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What's the difference between taking ownership and being a control freak?

brideboy

January 7, 2017
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Title What's the difference between taking ownership and being a control freak?
Author

brideboy

Upvotes 1
Comments 2
Date January 7, 2017 2:03 AM UTC
(9 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5mhu60/whats_the_difference_between_taking_ownership_and/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/whats-the-difference-between-taking-ownership-and.80366
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Comments

[–]lionofthejungle1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"Taking the lead" is what you're going after.

You lead, she follows - if she doesn't follow, oh well, who cares...next. If you care, then you're a control freak. Get it?

[–]TipsyLeo0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But I mean shouldn't you care at least a little if it's LTR? Or does it mean that the relationship isn't going anywhere?

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