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Four hours is pretty good performance under those conditions, but okay.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 02:29 AM
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You need to upgrade to an eau de toilette if cologne isn't lasting long enough for you.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:26 PM
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Here's the suck of it: everybody's body chemistry is a little different. One scent on your body might smell awful, which the next person can pull it off. It's best to go to a store that has samples and qualified people there to help you sort through what they have for eau de toilette (more concentrated than cologne and will last longer). Try to wash up beforehand with as little soap as possible. Use alcohol or something evaporative to clear the part of your body where you'll be testing (I'd reco…
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:24 PM
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It's hard to learn to code without breaking at least a few laws. /s
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:19 AM
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Too bad. I was trying to pull together every nickel I could in early March to buy the bottom of the stock market. Mid-March was a once-in-a-decade opportunity. As for other options, find a hustle. Look for a job. Develop a skill, like learning to code or weld. Take advantage of the mask mandates and reduced policing to commit robberies. Start a Twitter feed or produce YouTube videos. Everyone has a slightly different approach. You should be test driving money-making plans every day until you fin…
/r/askTRP13/07/20 10:45 PM
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I'm not. I've been making money. When there's blood in the streets . . .
/r/askTRP13/07/20 09:50 PM
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¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I'll tell ya this much: women are much more aggressively socialized to follow small cues than men are. What feels like a tiny signal to you could very well be a screaming no to her.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 09:44 PM
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If they're throwing themselves at you, that's a bad sign for your game. They think there's something about you that creates an opportunity to commit a 2-point violation. General weakness that reminds them of previous guys that fucked them. Basically, you're transmitting signals in all directions that you're a dumpster diver. The higher SMV chicks are catching the same signal once you start talking.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 07:58 PM
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You could try it 1,000 times to produce a statistically significant dataset and then report back. Jeez, don't be lazy. This is for science.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 09:37 PM
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Simple solution: stop living your life according to shit you read on the internet. The biggest thing you'll ever from take from TRP isn't a list of do and don't things. What you should gain is a confident belief in the necessity of your own decision-making, but with an understanding that it all occurs in context. Relationships aren't algebra formulas to be solved. And frankly, I'll disagree on the premise that putting out early is LTR death. people aren't that simple.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 10:19 PM
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Alcohol is dehydrating, and blood has water in it. You have to put water back in your system, otherwise the concentration of alcohol in your blood stream will be stronger. Also, it gets your system moving so you can sweat and piss more of the alcohol out. https://www.healthline.com/health/how-long-does-alcohol-stay-in-your-system Water can help reduce your BAC, though it will still take one hour to metabolize 20 mg/dL of alcohol.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 12:40 AM
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So many cops everywhere. Thanks to the lockdowns, they're also behind on making their quotas. Also, make a habit of hydrating while you drink. I had a state cop who spent like three years pulling me over at 3am because he knew I was coming from the bar and thought of me as his white whale that he was going catch. He never got shit and finally gave up because I take hydration seriously when i drink. That goes double on hot days.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 10:15 PM
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I'm OG tanker gang. From back in the 00s. The trick to tanker gang is to buy shares, not options. Watch the OPEC meetings, and wait for everyone to think OPEC has their shit together. Then tankers go down. That's when you buy. Rinse and fucking repeat as tankers go up and down. You get a big, dumb run like we just had, unload that shit and wait for things to cool down.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 12:06 AM
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I'm absolutely not. I'm saying the autists are going to strip his carcass. Nothing is more dangerous than an autist who has concluded that psychopathy is the answer. I do WSB, to be clear, man. Reppin tanker gang for fat divs. Hodl.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 11:33 PM
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Oh, shit . . . he's gonna get skinned alive.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 11:22 PM
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That's not a killer. Arguably, though, that's the person you're most worried about. He's unprepared to kill, and that means it'll be fucking ugly if he tries.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 09:07 PM
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As someone who has been in what I believe is a well-above-average number of confrontations with armed people, I'll tell you this: Your best weapon is a calm demeanor. Generally, people are put off by calmness in bad situations. It puts them on the back foot. I'm reasonably confident in my ability to handle such a situation physically, but it's never Plan A nor should it be. Use your words and stay calm. If the person was committed to harming you, they'd have done it while they had the element of…
/r/askTRP10/06/20 08:00 PM
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It's a countersignal. Think of the way a tech billionaire can tell the world their status by dressing like dogshit. (LJBH here, I'm talking about Mark Zuckerberg on all occasions not involving Congress.) By dressing like ass, the tech billionaire is letting everyone know that he doesn't have to signal anything. Suits are for Wall Street guys who have to tell you they're Wall Street guys. Hoodies are for techbros who can just purchase marry an Asian woman. Lack of attention works the same way. Yo…
/r/askTRP07/06/20 08:24 PM
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Who cares if it's justifiable? Sometimes it's just goddamned funny.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 06:31 AM
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Can you fart on demand? Never be afraid to unleash an aggression fart.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 04:07 AM
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It's quite possible he didn't really notice. Lerv is blind.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 05:48 PM
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Here's the real question: have any of them lost weight while they were with you?
/r/askTRP20/04/20 07:00 AM
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There's nothing wrong with bankruptcy if they handle it right. Properly done, restructuring a company's debts in Chapter 11 can get it to a better spot 5 years out. Bankruptcy isn't a death sentence.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 05:42 AM
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Indeed. Take up a side project you've had sitting around. I've been pushing a ton of effort into scrounging up extra cash to sink into the stock market to play the swings on REITs and oil tankers while vacuuming up cheap on mainstream stuff. I have a couple of machine learning projects that are going neglected because of that. Started experimenting with a few dietary things. Also, I've been testing out some exercises with resistance bands to work in some cardio. Lots of things to do while you wa…
/r/askTRP11/04/20 04:43 AM
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I fart in your general direction.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 11:10 PM
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In my experience, folks lamenting the decline of civilization do so not because civilization is declining but because they wish to wreck it.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 10:36 PM
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Pass. I don't do fiction book reviews.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 10:34 PM
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Not in America.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:51 AM
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The thing that frustrates me the most with TRP is that many of the biggest ideological complaints are about genies that are not going back in the bottle. For example, a good portion of modern feminine behavior arises from the advent of the birth control pill. Short of an Islamist revolution, that's not going back the way it was.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:29 AM
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I'm sorry. You do have the legal right to be a fuckin idiot, I suppose. My bad. More seriously, though, TRP is at least a neighbor of evolutionary psychology. Evo psych has its flaws, but the core theories of TRP depend on at least buying into the general thesis of evo psych that certain behaviors are evolutionary driven.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 10:15 PM
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There are folks with strong ideological agendas who see TRP as a vehicle for political ends. My experience, however, is that the desire to get laid doesn't really have as much of an ideological bent as those people see. On balance, I find the strongly ideological folks -- "The End of Western Civilization" crowd is particularly who I have in mind -- as not really getting it. Life goes on. Evolution doesn't have time for your bullshit. I think the right-wing ideologues who oftentimes attach themse…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 08:15 PM
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Look shit up. If you like computers, learn to code. If you want to work with your hands, learn to weld. The world's fully of opportunities that are better than fast food. Killing random people and collecting their feet is a better use of your time than fast food.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:18 AM
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If you aren't desperate for the money, quit the job. Fast food ain't shit, and it doesn't pay shit. No one is going to care what it looks like on your resume years from now because millions of people pass through those jobs. Even if you consider the chance of anything occurring minimal, the question is: what's the cost-benefit? The benefit, frankly, has to be close to zero given the nature of the work. Also, remember how people treat you. You're doing hazard work without hazard pay. If they trea…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:02 AM
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I keep a series of files on my computer that are full of different projects to try when I have free time. (A rarity, but a guy can dream.) Right now I'm plowing my effort into investing with the markets down and making extra money so I can invest it without breaking into my usual financial sources. I've also been taking detailed notes of what I'm learning from the current market trends so I can build several machine learning models once the market calms the fuck down in 6 to 18 months. A lot of …
/r/askTRP30/03/20 04:24 AM
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Healthy way? Let's see . . . don't pay for it. Problem solved. Seriously, the non-pro femdom is about as common as a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow. You're probably going to be operating deep in the kink community. For the most part, the conduct of switch behavior like you're describing is well-outlined. if you happen to find that perfect femdom, I'd argue you should just play by the norms for the kink community where you live. Beyond that, maintain whatever frame you like. Top from the bot…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 12:27 AM
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There's a lot to be said for the concept of strategic ambiguity.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 03:12 AM
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You should learn some new recipes Start with rice and beans, just in case things get a little on the prepper side of the equation.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 03:17 AM
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By not arranging my life around useless notions of owning a sexual partner.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:48 AM
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By not licking other people's eyeballs. Has worked well so far.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 07:21 AM
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SMH . . . Almost everyone gaming to be an "influencer" on Instagram has someone else supporting their asses. Very few "models" have anything cooking financially.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:16 AM
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I've never felt like I was "burned" by a woman. That probably makes me fairly unique on the sub. For me, it's just the realization that most people are pretty friggin interchangeable. If you miss out on one woman, another will come along. There are a couple of women I think I probably should have settled down with, but then I've never felt like I needed to settle down.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 04:43 PM
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I was far more likely to do that at 22 than I am now at 42.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 05:06 AM
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Say hello to people. Seriously, most of the human race is so relieved by having the burden of introductions taken off them that they'll be your friend in return for you saying hello.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 04:17 AM
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Real-world experience. Feel free to test drive it.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 06:27 PM
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In light of your age and the stated progress you've made over a short span, I'm not inclined to bust your balls much here. Keep making progress at your pace. Lots of young people have reservations about their first time, and some folks will have reservations about their second time because they need to process their first time. The big thing is to keep working on you physically, academically and socially. Don't ideate about what you didn't do. Get up tomorrow and think about what you can do.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 10:50 PM
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Because a simulated or fake experience is better than languishing in the mire of nothing that is their lives. I remember watching a Dr. Phil episode where this woman dumped hundreds of thousands of dollars into this obvious combination lonely hearts / Nigerian prince scam. You could tell that she didn't want to let go of the feeling because it was just nice to be told she was pretty. That chemical boost they get in their brains is reward enough.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 08:57 PM
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Can we add: "My (dad/brother/roommate/best friend) is a total (BP/weeb/chronic masturbator/downright fucking wimp who got his lunch money taken from him by an Instagram thot). How do I fix him?" OMFG. I'm soooo sick of those posts. Even if you forcibly convert the guy, he's just going to backslide once he gets results. People have to have their moment where they get mad at themselves before any of this stuff is going to sink in.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 08:51 PM
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Generally, I just bring shit up. I'm pretty physical once I know there's interest, so she should have a good idea that there's something going on there long before I say anything. As long as you're non-judgmental, you'll be fine. Just be prepared for how far the rabbit hole goes.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:47 AM
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Recently going out with a blue pill friend he watched from a far just in case anything happened because “I could get jumped. Okay, I've lived in some bad environments. I've gamed in some bad environments. Here's the thing about legit trouble. It's rarely looking for you. Most trouble in this world requires significant effort to get into. I mean, you have to be in a place where the low value assigned to human life practically hangs in the air. Those places exist, but you're not going to find them…
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:18 AM
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It's worse than a trap. It's pseudoscience. The M-B personality tests produce results that are about as variable and useful as astrology. It's basically astrology for folks who think they're above astrology.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 02:00 AM
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The next problem -- alcohol. In my experience, when people are drunk they do the shit they wish they had the balls to do when sober. In vino veritas. Also, pet gay friends are the go-to accessory for the modern gal. Like it or not, it's a thing.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:17 AM
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it is annoying there's no real way to tell them to fuck off, without telling them to fuck off. Pretty much the main problem with all social settings involving contact with strangers. One of my roommates being a little too aggressively touchy The classic "I thought I had a friend pass". Another thing you see a lot of at clubs. I'd argue that in a club setting, the friend pass is a default rule unless you've overtly talked with everyone about it. Plus, there is the classic "her gay friend" pass, w…
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:57 AM
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Here's the thing with the club environment . . . You will see a chick hang all over a dude, practically humping him. You think, "Well, I guess that's that. They must be together" Then you see her two hours later hanging on another dude or two other dudes. The thing is, some guys just internalize that logic. If she's in the club, she's available. Even if she's with a guy. You're never going to completely undo that mentality. Also, gawd forgive you if you and her are not 100% on top of each other …
/r/askTRP09/03/20 03:06 AM
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For context, I don’t give a fuck about this girl Because it's a reasonably simple way to detect this exact sort of problem. She's interested, but she has already picked up the signal that you're not. Now she's just running a check, and so far, her suspicions appear to be correct.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 02:20 AM
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The times I failed to convert, was when the girl herself was boring/shy or wasn't interested from the beginning. One of the big differences between younger and older women is that the older women who are still single tend to be looking for a fun vibe in a guy. There's a good chance they're picking up that signal.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 09:47 PM
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Is that any different than when guys go off doing dumb shit because testosterone is a hell of a drug?
/r/askTRP06/03/20 09:39 PM
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My all-time "stupid pre-TRP me" story involves this sort of scenario. There was a girl I was completely in the bag for freshman and sophomore years of college. I gave it my absolute best shot -- ya know . . . what I thought was a great shot at the time -- and it crashed and burned fabulously with full friending. I figured, fuck it, took my shot. Life goes on. Didn't have a Plan B anyhow. A few weeks later, this girl who was the definitive hot "exotic" girl, mixed Vietnamese and black, shows up i…
/r/askTRP06/03/20 09:33 PM
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Why do women have to be so retarded that they dont know what they want? Strategic ambiguity. Women are frequently in disadvantaged positions, and the best way to maintain any advantage is to be ambiguous about their goals. By keeping guys guessing, they gain a lot. A woman acting ambiguously can: Filter out guys who are trying to satisfy her rather than pursuing their own ends, thus eliminating less self-directed mates. Self-direction is a highly desirable trait. Compel aloof mates into greater …
/r/askTRP06/03/20 04:47 AM
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Dude, if she wasn't interested in kissing by the end of the first date, then that is that. Stop being such a little fuckin creep.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 01:01 AM
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Think of it as the way athletes level up as they go through their careers. Look at professional baseball pitchers. Every step they move up feels like a setback because they're getting good enough at the game to play at a higher level. Going from AAA to MLB is pretty much an invitation to get hit hard, and lots of guys get bounced back to AAA a few times before they stick in the majors. Progress rarely comes without setbacks. If you lift, there's going to be a day where you screw up a muscle or a…
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:17 AM
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I have an average body My bad. I think I was reading too much of the OP's question into your situation. when girls see me at campus I am mostly alone The college context helps there. It's not weird to be alone on a campus. Also, college has a bit of the tourist effect. When people are away from their established social structures (family, long-time friends, religion, etc.), they get much more willing to show sexual interest in each other. It also makes it a little easier if you're not immediatel…
/r/askTRP02/03/20 08:12 PM
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how come you find energy and willpower to write such long and detailed answers? :) When it comes to topics like "sigma," it's because I have a bug up my ass about that stuff. Also, I type quickly. civilization won't be breaking down soon. Give it a chance. I have a quiet voice, do you have any remedies for that? I don't think you have to have a big and loud voice -- I do, but I grew up white trash, and I was constantly told I'm loud. My best advice is to just speak in your voice but to do it mor…
/r/askTRP02/03/20 07:44 PM
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I feel like girls get attracted to me, not to the ones who talk a lot and laugh. My best guess is that your friends are social but not necessarily in control of the social circle. Remember, it's not about laughing and having fun. It's about being so amused by your own awesomeness that other people can't resist. Also, it sounds like you don't break out of your group a lot. There's a lot to be said for talking to strangers. Because I feel like girls get attracted to me, not to the ones who talk a …
/r/askTRP02/03/20 06:35 PM
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So you've basically just been getting jacked and not developing any social game . . . okay, you're not the first guy to commit the mistake . . . Social circle game is an essential tool. Your goal in a social circle is to be a little more interesting than all the other guys. You want to be talking a good bit and having immense fun while you do it -- all self-amused, of course. When you get to the funny parts of jokes, you want to be so amused at the laughs that other people laugh even if they don…
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:42 PM
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If there are multiple women in a spot and one is interested in you, one of two things is going to happen. Possibility #1: The other women notice her interest you, and then a cascading effect occurs where the other women get interested in you. Possibility #2: Your SMV is so low that one of the other women will stage an intervention to stop it. Hell, women will do this for strangers. There isn't much to "do" in scenario 1. Be social and .take over the social circle to the point that people just as…
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:21 PM
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The most important signal from a woman isn't eye contact. It's proximity. If she's finding excuses to talk to you or to be near you, there's interest. If they're talking with you, they disengage, and then find a way to come back, there's interest. Even if she's just standing with the social circle you're talking with, there's at least a little interest. If you were a zero on the interest meter, she'd find a way to get herself and any friends of hers out of there.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:01 AM
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She wants you to pursue because she has doubts about your interest level. It all ends with her asking if we can cook at my apartment You deserve credit. It's borderline impossible to screw this scenario up, but you found a way. Here's what's going on . . . She feels like she's constantly leading, and she's repeatedly trying to give you openings to take over. Most women find this an assault on their feminine dignity, especially if they have to constantly do it. It makes them feel unattractive, li…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 09:21 PM
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I just struggle with the mystery of my own existence If you can seriously read that sentence without wanting to punch yourself, my advice is to say fuck it and jump.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 01:46 AM
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Eh . . . it doesn't sound like OP is too wild about this new friend.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 06:35 PM
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I'd be careful with that strategy. The kid might think he's the OP's friend, then.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 05:48 AM
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The Law of Diminishing Returns. You're jamming more inputs into something that has passed its upside, driving a downward set of returns. Everything goes to zero eventually.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 12:57 AM
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Female behavior doesnt add up why do they do this. Because girl game is social game, and social dominance is about tearing people down.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 03:17 AM
2

People who want to do things don't sit around convincing themselves they're going to pursue vague goals. The problem is that your goal is vague and pointless. You want a degree and money? No one has ever considered that genius barely-a-plan before. If you don't know why you want to be in college, my advice is don't go to college. I did college, and those people dropped like friggin flies because they didn't have real goals or interests that matched with a collegiate environment. The best of the …
/r/askTRP11/02/20 12:52 AM
10

Woo-hoo! It's my time to shine! Thanks, fucked up Mommy . . . I may have had a slightly different experience because my mom was a combination alpha widow / actual widow. My dad was more than twice her age, and he died of his fourth heart attack when I was little. Heavy drinker, heavy smoker, and had no problem getting into fist fights in his 50s with guys half his age. 6'4" tall and 200 pounds, and a legit asshole far beyond even what the most extreme TRPers would endorse. Anyhoo . . . that's en…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 10:34 PM
6

Here's my experience -- not "the community's". I'm going on 42 pretty soon. At the theory level, women over 30 should be fairly easy pickins. In practice, it's a very different experience. The biggest problem with women over 30 is that they want validation in a way that younger women don't. If I throw a little too much shit at a 23 year old, she has to be pretty high up on her princess perch before she'll freak out over it. Conversely, I can remember one 32 year old from back when I was like 38 …
/r/askTRP05/02/20 05:19 AM
1

It's not general intelligence that matters. It's a specific kind of socially competent intelligence. This is why women place an emphasis on a sense of humor. It reflects a form of intelligence that can be deployed in social combat as a status signal.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:29 AM
1

In their defense, many of them aren't even actual girls. Influencing is such a fucking scam these days that I assume every insta account is garbage until proven otherwise.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 03:59 AM
1

They're not on topic for this sub, so my view is tough shit to them.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 03:59 AM
2

Let me save you some trouble: most people cheat at some point in their lives.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 05:40 AM
1

I have yet to meet a hot chick with an untroubled past that doesn't act like a brat. What you're really saying: "I haven't yet met a person who has been on top their whole life who doesn't act like they've been on top their whole life." There's a real "no shit, Sherlock" factor here.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 11:01 PM
2

Community centers offer them. I've seen them offered in places with as few as 5,000 people, so it's not exactly a "I must live in the big city" kinda thing.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 05:57 AM
6

It's called keep hustling and keep extending your wins.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 07:52 PM
27

what exactly did you do to go from broke to baller so quickly? Am I allowed to pipe in if I got my financial situation cooking before I came over to the dark side? /s I've always been good with computers and coding. I just sort of kept stacking one hustle on top of another. When I was in my late teens/ early 20s, I started out buying junk computers bulk and rehabbing them for resale -- I skimped every nickel of my student loan refund, btw. Eventually I used the money from that to purchase good e…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 09:46 AM
1

Mmmmm . . . I don't assume anything with staff until I've had several excessively friendly encounters. I say that as a guy who has dated several bartenders and shotgirls in my time. Generally, they know they have to turn the amplitude up because guests and customers assume that service means hospitality. I remember one of the shotgirls when she approached me said something to the effect of "I'm not trying to sell you anything" just to make the point that she was interested. My rule of thumb is t…
/r/askTRP20/01/20 03:12 AM
5

The classic display of uniqueness by doing what all the other unique kids are doing.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 09:07 PM
90

What does any of this have to do with her? Seriously, it sounds like you're not thrilled about this shit. Be honest and move on.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 05:31 AM
13

I'll disagree here. They'll settle down when they feel they've maxed out their optimization. Remember, there's a two-point rule for SMV (a 6 can't really do better than an 8 and wouldn't humor below a 4). What everyone is really looking for is someone who breaks the two-point rule because (fear/weakness/upbringing). In other words, the ideal is a mate who's too hot for you, but they've made repeated demonstrations of loyalty. (The 6 wants an 8.5 who can't help themself.) If that sounds crazy, th…
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:07 AM
7

That other people's bullshit is just that. It took me a long time to process that literally everything is bullshit, it's all a game and there's no point giving a fuck. 20 would've been a good year to know what's up. That was my first year of college (I needed to figure out that working life was a bullshit pile before I went to college). There was so much shit with girls in college that I didn't process well. I'd have been streets ahead if I had just accepted it was all a game. One particular inc…
/r/askTRP15/01/20 06:04 AM
2

We don't joke about this shit in the retirement home, man.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 06:37 AM
2

If I catch a girl's lying about something insignificant once Doesn't sound insignificant if you're bringing it up.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 06:25 AM
39

We all know why he cares. Most guys start learning a bit of game just to improve their chances of following a traditional path toward a LTR. There's nothing wrong with that, but a lot of them get caught in the no man's land between playing the game and wanting more.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 11:38 PM
2

I get bored quickly so I have a pretty easy time just messing around with them. I like to see just how far I can push things, throwing random weird bullshit at her until her brain breaks. This isn't really an effective strategy. I just do it for the entertainment value.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 11:34 PM
2

But how will the threesome get started? It's hard to make those things happen organically.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 05:14 AM
1

It depends on how verbal combat works for you. I grew up in a family of combative assholes so firing back at people is pretty normal for me. I mostly had to learn to not be butthurt and just enjoy the combat.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 08:25 PM
1

They'll often start with "one time this guy..", "this one time with my ex..", "my ex was really good at.." "this guy I hooked up with last week.." or more situationally, "that waiter is cute", "this creep asked for my number the other day", "a guy bought me a drink", "I'm getting so many looks in this club", "some weird guy just messaged me", "haha, the bouncer just asked for my number". That's a hodge-podge of different behaviors. this creep asked for my number the other day That's just a humbl…
/r/askTRP10/01/20 06:48 PM
3

Dude, this is a very "lower the ocean" attitude. Raise your expectations of yourself a little bit. Never lived in NYC, but I've loved every huge metro I've ever lived in. And I say that as a person whose default setting is "live in the country and listen to the frogs come out in spring". There's no substitute for the dating pool in any huge, international city. People come and go. The young are attracted to them. There's a reason people pay extortion-level rents to live in places like NYC, Londo…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 07:21 AM
5

A partner nutting fast is one of those things women talk about as humblebrag. It's much more about signaling "I'm so hawt" than anything else. Speaking from experience as the guy at the opposite end of the spectrum . . . You want to see a woman lose her fucking mind? Take a long time to nut. That shit drives them insane. It gets inside their heads and rots out their souls. Unless you ejaculated immediately upon insertion, you'll be fine. Even if she shares the story with someone else, it will co…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 12:48 AM
1

Simple fact: you're going to have a lot of subpar sex in your lifetime. Yes, it seems like a shit deal when you first realize it. Keep sampling, and eventually you'll find someone whose sense of fun matches yours. That will eventually melt away, too, so keep your game strong.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 05:45 AM
2

The most annoying was her faux outrage over her dumbass, half-paralyzed pet rat. (Yes, we're talking a red flag here by cozying up with a defective, non-traditional pet . . . but cam girl is more red flags than are featured in Tienanmen Square so let's just treat that all assumed.) I made the remark that I owned a cat who's only happiness in life is hunting. This led to a half-hour torrent of claims that I said I wanted to kill her dipshit, defective rat. She also made scheduling into a relentle…
/r/askTRP24/12/19 10:38 PM
40

I’m also really sexual That's it right there. Most likely, you're also reasonably attractive to start with, otherwise, this would be deemed really creepy fucker behavior. This is the old PUA stuff about calibration. You have to tweak your game to your conditions.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 10:21 PM
1

It's football. The punter gets less action than the mascot.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 06:25 PM
32

I wouldn't count that as an alpha widow. An alpha widow had a long enough relationship that there's no question it wasn't a pump-and-dump. Encounters don't mean shit. I dated a chick who once told me she fucked a member of the city's NFL team. I laughed at her and told her, "The punter doesn't count."
/r/askTRP24/12/19 04:33 AM
1

I'm missing the alleged hostility here. Examples?
/r/askTRP23/12/19 04:17 AM
2

I dated a cam girl. The trick as best I could tell was to focus on the guys who a girl really clicks for. In her case, she was a college volleyball player, and her main moneymaker was a dude who was a college coach from the other side of the country who was clearly ideating having a relationship with one of his players. Her #2 moneymaker was this friggin weebish pot dealer who lerved that she was the "cool" girl he couldn't bag. She churned new inquiries fast as a motherfucker. Brutally efficien…
/r/askTRP23/12/19 04:12 AM
12

Cam girls can be fun. They're like playing the game on difficult mode because they're so used to guys complying with all their bullshit. I dated one for a while, and every day was an Olympiad of shit tests. It was a hoot because I went into every interaction knowing exactly what the rules were. There was never a feeling of complacency because you knew every day was gameday. It's the only time in my life where I felt like honest scoring was going on in the relationship.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 04:07 AM
3

It has to be a straight-down-the-middle attack. I used to date a chick who always wanted to meet at the lamest and shittiest and quietest bars. The first time we went to one, we finished up and I handed her the bill and told her, "You're paying for this shit because this place sucks." She exclaims, "I've never paid for a man's drink in my life!" I said, "You're doing it now. Leave a decent tip because the service at least wasn't bad." Somehow she survived enough so we could then walk to a more f…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 09:43 PM
2

As someone who gets regularly approached by both women and men, here's the theory I've developed about why that is. As a generalization, I'm above-average in attractiveness, especially when I put in the effort to dress well. Oddly, I've had a lot of people assume I'm ex-military, cop, bouncer, bodyguard, etc. I even had a chick once tell me I looked like a hitman. On the opposite end of the spectrum, I've concluded that I don't exude a homophobic vibe. My guess has been that gay men have develop…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 09:33 PM
1

Experience tells them you should be loyal. They've watched a number of guys go into the whole "hey baby, let's make it work" mode even after they (the woman) have cheated and been caught. Why wouldn't they expect loyalty?
/r/askTRP20/12/19 09:12 PM
3

FTR, I'd have said "solid 7" just to set them off. Women fucking hate being told they're just above mediocre. Full disclosure: I've been a freelancer for going on 15 years. I may not have the same HR concerns you would about two pissed off women coworkers.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 09:10 PM
-1

No, the kid is huffing his own farts and wondering why other people don't tell him they smell amazing.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 01:09 AM
0

​ It's not that I really care about shit tests. It's just that I believe I deserve to be treated with more respect. In other words, you're an entitled cunt, and all the people who are shit testing you have your number right. Good work, dumbass. The problem is that you up-ended their image of you. Shit testing is natural and even desirable under these circumstances. You are the reason shit tests exist. They know you're a fake, and they're going to rattle you loose come hell or high water. Win the…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 12:22 AM
4

There’s a chance she will shit test and say something like ‘so you‘re gonna go to grab drinks by yourself if I don’t come’. Or sum like that. One of my all-time favorite moments was with this chick I had arranged to meet after she got off work at midnight. She was texting and giving me shit left and right around 11:45. By midnight she was hinting she wasn't going to show up at all. I texted her back, "I'm walking there right now. I'm gonna have fun with or without you." Five minutes later, I see…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 09:42 PM
1

I feel it will get better results if I don't give them so much attention. Attention is the only currency women chase. Controlling the attention spigot is essential to getting good results. While you don't want to shut the attention spigot off entirely, you definitely want to keep it at a low level. You'll know you have it dialed in right when she acts impressed with herself when you give her any attention.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 09:38 PM
5

Real power is often quiet and slow. It doesn't spend a lot of time fighting with others because it doesn't have to. When it comes to power, subtlety tends to play better. Intimidation is better than violence. Contained wealth is better than spending. Being a fun jerk is better than being a complete prick. If you're worried about losing power, you haven't gotten comfortable enough in it. Like everything on the TRP side of things, you have to get comfortable with it, and that requires time and pra…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 10:17 PM
1

Remember that promising to be nicer counts as a nice moment so don't lay it on too thick. If she's still talking, she's still interested. After all, the currency of womanhood is attention. If the attention still flows, you're still in the game.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 10:10 PM
1

And the nice thing is you don't have to show a lot. Even the old PUA advice of push-push-pull is overdoing. It's closer to 90/10 push to pull. She just doesn't want to be drowned in nice guy BS.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 10:08 PM
1

My apologies here, but I'm not quite catching what you're getting at. Do you mean that you're not quite following the idea? Or just that you've never been accused of it?
/r/askTRP29/11/19 10:04 PM
153

To build on this . . . Optimal mate seeking strategies require particular signals to pick up. One of the strongest signals is loudly transmitting "I don't need you or your shit so don't fuckin cross me". The biggest problem I've seen with this approach is that guys who go from using the push-push-pull strategy to all-in, all-push, all-the-time actions. There's an old Ron White joke that goes, "Even the best dog will leave your porch if don't scratch it behind the ear occasionally." Where blue pi…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 06:05 AM
3

Anyone fuck with them for your amusement? That's usually my jam, but the ones who come back to the well aren't a lot of fun. They're just sad. I had a girl from HS hit me up a few years ago, and it was mostly just weird. I went with "I'm seeing someone" as my out, and she pretty much interrogated me as to whether it was a proper GF-BF relationship or if it was something she could step in between. Eventually, I stopped replying because it was all just weird and sad.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 10:03 PM
2

That's a fair reason for the disconnect. I felt the fellow traveler aspect was apparent, but maybe it wasn't. I assume group affinity signaling is ever-present in all human interactions unless there's overwhelming evidence to the contrary.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 02:47 AM
2

You're not getting the idea at all. The idea isn't really to neg the place. Negging isn't part of it at all. It's to signal that you're a fellow traveler.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 01:40 AM
4

That's not what I meant at all. In my experience, the world's downers mostly connect with the shared experience of despising the world. The old "What's a nice girl like you blah blah blah" line has nothing to do with it. I remember once opening a chick with the line, "Jesus, this place looks like you could Hep C just from touching it." Obviously, she has to be smart enough to get the joke, but the downers tend to be.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 10:32 PM
5

It requires the right chick, but dropping a little shade on the bar or club you're at can work with the slightly low-energy ones.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 05:01 AM
0

Nope. It's a different issue.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 10:50 PM
10

Or the other fun and closely related group: she has massive anxiety and only does online or apps to have the vague experience of dating without having to pay the social or personal price of human interaction.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 06:43 AM
4

Don't sign anything. If there are child support issues down the road, such as the kid becoming a ward of the state, the government can get incredibly creative in coming up with people to sue for support. Admitted biological parents are pretty much fucked if the state demands child support, even if the kid has been out their care forever and has legally been someone else's dependent.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 10:44 PM
2

Relevant: http://cdn-webimages.wimages.net/050fb3ec9f35eb972907ac330427d5ef49b3e9-wm.jpg?v=3
/r/askTRP06/11/19 10:31 PM
1

The Girl Game is strong in this one. TBH, this is a case where you need to laugh that shit off. One, your friends should be good enough friends that this is a non-issue. If they fall for this shit, then thank her for filtering out shitty friends who you don't need in your life. Two, remember that a woman who's pissed after a relationship ends is really fucking into you. Remember, attention is the only currency women care about. She's spending a lot of currency on you. In fact, she's going big to…
/r/askTRP06/11/19 10:24 PM
2

1900 years? WTF version of history are using to assign a date to the start of civilization?
/r/askTRP24/10/19 10:46 PM
1

The rule of thumb for men is if they're getting any attention at all from women, they're attractive. Women do not easily give away the advantage of making men move first. If a woman gives away that advantage upfront, it's a FOMO decision. Women also seem to enforce these rules pretty universally.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 08:05 PM
2

Dude completely understood and we went to sit down. His girlfriend asked if everything was okay and he said “Yeah, OP just had to let out some roid rage”. Compare these two sentences and figure out what the problem is.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 12:20 AM
1

Bragging about N count is mostly about the fear that she's not attractive enough. In my experience, high N count women have to lay it on thick about how many guys have wanted to fuck then. Low N count women bury their exes like cat turds.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 08:25 PM
51

Because pissing down on people is a popular passtime on the internet. Consider it practice for separating the signal from the noise.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:15 PM
3

Evolution is agnostic. Whatever wins gets rewarded, and if the conditions change, the reward structure changes, too. One of the hardest blue pill ideas for people to drop is the notion that's there's good and bad in the world. There isn't. There's just what works. If a behavior persists across many generations, then it's the judgment of evolution that it works. with the notable asterisk that what works is subject to change at any time. To the Sweet Meteor of Death we all pray.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 05:09 AM
1

When you're comparing something to smoking tobacco, you're talking about the crapshoot. Seriously, read before you jump in with a counterargument that isn't even a counterargument. It's like trying to overfill a bucket with holes. Congratulations. You literally have figured out the Red Queen Hypothesis as it pertains to evolution and hypergamy. Solid 100-level, "read the sidebar" stuff there.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 05:06 AM
1

Women use words differently than men do. For a man, his words are direct strikes. They're threats and promises, all pointing to things that are going to happen. A man's words are like the movement of pieces in a chess match. Every move is aimed at supporting a subsequent move. For a woman, her words are probative attacks. They're microsignals and microaggressions aimed at seeing how the other person responds. A woman's words are like the unfolding of a political campaign. She'll say one thing in…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 09:01 PM
1

TLDR version: Watch what they do, not listen to what they say.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:56 PM
1

My advice is always to practice talking with everyone. Talk with the 55 y.o. lady at the cash register when you go to the store. Go into the bank and B.S. with the teller instead of using the ATM. Talk with your waiter at the restaurant. The trick to getting comfortable with talking is to make it the most natural thing in the world. In particular, you need to desexualize conversation in your mind. Talking is a necessary skill for a lot more than getting laid, and you need to exercise that skill …
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:53 PM
2

Women in groups act like they're building clone armies.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:49 PM
1

Control the group dynamic. I've always gotten the most attention when I'm in groups where I'm the obvious top dog. In those situations, attraction acts like gravity as long as the group is seen as winning in the current context. Even women from outside groups will take an interest you if they see you as in control of your group. Mind you, it has to be casual authority. From what I've seen, being the alpha dick only turns on certain women, and they're usually the ones who'll let a trailer park dr…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:46 PM
6

Evolution rewards competition, and it rewards it at a macro scale. Understand that all human sex is a war between X chromosomes and that men's Y chromosomes are just pawns in that game. Women are constantly at war with each other for the best breeding privileges. Anything that tears down any other woman is a win. Think of it this way. In the tribal societies of 50 to 250 people that humans evolved in, a best friend's children and grandchildren are the future competitors for your children and gra…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:40 PM
0

This is what you get for having your ego tied up in another person. She smelled wimp on you, and her suspicions were right. Stop blaming her. It's not that women are evil. Hypergamy is a fact of evolution, and evolution renders no judgments of good or evil. What happened was simple. You felt like a wimp to her. She knew she could position you in the beta boyfriend role and she was right. Fuck, you're still being a whiny beta. Up your game and become the guy women want to fuck instead of a whiner…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:36 PM
5

Analytics has killed YouTube. Even the dumbest video producer now has access to numbers that tell them how to drive traffic. The problem is that good discourse isn't a real traffic-driver. Stupid shit, OTOH, is timeless.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 11:14 PM
90

In economics, this is what's called "The Family Tax." it is one of the biggest things that holds people back when they're trying to get ahead in life. Unless you want to sentence your children and grandchildren to have less in life, get the hell out now.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:13 AM
5

People spend their entire lives reliving their childhoods, either trying to prove their parents right, prove their parents wrong or fix their parents. They do this through a proxy, who invariably ends up being their romantic partner. There's no version of that you want that involves a broken paternal relationship.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 07:33 PM
3

At its core, the human female reproductive strategy is about masking everything. Is she pregnant or not? Is the kid yours or not? Is she loyal or not? Everything is masked. Remember, the core conceit of womanhood is: "I am woman, mysterious and unknowable." Anything that peels back the mask, makes things known and discredits the mystery is bad.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 11:56 PM
9

Simple evolution. Women who enjoy taking a load passed on their genes more often.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:03 AM
2

Women see life as something that happens to them, not something they make happen. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 01:27 AM
3

One of the holes in TRP is a lack of discussion of the perpetual combat between women. Look at how women feel constantly attacked. Men dismiss it as crazy woman bullshit. The reality is that it's because women are constantly at war with each other. Even mothers and daughters do weird little shit to undermine each other.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:55 PM
31

No matter how good looking you are, game takes it to the next level. I could get laid before TRP, and I stumbled into it by a weird avenue just looking up questions I had about certain female and larger social behaviors. The weirdest thing about have good looks and no game is that people treat every failure to exploit your position as extremely odd or upsetting. Women, in particular, end up being confused by the disconnect between your apparent SMV and how you conduct yourself. When I became gam…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:45 AM
28

It's malicious, and it's often a form of active denial of resources to their competitors. I remember a chick I was dating a while back who I had met through a younger female friend of hers. The younger friend was very into me and single, but I found her boring as hell so I didn't pay her advances much mind. Also, I frankly like my women a bit on the trainwreck side -- if she's down to do crazy shit, I'm in. Once I started dating the older of the two, the oldest one went out of her way to shut do…
/r/askTRP25/06/19 06:52 PM
1

Those LiMu Emu commercials just took a surprising turn . . . a surprisingly sexy turn, that is.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 11:44 PM
1

This seems to be a just-me kinda thing, but women go out of their way to not cry for me. I can be mean as hell to them, and they won't give me satisfaction of seeing them cry. In comparing notes with other guys, one big difference seems to be intimidation. Most women invest a lot of effort into telling me "You're not as mean as you come off." They don't seem too interested in testing that, though. Women also pick up on the fact that I get off on them crying. I mean, genuine turn-on -- I love it!…
/r/askTRP01/06/19 03:49 PM
20

It's a shit test with a big side of validation. She wants to see if you'll freak out.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 09:39 PM
1

From what I've seen in my years, a woman supporting a man is usually an expression of his disproportionate SMV compared to her. He might not be a success, but she's super flawed in some way. Usually ugly or otherwise unfuckable. Perhaps significantly older and post-wall. There's always something that allows the asymmetry of her supporting him to work. In other words, for one asymmetry to work, there has to be a second one that balances it out. Usually, it just boils down to the guy living off he…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 04:44 PM
41

Approach sooner rather than later. Don’t wait 2 hours to work up enough courage to go talk to someone. One thing to note, too, is that a woman often feels defeated if her physical appeal doesn't drive an immediate response. Women want to be desired, and taking 2 hours to get over there doesn't make her feel like you're exactly driven mad with desire.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 04:54 PM
8

order food/drink Says the person who has a profit motive . . . /s
/r/askTRP17/05/19 04:51 PM
2

I don't think you're serious about any of this.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:50 PM
4

Okay, I get it now. You're a fuckin idiot.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:44 PM
1

it's ok for women to be raging sluts What is your proposed alternative? Burkas aren't exactly teh hawtness.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:34 PM
10

I'm gonna second this one as the "most right answer." If you're learning anything from her moment, then you're pretty damned early in getting pilled.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 10:48 PM
1

Your life, man. I just figure if you're done, that's a fun time to run some experiments.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 05:42 PM
1

I was very disappointed when I clicked "enable dark mode". Merely changed the color scheme. I was hoping I'd get the evil advice by doing that.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 08:12 PM
7

Okay, this demands some serious revisions . . . Don't date girls that you were never sexual to begin with Wrong, wrong, wrong. The actual lesson is escalate early enough that you don't become basically her gay best friend. Don't date girls that know your friends/social circle If you're looking to game hard all over the place, this is good advice. If you're looking for a LTR, social circle is the best starting point, but you better establish yourself as the upper-tier of the group. Don't date gir…
/r/askTRP03/05/19 07:52 PM
18

she quickly found out she was a 43 year-old single mom of 3 kids, not a 22 y.o. hottie. And some women never get this point. My oldest niece's mother-in-law has been divorced for years. The MIL was weird about hitting on me after the wedding (there's nothing like the flirtation of a woman who never had to flirt before). Then she made a point of being around for our side of the family's Christmas, and so on. Fast forward a couple years, and she's dating a guy my age. Problem solved? Nope. She fli…
/r/askTRP01/05/19 07:08 PM
9

That level of age play is a hard limit. Ya gotta know when to nope out.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 05:13 AM
31

I'd favor anything that goes in the "treat them like children" lane. "OMG! Let's braid each other's hair." "I just bought some glitter and glue." Ya might get extra lucky and find out she's into the "little" thing. Or unlucky, depending on how you see that sorta thing.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 01:00 AM
1

unless they are chasing only Chads And even then, look how many mail it in once they have a dude locked down.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:21 PM
1

I don't think that explains the double standard in this instance. Here, it's largely the product of why would you feel bad about yourself if you're not failing in your task.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:08 PM
2

If you compare the historical percentage of women who've passed on their genes vs the percentage of men, their success rate speaks for itself. It's hard to acknowledge failure until you've failed.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:13 AM
9

The obsession with outright selfishness is one of the things I believe TRP gets very wrong. In primatology, there have been studies that indicate alpha males benefit from significant generosity. There is an ever-present threat that a beta male -- in the proper primatological sense of a close and strong beneficiary of the alpha leader, not the incorrect TRP sense that anyone who isn't king is just meat -- may overthrow the alpha at any time. The benefit of not being selfish for the alpha male ari…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 10:01 PM
1

If someone is ready for a fight, they're swinging. You don't have time to decide. Otherwise, keep it cool and stay alert. Watch what any friends he has with him are doing, too. If they're staying back, you'll be fine. If they seem frisky, there's a chance it could still get interesting.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 01:12 AM
0

GTFO? Really? Fuckin 14 year old. "He agreed and amplified, so now he has the upper hand." Derp.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 05:00 PM
0

Internet badass, too. Definitely a sign you're a good source of information.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 04:58 PM
1

So, to be clear, your entire objection to what I've said is that I told him to not half-ass learning self-defense. Eyeroll. You ain't been there, motherfucker. Nothing but cliches.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 04:47 PM
1

I'd go with, "Exactly how fucking socially retarded are you?" Pressure flip.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:32 AM
0

if you had a son, and he lives in a sketchy place, what would you say to him I grew up in way worse (U.S., just to be clear). My next-door neighbor killed a guy and torched his body. One friend's brother end up literally chopped up due to a drug deal gone bad. Another friend's brother killed a security guard during a break-in. My brother was stabbed and got left for dead after a fight. One of the funniest things between myself and my brother was that my brother got into waaaay more scraps than m…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 02:03 AM
2

American police officers and soldiers are taught two things that convey intimidation without inviting a fight: Command presence. 360 awareness. I think the very baseline you should start with is building up your body's core. It will change how you stand, and that will change how people see you. In general, learning the art of surveying people works well. I'll disagree a bit with the folks in this thread who tell you to learn to fight. More accurately, don't start any type of combat training unle…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:20 PM
1

I think the ultimate goal is to find someone you can have full trust and honesty with to live your life with And there's literally no one telling you that you can't do that. We're just telling you to be honest with yourself about what terms like "trust" and "honesty" mean. ​
/r/askTRP07/04/19 02:32 AM
15

It comes from an inherent contradiction in human existence. On the one hand, reality is obviously a negotiation. What different things mean is being constantly negotiated through small acts of dominance, submission, subterfuge and so on. Those who've negotiated the present reality aren't particularly fond of a few things: #1 They don't like hearing that reality is negotiated, except of course, when they're objecting to your version of reality. Then it's totally accepted because that's the preten…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 10:22 PM
1

it’s like why even bother Well, not with that attitude! ​
/r/askTRP05/04/19 06:39 PM
1

Correct. Especially now that most stakes have given up on common law marriage as a thing, the incentives are all stacked toward not marrying.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:45 AM
2

Her future ventures will be met with support. “Look - she didn’t rob Bezos dry! That's the really clever thing here. Say whatever you will, her lawyers left her very well-positioned. I'll give her the points for doing the smart thing.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:44 AM
1

My guess is this was negotiated. Seems like she left a lot on the table. Mind you, a good lawyer will tell you to leave well enough alone. it's not like $10B more was gonna make a major difference.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:41 AM
1

Relevant: https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/171/620/690.jpg
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:40 AM
1

Humor, properly executed, is an act of social dominance. You just suck at it.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:38 AM
1

Have you tried farting? Nothing sets the tone like a good aggression fart.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:37 AM
2

No. I'd move much further away.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:37 AM
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I'm amazed it's not higher given the level of social retardation that's prevalent these days. Anymore, most people can't even figure out when someone is flirting with them. Read some of the questions people ask in this sub, FFS. "There was this girl standing three inches away from me, and we talked for hours, and she even laughed at my jokes and said I smell good. Do you think she likes me?" And remember: those are the ones who know they have a problem. As much as there are definitely other fact…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:06 PM
1

I'm not overly invested in this argument, but it interests me nonetheless. I think of it more like the human evolutionary tree. Modern humans, neanderthals and denisovans were all contemporaries, and they even intermixed to a small degree. Each is a distinct branch, but they co-evolved to the point that they were parallel to each other. Until modern humans out-competed their contemporaries into extinction. That's how I see TRP and PUA. PUA is like the neanderthal.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 06:42 PM
1

There's also the "Subtract 2 for Internet-based Self-Reports" rule. Semi-joking aside, IRL the Two-point Rule holds up very well. Most of the time people don't fuck folks who are outside their 2 pt range, and women tend to optimize better than men do -- as in, more female 6s fuck male 8s than male 6s fuck female 8s. Supply and demand in SMV is largely driven by thirsty dudes and high-SMV dudes who don't mind eating a cheeseburger.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 06:37 PM
2

Have you tried burning your name into the lawn in front of her house?
/r/askTRP02/04/19 06:16 AM
8

Let's run the numbers . . . You say swipe left on 5s. Based on the Two-pt Rule, that means you thought you were a 7.5 while in SEA. Subtract 3 points for relocation. Congrats, you're a 4.5 who refuses to swipe right on anything less that a 6. Added fun fact, that female 6 on Tinder is getting messaged by male 8s. Solve for the equilibrium.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 06:14 AM
5

I feel like my SMV dropped to 0 Nope. You were just a white guy banging around SEA. Your SMV was inflated. Now you're crashing back to earth because SMV is very contextual. I am still pretty sure I do better than 90% of the guy's in this country We had the analytics department check the math. You're not. I have no idea how to improve my SMV from there I'm gonna go with "pick a random improvement and work on it". You've been playing the game on the easiest setting as a white dude in SEA. Now you'…
/r/askTRP02/04/19 06:10 AM
9

I think some of his stuff is too cheesy for today "Played out" is the biggest issue. Too many dudes read all the PUA stuff and implemented it with little-to-no calibration or revision. About five years ago my oldest niece was telling me this story about this guy who was rolling through a redneck bar in the middle of nowhere literally doing Mystery's sets like they were paint-by-numbers on every chick in the bar. And she's married to a ripped little fireplug motherfucker who'll beat your ass down…
/r/askTRP02/04/19 05:51 AM
1

Improvement has never been my goal. I'm a relentlessly bored person. I always enjoy just seeing how doing X or Y or Z will change outcomes.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 10:21 PM
2

Fuck it. I'm bored. What are "the truths"? I mean, using the word "truths" in the same sentence as "politics" is a chancy proposition on a good day. I'll stop now and just take in the croaking of the gay frogs.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 05:16 AM
0

It's your dog. This isn't about game. Your dog's a friggin soldier and a family member. Mourn him openly. if she makes a thing out of it, just remind her you won't be crying for her like you will your dog.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 06:01 AM
2

You can have a contextual alpha Not only is there contextual alpha, but every context creates alphas. Watch hardcore "I'm an outsider" nerds do their thing in a social circle. Some of the meanest bullying I've ever seen in my life comes in nerdy social circles. Even in a trailer park, there's a drug dealer somewhere slaying ass.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 07:57 PM
0

Also, a lot of women will cut an attractive jerk a lot of slack. This is the classic case where women sit there defending complete assholes and abusers to their friends and family members by saying, "You don't know him like I do." Basically, they end up acting like pitbull owners. If people try to explain that the guy's going to kill her some day, she just becomes defensive.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 07:54 PM
4

Don't work at a night club, but I've been friends with millions of bouncers and night club owners. Also, I get asked a lot if I'm a bouncer or the club's owner when I'm in a place. Here's the thing. It's exactly one class of women that hits on bouncers. It's the class of women that hunts for ex-military. It includes some women in the Badge Bunny group (cop chasers). It includes the chicks who insist on dating the biggest black dudes they know. You have to project a sense that you will fuck shit …
/r/askTRP29/03/19 06:50 AM
7

"Ignore" is really overstating the concept. Attention is a spigot that you control. In fact, as a man, it's one of the very few things in a relationship or an interaction you always have absolute control over. In my experience, the amount of attention you dole out is something that has to be highly calibrated. Really submissive and shy women often need more attention to keep them in the game. They often come with pre-installed self-worth issues. You can detect them because they're the ones who i…
/r/askTRP29/03/19 06:28 AM
1

If you're sweating a number, you're well on your way to boring the hell out of every woman you meet. Women don't care about this shit. This is intra-guy warfare. The male equivalent of being a queen bee intimidating other girls
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:13 AM
5

Experience will move you to the front of the line, but the line moves really, really fast. And they end up hiring people without experience. I’m from nyc so you don’t really see these kinds of jobs over here Gas and oil people kill me sometimes. They'll hire hillbillies and Mexicans, fly people from Louisiana and Texas to Libya, but somehow they won't advertise in places like NYC where there's lots of people. If you want a city life and access to these types of jobs, it should be noted that Hous…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 06:04 PM
9

Halliburton is all over the planet. https://jobs.halliburton.com/?node-id=hgbr8q6n My next-door neighbor works for them in the U.S. My dad worked for them, and the only thing my mom curses him (long dead) for to this day is not taking a job they offered to ship him to Australia. Hell, a friend's dad worked for them eons ago, and he has fun stories about having to flee Iran when he was kid. Here's an example of what the jobs entail: https://jobs.halliburton.com/job/Montgomery-US-Montgomery-Heavy-…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 06:54 AM
11

My son tells me that he can't find any jobs like this anymore anywhere in the world Bullshit. I've spent my entire life close to the gas and oil industry through family and business relationships. If there are people sinkin' holes in the ground somewhere, there's a job that any able-bodied man can sign up for. They'll hire any fuckin' idiot. Turnover is terrible because the work is often like three weeks on and one week off, but tough shit. Where there's a will there's a way. And, yeah, he might…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 12:05 AM
1

Is it a sex drive, though? Or is it an extension of the same tendency? One thing that TRP does a good job of versus PUA is making the point that sex isn't everything. TBH, your sex life sounds more like an addiction cycle. For example, it's common for nymphomaniacs to have lots of sex and yet feel exhausted and bored by all of it.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:43 PM
1

YMMV. Just my experience. Etc. I'm a pretty intimidating guy. Women who hit on me regularly ask if I'm a bouncer, cop or ex-military. I remember this one chick who said to me, "You look like you're going to hit somebody. I don't mean like punch hit. I mean like hitman hit." Women like to convince themselves that the intimidation factor isn't a big deal.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:40 PM
4

how do I build outcome independence In my experience, outcome independence tends to grow from lessons learned. It's not a TRP-and-sex sort of thing, but I used to be an absolute bomb of road rage. (I'm also shockingly gifted at talking my way out of things when the police are called, so . . .) I didn't truly learn outcome independence until I destroyed the work I had just done on the driveshaft of my truck by throwing a turn in the middle of a busy intersection to chase a driver who had cut me o…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:51 AM
1

It's not confidence in isolation. Outcome independence is a bigger deal, IMO. I've known lots of confident people who could be broken if you could attack the source of their confidence. I mean, go back and study the 2004 U.S. Presidential Election. Do you think for a minute that John Kerry ever imagined anyone would attack him straight down the line on his war record? You had a man who had seen combat, led other men and been a Senator and . . . he looked like a boxer about to have his match call…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:32 AM
1

Let's see . . . Outcome independence + quick approach + ZFG. I have a nephew who fits this profile to a T. Right down to the moobs. In the summer, he wears wifebeaters and is sporting full sidemoob. Spiked hair and a long, wiry-thin beard that looks like ass. His game is flawless, though. You can't ding him with insults because he'll just Agree-and-Amplify them back with a laugh and saying, "I know! Right?" He always has something funny to say. He can take over a whole room just telling a story.…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:17 AM
10

Dating apps are highly gamified. (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gamification) What you're experiencing is the dopamine withdrawal that occurs when you're not getting your hit. It doesn't help that you also have an external locus of control. That's a common save-a-ho guy problem. You don't feel valued unless other people are aware of your value. You want to bring value to others. Unplug that shit and develop some outcome independence. You might be getting laid a lot, but your game has gaping hole…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:02 AM
1

This is the third time she's asked me to come over in 3 days She's testing to see if there's more going on emotionally. She wants you to chase, and it's driving her nuts that you're not. This is aloof-busy in action. This one could be a very weird case. Remember, a woman doesn't want a guy to chase, but she also wants to know she's attractive enough to make him chase. I think your frame control is getting into her head. Notably, just because she wants you to chase doesn't mean she necessarily wa…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:51 AM
1

Be a little more mindful when you're thinking about these things. Foremost: what do you stand to gain here? If you're not talking to her because you're done, then there's no upside in humoring this. Done is done. If you're trying to get her to comply with a particular frame -- basically freezing her out -- then I would provide a concise explanation of the offense and the corrective actions that are expected to be taken. She'll squeal and complain, but just hold your frame and stick to your point…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:45 AM
3

It depends on just how much assholery you've been laying on. At maximum assholery, there's a good chance she's trying to defuse some of it. Women come at me pretty thick with, "You have kind eyes." (Which is a useless data point because gorillas have kind eyes, and they'll rip your arm out of the fuckin socket.) My advice is to let the remark go uncommented. There isn't much upside in engaging with it. If you play like a badass, you lose because it looks like puffery. If you concede the point, y…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:39 AM
8

If you're at the point where she's bringing up sex, you've missed a go signal somewhere.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:33 AM
3

I like salsa dancing. You have to be retarded to not be able to learn the salsa "on two." Salsa sounds exotic to everyone except hispanic girls. And hispanic girls are just happy when a guy wants to go salsa dancing, so that's a win for me, too. Added bonus: salsa has an insane female-to-male ratio on the dance floor because guys are intimidated by it, so jealousy game is set to 11.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 06:41 AM
1

The alpha radar is always on. Even if a woman is past the wall, she will be a creepy fuck -- like genuine dirty old man behavior -- around an alpha who doesn't want to fuck her. Or if you look at when women go into that fangirl mode if an alpha treats her like anything better than run-off from a landfill. Watch like how pudgy 5s behave in photos with Jason Momoa. I've watched committed beta bucks women take rides on alpha cock when it risked them losing their meal ticket. I've had women in LTRs …
/r/askTRP25/03/19 06:38 AM
1

"Are you sure? I thought you treasured that jar of farts I left you."
/r/askTRP25/03/19 06:02 AM
1

All the gifts she gave me Um . . . if she's in gift-giving mode and you're being anything close to abusive, then you've really, really miscalibrated. When a woman is giving a man gifts, even small tokens of affection, without prompting, it's a massive sign that she sees her SMV as below his. This mate-retention behavior, not a signal that she needs to be put in her place. At most, the situation called for a minimal maintenance level of cute assholery, the kind that leads to her punching you on t…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 06:00 AM
2

I hate to advocate for old school PUA game, but virtually any techno/rave type setting is a good place to do some weird shit. Especially if it's late into the night. Everybody usually has their first round of drugs in their system by 1am, and pretty much anything sparkly or blinky will more than capture their attention. Glow sticks are cheap, but the more active the toy is the better. Materials are very winning, too. I have a friend who went out with us to this one massively drugged-out New Year…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 05:54 AM
5

"Hello" is underrated. I usually work together something simple based on her profile. Most people have at least one thing they wish others would notice about them, and they often telegraph that in their profiles. Like the last chick I messaged had a profile that said something about hating her job at a coffee bar but being able to whip up a mean cup of joe. So, I said hello and then asked her what her plans were to serve a tea drinker. Slightly contrary, but not dickish. Preferably, you want to …
/r/askTRP25/03/19 05:37 AM
5

Checks OP's online dating profile pics . . . https://imagesvc.timeincapp.com/v3/mm/image?url=https%3A%2F%2Ftimedotcom.files.wordpress.com%2F2017%2F10%2F391_mindhunter_103_unit_04270r2.jpg&w=800&c=sc&poi=face&q=85 ​ she says she has a boyfriend ​ That's the end of the game. You've lost. "I have a boyfriend" is woman-ese for "I'm trying to let you off light because I'm a woman and I'm scared that I will be judged/yelled at/murdered if I go too hard on you." Eject and move on. Even guys who abduct …
/r/askTRP25/03/19 05:29 AM
3

I have very little experience talking to women My advice is to start with very general practice conversing with everyone you meet. Go to the grocery store? Bullshit with the folks at the deli and the cashiers. Have to make a bank deposit? Go in and bullshit with the tellers. Standing around at the garage waiting for your car to be fixed? Bullshit with the guy at the front window. I strongly advocate for learning conversation in a desexualized context. First, it'll make you a generally better tal…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 05:23 AM
9

Let's pick my favorite example . . . A lot of women sexualize conversations via chat as a way of soliciting attention. I am a huge opponent of offering any sexual validation via chat. If she wants validation, she can show the hell up, behave on a date, and maybe I'll fuck her if she doesn't annoy me. All chat sessions with women are like closed positions in chess. If you frustrate easily or insist upon being unnecessarily aggressive, you will come out the loser in the exchange, and then you'll q…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 05:14 AM
3

It's very hard in 2019 to prove gay sex. He may just be a straight-identifying man having sex with other men.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 04:50 AM
5

All those career-obsessed "dominant" women you see who scoff at traditionally female conventions, move aggressively and speak bluntly? In fairness, though, you'll never see a group of women who switch on instantly for a dominant man as quickly as alleged alpha females. The bitch in HR, I promise, can't last a week with a guy unless he uses her hair as a bridle to control her during sex. I remember this one hardass HR bitch -- and I mean she looked fucking mean AF in her online dating profiles --…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 04:45 AM
1

I tend to take a "pain in the ass" approach to chats. I've found that weeds them out pretty quickly. Then again, I am a pain in the ass to deal with, so it's mostly truth in advertising.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 04:15 AM
1

maybe 7’s. They are instagram hot I already like this guy. im shitty in bed/cant get hard/nervous/flaky Internalized truths are poison, man. As for the core idea of being shitty in bed, let's cover a few things . . . Even the most experienced guy is going to have a learning curve with a new partner. Everybody's turn-ons are different, and finding the right buttons to press takes time. That gets even more complicated when you add the dynamic between two people. You're gonna have a lot of bad sex.…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 10:08 PM
1

I'm partial to staying fully engaged in conversations while looking at other women. Most of my game is clubs and bars, so the setting makes it super easy. This can quickly be pushed too far, but that's funny to watch, anyhow. Girls that aren't used to not having your full attention tend to get pissed after about 20 minutes. You'll know it's working because they'll start getting louder or they'll start physically nudging you to get you to notice them. I've also had a couple physically assault me,…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 05:51 AM
1

Have you ever watched a broadcast team? There's a reason they have someone there that they can trust and banter off of. My advice is to not obsess too much about it. Social circle game beats solo game in most instances. And I say that as a guy who loves rolling solo. If you have to go out solo, practice insinuating yourself into groups you don't know. A simple "What is that?" is often all it takes. "What exercise are you doing?" "What beer are you drinking?" "What dance move is that?" "What kind…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 05:42 AM
1

It's debatable whether EMDR accomplishes its goal via the eye movement mechanism or via a narrow focus on installing specific positive behaviors. Yes, the eye movement part is what gets it attention. The goal, however, is to focus the patient on specific negative cognitions and then replace those with positive ones. My theory has been that the advantage EMDR has over conventional drug and talk therapies is that it steers the patient into the problem rather than away.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:43 PM
4

I'm increasingly convinced that TRP is basically cognitive behavioral therapy with a side of EMDR (both are psychological approaches that have proven efficacy in treating trauma and anxiety). On the CBT side of things, TRP is mostly about learning that the things that make you anxious aren't the end of the world. This is the older PUA idea that you need to do a large number of approaches, even failed ones, just to learn that a girl not wanting to fuck you is far from the world's greatest tragedy…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:38 AM
1

There are women who despise it. Mostly women who grew up around solid father figures or ones whose dads were total pushovers.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:57 PM
5

I've said this before, but I'll say it again . . . If the whole world licked your ass clean every day and then thanked you for the privilege of doing so, you'd eventually assume that's just how the world works.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 05:44 AM
1

Does any of this actually matter?
/r/askTRP18/03/19 05:43 AM
1

You know that a period is supposed to be followed by a space, right? Mistakes happen to the best of us. People hide behind "mistakes." why hate on the dude when he is trying trp Because a lot of dudes are doing tragically stupid shit. Sometimes you spike the brakes to make the other person wake up. ​
/r/askTRP17/03/19 07:16 PM
5

I was kinda shocked, so I stuck around That's not harassing at all . . . Seriously, how socially retarded are you to force yourself into a racially charged conversation at a fuckin night club? Alcohol and race . . . what could possibly go wrong there? Dafuq is wrong with you, man? I'm being escorted and kicked out of the club for "harassment". Pro tip: guys have zero value to a club unless they're clearly spending lots of money. This world is backwards No. You're just stupid. ​
/r/askTRP17/03/19 05:50 PM
2

Reductio ad absurdum is a lazy way to argue.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 05:39 PM
2

A-list actors, musicians, athletes The entertainment A-list is significantly smaller than 1% of the total population. ​
/r/askTRP17/03/19 05:07 PM
1

I'm mostly being a smartass.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 06:23 AM
10

The human ego does weird shit to protect itself. One of the best self-defenses is establishing such high criteria for success that you can never attain it. If your sole standard of success is having a 300-foot yacht, then it doesn't look as bad to own a mid-90s Honda that needs body work (and not do any of the body work, because why would you?).
/r/askTRP17/03/19 04:08 AM
4

I didn't say that. There's two criteria there. And FTR, there is a shit ton of non-working men in the industrialized world. 31% of employable men in the U.S. are currently unemployed and not even bothering to look for work. And that's before you factor in the completely unemployable, the SSDI-eligible. Also, U.S. labor statistics don't include prime age men who are currently in school and not working. It doesn't factor in underemployed men, or fully employed men scraping by with public assistanc…
/r/askTRP17/03/19 04:01 AM
2

Oxytocin is more highly specific. It's part of the neuro pathway that governs high-stress bonding, such as mother-child following birth or the war buddy bond.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 03:57 AM
49

In my experience, human beings tend to end up following one of two paths: complacency or competition. Everyone starts out competitive. Watch little kids run against each other, fight, etc. Everybody wants to be the best. Everybody wants to show their mom the cool thing they did. They want their dad to applaud them. They want their friends to cheer like they're fuckin Harry Potter at the end of a Quiddich match. (Hence, the popularity of those stories and the larger heroic myth they borrow heavil…
/r/askTRP17/03/19 03:54 AM
15

Dopamine. Virtually every addiction on the planet, from heroin to gambling, fucks with the neuroreceptors and transmitters that underpin your reward system. Worse, the companies that make addicting products know this.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 03:35 AM
7

Take it how you want. It just kills me how many people act like game is so hard, and yet there's basically no fucking competition at all. Some unemployed dude in a trailer park living off his mom can get ass, but guys act like it's the labors of Hercules for them to get laid.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 03:31 AM
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I said " stop playing video games 18 hours a day ". What I've seen in the last three generations of men is that more and more of them are spending absurd amounts of time playing video games. I say "18 hours a day" only half-jokingly. Worse, you see lots of dudes these days who act like it's going to pay off, because thanks to e-sports and streaming we now have millions of dudes who think they're going to make bank. That part of the equation is getting like the problem used to be with kids who th…
/r/askTRP17/03/19 03:26 AM
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It's so, so much worse than that. If you can be bothered to get your shit together at all -- say, get a job and stop playing video games 18 hours a day -- you're already in the top 20% (where opportunity begins). Wear decent clothes, groom half-decently and take care of your body at all? Congrats, you're now in the top 10%. Speak without being a constantly deferring pants-shitter? Welcome to the top 5%. In other words, with barely any effort at all, you're in spitting distance of the top 1%. Mak…
/r/askTRP17/03/19 12:51 AM
1

many the GUYS around me seem jealous and feel the need to try and challenge me now That shit you have to ride out. Guys get super girlie about other guys' success, especially when it upsets the in-group peer dynamic. About 10 years ago (I'm 40, FYI), I started getting my shit together. Got in shape, started making money, traveling, etc. Many guys who were close to me really started challenging the female response. Even though I don't flash money and I'm the first guy to put a gold digger in her …
/r/askTRP17/03/19 12:01 AM
1

simply cuz she’s more jealous of other girl ( found panties)? Or is she really into me Why not both? ​
/r/askTRP16/03/19 11:50 PM
1

Here's a question: what makes you so interesting? ​
/r/askTRP16/03/19 11:47 PM
1

Most of my cats I've ever had crippled their prey and then tortured it for hours.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 11:46 PM
3

suck each other's dicks And remember, it's just six straight guys enjoying each others' bodies.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 06:25 AM
2

If that's what you guys have together, then they're not your friends. They're just your party buddies. There's nothing wrong with that, but you need to find people who do other shit you care about. I generally keep my groups of friends pretty segregated for this reason. Some people are more fun to get fucked up with than others, but some people can exactly be taken out in public in daylight without causing a scene. That's just life. Start binning your friends, and keep making friends until you'v…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 06:24 AM
8

Game is the understanding that none of those things you've listed are only innate traits. If you're open to that idea and want to improve, you are educable. In other words, it's like an actual game. There are rules. There are tactics and tricks. It's even possible to play dirty. It's also possible to learn the game starting from nothing.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 03:46 AM
2

I thought of a better personal example . . . A few years back I was hanging around outside the bar, after it closed, airing out and sobering up because I needed to drive home. There were these two college girls and two college guys, and the guys were trying hard in the creepiest BP way possible to pick the girls up. "It's late, and you never know who you might run into out here." That kinda shit. I looked at the two guys and said, "You're not gonna get laid by pretending to be her gay friend loo…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 01:56 AM
1

It's not confidence. It's actively directing the way a situation is thought about. Let's say you've met a few chicks at a club, and you want them to come with. Frame 1: "Hey, do you wanna come back to my place?" Frame 2: "Let's keep this party rollin'! Everybody's coming back to my place. Let's go." Confidence helps in Frame 2, but it's not the point of the enterprise. The point is to frame the decision as: a) Fun. b) Collectively approved. c) The only direction things are going. d) A done deal.…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 01:41 AM
3

2 feet. Anything less than that is basically a man clit. Seriously? Is there a winning solution besides, "make the most of what you have?"
/r/askTRP15/03/19 11:11 PM
1

My best approaches have always been moving straight in and bringing a completely balls out attitude. My all-time favorite approach was these two chicks I saw on a beach in the middle of the night outside of a nightclub. I saw them go running into the ocean, stripping down as they were running. I walked like 300 feet from the boardwalk down to where they were and gave them a loud laugh and a slow clap. I hollered at them, "That was awesome!" I also remember a chick, out with her friends at this u…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:37 AM
3

Nothing but an aggression fart would have saved this relationship.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:14 AM
1

Like I said, guys become zealots. Everything become TRP doctrine, and they barely think. You'll get posts on here that sounds like they were written by the participants from Project Mayhem. Guys who can't embrace basic ideas like calibration because they're always coloring inside the lines.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 01:16 AM
3

I remember a while back -- more when PUA was becoming a widely known thing, but TRP was still just percolating -- there was a book written about the PUA community that tried to apply some social science to the whole thing. One of the common themes they found in talking to the guys who offered their services as coaches was that guys were rarely looking for the whole package of what we think of today as TRP. In many cases, they would develop skills for about a year, nail down a LTR, and just proce…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 09:03 PM
2

I think guys jump on TRP a little too young. It doesn't hurt to go out in the world, take a few lumps and then figure out what answers you're looking for. At your age, it should be something that's at the edge of your mind, and then you come back to it when you have a specific question. Too many young guys cram TRP and then start getting doctrinaire about it. They get in that weird mode like religious converts get, where they want to crush all heresy and study all the sacred texts. That can beco…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 08:53 PM
1

Most women, due to the cultural emphasis on politeness expected of them, don't engage in overt signals of losing interest. Instead, you just start losing the signals that indicate interest. Eye contact when the interest is there tends to be most obvious sign of when to escalate. They also tend to get a bit more fidgety.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:21 PM
1

Another thing that guys sometimes miss is that there's a moment when a woman is ready to fuck, and when you keep talking past that moment she starts to assume you're too socially retarded to pick up the signal. A lot of guys end up missing the exit in these situations.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:43 PM
5

You weren't impressed by this gem? . . . spending like 9 hours total together ​
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:47 AM
5

In my experience, what military and police call "360 awareness" and "command presence" are the two big things that shut people down before they start. People see you quickly size them up. Especially aggressive people. That act of spotting them and assessing them in a split second let's them know they're not in for an easy fight if they engage.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 09:11 PM
1

The right answer is: "If you want them gone, you'll just have to kill them yourself." Then take a little self-amusement in saying it.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 09:05 PM
3

laughs at me for my lifestyle and interests Stop giving them information to work with. The only time she should be responding to what you're saying is when you're using conversation to assert social dominance. Mostly, that boils down to when you're telling a joke or a yarn. Be a mystery. Women eat that shit up. You're never going to be hotter than the guy she imagines you to be, so leave as much shit as possible to her imagination. A woman doesn't fall in love with a guy. She falls in love with …
/r/askTRP11/03/19 09:04 PM
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​ Should I fight dudes Let me save you some trouble. If you have the capacity to think "Should I fight," I promise you're not a fighter. Worse, you read somewhere between target and non-entity. I grew up around aggressive and violent people. We know our type when we see each other out in the world. There's something in your posture that lets aggressors know they can blow past you. I guarantee it. Not to mention the mountain of beta orbiters in her text messages and Snapchat She's actively cultiv…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 08:47 PM
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I wouldn't tell 21 y.o. me a damned thing. He wouldn't have listened, and he certainly wouldn't have understood the explanation of why the list of women he could have fucked was so friggin long. Unfortunately, the wake up call for me was at 27, and it involved a chick who went stupidly far out of her way for me. The "why" questions surrounding that moment were what actually got me moving in the right direction. If I were going to do any version of this, it would have been 12 y.o. me. That was wh…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 05:32 AM
1

But good dick is an unknown until she gets there. Getting to good dick means trudging through a lot of bad dick. Also, there's no guarantee that good dick will stay. That's why good dick is prison for women.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 08:04 PM
11

I would think anyone alive in the age of social media would be instantly aware of the fakeness factor in how people present themselves publicly.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 05:35 AM
23

Social death is the greatest fear of every woman. It's pure and simple. Dick is this side note in a woman's life. Other women's opinions of them are the main event.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 02:53 AM
1

Yeah, but that's not funny. Bewbs. Bewbs is funny. There's no substitute for experience, and the only way to get is to steer into the problem.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 09:32 PM
3

Never having sex doesn't stop 14 y.o. boys from turning every conversation sexual.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 07:56 PM
2

That's a waaaay down the road issue. Avoiding actual legal entanglement is the first goal. After that, you collect the police reports and present them as evidence if there is a hearing. Like many problems in life, you stop the bleeding first and then figure out whether you have to amputate.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 02:52 AM
3

Well, keeping your ass out of legal trouble is always step 1.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 02:50 AM
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That night she texted me and said she felt horrible for cheating This plus this . . . Midway through she gets up and grabs a condom for me and we keep going. . . . is the end of any actual legal case. The main argument a defense attorney would make is that her calling it "cheating" indicates that she provided affirmative consent. Otherwise, it's not cheating. Make sure you keep that first text. If you have any other texts that help set up how you got to that point, those will be helpful. So now …
/r/askTRP07/03/19 09:47 PM
2

It arises from the notion that being there as a friend entitles you to eventually expect more than just being friends. In other words, it's fuckin creepy.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 09:25 PM
2

wants to take advantage of me and make me her sub First part is right because that's what all humans do. Second part . . . very not gonna happen. I know a few dudes who are actively into the femdom thing, and they're basically wandering through the desert. ​
/r/askTRP06/03/19 08:15 PM
1

A lot of it boils down to how big an opening they think they have to end up in a relationship. One of my strengths that often turns into a weakness is that I'm incredibly good at creating comfort through conversation. The upside is that women tend to feel "connection" with me from the moment we meet. The downside is they often freak out when their initial assessment of my investment doesn't match the real-world results. That's not a big deal if you're comfortable changing out partners like spare…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 04:11 AM
1

Now you're committing the exact binning error I said people should avoid. These guys are gammas and omegas.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:52 PM
5

Don't forget the benefits of sitting in that perfect spot in the 6 to 7 range, where a chick is just low enough in SMV that friggin more guys plow in giving her attention because they think they have a chance.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:29 PM
2

Humans are traders of social capital, and a free dollar is a free dollar.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:27 PM
3

"Kind and naive" is really overstating the case. Humans are collectors of social capital, regardless of their motivations. Some people just have so much social capital that they suffer from the "born on third base / think they hit a triple" problem. That doesn't make a person inherently kind or naive. In many cases, it just makes them dangerous and clueless.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:25 PM
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Let's remember that the alpha-beta hierarchy is a complete mischaracterization of primates in nature. An alpha is the top ape. The betas are the apes who benefit from being near the alpha. Some betas will kill the alphas and take over. Gammas are the wimps surviving by not picking fights. Omegas are the apes on the outside looking in. An omega is a dead ape who just doesn't know it yet. The reason we get the hierarchy wrong is because in nature the omegas exist on a conveyor belt of death. In ou…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:50 AM
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I'm gonna disagree here. If the whole world licks your ass clean every day, eventually you just assume that's how the world works. Throw in the standard solipsism, and it's fairly easy to fall down that hole.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:43 AM
3

It's hard to read the OP's post and feel like there's an sincerity there about improvement. Lots of "I can't". Somehow people immigrate to whole new countries with nothing and thrive, but somehow this guy is the lone person in history who's just totally hopeless. Dudes work out in jail with no equipment, but he can't get in shape. Sure.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:17 PM
5

She wants a boyfriend, not a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 08:06 PM
3

If you're friends, shouldn't you be able to just run into her in your normal friend interactions?
/r/askTRP26/02/19 09:02 PM
2

The issue with psychopathy is that it tends to lead people in one of two directions. Lower function psychopaths end up in the klink. Higher function psychopaths end up being doctors, politicians, wealth managers, etc. The popular image of psychopaths is perpetuated by the media, and it focuses on, essentially, high-function psychopaths who do things that low-function ones would do. The Hannibal Lecter image. In general, people talking about psychopathy in the TRP context are talking about high-f…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 08:59 PM
3

Internalized truths are poison. ​ Read all these "I'm not" sentences and think about that. You cannot piss away your life acting out all of these falsehoods you've taught yourself. ​ If you put in the work over time, you'll be shocked by how many "I am" or "I'm not" ideas are just busted parts that can be swapped out rather than ground truths. ​ If you caught me at the end of college, I was in that boat. "I'm not a partier." "I'm not social." Around 27, I started to realize there was a whole wor…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 05:10 AM
1

Fair nuff.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:58 PM
2

I don't see it as sandboxing. I see it as learning a skill that generalizes incredibly well. It's worth a lot more than just what you get from trying to get a piece of ass. It allows you to do business, build a social circle and just be a genuinely useful human to your fellow humans.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:24 PM
2

He means uncle butt stuff.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:57 PM
1

If she's actually that unattractive, she has heard this song before and will recognize the tune once she gets close to being rejected. Don't underestimate that she's just enjoying the moment and hoping for the best. Women will frequently steer into unwinnable scenarios just because they like the feeling that someone might be into them. I'd be willing to bet that she never fully puts you on the spot or she only does so once.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 07:12 PM
1

"Pursue" is too strong a word here. Do you leave a line of communication open for someone who might straighten their shit out? Sure. Life can and does happen, and they may very well have a reasonable excuse. Conversely, you tend to get a feel for who the legit flakes are. In my experience, they start dropping hints very early on in your conversations.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 07:10 PM
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In terms of learning approach, I encourage people to practice casual conversations every day and at every opportunity in completely non-sexual contexts. Talk to the 60 y.o. lady at the door at Walmart. When you need money from the bank, go in and talk to the tellers. Make a point to talk with restaurant staff when you go out to eat. Bullshit with the guy who runs the pizza place while you're waiting for your pie. Desexualizing the basic cold approach is what works. Then you do it because it's ju…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 07:04 PM
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You're welcome to just test ideas. It's not like there's some secret sauce aspect to "lift, bro." Try it. What's the worst that happens? Same goes for encouraging approach. Try it. What's the worst that happens? (Seriously, this is pretty much the basis of cognitive behavioral therapy.) It's not like there's an alpha award show held every year. I'm an advocate of the idea that TRP gets the whole alpha-beta thing pretty damned wrong based on what we know about primates, anyhow. So, let's break it…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 06:53 AM
0

"Now that's just inviting trouble." Cocky smirk, devious laugh. You'll find out real fast what she's down for with that one.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 03:08 AM
3

Three whole dates! Overreacting much?
/r/askTRP22/02/19 06:23 PM
13

Outcome independence
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:08 AM
2

I've always been good at shutting these things down. In my experience, you have to engage with the material and either neg or pressure flip. I come from a family of batshit crazy emotional sadists, so blowing people up is for me like a fish swimming in water. Two of my favorite versions of this play went like this. #1. She's bragging about having fucked an NFL player before. I told her, "Fucking the punter doesn't count." That ended it right there. #2. Similar "these guys are messaging" shit. I …
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:08 PM
1

Low energy comeback.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 04:24 AM
1

I don’t think women should be entering our thoughts at all. Your seed has been wiped from this earth. Evolution has judged you unfit. Thank you for playing. ​
/r/askTRP18/02/19 04:17 AM
2

Levi is plowing Enos's wife. People always make fun of the Amish but get their names wrong. It's hard to truly insult people if you don't know them well enough to be insulting.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 04:08 AM
1

I don't disagree with the assessment you've made at all. ​
/r/askTRP18/02/19 03:59 AM
93

Life is something that happens to women. Life is something men make happen. And, yeah . . . it's a dumb dichotomy. I could take things like the Zodiac more seriously if they could be bothered to be internally consistent. If the stars influence our lives, fuck it, sure. Gravitons or something pulling at your heartstrings, I guess. But could you at least make the requisite adjustment to account for the fact the goddamned stars have moved?
/r/askTRP17/02/19 02:42 AM
1

The police tell me that I’m not being charged or arrested because Sally admitted nothing happened That's a long story for fuckin nothing. Hope you got the cops names, because the police report would be the lynchpin of any potential case. FTR, nothing's going to happen. ​
/r/askTRP16/02/19 11:38 PM
1

I live near a medium-size college town that's in reasonable driving range of a major city. (less than an hour if traffic isn't hell) I have a lot of options depending on my boredom level. I can go hit the college bars or some underground rave shit. I even have some hardcore redneck bars if I head the opposite direction and want that dive experience. ​
/r/askTRP16/02/19 03:13 AM
1

Losing interest? Bah. I'm too interesting for that to happen. want to see you in control of initiative True. Some women ride that shit like a drug. I just don't humor them because it's not my style. Most women who are into me like the distant vibe and a big toughness. I've found being consistent in a winning game is more important than trying to hit all the marks. ​
/r/askTRP15/02/19 09:41 PM
1

Just my experience, but the runup to the holidays and the early spring seem to be the best times. Holidays seems to be a social pressure thing. People seem to hate being alone at Christmas. I think the prospect of seeing family also reminds them that they're single. Early spring seems to be a combination of hardwired mating instincts and the benefits of all the winter clothing coming off. ​
/r/askTRP14/02/19 06:34 PM
1

No need for blackface. Remember, you can just identify as black. Transracial, trans lesbian. Ahhh . . . the 21st Century . . . so much fun.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 06:27 PM
1

Cult.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:58 AM
1

Why the heck would for example a girl flirt with a guy then turn him down Why does a company call you in for an interview and then not hire you? Sometimes you have to size up the candidate before you can render a judgment. ​
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:56 AM
1

Sports. Performing in bands. Pretty much all stereotypically male activities are attention-seeking behavior.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:53 AM
11

This isn't a shit test. She's a flake. What's probably happening is that her anxiety is flaring up, causing her BPD to agitate her fibromylagia.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:49 AM
1

Saying "South America" doesn't really help us help you. If you're in some friggin Ruvian mountain village full of old ladies who guard the young stock, that's a different deal than being at a night club in Medellin. If you're white and your Spanish is at all serviceable, the urban areas should be completely in play. Usually the chicks who want to fuck a white guy troll the clubs and bars where the expats are. Hell, that's a rule that applies everywhere, not just SA.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:47 AM
3

Ew. In my experience, it's best to avoid the holidays that attract the non-professionals. Dating on Valentine's Day is like drinking on St. Patty's Day. When I go out looking to fuck around, the last thing I want to see are wounded romantics who hate themselves for being single.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:42 AM
7

The dreaded trans lesbian.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:37 AM
1

Obvious qualifier here that this is just my experience (turning 41 next month). Girls probably do quite well to hide the fact they’re the plate of a guy 10-20 years their senior. I've found that most younger women who are down with an older guy aren't particularly worried about the age part. I've pretty much looked 30 my entire life, even in my late teens, so it's quite possible I've just had more practice than some at addressing the "you're old". The last time I remember getting any pushback ab…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:33 AM
1

I don't see women as childlike. In fact, in the vast majority of circumstances, women can be very intelligent. The thing is, you have to treat them like total degenerate junkies in two situations: When a guy is the prize. Women are downright dangerous when the thing on the right-hand side of the equation is a man that they want. Whenever a female competitor comes into the picture. As for talking to them like children, you should speak that way to everyone until they prove they deserve better. Mo…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 11:12 PM
2

Haha. You think you can set boundaries. That's cute. Setting a boundary is practically asking for it to be crossed. It's an invitation that the first time she wants to feel the heat of your jealousy she can readily poke the bear. ​
/r/askTRP12/02/19 11:09 PM
3

Unintentionally say something that makes you look bad or creates a position you can't fix.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:39 PM
1

In my experience, the willingness to fill silences tends to tell you just how into you they are. Someone who doesn't want a messaging session to die will work harder.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:37 PM
7

If he went for being more cunning and less of a hot head he'd be on his way up the corporate ladder. If he went that direction, he wouldn't have made it past the casting director. Also, minimal research gives the actual origin . . . https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/chad-thundercock
/r/askTRP12/02/19 06:30 AM
3

“omg you’re such an asshole” My favorite response to this is: "People tell me I can't take a compliment, so I'll just let that one stand." ​
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:44 AM
16

Here's the greatest punchline of being quiet around women: they often assume it's a sign that you're a good listener. As long as you resist the urge to go blue pill / emotional tampon, that perception can pay dividends. Men and women have very different emotional languages. TRP folks often trash feminism, but there was a brief glimmer-of-hope moment in the late 80s and early 90s when feminists were comfortable talking about these differences in style. (Before the circular firing squad of Third W…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:39 AM
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all of the girls I encounter have been flirting so much harder and even initiating conversations into logistics with me Aw, shit. This guy is pretty close to having it dialed in perfectly. if you've read all the sidebar stuff, you may recall some mentions of the idea that you want to make yourself something that she has to work for. You're the prize. As an added bonus, human beings fucking hate silence. They will fill the silence if you don't. In many cases, you should just let them. A month bac…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 12:11 AM
1

What is . . . "Things said during the Trump campaign's collusion with the Russians." It's 2019, man. Always assume your statements will come out. Your blackface photos are out there. That time you said you didn't think Hitler was all bad is out there. That time you told a friend you thought it would be cool to see what it would be like to dismember a hooker in vivo. Don't assume that hearsay can't be converted into hard evidence. That's how people get caught scrambling to cover shit up. The best…
/r/askTRP11/02/19 11:35 PM
2

I was already halfway there, but I've always had a soft spot for crazy due to some childhood issues. The women in my family pass down an X chromosome that is some weaponized crazy. You've never seen crazy bitch tactics fully deployed in a relationship until you've watched my sister deploy her lethal combination clingy, manipulation and sudden branch-swinging serial monogamy. She could go from lying about a pregnancy/miscarriage to keep a guy to dating a new guy in a month and pin all the blame o…
/r/askTRP11/02/19 09:55 PM
5

I dated a BPD chick (knowingly) years ago. The one night she was being especially flaky when we were out at the bar -- started shit with me, then walked away and sat flirting with a bouncer who was not into it at all -- and eventually I put her on the spot. She tried to pin it all on me, so i just left her ass at the bar even though i was her ride. I felt bad about it at the time. This was early, half aware of TRP days for me; also, it's really not my style to leave anyone in a lurch even now. T…
/r/askTRP11/02/19 09:36 PM
6

Clearly not a reader of the news. https://abcnews.go.com/US/michelle-carter-convicted-texting-suicide-case-headed-jail/story?id=60991290 If you're one to invoke the theory that a man will always pay more hell for a crime (a generally accepted TRP principle) . . . what does a guy pull down as a sentence for this crime?
/r/askTRP11/02/19 09:28 PM
2

I'll second this. It feels a bit like how some drug users just keeping pushing for a bigger rush. Taking Oxycontin becomes crushing pills. Crushing pills gives way to shooting up heroin. Pretty soon you're inhaling some janky fentanyl-laced shit just to get that hit. ​
/r/askTRP10/02/19 01:16 AM
7

Where did I miss that?! I've been ignoring him for a while, so . . . wow. Then again, this is a guy who used to tell people to call him "Puff" and "Daddy". I mean, fuck, there's verb in there and a direct object.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 01:12 AM
1

How to get rid of these cuckold fantasies? Signs up a Fetlife account. Ends up discovering blood play and consensual non-consent. Finally starts murdering women who remind him of his mom. Circle back to mommy porn is complete. Achievement unlocked. You've gone to supermax. I think I'm joking, but there is definitely a pattern of escalation and exploration that occurs with people, so . . . to future investigators reading this, my bad. Shoulda reported Reddit Cuckold MILF Strangler when i had the …
/r/askTRP10/02/19 01:11 AM
4

High SMV stuff . . . The beard is under control and the ponytail is totally gone! I've finally stopped outright vandalizing my own appearance. Yay! A victory for real progress. I'm dressing well. My build is at the point people start describing me as "lean." I have my shit together financially. I can remember this one shot girl who just went mental about me a few years ago. (I'm gonna say 5 yrs, but these things get fuzzy with time.) If you've ever seen the porn star Dillion Harper, she basicall…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 12:32 AM
4

Reddit is telling me this is too long, so i'll have to break it up . . . ​ Given my feelings on self-reporting of SMV, I'm going to break this up into "Low," "Middle," and "High" just to keep the discussion more general and less about specific numbers, which can be wobbly. Circumstances do matter. A middle manager, after all, can project attitude and be a situationally high SMV figure in the business he works at and get blown out as a low SMV creep at the club, after all. Also, this is all my ow…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 12:32 AM
1

I didn't say it was a norm. I just said it was a thing. I don't disagree on the fitness front, but a lot of guys end up painting by numbers and just lifting.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 12:30 AM
26

As someone whose SMV has been all over the place (weight and hygiene issues when I was younger), I can tell you that two specific things let me know when it all had clicked. First, strangers start striking up conversations with you even when you're just sitting at a bar or club. Not just the old, drunk weirdos who want to tell you why the government should be overthrown, but actual humans who appear to have value in and of themselves. Second, women hang around longer and longer the more your SMV…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 02:03 AM
1

I think it was Gene Simmons (or some other super-aged rock star) who said it best. You can't always have steak. Sometimes you want a cheeseburger. Don't sweat it. You had a cheeseburger. One burger doesn't break your diet.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 01:49 AM
7

Thank you. I was very proud of that one when I wrote it.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 01:37 AM
1

Way to miss the point. This is the OP's choice of subject, and the OP's post is a commentary on it.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 01:35 AM
46

"My SMV increase" No, it didn't. This is why I keep bitching about the guys whose only answers on here are just saying, "Lift!" Nope. I've seen dumpy motherfuckers get ass that jockish brotards couldn't dream of. Lifting is good and you should do it, but it's far from a panacea. Way too many guys act like it's all about their bodies, and that's, frankly, a thoroughly male view of the problem. Women value status, and status is conveyed through social interaction. Bonus item: stop waiting for them…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:44 PM
7

This chick is obviously not that type of woman. ​
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:38 PM
33

Fair enough. To the OP I'll just state: ​ You missed two of the biggest gems in the whole reply, anyhow. #1: "He is very risk adverse" was her reasoning for letting guy #1 go. She's fucking 46, BTW. She's waaaaaaay past the point where she should be ruling dudes out on the first date, but by gosh if she didn't anyhow. Just as men don't stop looking at 20 year olds, women don't stop looking for indicators of success. This is where the big disconnect occurs. A successful, age-appropriate man is st…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:32 PM
43

This isn't actually a question. It's basically you writing an article about a question that was asked on another site. Seriously, what are we answering here?
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:25 PM
1

how to make that final appearance look as interesting as possible Let's see . . . finance is boring as hell. Guys in finance make it interesting by adding cocaine, expensive restaurants and hot cars. In other words, be highly conspicuous in your displays of improvement. ​
/r/askTRP06/02/19 10:17 PM
2

I know guys talk about game and confidence and stuff You do realize that your experiment is allowing you to be more confident, right?
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:19 AM
1

Minority status doesn't have to weigh on guys as much if they don't want to let it. Girls take it hard because they essentially value themselves by the attention they can get from others by virtue of their appearance. There is a prevailing cultural notion that beauty and whiteness go together. It's a little more overt in most societies than in the U.S., as evidenced by the skin-lightening trend in Asia in particular. Some guys will just flat-out not even acknowledge a girl as human if she isn't …
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:31 PM
2

Zero Fucks Given. When socializing or engaging in a sexualized conversation, you want to develop an attitude that the outcome doesn't matter. You're just there to gab, make friends, and if something happens, hooray. As a general rule of thumb for all things in life, the person who gives the fewest fucks usually wins.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:27 PM
6

AND YOU DIDN'T FUCK! Dumbass. Trust me. You had your moment, and it is g-o-n-e. She's letting you down lightly.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 05:48 AM
2

I think you just have her dialed in. She's seeking investment and hoping you'll break frame. sometimes will verbally disrespect when I have a conversation with another women infront of her Oh, Jeebus Cripes. She should be charging you rent for living inside her head 24/7. I'd definitely start practicing some basic krav maga, if you haven't. You're gonna need to take a knife from her at some point. ​
/r/askTRP04/02/19 05:46 AM
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In my experience, sex clubs are a place where you have to be a freak with little ability to be disgusted. I'm a freak with no disgust. You could crucify someone in front of me, and I'd probably get more of a sexual response from it than disgust. Yeah. The goods are odd. And often, the hottest chicks at sex clubs are certified space aliens. I love that shit, but it's not for everyone.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 05:42 AM
1

I'll jump in as a guy who has been described as aloof. It works well for certain types of women. Trainwrecks love it -- so if you want hardcore party girls, it can play well. Chicks who have a thing for tough types eat it up, so any woman with a thing for military, cops, big black guys, gruff woodsmen, etc. Women with daddy issues connect with it, too. It's rough as hell on the attention seekers, tho. Generally, it works best with women who come from a culture or a family where emotionally dista…
/r/askTRP04/02/19 05:31 AM
2

I did not have a feeling when we kissed. Well, shit, that's your answer right there! It's not an aloof thing, at least not strictly. I think playing it aloof may have set you up as seeming emotionally distant, and then the passion-less kiss was the dealbreaker. Women want that pop, man. That kiss right before they decide whether they're going to fuck you or not is how women who are addicted to the D test the purity of the product. I'd also add that trying to be aloof isn't the best idea. If you …
/r/askTRP04/02/19 05:25 AM
1

it's oneitis. You lost her because you didn't reciprocate. I think race played a big role, too. For a lot of girls from minority groups (just guessing you're in the U.S., since the "half whatever" construct is thoroughly American), there's a feeling of inferiority regardless of their physical appearance. They can get cold feet much faster than even the average guy-girl setup just because that inferiority complex comes into play. More than with white guy / white girl setups, you need to show some…
/r/askTRP04/02/19 05:09 AM
3

I don't think it's a "dead zone" or "limbo" issue. I think you're operating in an overly self-aware manner. Remember, women want that "it just happened" vibe. Effortless cool sells like a motherfucker. When they get the feeling that you're working for it, it can be a turn-off. My bet is on you're failing at projecting the ZFG attitude. Time to practice some outcome independence.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 05:02 AM
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You were practically setting yourself up for a shit test. "You gotta" is an open invitation for people to fuck with you. No one has to do any bullshit just because your dumb ass said so. Do you even human, bro? Don't throw softballs.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:50 AM
2

" I have never seen this kid have an intellectual conversation " Haha. You still have no idea what this shit's about if you think THAT, of all damned things, matters.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:47 AM
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Because I'm not 14. I rarely hear about Instagram from women who want to fuck me. I get it far more from guys who want to network. For the most part, though, I project a rather tough vibe. My guess is that not being all over social media is very on brand for me.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 03:50 AM
2

I'd fuck with her as hard as possible. You can never pass up a chance to fart in someone's general direction for your own entertainment.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 12:23 AM
12

I'll disagree with the "be selfish" idea. It's not about selfishness. It's about being honest about whether you're getting a real return on the investment you put into other people. Loads of people in this world are basically trading on nothing. Con men. Sob stories. Absolute pants shitters who everyone takes pity on. Even just lazy people with mediocre lives. You name it. It's not selfish to demand that those people serve a purpose. Fuck, if they'd listen (they won't, of course), then you're do…
/r/askTRP29/01/19 09:39 PM
0

As far as I'm concerned, it's women's fault. They complain about guys who can't cook, won't do laundry, etc. Well, I do my own laundry, I'm an excellent cook and pretty goddamned soon that only leaves one function for a woman in my life.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 08:41 PM
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The difference is that women generally hate it. What they really want is one guy who is hot as hell and, against all reason, works hard to keep her locked down in a monogamous relationship. Women want a guy who'll commit a two-point rule violation. Guys just . . . Gene Simmons said it best when he remarked about women, "Sometimes you just want a cheeseburger and not steak." A guy getting a lot of decent ass with nothing great coming along sees it as less of a tragedy than a woman does.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 08:39 PM
6

Did they take those down? [Looks at OKCupid blog . . . sees mindless progressive virtue signalling everywhere.] Wow. They completely tacked away from their old data-centric attitude. [Digs a little deeper.] Stuff like this still up https://theblog.okcupid.com/a-womans-advantage-82d5074dde2d So, it appears to be more of a rebranding than and outright "bury the data" situation. Still, it's disappointing to see them litter their blog with virtue signalling and click bait.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 08:20 PM
9

My answer: "Were there dick pics? It doesn't even count as flirting these days until there's dick pics." In my experience, coming right back at it with humor works well. I remember a chick i was dating once told me she had fucked an NFL player. I instantly responded, "Fucking the punter doesn't count." Stopped her dead in her tracks.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 07:43 PM
4

In a woman's view, though, those guys don't even count as human. They might be useful props for the female-sided dread game, but in her mind it disgusts her that she isn't sexy enough to intimidate those dudes out of asking.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 07:42 PM
2

Trust building is easy. That's why it's a popular con. Deep down, people are desperately afraid that they don't know jackshit. They'll happily let any con man tell them what to do because they're praying for someone to take over and save them from the dangers of thinking and doing for themselves. There's a reason CNBC just keeps trucking along. The audience needs the con men more than the con men need them.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 10:06 PM
2

I'm sure searching for "a Chinese ripoff of Tinder" won't end in your phone having malware on it. Live a little, man.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 05:25 AM
2

Setting it as a goal is setting yourself up for failure in this case. When it comes to issues of sexual confidence, women are gifted at catching the goal you have. It's what the back and forth between shit tests and comfort tests is intended to do. And why some guys consider comfort tests to just be the back half of a shit test, a form of bait meant to get you to break frame. In the process, you will get caught having the goal of ONS. Outcome independence is your friend. When you go out, you nev…
/r/askTRP28/01/19 04:45 AM
-1

don't listen what she says but look her body This is going to hold up well in court. Perhaps we should discuss the fact that internet postings do an amazing job of showing up in the discovery process. " was dripping wet when making out " Would this be a terrible time to mention that 1) the vagina is self-lubricating for non-sexual reasons 2) might just be sweat and 3) physical exhibition of sexual arousal is not consent? ​
/r/askTRP28/01/19 04:35 AM
1

Can people please stop misusing the term "antisocial"? There's a difference between not being pro-social in your behavior and being antisocial. Antisocial behavior will get you laid. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antisocial_personality_disorder Not being pro social just means spending a night alone playing Fortnite.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 11:51 PM
3

This was waaaaay before TRP for me, but I was in college on 9/11/01. Of all the stupid fucking shit I've ever heard in my life . . . I remember this one girl during some stupid staged thing (because college, where every issue of the day requires a public gab session) lecturing the crowd that America basically deserved it and that we shouldn't attack al-Qaeda. I'm a pretty open minded person, but revenge is elemental. It is to be human. Of all the things that harm leftist movements, the ones that…
/r/askTRP25/01/19 09:41 PM
5

OMG. I literally read the financial press just to think about who's trying to push that narrative and figure out how to play accordingly. The good information always requires a deeper dive than reading the funny pages.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 09:34 PM
3

If you're going to put weeks into anything like this, it needs to be an investment in social circle building, not investing in one girl. I could make an argument for trying to insinuate yourself into her social circle, but that has to be an investment you can see paying some dividends. If you don't know her social circle at all, then . . . no. Too much investment without knowing the potential payoffs. Also, I remember the one girl in college -- this is years before TRP for me -- that I did inves…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 10:20 PM
1

I'm not usually a fan of evolutionary psychology explanations (they generally are "I think something is true, so that's what evolution did, obv"), but evo psych gets this one right. First, the female mating strategy is hypergamy -- having options and picking the best one -- so locking in on one option at any time isn't optimal. Second, and possibly more important, it challenges the male to expose his strengths and weaknesses. Is he willing to approach a stranger? Can he read social cues? How lon…
/r/askTRP22/01/19 07:29 PM
1

Especially if they give you another non-verbal IOI, such as looking and then looking away when you catch them.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 11:25 PM
2

Direct approach by a woman is one of the weirdest things in the world. Women don't do it much, so they tend to suck at it. The ones who are comfortable at approaching tend to be the ones you'd expect. The big girls, the ugly ones, the freakishly tall, the old, the mentally defective or emotionally unstable, etc. They're the ones who have to approach because something about them puts guys off. If a girl is even remotely attractive, her approach game will be fucking horrid. so your saying they’ll …
/r/askTRP21/01/19 04:13 AM
1

Context matters. If the place is genuine fire hazard crowded, then it's nothing. If the place has room enough that she could easily avoid contact, then it's worth thinking about. In my experience, however, with women the initial IOI usually has more to do with the amount of time she willingly spends in proximity to you. Direct physical contact without a genuine direct approach from a woman is rare. Most who want to get physical in approaching you also get verbal.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 03:26 AM
1

> join her fathers business You're dead. I promise. Report back in 5 years to tell me I'm wrong. You won't be the top dog in her life. Her dad will. And that's the best-case scenario. Also, everything you're talking about is shockingly outcome dependent. Control her? Go work for her dad? Fuck all that. You need to have a situation that's within your control, and this plan ain't it. You are headed for disaster, and it is entirely of your own making. Here's what's going to happen. She's gonna hit …
/r/askTRP19/01/19 10:33 PM
2

> It's so bad that I've actually developed a sexual fetish of women being mean to me. Sounds like someone needs to get himself a Fetlife account and steer into the problem. :-P More seriously, tho . . . I was raised by a legitimately widowed alpha widow. My dad died at either 64 or 66, depending on whether you believe the state of Oklahoma or the U.S. Army. (Apparently lied about his age to get into the Army.) He died when I was 5 because he was still making kids at that age. My mom, his second …
/r/askTRP19/01/19 03:52 AM
0

> I have recently organized an event in a club Well, shit, that's your problem right there! Gather all communications and any signed documentation. Go to court.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:44 PM
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> I definitely hate it when people ask me how tall I am or if I'm an athlete Learn to like it. Both are winning traits. > is the "gentle giant" type a bad thing Here's what's socially fucky about being a physically imposing person (6'2", 250 lbs over here, BTW). Women always try to defuse it. When people play the "are you a . . ." game with me, the blank is filled in with stuff like bodyguard, bouncer, military, etc. It's always somebody who could fuck you up. I come from a really bad socioecono…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 05:29 AM
2

Not to sound too dickish, but TRP isn't about the wholesome aspects of existence. Or, more accurately, it's about the idea that if you're not prepared for interpersonal conflict and social game playing, then you're flat-out not prepared for the world we live in. ​ creating strong, long-term relationships Only one thing creates strong, long-term relationships. That's being in the shit together with someone. There isn't a magical formula. Humans are hardwired to bond with the people that stand by …
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:55 PM
3

Counterargument: the current system is selectivity on steroids. They now literally have takebacks on mistakes.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 07:22 PM
3

I'd argue that it's a form of qualification. Really, a humblebrag.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 04:12 AM
3

I'm not a huge agree-and-amplify guy, but I'd be all in on it in this case. "You're right. If she doesn't make her move soon, I'm liable to fuck that dude. Damn." ​
/r/askTRP10/12/18 06:47 AM
1

My advice is that you suck it up. $20,000 is a cheap price to learn a lesson of this magnitude.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 10:47 PM
2

Hence the popularity of serial monogamy and the classic "It just happened . . . while I was on vacation . . . at a singles resort in Jamaica" strategy.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 12:59 AM
12

I grew up in a functioning dysfunctional family. Dirt poor. Father had died when I was 5. (We weren't poor when he was alive, but my mom married much older than here, so . . . ) The typical indulgence of chaos and drama you expect in that scenario. I went to college and got my shit together financially. Being the stable person in an unstable family is a bad business, especially if you're not keeping score. Everybody has a fucking thing they did for you like 10 years that somehow entitles them to…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 05:45 AM
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1) Shit tests. For me, this was the major eye-opener. I didn't get women's behavior when I was teen or even in my early 20s, and the tendency of women to run hot-cold absolutely pissed me off. What really frustrated the hell out of me was that when I got pissed and emotionally withdrew from a particular chick, that's when she'd suddenly cut the bullshit and make an effort to get my attention. The problem was that by that point I was too pissed to forgive her. I could've been rolling in pussy fro…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 12:25 AM
4

There are still a lot of questions about how the process actually operates. It doesn't help that hard science these days tends to stay away from ideas that promise huge blowups over social issues (hence why you do this with flies, but no one seems to be racing to test it in humans). ​ Purely speculative and non-scientific on my part, but you can imagine a few vectors . . . 1) Genetic material adhering to the egg. Basically, sperm that failed to get the job done still linger and somehow transfer …
/r/askTRP21/11/18 07:39 PM
8

Since there have been a million good answers provided, I'll just try to expand the conversation a little . . . Horizontal gene transfer. Evolutionary biologists have identified indications that that women absorb small amounts of DNA from their previous partners. Here's the hard science showing that it does happen: http://time.com/3461485/how-previous-sexual-partners-affect-offspring/ ​ The implications of the study are that any mates a female has had may leave some legacy—in the form of physical…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 06:37 PM
2

First, nice humblebrag. Second . . . did I make a mistake? If you didn't do what you wanted to do there, then yes, you made a mistake. ​
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:46 AM
8

Commas, man. Learn how to use a comma. That sentence started kinky and then got weird fast. As for the BF . . . dude dates a stripper "off and on," so he knew what he was signing up for. I'd flat-out fucking tell him that to his face. Nobody with that severe of untreated vaginitis should be fucking a stripper. That's a formula for a murder-suicide. ​
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:42 AM
1

And this, gentlemen, is precisely what "abundance mentality" is all about.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 07:57 PM
12

There's a ton of research that suggests people constantly attempt to violate the Two-Point Rule by about 25% above their actual attractiveness. (There was a Tinder study that offered some good stuff.) I'll push back a bit against the mob's claims that male 9s fuck female 5s all the time. The truth is that human males are fairly discerning compared to other members of the animal kingdom.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 07:10 AM
1

how do you get the confidence to kiss Most guys are horrid kissers. As long as you don't mash her face into yours, you're gonna be fine. I advise guys to use one hand to hold her head just below the ear and then kiss relatively softly. Disengage after a few seconds, and don't overdo going back for more unless she's clearly coming to you for it. Most guys pretty much commit tongue rape, so just not being one of the facehuggers from Aliens trying to impregnate her throat with your tongue will usua…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 06:52 AM
1

Neutral wouldn't technically be confident. If he's provably hot, he's going to get hit on. The only serious difference will be some Two-Point Violations, where maybe he's an 8 and a girl who's a 5 takes a stab because his lack of approaching other girls makes her think she might win the prize by being bold.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 06:37 AM
3

Girls aren't expected to be ripped. It's not going to work unless her game is weak, and frankly she wouldn't be fucking with him if she didn't have tight game. I think his options are basically: Ignore. Aggression fart. Cocky smirk. Obviously, all of the above is an option.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 12:40 AM
2

Ive been bulking last 6 months Insert Fat Mac joke from IASIP right here. As for dealing with her . . . man, your game has to be weak AF. No woman plays that card unless she sees an opening to get in your head. She senses weakness, and it looks like she's not wrong. There are times when nothing less than an aggression fart will do. This is one of those times. Gas and laugh, man. It's the only choice.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 12:38 AM
4

Pimp game.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:11 PM
1

Wait til you get a friend who wants to learn but then stops learning once he gets some results. You think your buddies who are game-free drive you nuts . . . I don't try to change people, but I've had a few who've taken note of changes I've made. One of my college friends, in particular, took a lot of notes. The thing is, he can play the game fine, but then he gets results and wants to still settle into a stable relationship without continuing to play the game. Then there's the inevitable breaku…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 10:39 PM
0

The obsession with lifting weights is one of the more iffy things about TRP. Yes, you need to be working out, and it's an especially good idea to build up your shoulders and your core. That said, there are lots of ways to build muscle without paying for thousands of dollars in equipment. If you don't want to (or can't) spend a nickel, look into the "prisoner" type workout that are available on the internet, based on guys who did time at places that didn't have weights. You'd be surprised what ev…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 12:32 AM
3

A foul mouth. If a girl can't swear up a storm, there's just not going to be any entertainment value in fucking with her.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 11:41 PM
0

she informs me that she has boyfriend Well, shit, that's your answer right there!
/r/askTRP16/11/18 11:39 PM
1

I don't disagree regarding the SMV part. One of the great disservices of TRP is creating a perpetual fear of women and sex while lashing relatively low-probability scenarios. ​
/r/askTRP15/11/18 03:00 AM
1

The point is if it's the best available option under the circumstances to guarantee the desired outcome (no kid), you could do worse. FTR, the folks who are provably the most worried about this, pro athletes, are taught to flush by their leagues. https://lawandcrime.com/celebrity/derrick-rose-lawyer-claims-nba-players-flush-condoms-experts-weigh-in/
/r/askTRP14/11/18 04:10 PM
1

"They say"? This is going to require some justification, because most statements that begin with "they say" are total bullshit.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 03:00 AM
1

Take the first 10 hits? Do you even stats, bro?
/r/askTRP14/11/18 01:27 AM
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You're the dumbfuck who invoked the ecological argument, Einstein. [Insert eyeroll here.] Leaving your vaginitis untreated is no way to go through life.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 11:28 PM
5

I rarely scan through someone's posting history, but . . . you seem like a provably weird motherfucker, man. Lots of aspie stuff, even some incel stuff. Also, a lot of your TRP questions are basically paint-by-numbers questions. "How do I get ______?" Social interaction is a cyclic redundancy check designed to weed people like you out of the gene pool. You have way bigger issues than getting nudes sent to you. Girls are picking up something from you that just shuts them down completely. If the p…
/r/askTRP13/11/18 10:01 PM
21

Adding another human to the planet is far more ecologically destructive than flushing a condom.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:38 PM
7

Complaining about the verdict of evolution is weak. Thousands of generations of women have passed their genes on using this approach. It clearly has its advantages, or it wouldn't be a near-universal fact of human existence. a man who is 40 is going to have more resources than a man aged 25. But that only explains the beta bucks part of the equation. You have no idea what men look like through women's eyes, do you? The average guy below the age of 30 -- especially in the era where Millennials ha…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:14 AM
26

I'll argue for straight-on confrontation. Flat-out tell her that her behavior is bullshit and that it needs to stop. Do not buy into her frame regardless of what argument she's selling. Be prepared to eject if your demands are not acknowledged and met.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 12:17 AM
1

I bet she's just loving all this.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 11:51 PM
23

When you're at a loss for an answer, cocky smirk is always the answer. Maybe an eyebrow raise or a head tilt for extra effect.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 11:49 PM
1

Must be my unauthorized biography.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 11:48 PM
1

I get the idea. It just has always struck me as odd in light of the fact that there aren't any really famous Chads who fit the profile. I figured maybe my old ass missed a movie character or something along the way.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 04:29 PM
1

Beggers can't be choosers in the OP's situation. "plenty of weirdos just beating their meats in the hallways" + "you're not sure if the sheets are actually clean" This is a sign of a club that has zero interest in attracting female customers. "full of polyamorous old fat people" Perverts come in all shapes and sizes. I've never been one to judge.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 05:05 PM
20

One thing worth remembering is that TRP completely misuses the term "beta" in primatology terms. Beta males in primate groups are second-tier leadership. They're victors riding the coattails of the alpha's rise to power. I think you're dealing with a situation where primatology might be a better guide than TRP. What TRP calls "beta" is more like an "omega", and what TRP calls an "omega" is just a chimp who's about to be beaten to death or left to die in the forest alone.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 05:10 AM
1

Okay, as an old (40) . . . how the fuck did "Chad" become the name of the Imaginary Infamous Pussy Slayer? Growing up, the only Chad I remember was a kid so fat his nickname was "House".
/r/askTRP06/11/18 05:04 AM
2

I am not Chad, I promise. I'm just a pervert who has learned to embrace the idea that sometimes sex is like asymmetric warfare. You gotta turn disadvantages into advantages. Use the worst terrain to get things done. Strike while the opportunity is there. Take limited risks for the shot at big gains.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:27 AM
1

Don't ever forget that women like it to the extent that it makes them feel attractive. I say this as a guy who's at the opposite end of the spectrum (indifferent to a fault): you will never see a woman come more unhinged than if you show zero nervousness the whole time. If you act like having a woman you just met grinding on your lap is just a workaday thing that barely registers, you will be witness to some full-on fucking freak-outs. The thing isn't that you can't be nervous at all. A little, …
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:12 AM
1

Let's see . . . Bathroom at a club. Find a sex club near where you live. Make out on the dance floor and just finger fuck her. Or find a really racy, underground club that's super dark and just fuck her in the corner. Hotel / motel -- added bonuses: someone else has to clean up the wet spot, and you get an audience if the walls are thin enough! Fucking in the car isn't a problem. I'll just open the passenger side door and fuck with her in the car and me in the parking lot. Full disclosure: I'm a…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:01 AM
2

better to date no girls and focus on your shit instead of focusing on a single girl You should never be truly focused on a single girl. Your life is your fun thing to do, and she's along for the ride. If it becomes a matter of focus . . . you're gonna have a bad time. As for how I do things . . . Two actually dating and two or three on the hook as orbiters has always been the sweet spot for me. I've tried going higher, but that just gets to be work once you're dating three. Also, someone is goin…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:51 AM
1

There is no message until she insists on getting a pet.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:23 AM
4

Those weren't precisely stable societies to start with. The last time the Middle East was stable by any modern standard was when the Turks ran the whole joint.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 07:14 AM
7

When we get to that number, let me know. To date there's no evidence a society can't imprison an insane number of its citizens.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:45 AM
22

I rarely invoke the evolutionary side of TRP, because I think it gets overblown, but the survival of the species doesn't particularly depend on lots of men living. Historically, men dying is no big deal. I just don't believe you'll ever see that valuation change. Male existence is by definition a high-risk, high-reward proposition, with the losers finding various ways to fade away or burn out in infamous blazes of glory. You will never get enough people to care. I mean, the U.S. is literally in …
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:26 AM
43

Men are dying. Men have always been dying. It's the job of men to die. I promise you, society doesn't care. ​
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:03 AM
1

One of the most natural guys game-wise I know is a friend of my brother who spent his entire youth in and out of jail for every stupid offense imaginable (b&e, assault, petty theft, receiving, bad checks). This guy shouldn't be thriving in life, right? He makes a small fortune buying and clearing land for timber and paying the Amish to do the hard part. And he blows a small fortune on every dumb thing imaginable -- if you need to bring an estate auction to a close quickly, pray he shows up to bu…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:00 AM
3

The classic "oh, now I hear it" problem. I still have my doubts about this on the personality front. I'll try to take a more productive approach in responding, though, as you seem to at least get there's an issue here on your part. I have the somewhat odd advantage in life of being someone who is (now) very educated but who grew up around a lot of white trash -- the guys you're talking about -- and my experience has been that these folks have mountains of personality. Not saying their personalit…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 10:56 PM
6

And the world owes you pussy because why . . . ? got plenty of things going for me Other than no personality and a total sense of entitlement without any actual effort . . . sure, you sound like a cool guy. Have fun spraying the sorority house with bullets.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 06:05 PM
1

keep telling yourself that
/r/askTRP04/11/18 08:49 AM
0

I gotta be on my computer to answer an email immediately Not for long. This is one of the jobs that AI is crushing easily. ​
/r/askTRP03/11/18 03:58 AM
2

I figured I'd cover the topic, because we get guys on here who really don't get that you can't run game on rails. Apparently the "recalibration" concept from the olden days of the PUAs just gets lost in the shuffle. FTR, I'm not an "ignore it" type. If something bothers me, I just say it. At this point in my life, if something does bother me, I figure it has to be total bullshit anyhow, so I'll be in the right.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 04:52 AM
3

Obviously this idea is unacceptable Look at that! You've answered your own question. Just tell her that. You can't piss away your life trying to TRP the hell out of every situation. TRP is a toolbox that allows you to do what you want to do. It's clear this suggestion does not fall under the heading of things you want to do. ​
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:42 AM
9

Username checks out.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:39 AM
1

It already has. So ends another edition of "Easy Answers to Easy Questions". Tune in next week when we discuss, "Is water wet?"
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:37 AM
5

I dated a girl who cammed a lot. Jesus H. Christ . . . she had that thing set up as a well-oiled operation. Pricing for panties, pics, mailed items, vids, doing various actions, kinks, and on and on. There was this one guy who was a coach of a girl's college sports team who was just the fucking grossest. Clear grooming behavior, and also his remarks indicated he was working himself up in a cycle of deviancy toward approaching one of his players. That cam girl was unquestionably the hardest godda…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:35 AM
7

What's the actual play-by-play? Bear in mind that what you think is a soft neg could be a real insult. It also could just be her testing your frame. That's hard to judge outside of context. There's one version of this where the girl is testing to see if you're for real. There's another version where she feel like she has been nuclear negged.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:24 AM
3

Dread is the idea that the threat of competition can drive a partner to work harder and invest in a relationship. Dread game works best when it's not overt. Such as flirting a bit with a cute waitress when you and your girlfriend go out.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:22 AM
2

"Other guys" is an attempt to demonstrate value, it's not dread game. It's an attempted humblebrag. Her self-esteem is about a -5 on a 100-point scale. Women have this weird circuit that requires regular attenuation. It's like when women sit around telling their friends that they can't stand how many guys hit on them. They're not dreading their friends. They're trying to establish their status. The problem is that women tend to use their core intrafemale social skills in every situation. In an i…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:19 AM
2

It's a gambit. (Some) women approach when they're in full FOMO mode. They're afraid that if they don't approach, they're going to miss out on a great shot at a guy who is either at the edge of the the 2-point rule (she's a 6, he's an 8) or who's outside of her range. You can usually guess how far out of her range you are by how she comports herself. If she comes off as a dirty old man, you're waaay outside her league. If she approaches you and tries to induce you into doing the rest of the work,…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:06 AM
3

Downvoted? Really, bitches?
/r/askTRP22/10/18 04:18 AM
7

Have you ever read stories about guys going fuckin nuclear because of rejection? In a world where half the world is stronger than you, it's often unwise to seek confrontation, and small lies are frequently the best way to avoid a full-on blowup from an angry beta who might just be one bad night on the town away from spraying a sorority house with bullets. From your perspective, as the guy, just try to be outcome independent. You got a number, it didn't work, next.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 02:24 AM
3

Yup. Insert fat Mac joke from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia here.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 12:27 AM
2

It depends on how you calculate that 8/10 for the guy. If you're talking purely looks, yeah, it's a problem. I saw a guy last night who fit that model who was dancing with a chick who violated one of the cardinal rules of looking for women: she more front than back in the mid area. (Seriously, just say no.) If the guy is an 8/10 for game, then i think you're talking something a little different. Even a modest amount of game returns serious rewards.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 09:52 PM
2

a non sugarcoated 7/10 Someone is aware of the Subtract Two Rule for internet self-reporting of looks.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 09:46 PM
14

Let's address #7, which seems to be the big bone of contention here. The sub seems to dislike this one, but I'll take a bit of a slightly contrarian position. In my experience, a woman who's really in the bag for a guy will go through any bullshit to make it happen. Where I think the OP's single-serving friend is missing a detail, though, is that the woman has to feel like she knows you before she'll actually behave like that. Of the women I can remember sticking around for years without getting…
/r/askTRP14/10/18 09:22 PM
2

Actual good humor -- not being a fucking moron playing for laughs, which is being a monkey -- plays very well. It's a signal of social competence and intelligence, which don't often occur in combination.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 09:09 PM
2

You're overthinking it a lot. My advice to people is to appreciate the value of saying hello. My personal approach is to only open a conversation cold if I see a starting point that I can work with. If someone is doing something that interests me, I'll just ask them about it. If something stupid just happened, I'll comment as lightheartedly as possible. Sometimes the simplest approach is to ask, "What ya got goin on over here?" Or you can pick anything that's going on and ask about it. Was there…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 06:50 PM
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I think you took a series of wrong turns. Asking for the IG and not the number was weak. Messaging one-for-one is weak. She should be sending you more messages than you send her. Drag your feet about replying if that's what it takes, but most people, especially women, hate silence and will try to fill it. "She gave me a lot of shit tests" Continuing to put up with shit tests can seem needy. They're the minority, but some women respond really well to being called out for shit testing. "conversati…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 05:12 PM
5

To add a bit: note the number of women on Tinder -- event ones with legit profiles -- who include their IG account names in their profiles.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:53 PM
2

Why do you think social ability is inherently outcome dependent? Some of the most socially capable people do not give a fuck how their interactions turn out. I think the TRP logic that applies to women also applies to making friends. Your life is awesome, and anyone you like who's interested in coming along is welcome to do so. I actually would like to be friends with people that support my goals That's just not how manhood works. You're going to mostly be on your own, and "supporters" don't sta…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 07:51 PM
3

somehow intimidatted by their jokes and behaviour People are going to fuck with you. That's obv something TRP accepts. I think your issue is that you're invested in being with the popular kids. It seems like you've skipped right past outcome independence and decided you want in with the cool people. You need to get outcome independence into your toolkit before you go looking for alpha friends, otherwise they're going to eat you up.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:31 PM
1

How much of your messaging and texting was in English?
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:46 PM
4

I'll argue a lot of this depends on what you mean by "alpha guys," because far too many people take alpha to mean asshole when it really means in-charge. that's not to say there aren't alpha bullies in this world, but most alphas, in my experience, are organized guys who just don't take shit when anything gets in the way of their goal. That said . . . most alpha males in my experience will sociable individuals. The challenge in making friends with them is mostly not being subverted by their soci…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:40 PM
1

"Show me" is always winning. Regarding being blue pill + attractive and switching to red pill + attractive . . . it doesn't call for the same level of exertion that other guys get into. In a lot of cases, you just have to stop missing the obvious hints. My guess is that this chick was happy to see the progress.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:30 PM
7

Keep in mind Ecuador is much more disconnected from the global cultural mainstream. You're going to find more traditional women, and that's going to make the attitude toward a traveler more "interloper" than "exotic". I'd be willing to bet Colombia, especially if you're traveling to the developed areas, will be a bit more open. As for Europe . . . the hard part in Europe is not getting laid. One thing I'll say about Europe is that the history of tourism there leads to a selection bias (in this c…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:23 PM
10

I was never a particularly innocent person even in that phase of my life. For me, the blue pill period was marked by endless confusion and anger driven by that confusion. I look back and all I think about is, "Holy shit, I could've been getting laid left and right if I hadn't been getting pissed about the little moments women who were interested in me jerked me around." Just understanding what a shit test is was like going to the Stone Age to interstellar travel for me. So, nope. I have no clue …
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:07 AM
2

Have you ever heard the story of why fighting is allowed in hockey? It goes back to the frontier days, when you couldn't assume justice was going to be meted out properly. Sometimes, the easiest solution was to administer an ass-kickin. When the system fails, you have every right to create your own justice. But you need to do it quickly and with a clear sense of reciprocation in order to immediately convey the point.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:12 PM
5

You should have done what my brother's youngest son did when he was playing soccer. He informed the coaches the minute it happened, and he informed them in no uncertain terms that they fix it or he would. They didn't, so at the next opportunity he cleated the other guy's calf. When the coaches tried to punish him, he told them to their faces they had their chance to stop it. I'm not impressed by all this dwelling. If you want people to learn, you have to correct them at the moment they fuck up.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 06:26 PM
1

Pass for me. I'm not betting on my friend or the chick not getting weird about it. Also, I tend to get off on a woman being all-in for me, so it's just not my thing.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:55 PM
3

I hate that average women can sleep with celebrities and average guys can’t You're clearly going to the wrong bars. Go to the one that has that beat going til 6am, and I'm sure you'll find a hockey player who's in the closet. This is just a lack of effort. :-P - - - Now that I've had my laugh . . . I've found downplaying it when it comes up works well. I remember dating a chick who said she had fucked an NFL player, and the first thing that shot out of my mouth without thinking was, "Fucking the…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:46 PM
1

Who the fuck are these people on your twitter?! FTR, you should take their names down, because 20 years from now they're going to be all the Institute for Awesome Non-Offensive Modern Masculinity types being accused of sexual harassment and sexual assault. It never fails. The people squawking the loudest are always the ones who are creeps. (See various news articles like Super Jesus Freak, Extremely Anti-Gay Republican Busted for Soliciting Dick in Airport Bathroom for further proof.)
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:41 PM
2

It's a fraternity. By virtue of joining it, the guys in it have signaled they're looking for external sources of validation. That always leads to competition. There's a strong selection bias in who joins fraternities. The non-aggressive, cool as a cucumber alphas are off doing other shit because that's who they are. You're just not going to find a lot of them at a frat.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:24 PM
16

Consequences? Really? Consequences are for the world's non-winners. If you're winning, there are no consequences. And if you're losing, there are consequences no matter what you do. Caring about social consequences is pointless. If it felt like a fun idea, you should've said yes to it.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:21 PM
5

Tinder has a system in place to flag people who fully automate and always swipe right. They also scan for inconsistent patterns (true randomization is hard to fake). I know a guy who uses a toned down approach on other sites/apps like OKC that flags women of interest to him, and then he finishes the job manually. I would hate to figure out what his actually hit rate is, but it's above 0.000, and he seems to be fine with that.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 06:43 AM
2

If you feel evolution is purposeful, then you need to do a remedial course on the subject. There's lots of seemingly useless things with us through the process of evolution. Als, there is the Sexy Nephew Hypothesis that indicates that non-reproductive siblings (cat ladies, queers, etc) contribute to the upkeep of their nieces and nephews, providing more resources. Evolution is a trickier business than people think. Oddities often prove to be useful in roundabout ways.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 03:11 AM
2

Let's apply TRP, indeed. Other people's purposes don't have to be our own. I'm on my own mission, outcome independent of whatever the hell they're doing. If I can learn something interesting from them, which I did, hooray. If not, no big deal. It's not a very outcome-independent view of the world to get too pissy about what is ultimately a rounding error in the whole of the population.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 01:57 AM
8

It's not a valuable statement. It's just a guy being a dick about something and then adding nothing to the conversation.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 11:30 PM
89

Bear in mind that social media hijacks the reward system in the brain as badly or worse than drugs. The "in real life no guy wants to date her" part is half the reason she's wasting her time with all that. She gets a sense of reward in the same way that a guy playing Madden feels like he's a badass. I'm also guessing a good number of those 700 matches are numbers gamers, orbiters and scammers.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 11:29 PM
5

Your comment does not advance the discussion. It's just you expressing disgust.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 11:25 PM
3

That's pertinent to this comment how?
/r/askTRP07/10/18 11:19 PM
3

Why would he cry? He's worked his entire fucking life for this.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:11 PM
18

One of the most interesting articles I've ever read was from a trans man (female to male) who was writing about how fucking night-and-day it all is being a man versus being a woman. In particular, the relentless drum beat of "nobody gives a fuck, just shut up and take it." There's no substitute for someone explaining such a basic fact of your existence to you, especially when that fact is so cold and stupid. And there's literally nothing you can do about, because even the most male-friendly and …
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:08 PM
3

I'm not a believer in don'ts, so I'll put my answer in the form of what you need to do rather than what you need to avoid. Avoiding things isn't as easy. A juke move to the right is harder than maintaining forward momentum (and sometimes, avoidance is unavoidable, too). 1) Outcome independence. People can smell it on you when you're worried about how something ends. Think of the wrecked emotional state of a degenerate gambler, for example, as they sit there awaiting the outcome of an event they …
/r/askTRP06/10/18 07:10 PM
3

Moving out of your lane is always a bad move. A serious guy can pull off the serious look, but it comes off weird if you're not the type.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 05:05 PM
2

Women put men into three groups the moment they see them: Wouldn't fuck if the last vibrator on Earth was broken and her hands had been amputated. That boy can get it. Let's see what he's got. [Commencing shit test rodeo.] I'm not saying you have to fuck at the end of the first date, but the vibe needs to be there. Women like riding emotional waves, and they know by the end of that first date whether you're a wave they intend to ride. If you're not feeling her need to fuck you at the end of the …
/r/askTRP04/10/18 06:14 PM
1

My guess is that you're going hard on Numbers Game. That's fine, but it inherently increases the flake rate. If you're using dating apps, I guarantee some of the flakes are girls who have massive anxiety disorders. They go on the apps for the attention and the validation, but when it comes time for an actual interaction they flat-out lose their shit. I'm also guessing that your push-pull technique isn't heavy enough on the push side. Remember, it's more push-push-pull than push-pull when you're …
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:49 PM
0

a deep emotional connection to him, which takes many month to develop There's a lot of believing what they say and not what they do going on here. Women do not take months to develop an emotional bond with a guy. The "it just happened" set of women is the group that's being more honest. My view is that you either win the emotional side of the fight on the first date or you eject. It frankly sounds like you both were driving into a lowered expectations scenario, and then the who thing turned into…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:38 PM
1

I don't think anyone would dispute that there are older women who end up at the high end of the scale in terms of sex drive. The point I think he was getting at is more that it's a crap shoot.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:32 PM
1

I find condemnation to be very not TRP, so I'd quibble with that detail. I happen to find the rape fantasy to be fascinating, particularly because it's not a rape fantasy in the strictest sense. It's a desire fantasy that happens to be encased in what outwardly looks like a rape fantasy.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 06:46 AM
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This is way too many comments without the actual answer being included . . . The actual answer is: the desire to be desired. If you look at the most commonly proffered version of the rape fantasy, the one we see in the modern romance novel, the issue boils down to validation. The two main features of the rape fantasy are both extremely validating: The man is always a high-status individual. I remember reading an analysis of romance novels that summarized the male protagonists as having a handful…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 05:07 PM
1

There have been folks who've done their doctoral thesis on variants of this subject and barely scratched the surface. ​
/r/askTRP01/10/18 04:26 PM
8

One thing that's weird about this sort of acquired knowledge is that it falls in the realm of things that are hard to easily say X not Y. For example, young men who've grown up in poverty and violence can spot unmarked cop cars much more quickly than the general public. (Except for those fuckin new Fords with the police lights recessed behind the windshield and above the rearview mirror.) There are certainly obvious tells, like the center bolts, for example. Others just feel cop-ish. A cop drivi…
/r/askTRP01/10/18 06:50 AM
1

That's not the worst case scenario, but okay.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 08:05 PM
3

If she's still talking about her ex, that's not a good thing.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 06:47 PM
-3

Um . . . a haunted house scares you? I might not be the right person to address this. I get an erection from seeing gore.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 06:46 PM
2

I don't know that Lil Pump or Seth Green are really good examples. Neither is by any meaningful definition unfuckably hideous. The one I always point to is Mick Jagger. Even in his youth that dude looked like somebody shaved a goddamned chimp, and yet he gets to fuck models even as an old, brokedown, durg-addled rock star. That said, I don't see what the big deal is for you? Is it bad to find out that male sex appeal to women is fungible? Stop whining and find your own sales pitch.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 06:44 PM
5

Dude, seriously . . . so much of the stuff marketed toward TRP is standard-issue bullshit just tilted toward a specific masculine audience. The fact is that a healing crystal is a healing crystal, regardless of what you call and whether there's an actual crystal involved. Look into cognitive behavioral therapy if you're coping with something truly bad.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 06:41 PM
0

I was outnumbered as well The studies I've seen about numbers and aggression suggest that they're not going to chance it as 3-to-1 odds, especially against an opponent who presents with a high degree of command presence. The extra guys at the scene, while not overt contributors, are likely to make the three offenders much more tepid. Generally speaking, men looking to commit assaults, especially sexual assaults, prefer complete numerical superiority. They also tend to prefer to isolate targets. …
/r/askTRP30/09/18 06:36 PM
7

I was outnumbered as well The studies I've seen about numbers and aggression suggest that they're not going to chance it as 3-to-1 odds, especially against an opponent who presents with a high degree of command presence. The extra guys at the scene, while not overt contributors, are likely to make the three offenders much more tepid. Generally speaking, men looking to commit assaults, especially sexual assaults, prefer complete numerical superiority. They also tend to prefer to isolate targets. …
/r/askTRP30/09/18 06:36 PM
1

I was outnumbered as well The studies I've seen about numbers and aggression suggest that they're not going to chance it as 3-to-1 odds, especially against an opponent who presents with a high degree of command presence. The extra guys at the scene, while not overt contributors, are likely to make the three offenders much more tepid. Generally speaking, men looking to commit assaults, especially sexual assaults, prefer complete numerical superiority. They also tend to prefer to isolate targets. …
/r/askTRP30/09/18 06:35 PM
2

It's a garbage pile of hokum. Most importantly, Myers-Briggs has been shown time and again to lack repeatability. Worse, just read through this thread and see how its supporters react to anything indicting it. Somehow Myers-Briggs turned into a cult. Its supporters react like cult members do when someone questions their leader or their doomsday date.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 05:12 PM
11

Um . . . this is a bullshit, self-serving retelling of the story if there ever was one. he hates the thought of letting her go There's just waaaaay too much neediness in this whole story. ​
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:07 PM
4

Is this TRP at work or is this an attempt to control me with sex because she thinks my SMV is starting to rise ? Yes. This is a serious "why not both?" case study. FTR, there's not much tweaking to do at this point. If you had played dread game past the breaking point, she'd be freaking out and/or seeking comfort. Pretty much you have her dialed in top-dead-center perfect. ​
/r/askTRP23/09/18 08:41 PM
1

His point is to gauge things before it gets to that point.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 10:14 PM
1

Best interjection I've seen here in a while. I'm astonished how many guys are put off by dudes swarming, when the reality is that they often just haven't closed the deal or haven't been able to really warm things up. Many times, they've primed her to do something, they've just failed to get to the something. It doesn't mean she isn't thinking about leaving with someone.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 10:12 PM
1

A little ass slapping is okay, but the real act is grabbing her by the hair and pushing her face into the bed, a pillow, a table, the wall or whatever the hell is closest.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 03:39 PM
10

Needs more hair pulling. You're welcome.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:06 AM
3

I'd much rather be the dominant person Let me just call bullshit right there, sunshine. Dominant people don't have a "I'd rather be in charge" outlook. They have a nasty, "fuck these losers," "I'm going to put myself in charge even if I have to stage a coup" mentality. Some extremely dominant people will try to put themselves in charge even if it means upsetting a good arrangement. My advice, given you are not a dominant person, is to buy lots of lube. Unless she commands that you don't. she's n…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 04:15 PM
16

None of those are IOIs. Initiating touching is an IOI. Making sexually suggestive statements is an IOI. Also, it doesn't seem to matter, since you've ruled her out for career reasons. Basically, you're engaging in a humblebrag without realizing it's not that much of a brag.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 08:24 PM
1

Nameless hot women are the primary posters on Instagram and the ones who attract followers.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 09:07 PM
1

Two prostitutes propositioning you doesn't count.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 07:50 PM
1

You're really in full broken creep mode today, buddy.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 07:48 PM
1

Working hard to be a valued member of the sub, I see.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 07:22 PM
1

Yeah . . . this is the kind of statement a sane person makes.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 07:04 PM
2

I've rarely met anyone who claims to be nice who actually is nice. In fact, some of the shittiest women I've ever known made a point of stating that they were nice. It's not dissimilar from how the dumbest motherfuckers are always the ones who tell you they're smart. Most people operate under the assumption that their awesome, and they get pissed when the world contradicts their self-image.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 06:07 PM
1

There’s only one brad Pitt and millions of nameless hot women. Or as it's called at Instagram, the company's business model.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 06:03 PM
1

I think you might be underestimating how much that clingy LTR knocked you off your game.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 05:59 PM
1

Interesting . . . tell me, what else was asked.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 07:10 AM
1

For the same reason women go wild when they go on solo vacations. A great deal of the pressure on women to not be sexual arises from a fear that their conduct will be tallied against them by people who closely know them. The fewer people there are who are likely to report back to someone they care about, the more likely they'll let rip.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 03:09 AM
1

What did the voice of Satan inhabiting the body of your dog ask you to do?
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:38 AM
1

Correct.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:33 AM
1

Loser says what?
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:30 AM
1

Low effort. Definitely seeing where your women problems start.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:33 PM
1

I just wanna see how long you can hang in there. To January we go . . .
/r/askTRP10/09/18 04:40 PM
1

You really are just a waste of carbon.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:29 AM
3

Let's say someone knows her and thinks she's a bitch. If the topic comes up, you can joke it off, "She's a bitcb? You have no idea".
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:28 AM
0

You is retarded. We are literally talking about some fuckin creep from the internet.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:25 AM
1

If it ain't broke, don't fix it.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 11:32 PM
11

I'm not seeing the big deal. So, you fucked a suck human being. Big deal. Unless she looks like a meth-head, no one is going to care. Given she has a big social media following, it's fair to say she's probably attractive. All women do is compare attractiveness. Play it right, and you could leverage her bitchy vibe as a play when talking with women who don't like her.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 11:29 PM
1

Seconded. The bulk of "game" materials are just somebody separating you from your cash. You can get the entire outline of useful information off the internet. After that, you're going to have recalibrate according to your circumstances anyhow.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 11:27 PM
1

I'm back sweety
/r/askTRP09/09/18 11:17 PM
1

Nope. The obsessive use of the word "female" to refer to women, in my experience reading on the internet, always tracks with creepy fuckers.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 11:16 PM
1

never figured they actually like fucking animals The age of self-publishing on Amazon really pulled back the veil on some daffy shit that never would've been mainstreamed prior to the internet. http://prehistoricpulp.blogspot.com/2016/06/finally-explanation-for-all-dinosaur.html There's also an entire branch of sasquatch stuff, too.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 11:15 PM
3

That's why I always push guys to look at the one signal that can be easily quantified: how much time does she spend in or near your personal space?
/r/askTRP09/09/18 11:11 PM
6

Have an upvote for a Silicon Valley reference.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 10:46 PM
10

> YOU need to be (and remain) your mental point of origin. never forget that. ​ Agreed. This is the bedrock of maintaining frame and being outcome independent. If your frame is just you dancing around attempts to dislodge your ego, you're doomed. It has to be anchored, and the anchor point has to be in you. If you have an external locus of control, figure out why that is and friggin remedy it.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 10:29 PM
1

You really are just a far that took the shape of a human. A small human.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 10:25 PM
1

You really want a guy to fuck, don't ya, buddy? ;)
/r/askTRP08/09/18 08:37 PM
81

> Women are sexual as fuck. Correct. They literally pay money to read stories about being raped by pirates, doctors, and (apparently) even T-Rexes. (Of course it would be the T-Rex . . . he has status, duh.) There's a whole industry built on this premise. > You just need to play the right game and you’ve got it. I'll disagree a wee bit. This makes it sound like paint-by-numbers. See the next item for mt explanation . . . > Women are innately hypergamous therefor you will have a lot more luck wit…
/r/askTRP08/09/18 08:36 PM
3

If you do this, use her friends as props in dread game. ​ You haven't really nailed a woman down until she starts working to keep her friends away from you.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 08:10 PM
1

I think you're waaaay too worried about Step 10 when it appears you haven't even gotten through Step 1. ​ And obsessing about virgins is a little on the 9/11 hijacker and Mike Pence side of things.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 08:08 PM
0

Huh? Why are you worried about the ethics? ​ Also, I'll be blunt . . . anyone who uses the word "female" worries me. Has a real sci-fi convention nerd vibe.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 08:07 PM
0

HAHAHAHA!
/r/askTRP08/09/18 08:01 PM
1

I'm mostly invested in seeing how long you can keep going. I assume with your lack of an active social life that the answer is, "A while." ​ Should be interesting.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 08:01 PM
1

You gotta work for it, sloot
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:28 PM
0

Given you're still replying to me in the last thread you posted . . . I'll say from experience, you are. ​ In vino veritas.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:29 PM
1

If we're not still doing this when calendar turns, I'll be disappointed.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:28 PM
1

You should get a job as a mortician. You might find those people more amenable to your charms.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 02:47 AM
4

By the time you get to a comfort test, she's no longer operating on her default assumptions. Comfort tests aren't early plays. They're certainly not going to show up as quickly as shit tests, which may literally be the first words out of her mouth. ​ If you've been successful in blowing off shit tests and winning the frame in a relationship, there's going to be a re-evaluation stage. The more you win the frame, the more she's going to worry that you have game enough to do whatever (and by extens…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 09:59 PM
1

It's that bad, eh?
/r/askTRP07/09/18 09:39 PM
1

Is that what you think sex is? ​ Makes sense, I suppose.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:05 PM
1

Is there any credible reason to believe you'll ever get a yes?
/r/askTRP07/09/18 06:42 PM
1

You're a drain upon society. The sooner you catch one from a SWAT team, the better. Of course, your low profile should make your eventual standoff with police interesting.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 06:22 PM
1

Find an exotic form of dancing. Any decent city has Latin dance lessons going on somewhere.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 06:20 PM
1

You are nothing but winning personality. As I said earlier: make sure to aim straight when the day comes you lose your shit completely.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 06:18 PM
1

It "reads" as insecure. ​ Remember, women are trying to find ways to rule guys out. You ruled yourself out by caring what she did after you left.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:57 PM
1

So, you thinking being the first guy your friends lean on is a good thing when it comes to getting women? ​ It isn't. Throw in the height, and you're pretty much done. ​ It's not rocket surgery.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:56 PM
0

Needing virgins reads a little "9/11 hijacker" to me.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:26 PM
1

i ask her if her and her friends went anywhere else after? There's your problem right there. This reads as insecure.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:19 PM
19

To contribute beyond what has already been said about it being a comfort test, since you're probably wondering how the hell to tell the difference (based on the fact that you missed the signal). Shit test = The woman is worried the man might not be good enough for the pairing Comfort test = The woman is worried that she might not be good enough for the pairing If you're trying to figure out whether you're dealing with a shit test or a comfort test, simply assess who the test is trying to qualify…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:16 PM
2

You're a living god. Got it, stud. So, how's that sexless existence going again, shorty? PS: If you're going to say "your retarded," it looks less retarded if you use the right version of you're vs your. Short and smart, with a side of "I do martial arts." Can't imagine why the ladies aren't just throwing themselves at you, kitten. Please, just try to aim straight when all the rage finally comes out.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:05 PM
0

Downvote all you want, bitches. Reality ain't gonna make the little dependable boy taller.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:03 PM
0

You're still 5'5" no matter how catty you wanna act, sunshine.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:03 PM
4

The minute the word friend comes out of a girl's mouth, my go-to is to squeal, "Oh my gawd, we should braid each others' hair!" One thing i've learnt here is you can't negotiate attraction Um . . . yes, you can. You just can't come at it as an attempt to negotiate attraction. You have to knock her off her original assessment of you.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:40 AM
-4

The problem is that at 5'5" you have no margin for error. Or even additional physical shortcomings. The fact is, a fair number of women will just flat-out rule you out. Your best play is to get in shape and develop a bit of a fireplug build. Not necessarily ripped, but definitely in shape. If you're describing your hands as small, I guarantee they're also weak. im always the first to get a call That's not always a good thing. Traditionally dependable isn't precisely a Dark Triad trait.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:37 AM
2

I tend to start with eye contact. FTR, the girl who shyly looks away is my preferred target. I also tend to watch hip sway when she's moving around. If her movement borders on cartoonish, then I tend to think maybe she's a little more up to play. Hormones and whatnot. Usually, if you're not getting much of a vibe by that point, you're probably heading into the teeth of a woodchipper. Sometimes I'll just make a dumb comment if something is going on. You can never fail, for example, while making f…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:56 AM
4

Please don't reply with 'get rid of her'. Barf. The art of negotiation is being prepared to leave.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 02:52 AM
2

I gauge it based on the chick. Calibration is critical. If she's digging the serious, I don't see much need to interrupt that vibe. A lot of getting people to do things is matching their energy levels. If you're trying to pick up the chick who has been a wallflower all night, a little us-vs-the-stupid-world convo can play well. The next chick wants you to be her fantasy badass, and playing stoic wins. Some just want to be surprised or have fun. Sometimes a chick just wants a man who has the ball…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 02:46 AM
2

does that mean you're just looking her up and down and smiling at her when she dances for you I'll get physical. With the exception of Latin, I don't particularly like dancing, so I'll often do something unthinkably stupid. For example, I'll get her turned around and and put my arms under hers and start waving them around like I'm doing her dance moves for her. It's literally just a version of the arm game from Whose Line Is It Anyway. (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z3vZCBf5tdI) Just with danc…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 02:34 AM
2

knowing that women usually position themselves close to men to get approached I feel like these girls are attracted to me and want me to approach OMG. I need to cry for a moment. I'm so happy. I never thought the idea that proximity = female approach would actually gain traction enough to be considered basic info. Gonna need a moment . . . interaction dies in 2 minutes and then 3 minutes later the girl just moves to another spot on the dance floor. You're missing a big aspect of Girl Game. First…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 11:25 PM
8

I'm 40 y.o., and I'm the youngest of three. The oldest was my sister, who was prone to what would today be called serial monogamy. Most of her dating life was in the 80s and early 90s, and she was viewed by everyone as kinda slutty, even though, to the best of anyone's knowledge, she literally never cheated. Today, serial monogamy looks damned near pedestrian for women. My recollection from the mid- to late-90s (my teen years) was that there was still a lot of value on "going steady" with someon…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 10:42 PM
2

Dude . . . if it's that bad, buy the plane ticket so you can fuckin move permanently.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 10:17 PM
1

It's a sucker's bet focusing on stamina, guy. The path to being bad at sex is letting it all get in your head. The best cure to limited stamina is to relax and just do your thing. As you settle in, get more experienced and simply age (hormones change), you'll be better off if you're not carrying mental baggage.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 06:08 PM
1

Then approach women who aren't with guys . . . problem solved. That'll be $150 for the hour.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:38 PM
2

I'm not very talkative during sex. I'm more likely to just laugh and keep going. (You wanna watch a woman go into hate/love mode, that does the trick.) My point is largely, don't be insecure. If there's one thing TRP nails right on the head, it's the idea that you need to learn that 1) your life is awesome and 2) she's just along for the ride. In my experience, it's the idea of a particular man that turns a woman on. Don't spend too much time worrying about performance. If she's dating you regul…
/r/askTRP03/09/18 09:16 PM
5

Trust me, she was shit testing both of you. Maybe Mr. 6'4" wasn't pressing all the buttons in the right order. You'd be surprised. Confrontation is always a turn-on for women.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 03:36 AM
3

When a girl is drunk, she cranks all the TRP filters to 11 and breaks the knobs off. Yeah, it was a shit test. Physical confrontation is the ultimate shit test. If a girl is getting physically confrontational -- or even hinting it -- without provocation, assume she wants the dick. That goes double if she has been drinking at all. When I see a sign of physical confrontation, I know it's on. I've had four drunk women crack me in the face in my life, and every one led to me getting laid.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 03:20 AM
1

Don't sweat it, man. That's literally all you can do. If people see the improvement and want to reconnect, hooray. If they don't, so what? Their loss.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 03:18 AM
6

You missed a chance, son. Boys and girls fight to release the sexual tension building between them. I'd have fucked with her so bad she'd have felt three inches tall when I was done. I literally throw the phrase "you wanna fight?" ought as a conversation filler when I get bored. Depending on the mood, I'll also go disarmingly funny. In the gayest affect possible, I love replying to confrontational girls with, "Bitch . . . I'll scratch yer eyes out." Another favorite that kills is to go fake ghet…
/r/askTRP03/09/18 03:07 AM
18

Every woman I have had sex with has said I can’t last. They sense your insecurity. My advice is practice being an ungenerous lover. If you nut fast, you nut fast. Who cares? Clearly women want to fuck you.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 02:56 AM
5

They get mad when you curse What the hell signals are you giving off?! Seriously, man. No one tells me to not curse. I don't mean in the sense that they tell me not to and then I show them. I mean, people just don't even contemplate it, As for your core question . . . what's the magical trick you're trying to find? She's literally doing half the job for you by positioning herself as a small child within the relationship. All you have to do is provide the other half of the equation. If she's the …
/r/askTRP03/09/18 02:51 AM
60

Strike up conversations with everyone, all the time. Practice it. Make it a simple thing you do. If you go to the store and the cashier is a little chattier than normal, find a thread of conversation and pull at it. FTR, this isn't about fucking the cashier. Can be guy or girl, young or old, attractive or hideous. In fact, the more you practice on people you don't want to fuck, the better. That will make your conversational flow more outcome-independent because conversation will be just one more…
/r/askTRP03/09/18 02:45 AM
5

I do mma and started lifting but I guess I’m still socially awkward. Precisely how do MMA and lifting connect with not being socially awkward? My advice is that you start watching people who possess what's called "command presence". The good thing is that command presence is eminently teachable -- it's literally a survival skill for cops. Your first failure, I guarantee, is that you keep thinking respect is just something you meter up, like gaining levels in a video game. It's not. Respect arise…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 08:20 PM
1

There are several factors . . . 1) Talk about social norms tends to stir the "civilization is going to hell" crowd. That group tends to have a bit of a Your Racist Grandpa streak, only they're usually young dudes who once saw a black dude with a white chick and then had a sad. 2) Losers tend to punch down. Racism is just the most broadly accepted form of punching down in most of the Western world. TRP attracts a lot of losers. 3) TRP is targeted as an online conduit for bringing politically vuln…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 07:01 PM
1

I've done it in the field because sometimes it's downright painful to watch a guy put in serious effort and fail spectacularly. Also, let's be honest, the pull of the blue pill world view is clearly strong enough that you're never going to end up in a world full of guys competing at your level. Even among the set of guys who listen, many only play by TRP rules until they get some results. I have a buddy who takes note of everything I do with women. Then he experiments with adapting it to his gam…
/r/askTRP26/08/18 02:56 AM
1

My guess is that you're rating women who favor specific accessories or styles as 8s and up. My experience has been that hot women, on average, are nicer than the general population because they're not beaten down by the constant interpersonal warfare of socialization and sexuality. The exceptions are the women who sell out for hotness. I mean in the athletic sense of selling out, like a guy sacrificing everything and diving face-first to block a shot. Women who go all in to be hot are often sele…
/r/askTRP24/08/18 04:36 PM
1

You do get that SMV is not just adding up a bunch of scores like you're playing D&D, right?
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:54 PM
1

The Simpsons plays back-and-forth on beta dad vs occasionally actually masculine Homer. Everybody Loves Raymond . . . ow. That's the show that really epitomizes the dumb dad model of modern sitcom. He's a whiny moron. His wife is a psycho. It's also more disturbing because his wife has clear sexual chemistry with his brother. That show is fucked up (and forced) in so many directions its unreal.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 01:16 AM
5

There's no reason to get too worked up about the quality of the advice. A lot of results -- whether you're following so-called game, PUA, TRP, whatnot principles -- come from simply getting more engaged with the world. Half the useful advice is basically cognitive-behavioral therapy. For example, pretty much all the beginner stuff on approach is CBT, just learning that rejection and people's opinions of you aren't the end of the world. The most problematic posters on here, in my experience, are …
/r/askTRP16/08/18 08:01 PM
1

Not meaning to be a prick to the guy, but discounting the value of wide socialization is usually a sign that someone has issues that run deep enough they need to fix those before they start getting too invested in "game" or TRP or PUA or whatever the current popular flavor of cola is. There are a lot of self-reinforcing attitudes that can keep people from being successful, and the idea that you're better than the shaved apes you run into every day is a big impediment.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 06:23 PM
9

Probability says not.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 05:06 AM
10

If the majority of people suck in your viewpoint, then there's a serious disconnect that probably starts with you.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 04:00 AM
11

There's your problem right there. You just don't like people.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:01 AM
16

I worked jobs in both newswriting and cold-call sales. I've gotten incredibly good at getting people to talk. Most people aren't as vapid as they seem, but you have to put them in a situation where they don't feel vulnerable. My advice is to work on getting people to open up about themselves.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:20 AM
3

Then you're basically friends with Reddit. Seriously, though, value your time and make people aware that you value your time.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 12:25 AM
24

The 3 Fs man . . . If you're not fucking me, financing me, or feeding me, you have no claim on my time.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 09:03 PM
-5

It was a joke. Dumbass. Also, you never did answer the guy's original question about whether you've actually fucked her. Which means you haven't. Which means your entire assessment of the situation is moot. Texting ain't shit. Results matter. Duh. You're obviously not clear on what the phrase "it worked" actually means. But, yeah, I'm the asshole here.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 09:48 PM
1

We need a ban on dudes invoking random historical figures. This is almost as bad as the dude who was on here last week telling us he had Viking blood.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 09:28 PM
-9

This has me suspicious. Maybe he'll be back with one of those classic "how do i get out of a rape allegation" posts. Fingers crossed.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 09:26 PM
3

Looking back at myself in HS and college is just fucking insanity. When I was in HS, there was a gay rumor going around about me because I was that socially retarded in the face of being hit on. In a lot of cases, I didn't even know I was being hit on. Literally no one ever pulled me aside and just said, "You know you could totally be getting laid." The closest I ever came was an older guy in HS who explained to me that this one girl liked me. But don't worry, that girl didn't run cold-hot-cold.…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 07:56 PM
5

There was this girl in college. Cute, but not gorgeous. The accessible 6 that every fucking guy thought he uniquely had a chance with. Girl couldn't top out higher than 7 if she got down in weight from 140-ish to 110, but every guy was tripping over themselves to ask her out because she was in that perfect spot where the two-point rule allowed her to vacuum up attention from guys who were 4s to 8s. I was dumb as shit during this period. Like, serious, a girl could have her hand on my thigh and I…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 07:42 PM
1

I think you need to deconflict some of the inputs you've had. I won't comment on the Christian part, since I'm an atheist who has never needed to arrive at an answer on that front.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:55 AM
6

I've never once tried to be charming for the sake of women. I tend to operate on the "my life is a fun ride, and you're welcome to come along" principle that TRP promotes. If I seem abrasive to a chick, whatever. In my experience, that just makes them more interested. Generally, holding frame works regardless of the frame you're holding.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 03:23 AM
5

You're talking about a character who's operating in an environment where that's going to sell well. Context matters a lot. I mean, you start invoking religion and stoicism, and you're not that far from landing on monastic celibacy. Obviously you're free to pursue that if you see fit, but it's not necessarily a glide path to girls and good times.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 03:17 AM
12

Is there a question here?
/r/askTRP23/07/18 02:02 AM
1

Bear in mind this is kind of a leftover technique from the heyday of PUA techniques. Not justifying his approach, but saying it dovetails with a specific set of opening tactics that PUAs once pimped in terms of not aiming straight for the hottest chick.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 02:01 AM
1

My end goal is for you to unfuck yourself. Seriously . . . explain to me why you think she was pissed? This should be entertaining. Half the value of TRP is learning that you can't have a sad over everything. If a little bad language and a few insults lower your self-esteem, you're not gonna get far with any of this. Every person you encounter is going to steer you where they want because you can't handle confrontation. Just review your story. Why did you do any of that? What did you win? How ha…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 01:49 AM
1

You have to learn to master life's contradictions. People will question them, but you have to just keep trucking along. Where you'll get in trouble if you let that questioning of your contradictions get in your head. That's the entire point of all the social tests that people use. The goal is to rattle fearful people by calling out their contradictions. The fakes fall apart, and then they get picked apart by the group. Just own it. You're funny when you're funny and you're serious when you're se…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 01:04 AM
1

I did not lie, I reluctantly agreed I did that thinking it would help her save face Are you even listening to yourself? There's no version of TRP where we congratulate you for dancing around simple issues because you're too much of a cunt to just state your case in front of other humans. What you did was genuinely fucking stupid. It was an idiot move, and you deserve to be called an idiot for it. Let me diagram what happened . . . She said, "Can I come to your place?" You said, "Yes." Then you r…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 12:57 AM
-2

You're an idiot. You lied to avoid a social confrontation instead of just flat-out telling her no. Then you corrected once no one was around. It was a bitch move, and she called you out.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 11:53 PM
1

Laugh about it. I remember this one girl who wore heels and we got lost while we were walking around on the first date. She was getting pissed because we ended up walking like a mile on cobblestone. I laughed, and we kept going. We went dancing, and then we went back to her place and fucked. Pro-tip: that apology did you no favors.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 11:48 PM
5

The big signs to look for are: 1) Does she seem anxious? 2) Is she trying to keep the conversation going? If yes to either one, you're on a glide path to get a kiss. I like to start with a little bit of a cocky, sideways smirk, and then I tell her "get over here" and motion with my hand. If she responds enthusiastically to simple instructions, you're on your way. Pull her toward you, just to verify that you're right. If that all works, make sure to use good form. Use your hand to sweep any hair …
/r/askTRP22/07/18 11:41 PM
1

She was fucked up at the time! Yeah, she probably wasn't precisely in "collecting business cards at a professional conference" mode at the time. Shit happens. Try to make arrangements and see what plays out. From my experience with this kind of girl, it helps to pick a place where you can still have fun if she doesn't show up. I've found that the indication that you'll move on with having a fun night without her often gives them a little kick in the ass.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 08:08 PM
1

My top tip would be to enjoy the chance to commit slaughter without legal repercussions, but ya know . . . that's just my opinion.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 08:04 PM
2

If you're not going to go to a tailor (the obvious answer), then you need to learn some tailoring tricks. The first time I seriously cut down fat levels, my shoulders held up really well. Rather than throw out some perfectly good shirts, I put what are called darts into them. The first photo here gives you a good idea of what they are . . . https://www.permanentstyle.com/2008/05/how-to-put-darts-in-your-shirts.html It's a simple trick that most people even half competent at sewing can do. The od…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 04:30 AM
8

Um . . . do you even science, bro? Just get a black girl.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:39 AM
2

I'm saying that the alpha male didn't exist back in hardcore tribal times. Keep in mind that early tribal people tended to all be what we'd call alpha males, especially if we compare them to early agricultural people. In most of the world, adult male height still hasn't recovered from the damage done by the First Agricultural Revolution. Early tribal males were all tall, lean-muscled hunters who lived on high-protein diets and ran on average 5 to 10 miles a day. It's not that women are attracted…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:19 AM
7

That's why you rub them before you start sucking. It heats the milk. Don't you remember pasteurization from science class?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 05:19 AM
2

I'd argue that the social combat between women is more relevant to their sex lives than their efforts to obtain men as mates. Every woman sees her peer group as potential sexual competitors. At the same time, if they don't play nice (with the group as whole, because any of the weaker members can be crushed on a whim by the strongest member), they can be rendered complete outcasts. One advantage men have within their peer groups is that you can always say "fuck this shit," beat the hell out of ea…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:28 AM
1

Do I need to put myself in more dark places? If you're asking stranger on the internet for advice on a subject like this, you need to completely un-fucking-plug for a while, man. And if reading a book took the invincibility out of you . . . um . . . I don't even know. That's weak. For me, Jordan Peterson and Ayn Rand are both big buckets of barf. Peterson is just someone trying to elevate and mainstream the TRP conversation. He's a product that found a market. He's trying to tough dad-ify the mo…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:02 AM
1

I don't know how that response differs from what i said.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 09:50 PM
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If there are IOIs, I strongly suggest you cut the shit before she decides you're gay. When the IOIs are obvious, anything short of reality-changing fail is going to play fine. The best pick-up line when the IOIs are abundant is . . . brace yourself for this beast of a line . . . ready? . . . it's "hello".
/r/askTRP16/07/18 08:21 PM
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"I know, right!?" If you want to rub her ego a little rough, toss an OMG on to the front of that statement. She will instantly assuming you're talking shit on her. Only play that card if your verbal combat skills are refined or you just DGAF.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 08:17 PM
1

That you've faced the list of core facts about reality that TRP says are inescapable. For example, you've accepted that NAWALT is at best a thought experiment, since it's probabilistically as relevant as planning for an extinction-level asteroid to hit you straight in the head.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 08:13 PM
3

Who in HS can order you to do anything? Not the teachers, that's for goddamned sure. And the other students can each shit. You need to learn to be outcome-independent. None of this shit is your problem. An HB4 is griefing you? So what? If you really must make it seem like she's not winning, just drop an aggression fart and get on with your day.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 08:07 PM
2

That response accomplishes what? Enjoy dying at a job where you will never be valued. Don't say no one ever told you.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 08:02 PM
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Downvote all you want, kitten. The fact remains, if you're this clueless about what kinky means, you're way the fuck out of your league. It's 2018. Use words properly.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 02:33 PM
1

They don't fear you. The fact that you're trying to artificially construct a claim that they do also tells me that it matters to you. You're not being outcome-independent. It’s still there, but for what I could gather, she’s scared If the shit is still there, then they're not scared enough. her lies to management There's your problem, right there. Someone else controls their fates. She didn’t lose her job just because it was the “nice owner”. And that also means the nice owner doesn't give a fuc…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 02:29 PM
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Studies of truly tribal societies (the Amazon, Papua New Guinea, etc) indicate that tribes tend to be pretty open sexually from an early age. Like, a disgustingly early age. There's a lot of fuckin goin around. Possession of women is a fairly recent development, largely accompanying the rise of agriculture and the accumulation of great wealth. You also see during this period that there are numerous Y chromosome bottlenecks because men started slaughtering each other at insane rates as pussy sudd…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 03:14 AM
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Buy a cage and train her to stay in it. If that takes, shave her head. If that takes, put her on a calorie restriction plan while keeping her caged. Oh, I'm sorry . . . I thought you knew what the word "kinky" meant. Wow. Seriously, as a pervert I cannot abide this senseless act of cultural appropriation. Anal is kinky? What are you, a fuckin Mormon? Anyhow, vanilla bean, thanks for playing. This girl wants a male-led relationship. Spare her suffering through you.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 02:48 AM
4

Because the game isn't just to have sex. The game is to pass on one's genes. Prostitution doesn't help you pass on your genes, therefore it figures less in the game than one might expect. FTR, it's not that feminist alone keep prostitution illegal. Like most truly awful shit in this world (see alcohol prohibition in the US in the 20s or explicit lyrics labels in the 90s), the bloc that has formed against prostitution is a tradcon-feminist alliance.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 02:45 AM
3

I know. Ridiculous, right? It's the wrong time of year. Who'd want a meat suit in this heat?!
/r/askTRP16/07/18 12:54 AM
2

I have never had this conversation in my life. One big difference, I suspect, is that I make getting my attention into a fucking Olympic sport for women. You gotta put in work if you want me to be interested. (it helps that I naturally tune people out anyhow.) I've had women go un-fucking-hinged on me -- screaming, threats, hitting -- because I think it's just the funniest fucking thing to see what it takes to get them to lose their shit trying to get my attention. The more you make them invest …
/r/askTRP16/07/18 12:46 AM
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They are beyond played out, which is a good thing. I remember about five years ago my oldest niece told me this horrifying story about a guy who was going full fuckin Mystery Method and full numbers game when she was out at the bar. I mean, this was some serious tragic loser shit from the word go. Women don't even read the behavior as odd anymore. It's just played the fuck out. Seriously, there was a line about this on Workaholics where a group of chicks talks shit on the guys telling them, "The…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 12:31 AM
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If gossip is still getting back to you, then you're not there. Also, you're still taking shit, because you're still listening to gossip. Taking shit with additional steps is still taking shit. You will know you're there when it comes to not taking shit when people are scared to tell you anything or tell anyone else anything about you -- when getting feedback, even necessary feedback, becomes a challenge. People are still gossiping because they're not afraid of losing anything if they incur your …
/r/askTRP16/07/18 12:26 AM
2

TRP does not preach that getting laid is easy. So, let's just throw that the fuck out right now. What it does teach is the trying is better than being a fatalist.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 12:22 AM
5

saying HB9 here That's what the "subtract 2" rule is for on all self-reporting.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 12:19 AM
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The part where he doesn't skin her and wear her, apparently.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 12:17 AM
3

High fashion isn't as important as having a style that's coherent and consistent. Whatever fashion choices you make need to take you into a particular lane you want to be in. The grossest punk rock dude will get pussy as long as he commits to his look and his lane -- just don't complain about getting Hep C. I tend to go for some mix of dress shirt, blazer and jeans. Scruffy beard that tapers into fairly tight hair cut. I wear zero accessories, unless its scarf season -- then my inner fag goes fu…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 11:43 PM
0

I'll argue it wasn't big government as much as it was big business. Given the role that regulatory capture plays in the modern world, blaming the government for what it does is like blaming a dewy-eyed cult member for following her leader's orders. Normalizing and flattening markets to make them more manageable is the default setting in a globalized economy. It's hard, for example, to build the New South that big business adores without flattening the hierarchy that held up the Old South. Regard…
/r/askTRP14/07/18 07:10 PM
5

black people NEVER had the opportunity for the "leave it to beaver" life portrayed on tv It's astonishing how we act, as a society, like this weird little blip in economic history -- when one (white) man could hold down a job, feed his kids, and let his wife be the domestic goddess she wanted to be -- was ever the baseline for normal. For most of human history, it has been struggle and war and rape and robbery. Then we get a couple decades where life, for at least a certain group of white people…
/r/askTRP14/07/18 07:05 PM
1

A lot of the useful principles have been folded into other disciplines. Krav Maga doesn't stand alone very well in a multidisciplinary world.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 03:55 PM
2

This, times fuckin 10. There's no substitute for the actual experience of fighting. It's the old Mike Tyson quote that "Everyone has a plan until they get punched." I'd argue that almost any structured experience is worthwhile. (I was taught judo, because I'm old as shit and that was considered different back then, when karate was the shit.) More than anything, what you'll gain is physical confidence in the moment. That will benefit you in many situations way outside fighting. People respond to …
/r/askTRP10/07/18 03:49 PM
5

face is your personality. In short, the kind of thing that someone with no personality would think.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 01:52 AM
1

Ah, you mean like these "charisma doesn't matter compared to looks" questions. I see. For reference: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8xb5j4/is_it_really_the_case_that_charisma_doesnt_matter/
/r/askTRP10/07/18 12:16 AM
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Eye roll. Lazy answer. For some asshole playing a guitar at a dumpy bar for a gig, the charisma is the buy-in to get the status. But thanks for playing.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 12:15 AM
4

I'm clearly just keeping my eyes on the road in front of me and not paying attention to this other shit . . . what the hell is blackpill?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:01 PM
1

I'm a pretty lazy male, especially when it comes to expenditures of emotional effort. I didn't have chasing in me even before TRP.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:18 PM
2

My experience has been that they're just testing harder for a stronger mate. They don't cave easy because that's how you end up with dweebs and losers. AWALT. The "super-confident" ones are just playing at the same result in a different way. But, they're playing for the same result.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:34 PM
1

Only decisions count. Duh.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:32 PM
3

Salsa. The two-step is brain-dead easy. Latin always sounds exotic. Every salsa night I've ever been to has like a 4-to-1 female-to-male ratio.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:30 PM
6

Just my experience, but women tend to make pretty fast snap judgments. Most of the times I could sense a woman was interested in me, it was like her brain had gone to lunch and left her ovaries to run the place. If she's being analytic, you probably haven't landed a strong enough emotional punch.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:28 PM
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Unless she is a total skank, there's not much downside in it for you, socially. As for being labeled the town slut . . . shit, women trash each other that way anyhow. Even the ones who aren't sluts get called sluts. It's a borderline useless label because women are so quick to be utterly shitty to each other.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:26 PM
2

In my experience, if a woman is afraid there's no long-term play, she will try to shake the guy off at every turn. This is what we commonly describe as the comfort test. She'll try to get you to chase, and then she'll measure how much effort you really put into it.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:22 PM
1

You can try it, but remember that women gauge their ability to retain a mate by how driven he is to fuck her. You will lose her. Whether that's a big deal is barely debatable, but I promise that shit will get in her head.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:18 PM
2

Does it matter?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:16 PM
3

If charisma doesn't count, then I challenge you to explain away each unfuckably hideous rock star who has been fucking supermodels his whole damned life. Mick Jagger exists. That's where this argument ends.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:14 PM
1

every woman seeks the most alpha male This is a deep mischaracterization. Women are looking for a mate with enough alpha traits. The "most alpha" male stands a pretty good chance of just clubbing her and any offspring to death. Some women will still go there, but not as many as you'd think. There are lots of reasons to go further down the chain. Provisioning is the obvious one. Commitment is another. So is obtaining a supply of orbiters. Cuckolding. And there's the less discussed one, where wome…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 04:32 PM
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Yes. Because, seriously, it's possible to walk and chew bubble gum at the same time. Also, don't make excuses for not seeking what you want.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:45 AM
1

I like a little attitude, but there's a difference between having a little fire and just being a self-absorbed ass who doesn't believe any man could ignore you. Also, sometimes it's just funny to see how far a chick will push it. Some don't have an off switch once they get pissed about not getting the attention they expect.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 05:34 PM
1

I'm always looking for the chick's response. It's definitely a test for me. The girls who get a little sad and shy are definitely worth further consideration. The ones that get right in your face trying to start shit and provoke reactions, not so much.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 04:24 PM
1

I'd argue it's the closest thing to a shit test that women receive, especially since the expected response -- watching the other party stumble over themselves to get validation from you -- is the same.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 03:43 PM
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The ultimate shit test for women is not providing the attention they seek. That shit is catnip.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 10:46 PM
2

I think if you're giving off strong signals while talking to people in situations without intent, then you're probably really fucking things up in the situations that call for sexual intent. I'm not a hardcore flirt, so it's pretty easy for me to always be on. Remember, wanting to fuck is a default assumption for women in interactions with men, so going straight to flirting confirms their worst suspicions. Don't do it that way. Just have a modestly invested conversation. You'll be amazed how muc…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 01:02 AM
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Here's the problem . . . even if they haven't actually splattered themselves across the wall, they'll still be nuts about their age. 40 y.o. guy here, and I've looked low 30s since I hit puberty up to this day, so I have a disproportionately long history of interactions with women in their 30s. Everything with women approaching the wall is this abject terror that they won't be desirable anymore. It doesn't matter how attractive they are. I remember when I was 36, I had dated this chick for a lit…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 12:15 AM
1

I believe you should be socially approaching in all situations. Do it without intent, because it'll lend authenticity to how you do things. Talking to the 55 y.o. lady running the register at Walmart? Engage. Make more of it than just grabbing a receipt from an employee paid to assist you. You should be gaming all the time. Do it when you talk to customer service people on the phone. Do it at the line in the bank while you're waiting to see a teller. Do it at the pizza place at 2am when you're s…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:59 PM
2

Don't. "Desolate area" isn't a space for any game other than "pin the murder charge on the drifter". Go where the people are. Buy a fuel-efficient car if it represents that costly of a challenge. I live half a county away from any nightlife, and two counties away from legit club and underground nightlife. You know what my solution is? I fucking drive. Or your could move. (I like country quiet, I like driving, and I can afford the gas.) Girls will flirt with me with their boyfriends driving the d…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:16 PM
3

Make a working garage your space. No one will take it over, because that shit would mean doing work. Side point: you're not being outcome-independent if you're reading society and politics into your everyday interactions. The world is full of shit you might not like, but being a bitch about yourself isn't the winning play.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:13 PM
2

I'll completely disagree. Human beings of both genders are mostly bottom bitches, and taking any of their input seriously creates problems. It's like letting your dog think he's people. Sure, your dog might be hungry, objective truth, but he can still keep his snout the fuck off your table. There's nothing to be learned from shit tests. Acting upon them in any way will be detected and graded against you as a slow-motion failure of the original test. You have to create your own reality because ev…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:10 PM
2

The ultimate shit test for women is limiting the attention you provide. If a woman is into a guy, she will endure unbelievable actions and remarks in order to be with him. Far past what qualifies as abuse. And it will barely dent her ego. If you want to see a woman freak out, see how she responds to limiting the attention you provide. One of my favorite tricks when doing text, Tinder, etc. is to just talk about stuff and see how long it takes for the chick to sexualize things. Then I don't reall…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:13 PM
1

File it under "lessons learned"
/r/askTRP23/05/18 01:30 AM
3

I'd argue that voluntary proximity is a bigger IOI than it gets credit for. Women have to deal with a lot of creepy guys, and they don't risk sending off the wrong signal to the wrong guy if they can avoid it. (As the Houston incel/shooter proved, that shit can get a chick dead.) If you're in a large social gathering and she finds a way to be three to five feet away from you, that's usually an IOI. Bear in mind we're talking about voluntary proximity. Proximity as a result of work, school, etc, …
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:22 AM
2

I'd vote for maintaining frame. I tend to blow all things off with a bit of nasty humor. "And here you are not getting paid!" It'll start a fight, but that was probably gonna happen anyhow. Bear in mind, you don't want to be dependent on the outcome. If you're that worried about her response, one could argue you've already lost the exchange.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 03:33 PM
10

Everything else has already been said, so I'll just add this . . . In the United States there's little public support for anything that's seen as loserish. For example, politicians aren't exactly tripping over themselves to pay for good public transit systems. Why? Because that's what the poor use to get around. Nothing is going to erase the stigma of johns being losers. In America, it's very difficult to give anything to the losers. Even pot legalization has only started to move forward as more…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 05:31 AM
5

In most jurisdictions, there are specific compliance requirements for porn production.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 05:16 AM
15

She fired a shot and got you to expose your position. You have to play something like this off. "I was thinking more 'Hulu and lose our shit.'" Mild humor is usually winning. Or "Amazon Prime and whatever it is people with Amazon Prime accounts do. What do people with Amazon Prime accounts do?" A question as an answer can solicit a response to your question, moving you away from a loaded topic. I get the logic of trying to own your position, but "Netflix and chill" is a very loaded concept. You …
/r/askTRP21/05/18 03:41 AM
1

Bumble seems to be the Great Filter of Loserdom. It's for all the folks who can't make Tinder work their way.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 02:22 PM
0

Super easy solution: start taking her to the trashiest bars in town. Someone will eventually take it out for her.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 02:20 PM
3

Stop living in Venezuela.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 02:15 PM
3

This is one of those things that kills me about game, so-called. Most people are praying that someone -- anyone -- will break the conversational ice. People are thankful for someone to step up. "Hello" is powerful simply because being confident enough to do it has huge benefits. Clearly stating your intentions is powerful because people rarely do it. One of the reasons women select for such a small sample of the male population is that 80% of men are too chickenshit to engage in the basic act of…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:16 PM
0

"Bitch, HPV don't work that way."
/r/askTRP15/05/18 05:36 PM
1

had other girls, didn't pedestal her. And yet she's the one you wrote all this about . . . hmmmm.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 04:18 PM
0

Women aren't proud of it, but you'll find chicks who are resigned to it for various reasons. The butterfaces, the chubby-cutes, the aged-out ones, etc. In my experience, they frame it as a positive sexual lifestyle choice. Or it'll be framed as "I just like dick so much". You'll also find the occasional one who prefers the Bill Clinton Defense, claiming that all the oral, fingering and face sucking doesn't count, essentially trying to keep an insanely high N down to a just very bad N. What you n…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 04:13 PM
6

8 -> 22 Another victory for the Multiply by Three Rule.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 04:05 PM
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A 10 is just an 8 who happens to tick off all the right boxes for you in terms of type. Also, there's the ironclad rule of internet self-reporting. Take the report and subtract two automatically. So, again, she's an 8. First, let's be clear, you're being a fuckin pussy. Even by the most blue pill standards, you're being a pussy. You've literally done nothing to warm her up. You're just hoping that she magically drifts toward you by virtue of how your useless fucking mass bends spacetime to cause…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 04:02 PM
2

"Inner game" isn't the same as "innate personality". Inner game is not letting externalities -- shit other people do to get you down -- influence your approach. Innate personality is the notion that you don't need to have a focused approach to controlling how outside influences hit you. It's one step away from just telling people, "Be Yourself."
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:29 PM
1

bad bot
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:42 PM
1

Perhaps this is because I came to TRP from a very different place than most guys do, but I've never bought the idea that you have to have a complete break or some kind of rock bottom event to get you there. TBH, I think a lot of the cheap marketing that surrounds TRP (dating coaches, PUAs, authors, etc) have adopted the language of the self-industry as a lead magnet. For me, I had pretty good game, but I wasn't aware that it was good game. I wasn't even aware there was a game. I could be very di…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:32 PM
1

Alcohol consumption needs to be calibrated to your response to it and the value it returns. I know guys who just get sloppier, like you described. There are other guy who it helps because it's basically self-medicating their anxiety issues. This is the historic rule of alcohol as social lubricant. I tend to get quiet and kind of menacing when I drink, so . . . In general, the guys who benefit the most from it are the ones who should probably be looking at anti-anxiety meds or meditation programs…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 05:30 PM
2

Car competition is a male-vs-male form of intrasexual aggression. Women only check the negative signals men send with their vehicles. The classic female observation is that a guy with a jacked up truck or a hot car has a small dick. As long as you're not driving a dirty 1998 Dodge Neon, you'll be fine. Find a decent car, throw a decent set of chrome wheels on it, and you'll be fine. The only women who are extremely impressed by cars are the ones who come from abject poverty. I say this as someon…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 02:57 AM
2

Not only should you avoid bringing it up, but women who like you will work tirelessly to keep you from bringing it up. I dated a chick a bit over a year ago who'd bring up very specific sexual concepts that really couldn't be responded to without explaining what my experience was. This, of course, meant that I sometimes made clear mention of women I had previously slept with. She would then get upset that I mentioned them, and she eventually went to telling me "Please don't mention exes." Then o…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:42 PM
2

Most of the MSM coverage I've read seems to get the difference between the hardcore InCel types and TRP, at least in terms of the idea that InCels are hopeless dead-enders with fantasies of violence while TRPers are at least looking for practical solutions to life's problems. There's a huge gap between "kill all sloots and whores" and "women respond to X, not Y". The biggest thing that porbably insulates TRP more than other manosphere communities is the money. TRP has a strong profit motive -- o…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:32 PM
1

Approaching should become a normal part of all your interactions with all people. It shouldn't actually have a core sexual intent built into it. Regardless of the situation you're in, you should be comfortable initiating conversations just for the sake of doing so. Last weekend I was a guest at a wedding where the only person I truly knew was the groom. Developing a tendency to approach a number of people for no good reason is the only thing that made the event fun. You should be practicing appr…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 07:19 PM
5

Attention = opportunity. For a variety of cultural and biological reasons, women generally can't seize opportunity the way men can. There's no serious version of a hideous woman starting a band or a corporation and suddenly getting a chance to fuck Brad Pitt. In fact, there's a pretty good chance that if she succeeds, she'll be subjected to public complaints about her appearance. Conversely, Mick Jagger fucks supermodels, and the world just ignores the fact that has always looked liked someone s…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 05:05 PM
1

I disagree with the OP's assertion, but he's saying the group's behavior is somehow stupid. The sugar baby is at least being credited with getting the goods.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 04:48 PM
0

I'm not certain what is actually to be classified as "stupid" here. Let's apply basic TRP theory to the motivations in saying she had good morals. The social circle is everything, especially for girls that age. Second, ASD is real, and that goes double when the cast of Mean Girls is convened to assign #slut tags to anyone who steers away from the groupthink. They're not being stupid. They're surviving within the limitations of their environment. Stupid, for a girl that age in that peer group, wo…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 04:46 PM
4

And a functionally illiterate person can read The Cat in the Hat.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 08:19 PM
4

That's like saying the difference between illiterate and functionally illiterate is a massive deal while applying for a C-suite position.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:58 PM
3

Opening up text game works best if you have a thread to pull at. Since you've indicated you met them through day gaming, you either needed to take good mental notes from the conversations or you'll want to check social media profiles real quick and try to find an underlying theme. Almost all women fashion themselves around one identifiable signal that they transmit to the world (and then proceed to bitch about being pigeonholed for). That's where I've had my greatest success finding a thread and…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:52 PM
18

This can be made more evil and contextual. "I was just thinking about that one cashier." Celeb = high status, which for women makes it less bad. Cashier . . . low status, and also a very typically male and real thing to have on your mind. Every good trick with a woman is about burrowing into her mind.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:45 PM
1

In the case of TRP, it's not so much "keep it secret" as it is "don't waste your time". I have one friend who I talked up quite a bit about it over the years because he started kind of taking notes of the shit I did with women. The funny thing is that he can play it really tight . . . right up until he gets results. Then he's like a goddamned army that thinks the war is won when the occupation has only begun. All the tight game falls apart because a comfortable relationship is his desired end po…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:43 PM
1

You've never actually done any of this shit, have you?
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:38 PM
2

texting on and off for months Don't feed the attention monster.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:08 AM
1

We need a stickie that just says, "You're not here to save the world, your friends, or even your friggin family." If Captain Save a Ho is a problem, then Captain Save a Bro ain't any better.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:02 AM
1

In my experience, if you go there, you better be prepared to plow through everything in that lane like a runaway 18-wheeler. You will be challenged, and she will try to get you to break frame.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 02:57 AM
2

Diagram all those ideas and tell me which one ends with you blowing a load into a potted plant. Weinstein was beta AF. His entire sale pitch was creepy and he came at women sideways with an offer to give them something. Alpha is a case where the only thing you're offering is the chance to bask in the glow of your awesomeness. If she wants to go my way, hooray. If not . . . well, I don't end up jacking off into a plant.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:05 AM
1

I know we don't talk about Fight Club If you think this meant people weren't supposed to talk about Fight Club, you really didn't get the joke when you watched the movie. It's reverse psychology. Forbidden fruit. Driving people to talk about it specifically because they were told not to. FTR, don't get invested in saving other guys. Shit happens.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 08:56 PM
1

I'm on your side of the argument, but Weinstein is a terrible example. The dude would get rejected and jack off into potted plants for relief.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 08:53 PM
1

I'd go a step further and argue that very few people even have values. Lots of folks signal that they hold specific values, but it's amazing how quickly those values go out the window when there's something they want on the line. With a few exceptions, people's claims of values are bullshit.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 03:41 AM
2

My response would be "fucking duh!" Who gives a fuck if you get painted as the bad guy? Is the bitch in charge of approving your next loan or promotion? There's immense potential here, but you have to hold frame. I enjoy fucking with women under these conditions, so I'd be positively giddy in your position.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 03:28 AM
1

I'd flatout ask him what his issue is. Compel him to openly admit he's in deep beta rage mode, and then frankly ask him to reflect on that. I'd probably say something like, "You're making your shit my problem. Tighten your shit the fuck up, man, cause this is not my zoo and you are most certainly not my monkey."
/r/askTRP19/04/18 04:26 PM
3

I have a relative who has some natural game, and he plays it off like it's a positive and then flips it on the other person. You: "I have no life at all, how did you know? haha" Him: "I have so much free time! It's amazing the shit I can get done when I'm not fuckin around dealing with people like you."
/r/askTRP19/04/18 04:22 PM
51

1) Because open bisexuality among women is a very specific sort of signaling behavior. You'll see it all the time on online dating profiles, where it's used a signal that they're wild and adventurous. 2) Many people with mental disorders that impair socialization genuinely don't give a fuck about sexual identity. Autistics, psychopaths and similarly impaired people aren't invested enough in society's opinion of them to care about appearances. This leads to what's often thought of as distinctly "…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 04:16 PM
2

I'm pretty good at instigating responses. "RU alive?" seems to get results.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:26 AM
2

This is how I approach things, but I'm prone to being a fucker, so that's my frame. I would flatout tell her "An offer was made. Accept it or don't, but don't fuck around. It's not cute, so cut the shit." She'll make some claim that she isn't the problem -- that's the entire point of the non-answer answer -- and I'd stick to my guns until she's angry, crying or quits. If she get emotional in any way, you have an opening as long as you control the frame. I don't know what your typical frame is, s…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:59 AM
1

A non-answer answer is one that seems like an answer but really isn't. That what makes it so brilliant. Your quick move undid you. If you do get to talk to her again, you need to put her on the spot. Make it clear you value your time.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 11:22 PM
1

"Indeed" was a non-answer answer. If I'm just a hookup, tell me. This was a red flag, and you missed it by immediately moving in for the date. I'd argue the situation is fairly recoverable, but you're being comfort tested with a side of ASD, so . . . a little investment is being asked here. She wants to see if you'll work for it. FTR, I tend to fuck with women for a while in these situations. I'd have gone with a response like, "I AM pretty . . . and rad. Preach the gospel." It's such a stupid a…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 11:02 PM
6

Seconded. I have a friend who is soft TRP. A tradcon Catholic/Republican who can follow all the damned steps right until things start going well with a girl. Does it annoy me at times? Sure. Conversely, the dude has an insane gift to get free tickets to concerts and sporting events from people because he has some connections with folks who work for various local companies. He also tends to overpay when we're splitting expenses going places. Not the world's greatest tragedy, except when he breaks…
/r/askTRP14/04/18 07:25 PM
1

If you have height and shoulder width, then stop being a little bitch. Put in some lifting and start practicing your game. First lesson: stop being neurotic about all these internalized self truths. This is the shit that holds so many guys back. "I'm a caveman." Maybe you're a caveman because you've internalized that truth, but you can be anything you want. Go be the thing you want and ditch your internalized truths.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 06:22 AM
1

In fairness, she may be re-enacting childhood traumas through him. Think of it as the dirty hippie parent version of a chick having daddy issues. In my experience, people piss away their lives either trying to confirm or disprove their upbringings. She seems to be on the confirmation path.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 06:17 AM
1

Sending nudes and blowing up your phone seems impressive? FTR, I accomplish those basics by just not giving girls an inch on attempts at making texting sexy. Women hate that shit, and they will quickly escalate to break you out of it. I also throw in a little extra prick behavior here and there for fun.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 05:52 AM
3

I got the magnum condoms. And a wad of hundreds.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 05:48 AM
1

Define "a cool experience".
/r/askTRP11/04/18 05:22 AM
1

Your mistake is seeing alpha-beta as a dominant-submissive divide. It's not. In fact, some of the nastiest rage in the world is beta rage. Human beings tear each other down. The distinction is that the highest status people don't have to play that game. Mind you, many do. But there's a difference between wanting to playing it having to play it.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 04:44 PM
3

Internalized truths are among the biggest progress killers. Guys just buy into these narratives that mean nothing.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 02:11 AM
1

No, he did the patch test. It came back top 5-10%. Your argument is invalid.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 02:09 AM
4

Count me in the minority, because I think Donald is the classic corporate type who wants a woman to strap on and fuck him in the ass. What alpha encourages a woman to swat his ass? Bitch, please. Trump is a classic fake alpha. Puts on a big show, and then he crumbles when shit gets tough. Pisses away his daddy's money, and then he goes fishing anywhere for cash. Sad. For that matter, what alpha can't look people in the eye when he fires them? Who fires people by tweetstorm? A real alpha would wa…
/r/askTRP07/04/18 04:57 AM
1

Isn't that literally the argument the entire alt-right was making about Obama, that he was a beta and had become president?
/r/askTRP07/04/18 04:56 AM
3

Except for Putin. He begs and fetches for his big daddy Vlad.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 04:55 AM
1

I've done it bare-handed and with no leverage. Big, purple bruises. That shit makes an impression, to say the least. My advice is build up your forearm strength.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 05:29 PM
3

Okay, never mind. I see what you're committing to here. You have an answer in mind, and we're all supposed to just get to it. Gotchya.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 05:26 PM
9

you're the only one that reacts positively This is where you fucked up. You basically admitted to spamming a bunch of chicks, then you said only one, her, responded well to the spamming. There's no fix. Stop doing super eager shit. Also, don't fixate on one girl.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 05:23 PM
2

Americans are fat and rude. Congratulations on this discovery. The big difference is they haven't been westernized. The interesting question with Africa is going to be how things change in the next 20-ish years, since it appears that the strongest modernizing influence is likely to come from China, not America. As for experience . . . never dated one, but a friend's dad (white American) married an East African woman, and he ate that shit up. He was very tradcon and had been married to a teacher …
/r/askTRP06/04/18 05:18 PM
4

If you're pissing away your life fighting a jihad against someone else's worldview, then you're not living an outcome-independent existence. Stop being a little bitch and focus on what gets you to where you need to go. If that's college, then suck it up, buttercup. Also, be suspicious of your own motives for why you're doing specific things. You have to at some point become a lethally effective chess player, and that means life is about the position you are in, not the list of revenge fantasies …
/r/askTRP06/04/18 04:34 AM
1

There's nothing wrong with a level of feelings here. She's displaying demure, submissive behaviors that make you feel like a big badass man. While you want to keep it tight, there's no reason to get worried until that shy streak starts running out. Girl digs you, and she's rather feminine about. A win's a win. Don't overthink it.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:52 PM
9

Human are manipulative. From the moment a baby first realizes it can make its mother do something by crying, manipulation becomes the norm. Denying the inherently manipulative nature of existence is aspie-ish as fuck. When my girlfriend says she walks on eggshells around me And yet she keeps on walking on them for you. My advice: buy more eggshells. I have a goal and she thinks I’m going about it wrong. So? It's your goal, not hers. What is she doing? Practicing to become a bad Jewish mother fro…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:47 PM
4

Social proof is the greatest value you can offer. Human beings are always looking for friends and people to trade with, so anything that demonstrates you can plug them into a useful network is a major win. If you can be someone's in to anything -- a party, a job, a social circle, an exclusive club, or even half a conversation -- then you're gold. Being something they don't have can also be useful. The most athletic guy in a peer group is always winning. The foreign guy gets laid. The guy who can…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:43 PM
2

This is why I fail at comfort tests. I couldn't resist a joke about putting her in a cage. (It's a kink thing. Look it up, unless you're nofapping.) That poor girl would feel three inches high by the time I was done laughing at my own cruelty.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:34 PM
2

The grin helped. Deniability + intent > just deniability.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 04:29 PM
1

That would be the perfect scenario -- then he can have all the fun he wants emotionally torturing her. Excellent practice. One reason I like getting antagonistic is that it can quickly reshuffle the deck. A chick who might not be digging you a lot may perk up when she sees just how very little you care whether you piss her off.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 08:36 AM
1

I'm an asshole, so take this with a grain of salt, but I'd go with something that is obviously ignorant but that is, in the strictest linguistic sense, ambiguous like, "Bitch, please." It should be pointed out, I enjoy pissing women off. You'll get a pissy response back. I like to send this picture back without any text: http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-D3C0apTo4o0/T9Eva-crDCI/AAAAAAAAAUw/psPKgUDdEMs/s1600/black-and-white-bruce-willis-smirk-Favim_com-185469.jpg I'm pretty antagonistic, and any chick th…
/r/askTRP01/04/18 01:03 AM
1

Isn't a short memory an asset when you're out trying to get laid?
/r/askTRP01/04/18 12:59 AM
1

Not tightening my ship up work-wise in my early 20s. I've always been a heavy freelancer (computer programming, analytics, technical writing, and SEO), and the world has somehow always found a way to put a couple bucks in my possession. It wasn't until I got into my late 20s that I realized that, regardless of how easily money came to me, I should get the fuck on my hustle. Easily making thousands is dumb when you can push harder and make a lot more. I don't truly regret it, because I did spend …
/r/askTRP01/04/18 12:53 AM
1

But we all do stuff for our own benefit don't we. The first great realization all autistic people have to arrive at before they can really mature. Congrats. Big first step, bucco.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 05:28 AM
1

I miss my ex who basically abused me First, she didn't "basically" abuse you. She outright and clearly abused you. Beyond that, human beings -- even the large majority of men, despite what TRPers make it sound like -- are wired for submission. Unhesitatingly treat them like shit, and they will worship the ground you walk on. In your case, your ex had hardcore abuser game. People with strong predatory instincts know who to corner and how to keep them there. More than anything, you have to unfuck …
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:51 AM
1

I think overt jerkish behavior is overrated within TRP, PUA, etc. There are women who go for that type, but you're basically talking about the chick who'll fuck the biggest drug dealer in her trailer park. In other words, slags and how chicks who've turned themselves into slags by poor life choices. In my experience, people in general -- not just women -- tend to defer to men who are jerks in the sense that those men forget or ignore a lot of shit. Not being invested in caring whether you rememb…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:45 AM
2

I find "gaming" to be self-compromising and a horrible world to live in. Well, shit, that's your problem right there. You hate the human race and they way humans do things. Honestly, man . . . you don't like the world. That's all there is to it. Humanity loves endless social challenges and pissing contests. You don't. FTR, I come from a somewhat similar background, though significantly less failed. To this day, I have a somewhat similar outlook on people. Where I made a minor adjustment was in l…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 08:34 PM
2

Put in the reps. It's just like how an athlete gains game intelligence. A middle linebacker doesn't have time in a game to overanalyze. He goes out, he takes his lumps, and then he checks the film afterward. You have to separate action from analysis. For example, I play a lot of chess, but I'm a player who is heavily recognition driven. I rarely calculate my way to a new discovery, and I'm genuinely terrible when I end up in a novel position I've never seen before. What works for me is doing ana…
/r/askTRP23/03/18 04:45 PM
6

Let's start with something a little further back on the diagram than abundance mentality, which is more intermediate than beginner stuff, IMHO. The overanalyzing. I don't object to analysis after the fact. If you want to come on here and discuss a Saturday incident the Monday after, go for it. It can be therapeutic. Conversely, if you're actively thinking in the moment, you're already behind the game. To some extent, you have to just let it go in the moment, especially once you get into the give…
/r/askTRP23/03/18 05:00 AM
9

I assume you're having trouble finding a jumping off point for a conversation. In my experience, the best trick is to find a contextual opening. I can remember this one time a girl started talking to me because I laughed at her when she missed the step going out of the bar and said, "That step gets everyone." I'd also suggest non-sexual bullshitting with service people makes good practice. If a cashier says something more than just hello, work with it. Tellers at banks. Wait staff. Anyone. Beyon…
/r/askTRP23/03/18 04:53 AM
7

I think it's time the mods just stickied a "Tinder: Dead or Not?" thread.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 04:48 AM
5

Depends on where you're at in the world. Believe it or not, chess has some sex appeal in Europe. Not so much in North America. If I were to use chess as a tool for gaming women, I'd probably focus on teaching it. Personally, I already use cooking as my "Imma come over and show you how it's done" date. Chess is probably a bit tricky because it's an invitation to get all spergie about it. I would take a deep dive into talking about chess, but maybe frame it as part of a larger cultured self-depict…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 02:44 AM
2

Keep escalating the arrogance level of your behavior around women who don't know you until they start throwing shade your way.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 02:39 AM
1

The problem is that the word thick got co-opted in a half-second, just like curvy and and similar adjectives. Women instantly co-opt any term that distracts from demonstrable awfulness, as if a word fixes that. There are definitely hot chicks with builds that aren't as lean as traditionally accepted, but the minute those women get any attention, you'll see a rush of fat chicks plowing in faster than when a wedding DJ plays Cupid Shuffle.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 02:38 AM
1

Dude, it's HS. Everyone is going to dump on you no matter what. You'll at least know why.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 02:33 AM
2

The problem with girl approach is that they only do it to offer you an opening to open them. Fundamentally, she has been orbiting around you, hoping you'll pick up the signal and do something about. My guess is that this was in HS and toward the end of school (like 12th grade, end of year). When women are worried that they're close to never seeing a particular guy again, you'll see these kinds of upticks in approaching. Mind you, it's never a direct male-style approach. It's always, "Hey . . . .…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:05 PM
1

My experience has been that it's better to just let your example sit out there. If he asks questions, feel free to answer them. If you're not 100% sure he wouldn't rat you out to peers for being unplugged, then take it lightly. Also, once he does ask questions, don't expect him to stick to the program. Most people learn just enough to get a date, and then they regress. I have a friend who several years ago started taking serious notes from me. But once he gets into a relationship . . . ha. Forge…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 02:52 PM
5

Women let their gay friends get away with a megaton of shit. They also seem to think they're on some crusade to convert them. Gay dudes basically can grope the bejesus out of their female friends. Add alcohol and watch the magic happen.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:38 AM
6

But . . . they have a connection.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:25 AM
6

A dyed in the wool sociopath would leverage that shit to the hilt, becoming the chicks' fabulous friend. The shit you can get away with in that lane is unreal.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:22 AM
2

I'm astonished the GF even lets her friend around you. My experience has been that women who see me as having long-term potential wall off their friends. I can remember a chick I was fairly comfortable with, and she would spend hours ditching her friends. I tried a few times to tell her that I didn't give a shit who came out with us, but it was like clockwork. Didn't matter. I'd have to be a bit suspicious. Then again, I don't reward any woman who sends me nudes, so . . . Was there at least a co…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:57 AM
3

If you peaked in high school, you should be fucking ashamed of yourself. FTR, if I could go back to any year, it would be age 33. Old enough to know the game and have money, but young enough that I still had some youth on my side.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 01:48 AM
1

Standard rule. Take a self-report's number and subtract two. Arrive at actual number. Or I could accept your lady-like humblebrag at face value.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 02:52 AM
0

7.5 -- this rating has been adjusted to account for internet-based self-reporting.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 01:58 AM
6

Remember that the rule of thumb is roughly push-push-pull. It's not that you can't say nice things, it's that you should be sparing with them.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 01:57 AM
2

In my experience, if a woman is down with a shorter guy, she's solid about it. I have a female family whose husband is 5'6" (she's 5'1", but super cute). She stupidly loyal, and he dread games her constantly. He works away, so that's not hard to pull off. He's also one of those tough little fireplug fuckers you'd have to beat to death with a pipe if you got into a fight with him. That said, she only dated one guy who was taller than 6'. Simply put, she has never really had a thing for overly hug…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 01:48 AM
3

I'm not a huge fan of sexualizing conversations. Just my personal style going back to way before red pill days, but I've found that creating a sense of frustration that the conversation isn't being sexualized works best for me. I've had women mention it in passing as a good thing one moment, and then a couple hours later they just completely lose their shit about it. You haven't lived until you've been on the receiving end of storm of attention-seeking nude selfies trying to prompt a response. I…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 06:18 PM
1

Yes. Solo travel can be deep dread game. Travel always equals sex.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 06:14 PM
1

I tend to be a fucker about these. It's far from the model answer, but I usually reply with something like, "Because I have a life outside of you." If she gets pissy, I'll pile on with something like, "Get over yourself." In fairness, I'm perfectly comfortable cutting bait for the smallest annoyances, so . . . consider that a disclosure of my biases and shortcomings. I enjoy pissing women off, and I have no problem getting salty with text exchanges.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 06:11 PM
6

In every situation in life, you need to ask a simple question: what do i stand to gain from this choice? What's actual upside in talking to the dude? You'd be wise to end all contact with both. You have no clue what her end game is, and the way it plays out can get unpredictable with an additional partner who feels they've been wronged. Jealousy, especially among dudes who can't lock chicks down emotionally, gets ugly and violent even if they get the girl back.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 06:01 PM
2

White knighting, by far my favorite form of toxic masculinity. As if lurking and hoping like a little fuckin creep is better than being forward about your intentions.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:52 PM
3

My approach to dealing with chicks in large groups, especially those with a large number of male orbiters, is to keep myself at the edge of the group. I engage, but in a disinterested way. If you need something else to focus on, find another woman to look at. Look around at the ground. Engage and discuss, but don't provide direct visual attention. If she's interested, she'll peel away from the group to try to get your attention.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:06 AM
2

go out and apply This by itself is better than what most people piss away their time doing. The reason that even some of the dumbest PUA programs produce success is because getting out and doing anything is worth more than engaging in relentless analysis. Studying all the techniques and tactics in the world will reward you nothing. You have to go out with a rough idea, get a feel for what clicks and what doesn't, and then begin making revisions. Too many guys read and read and read, and then may…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:54 AM
1

Other people make excellent props. I'd argue that having a conversation cooking with anyone improves your chances of hooking up with someone attractive. Why? Especially when it comes to women who want to open you, chicks would much rather there be an obvious excuse for entering a conversation with a group than simply approaching you. The group offer plausible deniability for the girl who wants to open you, but who can't bring herself to do it directly.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 06:13 PM
2

I think he's on to something, guys. I think the next time I'm at some chick's apartment, I'm gonna piss on her couch and threaten to cut her if she gives me shit about it. Then I'm gonna demand food. Wish me luck.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 12:22 AM
4

All questions in the form of "should I help ____" are answered as "no." People who want your help will come to you for it. And even then, a good number of them will only want your help long enough to address whatever specific concern they have, and then they'll go back to their usual bullshit instead of fixing larger issues.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 05:45 PM
7

In my experience, if you see a hot chick stay single for a long stretch, there's a pretty good chance you're dealing with one who got alpha widowed already. Or she's currently pining for the alpha of her dreams. If she's single for a long stretch, there's an alpha somewhere in that equation.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 05:43 PM
1

Notable: there's only one girl in this story.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 03:07 AM
26

That was pretty solid. Can't guarantee it'll work, but it definitely follows the guidelines for a good approach. Not overly engaged. Assumes the sale. Exit before you have time to fuck up.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:58 PM
1

My concern is that you took this course not because it mattered to you, but because it mattered to other people.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:55 PM
2

has been driving me around Not precisely a high-status activity on your part.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:53 PM
1

Because dudes who aren't thirsty don't waste their time texting and receiving pics unless they're going to get real play out of it.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:28 AM
1

Don't feed the attention monster. If you give her another chance, it has to be in the most obviously demeaning manner possible. She has to come to your place or your favorite club, and you're literally not doing shit to make it happen. In general, though, this all reads as rather thirsty behavior on your part.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:19 AM
1

How should I respond? In almost all cases where this question is asked, the answer is "no response at all." If you feel compelled to respond, my advice is a quick cocky smirk and a look away.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:17 AM
3

Social media falls under the heading of "where she gets her favorite drug". I'll argue there's some value in scanning a chicks feed and reverse engineering the bullshit. For example, if she's constantly talking about a particular type of guy being "bad" or "wrong," it's a fair bet she has dated a lot of those guys, and you should try to probe that territory. For the most part, I file it under "don't feed the attentionwhores". You definitely don't want to overengage on social media, especially ou…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:15 AM
16

Stay in the conversation, but direct your attention elsewhere. Nothing drives women quite as nuts as not being able to fully command your attention. For example, at the bar I like to converse but look around during the conversation. I don't comment (unless something provably awesome happens) on anything I'm looking at. Your goal isn't to make her feel sexy one minute and scared the next. Even if you're looking to use a push-pull method, it's more push-push-pull in terms of ratio. You want her to…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:12 AM
0

I'd argue that the sort of beta you're talking about represents a case where he needed to order a bigger side. Also, notable: there aren't a lot of betas with a healthy side of alpha. It's also reasonable to assume the ones who exist are largely locked down, therefore their examples aren't on constant display. As to "what about hypergamy?" I had already addressed that with my "runningback-by-committee" remark. That's hypergamy in action.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:40 PM
2

No I did not. Hence the use of "contrary to popular opinion". Most women would prefer a relatively beta guy (stability, providership) who can dial up specific alpha traits (particularly the ability to defend her and offspring) at appropriate times. The problem is that type of guy barely exists at all, because selection processes in competition among males strongly favors aggression. For example, it's estimated that, prior to the end of the Middle Ages, something in the neighborhood of 15% of mal…
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:11 PM
2

Contrary to popular opinion, women prefer beta with a side of alpha. However, that basically is half as common as spotting a yeti riding a unicorn. So, they tend to opt for trying to tame an alpha.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:34 AM
1

Could be worse. She could be saying "well hung white male" as a superlative.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:57 AM
1

It's the puffy vagina you have to worry about.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 06:57 AM
2

Expressions of insecurity are fishing for compliments. Genuinely hideous people don't chance being insulted by fishing.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 04:17 AM
1

Don't tell her she's pretty or attractive. Remark on her outfit. Her hair. "Yer pretty" gets a little subservient. "Like the hair," throws her a bone and also attaches the prospect of continued to compliments to the idea that she needs to keep doing something well. I'm pretty sparse with compliments. It sends women off the deep end. As in, full-on blowing up my phone with pics and vids that just keep escalating the extremities of sluttiness. I know other guys argue for little texting, but I've f…
/r/askTRP25/01/18 04:17 AM
1

Now I see why you have to troll people on the internet to feel good about yourself. You're intent on trolling. This is pointless. Thanks for playing. EOM, sad poor boy.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 04:13 AM
1

Have you ever had an interaction with an actual human woman? What you're describing is not how actual women respond to "my money makes money". Eyeroll. You'd know that if your money had ever made a nickel on its own.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 02:45 AM
1

I've never gotten that response, but thanks for playing.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 08:10 PM
1

"My money makes money."
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:05 AM
1

Apply the Subtract Two Rule for all internet self-reporting. Dude's a physical seven who plays himself down to a 5 thanks to social retardation, then he frustrates himself by shooting for 9s thinking he's a 9. Rinse and repeat as many times as necessary to produce a spree killer.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:23 PM
2

Not so much selfish as lazy. And unoriginal. "Here's some food. Let's fuck." Women like experiences. He had her cooking with some initial disinterest and then got things simmering with the photography thing (read the story). He seems utterly lacking in creativity past that point. Take her out. Get her revved up. A little dancing, ferfucksake.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:20 PM
1

Some dudes never lose the thirsty attitude, even after they've established themselves.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:15 PM
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Lift And be prepared to take the pile of challenges to his frame changes that came when Dave Chappelle got big.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:14 PM
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DiCaprio survives because his celebrity persona -- and by all accounts his real life persona -- provide a frame that suggests he's gonna pump and dump. Aziz's doesn't. His celebrity persona, as others have said, is pretty much "manlet". That's a hard position from which to initiate a ONS.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:13 PM
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Something I've noticed no one is mentioning: frame. For good or ill, Aziz's celebrity persona pushes him into a very specific frame. Then he gets a bit pushy in a way that busts that frame to pieces. If you go through the story, he's off to a pretty good start when he initially ignores the chick. The problem is that once he pays attention to her, he's begging to be shit tested. And she frankly drops as nuclear a shit test as they come on him in the form of "I'll do oral, but you ain't gettin the…
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:11 PM
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you will encounter several "TRP" posters who do hate women Almost any large concentration of people from one gender will eventually lead to some bashing. You will even encounter some wankers spewing political nonsense and whacked-out conspiracy theories. While we're at it, let's not forget the outright scammers who are trying to sell books and coaching and such.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:34 AM
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Reputation is an externality that feels internal. It's hard to defend against externalities. This is why fostering an outcome independent mentality is important. Even in the Aziz case, what's the defense he's able to mount? He isn't. His primary defense is the raw stupidity of the story.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 10:30 PM
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You think signed consent is gonna save you. How quaint. I mean, the Aziz case is such blatant revenge porn that even a lot of hardcore movement feminists are spitting the dog food out. Frankly, you gotta appreciate how quickly the revolution got monetized. That's all that whole thing is about. A lowly website found killer clickbait and published it, regardless of the destructive tone. And they did it on behalf of who? A chick who thought she was in lerv with a celeb. And against whom? A guy who …
/r/askTRP15/01/18 10:14 PM
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The fact that the first confirmation I found of this fact was on the website for Planned Parenthood is a joke that pretty much tells itself.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 04:09 AM
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I suppose that mostly boils down to whether $19 and X hours out of your life mean a lot to you. techniques on a woman instructor live I've always found these sorts of demonstrations to be a bit dubious. They always reminded me of the martial arts videos where one dude just stands there like a moron while the instructor smacks him from different directions. I'm a believer there's no substitute for moving pieces around the board yourself and reacting to a live opponent who's not in on the demo.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 05:11 PM
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I think you're misusing the word tangibly. Otherwise, tangibly adding value would mean putting actual, valued items at the disposal of the group, which is generally not something we encourage people here to do.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 05:08 PM
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In most settings, there's literally no downside in it for them. It's basically a "why not do it?" proposal. That said, everything with women in a sexualized setting, especially those who actively seeking it out, is about attention.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 05:05 PM
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I feel like if his materials haven't seduced you into a solid yes, then no.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 05:03 PM
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They didn't chain you to a radiator your entire childhood. Stop being a cunt. You have an education and a living. You're healthy. They did what they're supposed to do. If you had any sense of decency, you'd shelve this 1980s pop psychology "my mommy and daddy didn't give me enough affection" bullshit and thank them.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 05:31 AM
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Fuckin lame bot.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 05:25 AM
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says alot about me That's the point of shit tests. They're a regular redundancy check on a woman's assessment of you. Just checking to see that your game is tight. Rattle the metal and see if any rust falls off. Also, it's not "alot". It's "a lot". Don't butcher the language. FTR, I'd have laughed loudly and said, "Bitch, I'm put you in a cage and keep you in squalor."
/r/askTRP10/12/17 05:23 AM
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File this under "reasons why remaining outcome independent is important." You're not in any position to stop her. If she's done, she's done.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:12 AM
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Random fishing for emotional support. See half the posts on Facebook for some frame of reference.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 05:50 AM
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For something to be a fetish, it by definition has to not be popular.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 06:16 PM
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I'd get up and tell her, "If that's how you see me . . ." Let it hang with no further exposition.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 10:25 PM
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Way to remain outcome independent.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 10:23 PM
1

The Frank Reynolds / magnum dong theory.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 10:21 PM
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I suspect a lot of this perception is a cognitive bias. You're gonna notice a light chick dating a dark guy. Not matter how "I'm not racist" you might be, you're gonna take note of it.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 10:20 PM
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From a guy whose username is "pumptodump" this seems like a deeply sincere complaint. Thank you for at least confirming that my bullshit detector is still at optimal function.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 02:17 AM
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And yet you have some subconscious need to end up with neither one. That's not healthy.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 01:57 AM
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Would this be a terrible time to point out that 7.5 is hot? It's just once I hear a report of a 9.5, i get suspicious of the underlying reasoning. She's something that hits the spot perfectly for you. This is where people start denying themselves because they think they're not good enough. Or they take a dive to oneitis. What sticks out to me most is that you're diverting into this whole other bit about this older woman you don't intend to fuck, rather than driving down the lane you want to be o…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 01:02 AM
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Your 9.5 is a downplay? I call bullshit.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 11:06 PM
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Firstly, self-reporting is terribly unreliable. Anyone who has done any work in the stats or psych fields would tell you this. Second, anything above a 9 doesn't actually exist. All supposed 9.5s and 10s are cases where a chick is probably an 8 but she's so much a particular guy's type (redhead, big butt, exotic, etc) that he rates her higher for being his perfect version of his type. I am holding back That's all I needed from that sentence.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 09:15 PM
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Even had a waitress (HB9.5) hit on me when I was at dinner with her. So many LOLs to unpack in just this one sentence. First, time to subtract 2 for online self-reporting. See was a 7.5. Also, "waitress", so . . . um . . . about that, kiddo . . . Just tossing it out there, but none of this reads like you're that great at understanding context. Just telling you that in case you think I'm a desperate guy looking for sex with cougars I didn't think that til you mentioned it. Usually these little pr…
/r/askTRP29/11/17 05:41 PM
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First, let's make the appropriate 2-point downward adjustment for online self-reporting . . . The reason 3s and 4s reject you while 5s and 6s are cool is because it's a form of pre-emptive strike. It's a bitch wall, meant to confirm that you're not just trying to take advantage of them for an easy lay. In that regards, it's actually a bit of a comfort test and even a bit of a redundancy check for authenticity, essentially forcing you to repeat your actions multiple times to confirm actual intere…
/r/askTRP29/11/17 05:30 PM
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If you mean sexual experience, I'd classify that as a hard no. Big women are a whole different rodeo, anyhow. The skills don't really translate. As for gaming and joking, that's not only allowed but encouraged. You should be gaming everybody, even other dudes, all the time. Bullshitting. Joking. Making short-term friendships. There's no reason fat chicks or ugly ones should be excluded. If you're desperate for sexual experience, try to shoot for women who are a little down rank for a specific re…
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:07 AM
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It's literally a full page! This boy's got game.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 11:15 PM
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I don't have a specific objection to the approach, but I think it's a little quaint how he's recommending you apply it. I suspect he's try to inoculate himself against a sense that he was gaming women. Framing himself as a nice enough guy who wasn't trying too hard. You can easily use this same approach in a club or bar setting in social sets, speed the process up. To me it just feels a bit too much like TRP Lite.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 11:12 PM
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She's not yours #feminism Not entirely joking. Just making the point that TRP can be a little more sexually progressive than it gets credit for being.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 05:44 AM
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Follow her eyes. If she's 100% on you, she's interested. If it's less than that, then she may not be. When a woman is sold on a guy, you'll know it. It's so obvious it borders on degrading.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 05:42 AM
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What he's doing isn't an abundance mentality. What you've described is "Numbers Game". He's the dude trying to hit on so many chicks that eventually one of them might fuck him. An example of abundance mentality: when the chick is already talking to you, and you're not overly involved in the conversation. You might be sitting at the bar watching a pre-season football game and barely holding down the conversation with her. Abundance is when you can take her or leave it. Doesn't matter. You've got …
/r/askTRP24/11/17 05:40 AM
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Even if he were blowing up all over the place, there's nothing to be gained by being mad about it. Abundance mentality means not getting sweaty about wins and losses. A billionaire with a killer stock portfolio can't spend his whole life being despondent about the one that crashed 30%. He's diversified. He has options. He'll get wins elsewhere, and he acts like it. In your case, you're not even actually losing. You're just looking at someone else's wins. I mean, I've bought stocks. I've not boug…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 05:31 AM
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I'll argue that most women are hunting for beta with a side of alpha. That, however, is hard to find. Beta tends to come with two more scoops of beta because beta. Similarly, alpha with a side of beta is also pretty damned hard to find. Hence the commonality of two-track approaches. It's sort of like when a football team has a good inside power RB and a shiftier third-down guy. They'd obviously like to have the complete package, but teams doing RB-by-committee have won Superb Bowls. The same sor…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 05:23 AM
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Inviting a man into her place is one of the biggest IOI's you can get This. Context and proximity are the easiest clues to pick up when reading intentions. People don't openly put themselves in positions where an outcome is implied by the context. If you're in her place, you're in. You're done. The battle is over.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 05:15 AM
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I'm just not seeing it, man. I also perform on stage, but I'm a musician/pianist. Not a rapper hip hop artist who clubs like him. This seems to be offset by this . . . He knows all these hot girls and gets them to come shake their asses at the clubs he goes to or on camera for his little podcasts on youtube (thankfully for my ego they get near 0 views per video.) Dude cannot be accomplishing much if no one is following him online. the girl bitches to him about me So . . . you're jealous of the g…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 05:12 AM
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Welcome to the existential crisis. My advice is: don't try to solve it by merely setting a new set of goals. At some point you have to find interesting things to do with your life and learn what you truly enjoy just for its own sake.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 07:12 PM
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I tend to just play through and see what happens. Women's group dynamics, especially in sexualized settings, can be tricky to navigate. Women tend to see their friends as sexual competitors. Depending on who the queen bee in the group is, you may not have as much say in who gets to pursue as you'd like.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 07:08 PM
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I'm sure when they meet you, they wonder the same thing.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 08:05 PM
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she asks what I'm doing Sunday. Begging Jesus for forgiveness for what I did Saturday night. Duh.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 08:04 PM
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AWALT. So ends another edition of Easy Answers to Easy Questions.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 05:34 PM
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Daily reminder: there are no 10s. A 10 as at best a dude's idealized 9. Also, subtract two for self report on the internet. So, she was a 7 that this dude really dug.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 05:33 PM
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Dafuq, man? Seriously, you need to review the 100-level courses. Maybe even take the remedial classes, cuz damn.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 05:36 AM
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I'm also a Brazilian doctor who works at a public hospital Seems like going 8 years without crying under those circumstances might be a little less than is recommended.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 05:34 AM
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Incels was the give up play. The sub for guys who decided that self-improvement was too hard. The people who decided the only way to win the game was not to play.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 05:31 AM
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If he's already acting like that, there's no upside in participating in the drama. If the topic comes up, I'd crack a joke about his untreated vaginitis and leave it at that.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 04:06 PM
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Proximity is the real tell, especially when she doesn't have to be near you. If a chick is making an effort to be in your personal space, there's interest. Women try to give a guy an opening and then see if he'll take it.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 08:54 PM
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I;m hazzing a sad. Where will I be without your incisive commentary?
/r/askTRP05/11/17 04:52 PM
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Retard. BTW, excellent response to me pointing out that you're just making shit up. Pointless bitch.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 04:27 PM
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But I did and you were responding to that. Um, dear crazy bitch with a penis . . . I didn't reply to your dainty shit. I replied to the OP. Get over yourself. Fuckin retard.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 08:08 PM
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First, bitch, don't claim I said something I didn't. I didn't say shit about "an abusive relationship". As for why I care, it's because the constant questions about hiring hookers degrades the quality of sub. Seriously, it's Saturday night. Shouldn't you be trolling BackPage to find a date?
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:53 PM
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Agree and amplify is the most common answer. I have a relative who crushes with a quick hitting version that amounts to responding something like, "I know, right?" like it's the most amazing thing in the world when somebody shit bombs him. I tend toward acting like I can barely be bothered to care that the person is speaking to me. You have to field test what's gonna work for you. For example, I have a pretty distant style, so "I know, right?!" isn't going to work for me because it doesn't fit w…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 05:28 PM
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it's not nor will it ever apply to you I think this is where he reveals his intentions.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 05:23 PM
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Oh, boo fucking hoo. Seriously, TRP isn't "how do I hire a hooker" central. Enough of this shit. You cunts need to tighten your shit up.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 05:17 PM
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It's running? Are you kidding? Go run. Anywhere.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 11:57 PM
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Dear hooker posters . . . Just stop. Please. Just stop.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 11:55 PM
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Yeah, I think a lot of folks' parents didn't do a good job of explaining this shit when they were toddlers. "Ya see, Timmy, TV is fucking stupid. So don't repeated anything you see on TV."
/r/askTRP03/11/17 11:49 PM
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Have an upvote.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 11:47 PM
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Would you think Star Trek could be real? You mean NASA doesn't fight Klingons?!
/r/askTRP03/11/17 08:33 PM
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high quality dudes (like me) An angel just LOLed. Generally, the best party schools in the US are where trash and cash come together. https://www.niche.com/colleges/search/top-party-schools/ You'll note a lot of these schools are in states that have been economically gutted over the last half-century. For example, West Virginia is probably the most consistent performer for party schools. There are few killer party schools in the US in great areas to live.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 08:28 PM
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I want to be able flash around Well, shit. Right there's your problem! You want to be able to flash it around. Today's vocab word: 30k millionaire https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=30k%20millionaire This is how women see you.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 08:24 PM
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Not to mention, flaunting money in front of women is practically an invitation to massive shit testing. I'm fascinated by the number of guys who think "flashing cash" = "lifestyle". Women have a talent for sniffing out the 30k millionaires. (My bad, I meant 40,000 dingobucks and bitcoin.)
/r/askTRP03/11/17 08:21 PM
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Sounds like half the TRP authors out there.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 08:17 PM
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She does deserve a little credit for making sure to cash out before she slams the sports car into the wall. In my experience, most women don't face facts until around 32.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 05:26 PM
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First off, let's apply the "subtract two from reported attractiveness" rule. She's an 8/10. Probably more like a 7/10, since there are no 10/10s in the world. Helen of Troy she is not. All 10s are just 9s who are the perfect version of what a specific guy likes. Ask any boob many whether he thinks Jennifer Lopez is a 10. Ask any ass man whether he thinks a skinny supermodel is a 10. On and on and on . . . How do I manage this while keeping my other dedicated plate When your dedicated plate contr…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 05:17 PM
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Here's one of the dirty secret about education and its relationship to status: it's intended to exclude people. If you're not meeting the intelligent women, guess what that says about your perceived status? Intelligent women, especially the ones with good looks, aren't wasting their time communing with the rubes and idiots of the world.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 05:13 PM
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Older women are operating on an entirely different wavelength. Nature is pretty much blasting their systems with hormones in order to get in one last breeding opportunity before their eggs go completely spoiled. Somewhere between the approach of the wall and the arrival of menopause, women often go genuinely fucking berserk. I do a lot of kink stuff, and I guarantee the number of women who decide at age 30+ that want to try being tied up, beaten, and subjected to consensual nonconsent for the fi…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 05:35 AM
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Crushing that abundance mentality, eh? I say play however you wanna play. Live in the moment, and for everything else there's antibiotics. (If dat bitch is da sloot you say she is, then youe gon get the HIV and yo dick gon fall off.) Seriously, tho, this is an excellent opportunity to break out of your zone. Go see if the prospective slut at the Burger King you're working at might be interested. Worst that happens is you lose the LTR with the nursing home patient.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 05:28 AM
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I'll argue in favor of using SnapChat and similar apps for messaging, but keep in mind their video and pic capabilities also make them attention solicitation pipelines. That can be a problem, because there are chicks who just pound the attention seeking. That requires some game to handle. I remember a girl I was dating about eight months ago who'd go full nuclear trying to get a shred of validation from me. My personal style is pretty much to cut off the attention pipeline. I had that approach l…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 03:42 AM
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5.2 managing a rate of 4.5. Sounds pretty mediocre.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 10:10 PM
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She called me a jerk at one point, also said I was mean (jokingly) She wasn't joking. You're just too socially retarded to realize that a chill girl didn't want to be pounded with jerkboy. She literally offered you an instruction manual, and you were too retarded to follow it. At this point she is literally holding me by the arm At that point you should've stopped social gaming and reciprocated with kino move. Fuuuuuh. Did I possibly overdo it? You absolutely, massively overdid it. You can't jus…
/r/askTRP29/10/17 06:19 PM
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It's sort of like job interviews. You can't dress radically better than the environment. If you go for an interview at some hoodie-tastic start-up company and you look like you belong at a high-end club in Paris, well . . . you're gonna send some odd signals. As someone who'd happily dress very well, I've learned that dressing down a good look can pay dividends. Swap out the full suit for something a tad more casual. Keep the high-end dress shirt, but replace the pants with stylish jeans and unt…
/r/askTRP29/10/17 06:10 PM
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The rule of thumb for this sort of thing is whether she brings it to your attention. I dated a chick years ago who made a point of telling me that she wasn't gonna wear a short skirt out on dates during cold weather. As if I cared. That's a shit test.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 06:02 PM
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good looking (8/10) Today's reminder to subtract two points from all self-reported attractiveness ratings.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 05:32 PM
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Retard.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 08:21 AM
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That's not the point. She's not going to cheat on him with your needy, pedestalizing ass. If you need her, the odds that she'll event want you are going to drop viciously. You're not even close to displaying an abundance mentality. You're failing the 100-level courses and need to take a remedial class in TRP.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 06:28 PM
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I know the story? No, I don't.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 06:26 PM
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and he said "yeah? What's he gonna do about it?" I'd have gone with something like, "Shit, looks like she already handled you." Defuse the situation, de-escalate. There's nothing to be gained from engaging in this shit. He's already proven himself a bit of a loser. Women recognize this behavior not as "caveman" game, but as a form of sexual intimidation that's born of a fear of women. They encounter it all the time, and this dude, I guarantee, did nothing to impress her or create trouble for you…
/r/askTRP28/10/17 06:20 PM
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If you want to think of TRP as applying to homosexual situations, I'd note two basic ideas: 1) Gay male TRP basically is "get toned, and get under 200 pounds." Gay dudes tend to fuck at about the rate straight dudes would if women would let them, and they tend to judge their potential partners about the way straight dudes would if no one was screaming at them for "fat shaming". 2) Lesbian TRP is basically, "be butch, and then be more butch." I've known several butch dykes who'd put the most game…
/r/askTRP25/10/17 02:50 AM
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Gawd, you're clueless about reality. You may need to take a second red pill. If male competition for mates could be organized in a conflict-free manner among age-equivalent peer groups, a million problems in society would disappear. Competition is the nature of existence. Your friends are competitors. If they're not competing, even with you, then they're not as alpha as you're pretending. You're conflating TRP-style male camaraderie with natural alpha behavior. Natural alphas tend to be dicks. T…
/r/askTRP24/10/17 03:02 PM
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Sure you do. Competing with your friends over girls is the opposite of alpha. Sure. Keep telling yourself that. The well-meaning sociopath thinks it's funny. It's not a big "I gotta have yur gurl" thing. It's more of a "hahaha, manipulating people is funny" thing.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 03:18 AM
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Daily reminder: Just as you can't play Captain Save a Hoe, you can't play Captain Save a Bro. This has been a public service announcement.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 12:22 AM
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You've never had an alpha friend. Trust me, it is not in your best interests. A pack of alphas is a goddamned pissing contest waiting to happen. EDIT: I apparently replied one level further down that I meant. My comment was meant for the OP.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 12:21 AM
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If a chick you knew from back in the day digs you, she will show her interest first. Remember, head space is the real estate you're fighting for with women. My experience has been that if a woman has had years to think about you, it'll show. It'll show when she's on Facebook. She'll damned near go retarded when she meets you in person. The last time I had a run-in with a chick I knew from back in high school, she damned near described me -- to my face no less-- like I was eight feet tall and the…
/r/askTRP24/10/17 12:18 AM
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It's a waste of time. I say this from experience. I have a friend who is wowed by how I handle shit, and he takes lots of mental notes. But, once he gets to a spot with a chick where he feels comfortable, out comes all the clinging "she's the one" bullshit. People who want to be helped find a way to be helped. But we all have their own personal limitations, and we don't overcome them until something really pisses us off and forces change.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:28 PM
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That's largely my point in regards to Weinstein: there are a lot of moving parts there. Also, it's safe to say we probably don't know half the story. My guess is Weinstein developed some seriously fuckin creepy behaviors before he hit it big. Still seems like someone who'd have benefited from learning even a little game. (Seriously, who jerks off into a potted plant?)
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:17 PM
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Weinstein is a weird case. First, his wife is definitely hot. She and him are a definite two-point violation. There's a lot going there. The dude is clearly not using his status to best effect when he's jerking off into potted plants. My guess is he's someone who could've benefited immensely from TRP. Being direct and creepy, especially for an ugly dude, is just malpractice.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:56 AM
2

Word choice matters. "Going out for drinks" means something, just like "coming in for coffee" means something.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:16 AM
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Today's vocab word: humblebrag. I remember this chick who was bragging that she had fucked a pro football player, and I told her, "Fucking the kicker doesn't count. That's like admitting to fucking a retarded kid."
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:15 AM
2

You should learn the entire "power bottom" bit from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, and then start quoting whenever she starts talking about a guy. Be like, "That dude's a bottom, for sure. I mean, like a power bottom, because he's obviously gonna generate all the power from the bottom." You can also identify what are thought of as attractive feminine traits to joke about. "Wow, he's got killer lashes. Maybe it's Maybelline." Or start conversations about how models have their molars removed t…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:11 AM
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If we're being honest, men are stereotyped sexually by way of profession more than appearance. "Doctor" or "billionaire" or "lawyer" a more of an answer for "girls go crazy for _____" than any physical description. Remember, women can find the most unfuckably hideous guy attractive if he has status in a way that men would never consider when it comes to women.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:08 AM
1

Some people are going to flake no matter what. It happens. An unhealthy percentage of the population is just fucking stupid. You can't let it bother you.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:05 AM
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"We'll see . . ." That's the right answer. Doesn't commit to anything. Laconic. Leaves her in the position of seeking your validation.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:04 AM
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Some people aren't about that life, and the easiest way to avoid it is to not get even close. I don't see this as fickle at all. Prudent, perhaps.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:01 AM
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You know how you're told not to be Captain Save a Hoe? You should also avoid being Captain Save a Bro.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 03:59 AM
1

You're, like, totally in love with me.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 07:34 AM
1

30 minutes are up. What's my punishment, Daddy?
/r/askTRP21/10/17 04:38 AM
1

Is this thirst? It's a mix of things, with thirst being the easiest and most obvious answer. There's also a form of persistent harassing behavior, sort of like when fat, creepy, weird dudes hit on chicks way out of their leagues. It's a form of intimidation. A bit of a cheep thrill, too. Then you have the bots, spammers, etc. Prob a few Nigerians running the old school lonely hearts scam as a numbers game. I'm sure there are 20 other dumb reasons, because the internet is fully of dumb shit.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 03:13 AM
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/r/DownVoteTrolling
/r/askTRP21/10/17 03:08 AM
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Barf.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 10:23 PM
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Gawd, you're a fuckin drain on this subreddit.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 09:05 PM
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30 minutes have been up for a while, cunt.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 09:04 PM
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How many levels deep will dildonic troll go to prove my point? Let's see.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 08:23 PM
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Not an absolute guarantee. Bear in mind that if there are real questions about your perceived status, the shit tests will come at you left and right. Plus, no matter how well you establish your status, occasional shit tests will be offered up just to recheck that you're maintaining your status.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 08:08 PM
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Dildonic troll
/r/askTRP20/10/17 08:06 PM
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Attractive doesn't mean the same thing for men and women. Lots of women find Mick Jagger attractive in his day, even though he looks like a shaved monkey having a seizure. Why? Because he has goes up on a stage and immediately gains status by drawing attention to himself. "It's only creepy if she doesn't find you attractive" functions more as a case where women expect you to be aware of your assessed status and not cross that line. This is where shit testing comes in, because it's essentially a …
/r/askTRP20/10/17 04:13 PM
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troll
/r/askTRP20/10/17 04:08 PM
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Trollin like a troll.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 04:00 PM
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Can't remember where I saw the research a few years ago, but the suggestion I've seen says it's quite the opposite. Women with high sex drives tend to seek just one strong mate in order to lock him down. Generally, cheating is a symptom that a guy's not getting the job done.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 02:14 PM
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she wants to Facebook stalk to see if I'm worthy Take a tip: women aren't looking to rule you in, they're looking to rule you out.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 02:12 PM
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What do you stand to gain by presenting a counterargument? What's your prize? Being labelled a pig? Is it better to ride the wave on this bullshit to talk my way yet again into her pants You're basically saying: "Should I use this talk of sexual assault and rape to get my dick wet?" Jesus. Do you even human, bro? How fuckin autistic do you have to be to even think this is on the menu of options? a growing population of women in this movement are generalizing basic courtship and approach Not real…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 02:04 PM
1

Fake it til you make it.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:23 AM
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The problem with social media is that it's ground zero for beta orbiters. Creepy dudes jumping in with compliments and shit. There's little upside. The most you can do is use social media as a prop. Post pics of you doing whatever cool shit you do (travel, dancing, nice car, etc). If you have none of that going for you, then avoid social media like the plague.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:22 AM
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DANCING! Proper traditional dancing, like salsa. Seriously. It encourages you to lead. She sees other women moving, which tends to prompt a sexualized and competitive response. Chicks these days tend to only twerk, so you can really put her in a weak social position by making her go do real dancing. Also, there's a pretty good chance she'll brag to her friends, opening up additional possibilities down the road. If nothing else, it makes you look way more interesting than, say, the lame dude who …
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:17 AM
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the most annoying part about choosing bar to go to No question, figuring out which place will be happenin. Clubs and bars go through life cycles, and the place that was hot six months ago might be dead tonight. I especially hate it when I find a place I like and then it start dying off. It's wise to keep several locations in rotation so you don't become too familiar of a face. Consistently prowling the same club is kinda creepy dude behavior.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:16 AM
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How bout you work like an actual adult? A scheme is a scheme, man. If someone tells you, "it worked for me," consider two things . . . 1) They might be full of shit. 2) This comic from XKCD. https://xkcd.com/1827/
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:12 AM
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Teeth are one of the first things women notice. Good dentistry, especially in the US, is a minor status symbol. You need to suck it up, get the X-rays from a proper dentist (not this smiledirectclub bullshit people are pimping) and go from there. Good dental work takes time and involvement. Make sure you go to a younger dentist. The old dudes aren't familiar with some of the newer techniques. It will make the difference between a filling and a root canal if anything bad appears in the X-rays. Al…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:03 AM
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Checkers is an underrated game.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 05:48 AM
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She hasn't been blowing up my phone as much since she stayed over She's behaving like a guy. Welcome to 2017. I'd engage her a little bit, see what boils up. sometimes people just have shit to do. Don't start degrading your chances before you've taken the measure of the situation. FTR, I text way more than anyone else here does, but I'm also pretty natural at salty little bits of word play.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 10:52 PM
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First, thank you for noticing how handsome I am. /r/humblebrag The look-look away is a classic IOI. It should also be noted that you're a bit of a situational young stud by virtue of the environment. Wait till you get that first creepy shoulder rub. ;-P
/r/askTRP14/10/17 10:44 PM
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Jesus . . . THIS. I had a friend in college who was an RA and his fucking students regularly smeared shit on the door handle to his room. Seriously, there does come a point where a judge and a jury will understand a shooting spree.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 10:39 PM
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No. Duh.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 10:38 PM
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Better angles? Jesus H, son . . . . the girl was friggin inviting you. The better angle is to not be a turd and just either go or provide a clear "not going".
/r/askTRP14/10/17 10:37 PM
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First, let's subtract two . . . she's a 7. /r/quityourbullshit Second, it sounds like you have an anxious attachment style, essentially overvaluing specific women out of the fear that you'll never find another one as awesome as her. Not good for projecting a ZFG mentality or abundance. I am definitely a quality over quantity guy I'll just call some more bullshit here. You're deliberately making the perfect the enemy of the good in order to justify losing when you go for a girl you consider too g…
/r/askTRP14/10/17 10:35 PM
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Sounds like subconsciously dismissive behavior that's feeding on itself in order to avoid getting engaged with obtaining what you want. It's not a healthy place to be emotionally. You're likely operating with a bit of a sour grapes mentality in the face of what you want. Im doing too much Hmmm. Define too much? It sounds like you're dismissing the interactions before they even get rolling as a defensive method of avoiding a fear of failure. There's a lot to be said for becoming outcome independe…
/r/askTRP14/10/17 10:30 PM
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If either were permanent, people wouldn't be constantly testing and retesting displays of status.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:48 AM
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PUA is basically chess opening with an emphasis on getting your opponent out of book. TRP is more structured chess. Open clean and don't make mistakes. The disdain by TRP for PUA is for the same reason that playing the Wayward Queen in chess is viewed as a patzer move. It's a bush league move.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:47 AM
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I had friends every where This is a type of game, FTR. Social circle game. I'm still feeling anxious around women and eye contact still terrifies me You're forming avoidant behavior. This needs to be dealt with before it curves in on itself and gets really fucked up. Do I cut myself from her and her friends Y-E-S. Eject immediately. You're going to basically have to rebuild any game you have from scratch. You're at the "learn talking to women isn't the end of the world" stage.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:43 AM
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Keep in mind you'll need to try several because body chemistry interacts with the cologne. My go-to is Burberry Brit.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 12:13 AM
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It never hurts to tinker a little and see how others react. After all, they're fucking with you and turnabout is fair play.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 12:20 AM
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How does explicitly instructing them that you don't give a shit change that? It's not about their assumptions. It's about how much time you intend to waste even addressing the pointless shit they say. Not giving them that time they crave is a strong signal. It lets them know you don't waste your time jerking off to the pointless shit that's on their sad little minds. It's like dealing with children. You don't piss away a lot of time humoring the dumb shit they say because they're kids and they'r…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:10 PM
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Just MHO, but the overtness of the behavior doesn't actually indicate you give no fucks. I think of these things in the old Lyndon Johnson sense of "make the bastard deny it". If you're denying something, you're giving a fuck about it. Hence why old school Game states you should agree and amplify. If someone says you have a little dick, you laugh and say you have a baby dick. or you just blow it off and talk about what you want to talk about. The classic "if you don't like the conversation, chan…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 08:14 PM
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In any relationship that's enough of a relationship to count something as cheating? Yeah, it matters. If someone wants an open relationship or a casual arrangement, that's different. That's also defined at the outset.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:51 PM
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The deal is that she is getting noticeable fatter I feel like this whole thing answers itself. she felt the dread and she said she was going to start the gym (Wich she doesn't) She is not feeling the dread if her weight is going up. Period. I'm one of the worst forms of aloof/dread game a woman can experience (I often talk while looking around at other women, for example), and a majority of women I dated lost significant weight while they were with me. I never brought the subject up. It just hap…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:28 PM
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First, if you're happy with your weight, don't go losing your shit trying to make women happy. Second, you've enumerated at least one thing you're not happy with (arms), so that's something to work on. I blast through the tests by showing them I don't care ("So?" or "I don't care" or "What he's got you on a leash?" Are you sure that you're not at a point where this seems boorish and off-putting? Remember, women get a little worried that a guy might be out of their league. You may need to dial th…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:20 PM
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If you feel like you had to "try for a kiss," it wasn't there. In my experience, there's a nervousness that women get when they want you to kiss them. A small stop in the conversation and a look away. You swung at an outside pitch and missed. I think this is a case where you reduce how much you're texting and see if she bites. Let her show her cards instead.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:16 PM
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It's not jealousy. If a friend is pulling her GF away from you without inserting herself into the situation, she thinks: 1) You're a creep. 2) You're a player. or 3) Her friend is too fucked up to make a real decision. A jealousy-based intrusion will work differently. The jealous friend will join your conversation and then try to hijack it. FTR, this is only permitted to the queen bees of the group. If a lesser member of a peer group tries it, she risks being cast out. The lesser member will eve…
/r/askTRP09/10/17 10:55 PM
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Sure. CEOs are such humble humans.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:44 AM
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There's a lot going on with this stuff . . . 1) It's pre-emptive strike. 2) It's an attempt to deflect blame for the inevitable abandonment. 3) It's a mixed comfort/shit test. Try to be too soft, and you fail a shit test. Try to be too tough and you fail a comfort test. My advice is to drive past it. If she's still talking, she's interested. If she forces the issue, agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 03:53 AM
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No, you came here to humblebrag. We'd fuckin respect it a little if you were just outright bragging. At least that's owning the frame.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 03:49 AM
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How is that a violation of "politics aside"? I'm talking about how he made one of the biggest decisions in his life.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 03:39 AM
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Romney didn't want to run for President and let his family outvote him in a family meeting. Therefore he ran. Not alpha in any form.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 02:55 AM
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This. Unless a club is insanely crowded to the point she simply can't easily move away from a guy, a woman's willingness to be near you physically is a potential IOI. Goes double if she's staying in what you might think of as your personal space. There are also women who'll try to bump into you and see if they can't get you to notice them.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 06:41 PM
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"You are waaaaay over-invested" is my response.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 05:57 AM
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This is really more fixated on an individual chick than we endorse around these parts. Seriously man, no woman is this much effort. You are waaaaay over-invested.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 04:12 AM
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Command presence. Google it. Posture and eye contact are a big part of it. Speak clearly and directly about what you want and expect people to do.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:48 AM
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I work for about 11$ an hour and have no education. She's only 21 years old and is about to get her RN making 25$ an hour. You don't have to make more money, but you need to be alpha as fuck to overcome the difference in perceived status. I have a nephew who's in essentially the same relationship. She adores him. I know from his personal history he has a habit of doing reckless shit (he once vandalized 30 cars in a single night). He also regularly posts really aggressive and sexualized shit on s…
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:41 AM
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a hot businessman comes her way most of the time she'll say she's "married" I've literally had this conversation. FTR, yes, she'll admit she's married, but then she'll frame a million reasons why the marriage is suspect and by gawd the wealthy guy should go ahead and fuck her.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:35 AM
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Then he should recognize reality and not go the fuck back there. It's not rocket surgery.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:32 AM
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Drop some salt into the conversation. Disagree with her on points that are close to her self-esteem. If she's interested, she'll fight with you. If she's not interested, she'll disengage. Keep it a little salty and rough, and let her know you're not mindlessly agreeing with her. You'll see the difference. Even if she wasn't interested, it might pique her interest just because it catches her off guard a bit. I do a lot more conversational and even emotional listening than most TRP folks would rec…
/r/askTRP06/10/17 07:40 PM
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When a woman breaks up with a guy, it’s usually because she’s reached the stage where her positive feelings of respect, attraction and love for him have been pushed into the background because of his behavior W-R-O-N-G It means that she's found a better option or considers him to be beneath the options available to her in such a way that there's no point staying put.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 07:35 PM
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Sorry i'm not some sociopath that wants 500 girls at my beck and call. Then, sorry, you've come to the wrong place.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 07:33 PM
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I wasn't mocking you. I was making a point that taking ownership of your frame is 100-level stuff. You're not existing in your frame. You're existing in a frame driven by family and the gap between two different societies in which you belong. The red pill isn't for folks who are just going to keep letting outside forces dictate your frame. This is like when we get guys on here with one-itis who insist there's nothing wrong with that and that we all just need to help them get that one girl they w…
/r/askTRP06/10/17 07:20 PM
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I'm also afraid at how people would look at me Doesn't sound very TRP.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 05:43 PM
1

Or you could focus on your goals, not their goals.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 02:57 PM
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Barf. Take the politics to /r/The_Donald where it belongs. Everyone sweating the decline of the west has an agenda, and that agenda has very little to do with you getting laid and everything to do with agitating you into being a tool of their politics.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 10:23 PM
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I wouldn't make a point of anything specific. If you want to get a drink, get a drink. Just see how much effort she puts into talking to you. If she's interested, she'll find a way, even on a busy night, to try to sneak a minute to talk. Any investment of time in talking with you in a demanding environment is an IOI. Try talking a little, but not imposing on her time. If she breaks off once you break off, there probably isn't much interest. When in doubt, remember that all of this is a "nothing …
/r/askTRP04/10/17 04:15 PM
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DC may be a sausage fest, but in my experience a lot of that is sausage-on-sausage, so the odds are better than you might bet. FTR, I hate DC for a lot of reasons, but the ratio isn't one of them. It also has the upside that a lot of people are just passing through. As for city . . . every place is different, but you can't let that fact get the better of you. If you have the opportunity to relocate, my recommendation would be to find some place that fits your vibe. If your vibe is clicking for y…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 03:50 AM
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As someone who has a bit of a strange gift for attracting shotgirls (strangely, only ever had one bartender, and I met her at a club after her shift had already ended), my experience has been that they tend to signal interest pretty loudly if they're going to go there. It's a case where they do so because they have to overcome the signal-to-noise ratio, where there's obviously a lot of noisiness because of the fact their job requires them to be friendly. If you want to test her interest, don't b…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 03:38 AM
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An office, presuming you use it as a legit work space, is just an office. Work is work, and it has to be done somewhere. If it become a retreat point, that's where it becomes worrisome. It's no different than if you have two cats in a house and one is terrorized into living in a limited space by the dominant one. It's the idea that a location is a retreat point that is problematic. If you emerge from your office into your house to do your thing, then all is well. You just have an office. If you …
/r/askTRP04/10/17 03:29 AM
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Comfort her, and be prepared for "validation of life" sex. You're in for a treat.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 12:46 AM
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If he's a true sociopath, assert yourself without being a cunt about it. A lot of sociopaths play in tricky waters just because it's fun. he told her that I'd been with many girls and most of them were 4-5 years younger than her and he was shocked when I had slept with a girl that was over 20 He's fuckin with both you and her. He's hoping to peel up a corner and see what comes loose. He applied some kino to her Wanna define this? There's a massive difference between an elbow touch, which some na…
/r/askTRP03/10/17 12:43 AM
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She says it was because she feels awkward when other people pay for her Just throwing this out there as a guess, but I think she's indicating that she's had one too many run-ins with guys who think "I paid for drinks" = "I get the pussy". My guess is that she's short-circuiting that bullshit. This . . . she was definitely a talker, but not the boring kind and this . . . appears very logical and unemotional Makes me wonder if she's in the autistic spectrum a little. The only girl I ever dated who…
/r/askTRP03/10/17 12:33 AM
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Nope. She's 27. She's still unaware of how hard the wall really hits. My experience has been that it's around 32 that women become cognizant of the wall. An HB7 will take forever because she's in that range where every guy will take a crack at her. Declining returns will take a long time to register as really operating at a deficit for desired attention.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 12:27 AM
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If I were to send her a nude pic of my new girl giving her the finger that would be entering her frame? Yes, because it indicates she's still living rent-free in your head.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 12:25 AM
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Seeking revenge = emotional investment
/r/askTRP03/10/17 12:24 AM
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Revenge? Wow. You really need to re-read the 100-level stuff. You might even need to take a remedial class. Holy shit.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 12:24 AM
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afraid they'll drive you away I think this mischaracterizes the issue a small amount. It's not so much that they're worried they'll drive a guy away as much as it is that they're fearful they won't be able to hold your attention the minute a hotter chick shows up. Read some of the stuff that comes out of women who married a guy and then his SMV went up due to professional success. It is the most fuck this, fuck that, fuck you, fuck everyone shit you'll ever read. Mate retention is a much bigger …
/r/askTRP03/10/17 12:21 AM
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Some of the shit test are entirely in the dudes mind. You misspelled "most". It's not spelled s-o-m-e.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 12:18 AM
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"Okay, Regina George."
/r/askTRP01/10/17 08:05 AM
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Not full on jerkboy, but he's definitely a dirtbag. There's an implication that he's a bit of a con man. Also, he did bang a stranger on a ship back in the days before the good antibiotics came along.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 05:21 PM
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Let's look at the highest grossing films of all time (adjusted for inflation, because there's no fucking way I'm discussing Jurassic World). 1) Gone with the Wind -- Male lead is definitely a jerk. He even swore back when swearing on-screen was super bad. Most famous line is, "Frankly, bitch, ZFG." 2) Avatar -- Male lead is inaccessible and has to be opened up. Male lead might be a nice guy, but he's also a trained killer who barrels into a native culture and starts fucking their women, so . . .…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 04:00 PM
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Some subs auto ban users of subs they don't like. It;s wise to set up accounts for different purposes.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 05:25 AM
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I don't have to. I have my own racket. Tada! Problem solved.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 12:09 AM
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If she were openly trying to make you jealous, I might argue in favor of this being a good thing. Covertly? Meh . . . That seems like a question that answers itself.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 07:31 PM
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Not buying that in the slightest.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 04:40 AM
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Bear in mind if you can produce even half-functioning code, someone will employ you. Before I said fuck the working world altogether, I used to apply for jobs and learn the languages required for the job once I got a call for an in-person interview. Nobody higher straight-up coders gives a fuck because the pool of people who can put out decent code and are willing to work for someone else is so fucking small that they can't say no to you. You may want to just start producing projects and move on…
/r/askTRP20/08/17 08:52 PM
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women complaining about dating this awful guy and that In my experience, when a woman starts complaining about the quantity of bad men she's been through, she's trying to insert it as a humblebrag into conversations. In female social dynamics, "a lotta guys wanna fuck me" is a sentence that cannot simply be inserted into a conversation. So they paint it over as a complaint and then drop it in there. The net effect challenges other women to agree with it. If the other women don't agree with it, t…
/r/askTRP20/08/17 08:46 PM
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I'm 39 . . . I really hope so. Jesus Christ . . . just go where humans are and try to human. People like when someone initiates a conversation. It saves them from initiating conversations.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 06:03 PM
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show that I am cooler than her You are so beyond doomed if you think you have to "show" people that you're cooler than them. FTR, you can disagree with people without smashing their faces in their own shit. You need to learn how to human. Right now, you jump out at me as someone who doesn't have a lot of friends, since I can't imagine anything less cool than trying to show people that you're cooler than them.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 06:01 PM
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