Called my GF this evening, we spoke for a while, hapy convo, it went south when she asked what do you want for your birthday, I told her 'Its up to you, you decide, I dont mind" shes like NOOO your annoying tell me what you want for your birthday. I repeated myself. This made her cranky so she wanted to go but before she went She had said a few things that kinda hurt but I never took it to heart because I understand she was cranky.

By me saying that I dont mind I want her to decide or do sometihng for my birthday.. is that really so wrong?? if Im wrong what should I have said?