I'm just coming out if a failing marriage, and I have begun lifting and starting to spin some plates after losing 100lb+.

A girl at work has shown some real interest. HB7.5, 28 years old. Married...

She was real flirty, brought up sexual conversations, escalated kino and we have been out a couple of times for coffee. Have not smashed, but would love to. We have sent some flirty texts but nothing too hardcore.

She asked that when I txt her I use her work number. When I was drunk I sent a text (all fairly innocent stuff) to her personal number. She sent a shitty reply saying how she knows I'm going through a tough time and that she will be there to "support" me if I need her., and that texting her personal number was innapropriate.

We are meant to be going on a date later this week - she invited me. What's my move?

Next her? Go radio silence? Or just ignore her message and get in touch before the date to confirm the details?

I get the feeling that she has just been an attention whore, but she is cute and I really would like to add her to the plates.