This girl that ocassionally goes out with me and my friends has given me a lot of IOI's recently. We got drunk together several times and she told me how she used to have a crush on me, how she would try to get my attention, tell her friends how we had "relationship goals", etc. Before we go out there's always a lot of touching, kissing, ... but it never escalates to sex. That's because there's always other people in the room with us. So a few weeks after our last party I texted her to meet up with me and was clear about what my intentions with her were. But she didn't want me to come and after that I just stopped texting her. I've soft nexted her and didn't really do anything with any other girls since everyone's in quarantine, so I took some time to think about this. So what did I do wrong here, did I move too quick? Should I try again later or hard next her?