What do you do when a plate doesn't give you head?

notmyusualreddit · 2015-03-25T09:21:35+00:00

Jesus f'ing christ. First off, depending on experience level, not everyone gives blowjobs right away. Some girls find it more intimate than sex (which is odd but who knows). Maybe be glad she isnt a raging slut yet and will warm up to it in a few dates. I dated a girl once that had her first bf for a year, had sex that year many times, and when I initiated a blow job she said she really doesnt know how shes only done it twice, and it showed. She had no madona/whore complex regarding actual sex so I dont think she made it up referencing blowjobs alone. A YEAR of sex with 2 blowjobs for that guy. I get them all the time now. Some girls just need to grow into it.

If your woman is 30, okay she doesnt feel she has to please you, and ya, move on probably. If shes close to virginal, give her a hand and make her want to do it.

Finally, 'asking' her to give you a blowjob, or even 'telling her' (unless done very well), is unlikely to make her want to do it even if she was mostly willing. There are many ways to imply she SHOULD give you a blowjob, and that will make her want to because in her mind shes supposed to at that point. Im new around here, so maybe I'm off, but in the past when I got blowjobs from new women I simply hesitate for a second while bringing attention to it in some way, and in their mind they dont know what else to do BUT put it in their mouth. If shes new to all this or shy, she would atleast start explaining herself from there, at which point you can use some clever words to give it a shot.

donethat8thetshirt · 2015-03-25T04:02:56+00:00

If she wants you to use a rubber as a condition for head, either comply or skip getting head.

She is under no obligation to give you head even if she is a plate.

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TitsAndWhiskey · 2015-03-25T15:03:51+00:00

There are plenty of girls who would be happy to suck your dick. Is there something special about this one that's keeping you from putting her on the back burner?

Mark_D_Aardvark · 2015-03-25T21:53:42+00:00

Give me head or you can get fuck out... it works.

SoldierGenerale · 2015-03-25T13:25:51+00:00

Two ways to get a bj.

Ask her 'can you please give me a bj?'. I've yet to find a woman who doesn't appreciate the 'please'. Being nice will get you a long way in getting bj's.

I once had a girl who didn't give me a bj. Fucked her once, never again. So if she's just hell-bent on not giving and only taking next her. A selfish partner is such a turn-off.

Second way. Extreme dominance. The reason why she isn't listening to you or giving you bj's is because she hasn't fully submitted to you. It took me awhile before I got the hang of it but with lots of sexual experience you become more comfortable assuming the Mr. Grey role.

You want to set a frame where she calls you master or boss and you call her slave. Whispering in her ear as you're choking her 'you're my little whore.. and you're gonna do everything I tell you to do, right?' and then have her repeat that she's your little whore and that she'll obey you. When she submits to you fully geting a bj is the least of your concern.

Title	What do you do when a plate doesn't give you head?
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Date	March 25, 2015 3:25 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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