What is your Red Pill story?

Skideroo62 · 2019-09-24T08:02:20+00:00

I stumbled on TRP accidentally while scrolling through reddit suggestions. Glad I did

Nothing special

W4T3V3R · 2019-09-24T09:23:09+00:00

I hacked my crush's email, and what i found there broke my heart.

Actually it was pretty stupid of me to hack it, as it would have gotten me in trouble. But it proved to be extremely motivating to get good with girls from that point on.

btrpb · 2019-09-24T10:34:27+00:00

Friend introduced me to it when I got divorced. I'd already learned lots about women throughout my life so swallowing literally took about 1 week. I digested the whole Rational Male blog history in a couple of days and was on board.

Mostly for me, it just put my own experiences in context, and fleshed out what I'd already learned, and provided clarity.

Adopting the recommended behaviours just took a bit of practice.

I've had reasonable success with women in my life. Since TRP that has become good success: I know how to handle relationships better, and I can get new women into bed more consistently. It all feels pretty natural. But I'm a guy in my 40s anyway.

If you're a young buck I can imagine it's harder. But I'd say you've just got to get out there and experience life and women. Make your own mistakes, but TRP will definitely help you.

Vermillion_Rx · 2019-09-24T18:10:11+00:00

Thank you for asking, I've never gotten the chance to tell my story, the Red Pill changed my life.

TL;DR

My crush had traits I really liked, started liking her after I mistakenly thought she liked me. Asked her out and she said she just broke up recently. Turned out she never liked me. Stopped giving hugs and said she didn't like to "touch people" and then proceeded to be touchy with everyone around her and go on dates with multiple guys. Vented to her about everything for an hour over the phone and I lasked what I did wrong. Was crushed and ended up seeing some random web page mention "Red Pill Theory"

Detailed story because I've never gotten to tell anyone and feel like being overly-expressive

In college in junior year, there was this girl I met in a psychology club that I wasn't initially attracted to. But she was friendly and had a lot of traits I liked, smart, witty and actually funny (very rare for a girl), motivated, and cuter than I first thought.

Over time, she was friendlier and friendlier to me, and really pushed me into becoming an officer in the club. I said no, but her best friend came up to me privately and told me how badly she wanted me as an officer, which I took as a huge IOI, since it reminded me of the days of elementary school where the friend would come up to you for her and say how much some girl liked you. I ate that shit up and got myself an official position in the club, beyond basic membership.

On the bus one day, she told me "how mad she would've been if I hadn't joined the club" and I got her number. Soon the semester ended and I ran into her outside the local grocery store. Despite having her hands full of bags (leaving) she gave me a hug, and despite having refrigerator foods, she talked to me for like an hour. At some point she mentioned she was single "for a while" and this whole day solidified the beta-ization one-itis in me and I liked her a lot.

Fast-forward a couple of weeks and I ask her out, she says she "just broke up 2 weeks ago" and would go as "just friends." I was crushed but thought this meant she would've dated me otherwise. School starts and I just act like a simp around her. She stops giving me hugs and I ask her out again thinking she liked me from the earlier convo. She says she doesn't like me like that.

I was devastated and texted her why she didn't and what I did wrong. She doesn't give me straight answers, tells me I shouldn't care and tells me she's been dating a few guys. My soul got sucked out a bit more with every word I read. I soon quit the club like a reactive beta, and she asks why. We talk for 30 minutes on text and an hour on the phone. She also said she liked another guy in the club.

She tells me she stopped giving hugs cause I liked her and that she wouldn't give me them unless she was "comfortable again". I felt like a creep and it was soul-crushing. She said she doesn't and has never been comfortable with touching almost everyone so I felt better.

We went to a mutual friend's Halloween party and she was physically hanging on to everyone she talked to, guy or girl. It hurt to see. She was also talking to some ripped, muscled guy another day and danced (not the humping kind) with him and bumped hips like they've done it before a dozen times.

It gets worse. She was studying for a grad school admission examine that I already took and so she asked for my book to practice more with. I gave it to her to try to win her over more. Then she ran out of practice problems and asked for my login and password to the book's online site so she could take those practice ones, too. I handed it over like a simp.

She shows up to class the next day and sits in front of me like usual. Reaches into her backpack and hands it to me from behind without even looking at me and mutters here you go. Not even a "thanks". After class she tells me she took the book on "dates everywhere she went. The park, the cafe, etc." Completely insensitive to the fact that she knew she had rejected dating me and that she was dating other guys and I knew it, too.

I was pissed and I was devastated and I kept thinking about how shitty and bitter and jealous I felt about it all. Was rage-internet-surfing and typed a bunch of cynical, derogatory questions into the browser. The one that gave me the Red Pill was "why are all girls sluts?" I was reading some low-level, no-one's-ever-heard-of PUA's page about his opinion on sluttery.

In a tiny ass footnote in the last paragraph he mentioned "there's an explanation of it in Red Pill Theory" and I was like "dafuq is this shit?" I Googled "Red Pill Theory" and found the main TRP sub-reddit. I ate the sidebar up like I was starving for weeks and it blew me away. I never had a denial phase because it explained everything and I had no disagreements with what I saw and experienced.

If you (or anyone) actually read this far, thanks lmao. I have been wanting to share this story in full for almost 3 years now and had no red-pilled friends to tell

embracingtheredpill · 2019-09-24T08:17:57+00:00

Laurence Fishburne walked up to me in a leather jacket...

Your story doesn't matter, yet. My story doesn't matter, yet. And when it will, we won't care that it does. Focus on yourself.

Lysanthir · 2019-09-24T22:06:36+00:00

Oneitis, blew half a year of college due to it. Now I'm better for it in the long run. Some experiences can be the worst and the best you've had. My anger of being a worthless fuck lead me here.

LAdude71 · 2019-09-25T08:14:22+00:00

Approaching the end of a relationship.

Cute MILF from work asked me out for drinks sometime. End up joining her in Palm Springs where she sprang for our dinner and drinks at a bar. We go back to her friends condo and spoon. I'm afraid to make a move like a damn "nice guy". Got one-itis and cried over this girl.
Couple weeks after her, I dump my gf and a hot blond cougar at work wants to meet up for "fun". I take her out on 7 "nice guy" boring dinner dates. Can't bring myself to escalate beyond kissing her. On the 4th date she gives hints she wants to fuck in her Expedition. She even shows me the mattress she has in back. Like a clueless, dumbass, I don't get her hints and drive home. ALAS! While putting the key in the door it hits me like a brick she wanted sex!!!

The last 3 dates she just used me for meals and drinks. I chased her away by asking what it takes to be a priority in her life. And sent her a cringy text saying I missed her. I remember I also indirectly asked for sex by offering to give her a massage. (Cringe) Got one-itis from this one but didn't cry over her.

I was classic "nice guy". Afraid to offend her with sexual stuff. Afraid to escalate. I took what was supposed to be fun and sex and tried to get a commitment. I was throwing serious boyfriend energy instead of sexual energy.

She finally rejected me by text "I'll text U another day" Haven't hear from her in over a year.

During milf #1 I was watching Corey Wayne crap. After the Cougars rejection I analyzed every interaction with them and started watching Red Pill content on YouTube. Darius M, AMS, Coach Greg Adams, Sandman, Rollo Tomassi etc...

Now I take Red Pills every single day. Those rejections really hurt. The problem I have now is if I run into them out somewhere I gotta ACT AS IF their rejections didn't matter.

Title	What is your Red Pill story?
Author	huey764
Upvotes	5
Comments	14
Date	September 24, 2019 4:26 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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