So, this post actually will be for myself kind of. Not really a question but to examine myself. Ill throw a question at the end to meet the guidelines.

So, met with this normal looking girl from tinder. I am new to the area so I asked for her recommendations. She said a restaurant so we went there. I get that she is not your typical hoe vibe but AWALT so I try not to think that. The date went into the interrogation mode unfortunately and probably many of you are aware that those dates don’t give any tingles to anyone. So pretty boring questions back and forth date.

So, I’m trying to figure out how to improve myself in these kind of situations. I realized without alcohol or someone that I’m somewhat comfortable with I can’t be really funny. Which I think needs a lot of improvement on my end, though I’m not sure how.

I feel like dinner date isn’t a good idea ever, so that’s another mistake I made. I should have taken the charge and find a place online and suggest the place. I’d probably take her to a bar. More comfortable, and more relax setting. It could have helped with my boring talking.

So, what are your suggestions? Where do you guys take your first dates? (Let’s say tinder dates to be more specific) Do you guys have a template kind of night set up usually? Is there specific way to make the girl and yourself more comfortable that you guys use?