Gents: I'm new to these concepts, been reading, etc. I had most of the basics under my belt before finding the red pill, and the reason I stayed is because things like what I'm about to describe keep happening and I don't know if maybe there's something I'm missing. Here goes: Swiped right on a gurl. We match, we meet, we dance, we make out, we make plans to go out on a date. Literally an hour before I'm supposed to go pick her up I get a text that reads " Dude, I'm not dating with you. Fuck off." Then, about an hour after that, I get another text. Same girl. "Hey, I'm sorry to back out at the last minute, my friend is having a rough day. I really want to see you, I'm all yours tomorrow:)" I've dealt with flakes before, but this.... this has made me question my own validity. My question is this: what just happened, and how should I proceed in the future to help screen this kind of toxic nonsense? Am I missing something?