A mate asked me to post this:

I'm 33 , I really like this girl one girl who is 24. She is very shy. She has a boyfriend and it did not seem to be working well. Whenever we talk we connect very well and have an amazing chemistry. They broke off last week and they got back together again. They seemed to be really in love since they patched up. I want to bang and get this girl real bad. Her nature is very shy and loyal. Any suggestions how I should approach her? Should I be direct after a few interactions and ask her out or tell her about my feelings? Or should I play it cool? Thanks