20M here. Started dating this girl from college 4 months ago, she's my first girlfriend so I have no clue what I'm doing. I was apprehensive about commitment but we both kinda agreed to just take things day by day, no promises were made, etc.

However she fell super hard for me very fast. She's literally in love/infatuated with me, pretty sure some of it's hormonal, like she's addicted to me and the love. Anyway I continue to be honest with her, say I don't love her back, etc. and she says she's fine with it. She's super sweet, really good to me, and sexually everything's fantastic. So I am confused as to why I don't feel that same spark, the strong romance, but I guess we can't choose our feelings.

I'm not really in the place to prioritize girls over other things in my life. I'm dealing with what is likely depression, while trying to just enjoy college with the boys and get all my other work/obligations taken care of. I mean we're both happy in the relationship right now, but I'm not sure if I see a future past this semester if my feelings don't progress. I'm also concerned what will happen if my feelings don't get stronger, even though I've been honest I'm afraid she'll go nuts and get depressed.