Background : I'm just a freshman in college and I tried to be very extroverted during orientation camps and such. I have met several friends but now that it is nearing the end of semester, my act of extrovertness has been draining on me and now I'm back to my old self. Whenever I'm in a social setting, I will be the one sitting back and listening to their conversation.

So I'm hanging out with these bunch of guy smokers and they played "Never have I ever" and I realize all of them had sex and I am the only virgin there. I have been called and assumed to be a "fuckboi" by several girls and it truly fucks me up when I did not live up to that "standard".

Its hilarious I know, but I feel like I've been missing out a lot. Do I really have to cure my introvertedness or is there other aspects I can work on?