I am starting to have doubts about our relationship. I took her virginity so she says. Last month she wanted to talk to me about something so she sent a text. We talked and it turns out that she said I gave her a generic response when she was worried about covid. We were talking and she that her friend gave her a better response and that he said he’d be there for her, didn’t mention gender but I asked if it let’s call him peter and she said yes. I did give her a normal response but I am a man of few words I like action and words are just that words.Now I have a feeling he has a crush on her and now I’m starting to wonder if she has one on him too.

Here’s where my doubts are starting to come in. She sometimes ignores my texts and does not respond for hours. Last time we met up we were watching a show on Hulu and she kept looking at her phone for any notifications, sometime while watching the show peter sends her a text while we were watching the show and she immediately took her phone and started responding for about 10 minutes. This means she’s definitely ignoring me. 2 days later where were at a park and she kept replying to messages while we were working out.

Sorry for the long texts but my question is how do I proceed? Should I accept that she is starting to lose interest in me and I should do the same or talk?