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Man, you just hit the nail on the head - you explained her perfectly. She is a humongous bitch, and her coworker boyfriend is a huge cuck too. Honestly you’re right, she doesn’t have any material effect on my life or my career, so I’m just going to continue ignoring her.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 11:49 PM
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Good point.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 11:31 PM
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It’s not something I do frequently and the point of my post is that I couldn’t have shown up early due to my illness.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 11:30 PM
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Haha save it till marriage :) Some people just need to learn things the hard way on TRP.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 05:03 AM
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Pro-tips: Move to multiple spots during the night out. Don't kiss her at the end of the date - it's always too cliche and it demonstrates a lack of confidence. Kiss her mid-sentence or when she's looking away (I've found this works really well). Gauge her level of resistance by always escalating. You may get laid, you may not, but escalate to a point where she's comfortable and go NO further - she may be comfortable with just kissing, but doesn't want you to touch her boobs. She may be okay with…
/r/askTRP10/01/17 04:49 AM
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If you are doing all those things as foreplay to fucking, then it's not needy. If you only want to do those things, for the sake of doing those things, then it's not only needy - it's weird as fuck.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 04:39 AM
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I'm hesitant to approach women on campus for fear of 'shitting where I eat' GTFO - campus pussy is where it's at. You hook up with one chick and hit it off, and next thing you know they all want you. In this case, definitely SHIT where you eat. on Campus I rarely encounter targets of interest anyway Classic excuse. I doubt that I'm at the level where a Tinder account would help. Why? Have you even tried? You said you started lifting. Half the battle is your physique. I also dislike parties and f…
/r/askTRP10/01/17 04:37 AM
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Stop giving a fuck what others think of you and own it, and have a smile on your face. Don't be afraid to seem goofy and demonstrate boat loads of confidence. Many people see challenges like this as something to avoid; real men treat something like this as an opportunity to demonstrate masculine/confident behaviour.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 04:32 AM
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Have fun meeting her parents before she fucks you. Kidding aside, you are using anecdotal experience as a hard and fast rule. For many on here, drinks first work wonderfully, for others, coffee works well too. It all comes down to the root cause of why this worked for you - confidence and SMV (not the type of drink you asked her out for). The specific logistical method is immaterial.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 04:30 AM
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Many of the posters are suggesting that you don't show that you care. I want to elaborate on this point - it's done between the two of you. You may continue to fuck her, but she is no longer LTR material. That kind of behavior is disrespectful to you, and as a man full of self-respect, you don't accept it. Don't make a big stink about it - either plate her or leave her. The choice is yours.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 04:24 AM
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"Taking the lead" is what you're going after. You lead, she follows - if she doesn't follow, oh well, who cares...next. If you care, then you're a control freak. Get it?
/r/askTRP07/01/17 02:23 AM
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Have fun with her.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 01:50 AM
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You will crash and burn with this one. That's okay. Learn from it. You will slowly stop becoming so self-conscious about your every move as you go through more relationships.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:37 AM
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It sounds like you're friends with nerds. You will be fighting for scraps. 5s are okay for practice or if you just want to bust a nut. Yes, lift, improve your SMV, and keep climbing the ladder until you reach your max potential.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:34 AM
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Waste of time that you could be using towards improving yourself. Also, legal repercussions.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:32 AM
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"Then let's just forget about it." (AND FUCKING MEAN IT). What do you think she's going to do, dress like a babe afterwards? lol She's explicitly stating she wants to disrespect you and walk all over you, and you haven't even gone out on the first date yet.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:30 AM
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No, it's not red pill to have a crush. What are you, 12 years old? Leave that term for TV shows and stupid movies. In the real world, you approach. You take the risk. And you accept rejection or success in a non-emotive manner. Read the damn side bar.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:27 AM
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You ever hear that phrase, "The lion does not concern himself with the opinion of sheep?"
/r/askTRP02/10/16 02:37 AM
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Nice try troll.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 02:36 AM
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Go make yourself a sandwich. Maybe that'll make you feel less tempted.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 02:35 AM
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Ignore them?
/r/askTRP02/10/16 02:34 AM
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From a legal standpoint it's a gift, so there is no obligation for you to return it. Considering she cheated, I would just say you lost it and throw it out. Fuck her.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 04:33 PM
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There's a good chance you're not eating the right amount, and the right time, with the right food. Other factors include frequency of workouts and amount of rest, including sleep. Do yourself the favour of your life - read Michael Matthews's book, "Bigger, Leaner, Stronger".
/r/askTRP26/09/16 12:27 AM
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You're young. LIFT WEIGHTS. Most men are lazy as fuck and don't work out. If you work out, that alone puts you into an elite league of men. So if you want to have that competitive edge against other guys, demonstrate value through the most evolutionary way possible - strength.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 10:30 PM
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How do you act like an alpha when you get sick? You howl like a wolf. In all seriousness, some people take TRP too much to heart and get obsessed with "acting like an alpha" all the time. You're sick. Deal with it like a human being.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 07:26 PM
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When you say "initiative contact", I'm going to assume you are talking about electronic messaging (text, IM, etc.). YOU SHOULD ONLY BE USING THAT TO SETUP DATES!!!! Stop chit-chatting with women on the phone, get to the damn point, and tell her to meet you in person. You, as a busy guy pursuing your goal(s) in life, don't have time to text all day. Make it clear to her that YOU WANT to see her at x place at y time. She either agrees or gives you a wishy washy response. If you get the former, gre…
/r/askTRP24/09/16 10:26 PM
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Eat food you goofy mofo.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 10:23 PM
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There is a lot of negative self talk in your post. You have to understand that your "mind" is convincing you of a lot of self-limiting beliefs. And just feel drepressed all the time, because I'm not successful at trading... I feel like a failure overall. I don't know how to deal with the extra sadness when ever a romantic interest, or connection disappears. I tell myself to next them and get and online dating profile going, or go to meetup. But my mind says, don't waste your time on women, you n…
/r/askTRP24/09/16 10:22 PM
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Break out of your comfort zone. This is the only way you will change and see results. As for Tinder, start posting interesting pictures of yourself. Here are some tips: Pictures with other women (preferably attractive). Picture with an interesting background (think outdoors). Picture that shows your ENTIRE body. If you must do shirtless, do it within a good context (e.g. a beach). Grow a beard, if you can. Have a good sense of style in your pictures (this is another area you need to focus on). R…
/r/askTRP24/09/16 10:17 PM
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You have a problem escalating sexually, which is a problem many men on here have. Be fun, be bold, and be assertive. These are qualities women like A LOT. You're too "in your head", and what you've done is a bit of a double-edged sword. There are so many guys on here who just READ, READ, and READ, but never apply what they've read. You need to go out there and practically learn. Nothing will teach you better than experience. Setup dates via text (logistics only). Be direct and brief. Meet the gi…
/r/askTRP17/09/16 08:57 PM
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This is where you draw boundaries, otherwise she will continue to do it. Tell her if she acts like a brat again (point out specifically what she did), you'll leave and never come back. Watch how she changes.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 08:04 PM
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Here's a better pedagogical approach: Try cold approach (you will fail miserably). Read books ONLY after you've attempted step 1. The teachings will feel more personal and you will have many "ah-hah" moments, which help to solidify the ideas better. Attempt cold approaches. Continually go back to step 2 to refine. If all you do is read a shit tonne of material before approach, you are just going to get TOO analytical and second guess every approach.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 08:03 PM
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For what it's worth, your reputation as a player trumps what a few friends think. You got yourself in this mess. There's only one way out, buddy.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 07:55 PM
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As for radio silencing her, we have some mutual acquaintances, so I don't think this would be the best route. Don't want any drama You worry too much about what others think of you. Real men don't give a fly fuck. Grow up, dude.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 07:45 PM
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This is the Red Pill Manual (Version 2). You're welcome you lazy bastard.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 07:20 PM
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Johnny Berba does an excellent service to men demonstrating the reality of day game. In this video, he gets rejected over and over again throughout the day to finally find the diamond in the rough. This is a genuine portrayal of how the sausage is made.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 07:15 PM
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Many women, not all, live their 20s with the idea that sexual promiscuity is "good" and "liberating". You can blame feminism for that. They have no idea how badly they are fucking themselves over in the long run.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 07:12 PM
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Went exclusive at the end of August because we weren't using protection (she's on BC, wakes me up every morning-after when she takes them) and "wanted to be safe" with everyone coming back to school. The fuck is wrong with you? Be glad you haven't fucked your life up at such an early age. Put rubber on, ALWAYS! Her n-count is like 10-15, but I don't really know if that's high or not tbh for someone her age (feel like it's relatively low, but not LTR worthy?) Assuming that's what she told you, it…
/r/askTRP17/09/16 07:09 PM
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I read that it has to do with oxytocin, which is a hormone associated with bonding. When a girl is in her first relationship, her brain is flooded with oxytocin. After her first break up, and subsequent relationships, her body's ability to release this hormone becomes increasingly impaired - i.e. she becomes "damaged goods". She is basically incapable of "loving" any new men in her life. Girl's who ride the cock carousel end up fucking themselves over, so to speak, in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 07:04 PM
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When you lift, you sweat. If you don't wash the sweat off immediately and change into clean clothing, all that body oil will accumulate and block pours. Shower more frequently if you lift.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 09:55 PM
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You WILL ignore her going forward. Her giving you her bfs number is not only disrespectful to her bf, but it's disrespectful to you as well. Ignore her so that her childish ass learns a lesson. Don't contact her bf about this - that poor soul will learn the hard way about this dumb bitch.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 06:09 PM
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Call her "babe" you goof. Would you call her "my little bitch" in front of her friends?
/r/askTRP27/07/16 03:02 AM
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Christ - how do people go this far in life not knowing how to use paragraphs???
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 02:00 PM
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She can do whatever she wants - you move on. Sometimes people need to learn the hard way.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 01:57 PM
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Just give it time. Keep ignoring.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 12:54 AM
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Just ignore - she'll get the message and realize the hardest way the mistake she made.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 02:03 AM
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Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP16/07/16 07:21 PM
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Dude - some girls don't like anal in the same way some guys don't like it. I mean, as a guy, if a chick asked me to stick my dick into her bacteria riddled pooper, I would refuse - even if it meant I have to walk. Some people are just not into that shit, so to speak.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:51 AM
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Even if you SMV was really high, most women would hesitate to simply walk into a stranger's home for dinner. I mean, you could be a fat, bald, 60 year old freakazoid. Think logically - if you were a woman, would you do it? You need to stop being so lazy. You don't have to invest a lot. Invite her out for a drink so that she can see you, escalate, then find an excuse to go back to your place.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:49 AM
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e.g. text daily for two days, then skip a couple days, then text one day twice, then skip 2 days, etc. etc. Your message should be alpha in nature. Text her a picture of something interesting you are doing. Drop sexual innuendos or be explicitly sexual. Telling her what you will do to her gets many women excited and separates you from the drove of boring betas who asking mundane shit like "How was your day?" Ultimately you are not playing mind games if you ACTUALLY lead a busy lifestyle - the ra…
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:00 AM
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You stop caring about making, what you perceive to be, wrong choices. If you tippy toe through life trying your hardest to arrive safely at death, you will ending up hating your life. Like a cartoon teacher once said, "Take chances, make mistakes, and get messy"...(I can't believe I'm dropping Ms. Frizzle quotes on TRP...SMH).
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:56 AM
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The whole thing had me wondering where I stood. That's your problem. Who the fuck cares where you stand? In fact, the only place you should care about standing is in front of her with your dick out while she's on her knees sucking it. Get it?
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:54 AM
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You're not listening - if she comes back and changes her mind, then what...?
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:45 AM
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"gfs"....you don't date guys that have Good Fuckin' Smiles?
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:44 AM
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This is a very solid point. To add to this, it is stupid to reserve time of day to do cold approaches. To simply walk up and down the street approaching random women as they walk by is beta as fuck by the very virtue that you don't have anything useful going on in your life. A man should be busy chasing his goals, staying healthy, building his finances, and having cool hobbies. Approaching women should be something you do while you are doing the aforementioned, not something you dedicate your pr…
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:35 AM
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More trolling on ask TRP - OP is a faggot.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:29 AM
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There have been a lot of trolling here lately. OP is definitely a faggot.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:28 AM
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As a form of risk insurance, keep her on your radar by texting sparingly; however, see other women at the same time. If she comes back, drop the other women; if she doesn't, well you don't have a problem, do you?
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:27 AM
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If she asks "Where are your friends?", don't freeze up - just tell her you're meeting them in a few minutes.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:25 AM
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Pick you battles. There's a difference between her telling you a white lie versus disrespecting you. The former is a form of AWALT; the latter, is just unacceptable.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:24 AM
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Don't fuckin stop. Keep going until she does cum. Stop being so passive during sex.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 03:01 PM
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OP is a faggot
/r/askTRP14/07/16 02:17 AM
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Ask yourself this question: what am I going to achieve by seeking revenge? The answer is almost always "nothing". Alpha guys don't seek revenge; they don't allow things like a break up affect them. Just move on, improve yourself, and read the God damned side bar. If you had read the sidebar, you would know better than to wear your heart on your sleeves like a beta male.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 08:00 PM
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No. Just no. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 07:07 PM
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Ever watched a bollywood movie? There's your answer. They're plight is no different than ours - their idea of male female relationships is based on bullshit taught to them by their local media. Same shit, different pile.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 07:04 PM
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19 year old talking about who she's going to married. Probably not old enough to drink on some jurisdictions. Not a red flag, but she obviously has no idea what she really wants in life just yet. Don't take it seriously.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 07:02 PM
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Just don't be so obvious it.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 04:00 PM
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I've done this before - drives the idiot crazy inside.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 08:26 AM
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Self proclaimed "ex" compulsive liar says she only slept with two guys...let's multiply by that 3x, maybe 4x :)
/r/askTRP09/07/16 07:15 AM
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I once picked up a girl from a hot nightclub thinking I had it made. Turns out she was the most insecure manipulative gremlin in the world. She was hot as fuck and just as vile in character...
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 07:13 AM
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Did I handle this right? Yes - and don't reply to her unless she explicitly agrees to sex. Why did she randomly text me after 2 months? She wants to know if she can still exert her influence on you. Don't fall for that shit. And how can she friendzone me when I've already had sex with her? It happens. Any chance she will change her mind and offer up some sex? Probably not. Not worth thinking too much about.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 07:10 AM
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Nah bad advice. Don't talk to the guy and don't talk to her either. The chick's damaged good - OP should just leave.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 07:06 AM
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The only sad thing is your pandering to her bullshit. Grow a pair and leave.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 07:05 AM
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"With your credit card ;)"
/r/askTRP04/07/16 11:45 PM
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Be one of those dudes. Go for it. And if she puts her foot down insisting not to have sex, leave. Beautiful women dread/lust the idea of a man with self respect.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 07:44 PM
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Money doesn't impress them.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 12:53 AM
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Then go to beach - why go on Tinder to get the opportunity to get asked to go to the beach...?
/r/askTRP30/06/16 09:41 PM
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If it was something you would rather do than the date, you wouldn't be posting this on ASKTRP - don't kid yourself man. A networking opportunity? Are you looking for work?
/r/askTRP30/06/16 07:44 PM
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Just say no and reschedule. Is she tries some flaky shit like this the second time, then move on.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 07:26 PM
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Haha - he's going on a date, not showing up to a gang fight. That's funny af though. Still OP should not agree.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 07:21 PM
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Agree - she's using OP to flex her ability to string men along in front of her female friends. They are going to have a good laugh about it after. Some women are straight up evil like that. Don't do it.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 07:19 PM
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Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 04:44 AM
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Plating. He should be plating. At this point, keep her around for pussy. This woman is not the potential mother-of-your-children material. It's dissapointing, but keep your chin up and find someone else for an LTR. Protip: party chicks make for poor LTRs. It's better to date a woman who grocery shops on a Saturday morning than one who sleeps in hungover.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 10:11 PM
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Update: either she or instagram removed the pic.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 03:18 PM
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What did she caption the picture as? If you're embarrassed about what you saying to her being public, you probably shouldn't have said what you said. Not embarassed because all I said was "wanna fuck?" - just pissed that she frames the message of the caption in a ridiculous tone, when she's the one who clearly engaged in the conversation. Upon closer inspection, she's a feminist. Go figure. Lesson Learned: stay away from angry feminists with a bone to pick. They hate men and will throw men under…
/r/askTRP24/06/16 06:21 AM
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Good call.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 03:23 AM
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Ya you're right.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 03:22 AM
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Stop arguing back with your mom - you need to maintain frame (read about that in the sidebar). Just ignore her. She does have a point - figure out what you're passionate about and stick with it, God damn it.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 04:27 AM
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Hey, Im very good at talking to girls and so (I hope :D ) Clearly - you even write like one. Pro tip, don't emoticon on ASKTRP. But what do you do, when the girl is always surround by her friends and engaged in the conversation? Ignore her. Let her come to you. She needs to chase you, not the other way around. Pro-tip, flirt with her uglier friends - she'll get jealous when you're actively ignoring her. It's an ego thing - she thinks she's the best of the group and needs to prove that to her fri…
/r/askTRP21/06/16 12:43 AM
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Here's some advice: take the hint - she's not attracted. Why would you keep trying as if she'll suddenly change her mind? This isn't a fuckin' movie or a music video. Your SMV isn't high enough for her to feel attracted to you. Don't take this personally, just work on improving yourself, and for fuck's sake, have some self respect.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 12:38 AM
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You've answered your own question: high energy environments like parties and night clubs require high energy antics. The cool, calm, stoic, self-assured guys win in other contexts (aka most of the time). Too many guys come on here with a narrow scope of the club/bar/party scene and assume this is the only place to "act" alpha, but go back to being a wimp (aka their true self) in other environments.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 12:08 AM
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Stupid question. Ignore.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 04:45 PM
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To add to this point, the human brain has never evolved to see so many beautiful women in one life time. You were lucky as a hunter gatherer to see five sexy women in your life; now, you'll see 10 sexy women at the click of a mouse. It really fucks with your brain and de-sensitizes your brain's reward center. No wonder so many young men, who should be virile as fuck, are complaining about erectile dysfunction.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 07:03 PM
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Be present. You are thinking about a projection into the future that doesn't matter. Become conciously aware of your thoughts and suddenly you see the problem for what it REALLY is - just a bunch of thoughts.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 07:58 AM
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Well my experience indicates they are quite stuck up and prudish. They are also very narcissistic in so far as always feeling the need to be excessively dolled up - they just cake on the make up which is another turn off for me. Overall if you want to experience the headache, give it a shot. PS: they're pretty lame in bed.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 06:12 AM
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As a middle eastern guy, I hate dating middle eastern girls. It took me a long time to figure out why, but I finally realized that they were looking for something 'different' when we date - like they want to start a family or something. They play that prudish angle so hard, which is why I basically stopped dating them altogether. North American chicks are the best - easier, less clingy, and less dramatic.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 03:25 AM
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Awww...I love your endearing description of Ms. 7/10. Incoming one-itis.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 03:20 AM
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I go to sleep - best Friday night game.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 03:19 AM
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By using paragraphs.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 04:31 PM
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If you can't move your own body, what business do you have moving heavy blocks and plates? This isn't to suggest that you shouldn't lift weights, but I truly believe the foundation of good fitness is functional exercise (especially through bodyweight). You can obviously integrate weight lifting, but bodyweight fitness helps build those stabilizer muscles that most people neglect. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 04:36 AM
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You just don't get it, do you? Do what other men don't do. I'm not saying don't text. Obviously you need to text to arrange a meeting, but don't sit there texting like a little 13 year old. Quite often, guys fuck up the attraction by texting the wrong thing, which easily could've been avoided by not texting. In addition, the less you text, the more she wonders about you. Think of it this way. If a woman had 10 guys who were interested in her, and 9 of them constantly texted her, who do you think…
/r/askTRP13/06/16 02:38 AM
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That's the bullshit lie you've sold yourself. It doesn't matter if it was 10,000 years ago or 10,000 years from now Women are programmed to find the same thing attractive - a man who is busy with bigger things in life than pussy. Pussy isn't the object, it's a natural corollary for those who lead an interesting life.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 01:53 AM
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False. When you get better at this, you can even build anticipation through what you text.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 07:05 AM
528

A man who finds solutions to his problems rather than complaining about it - this is what real male self improvement and growth is about.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 03:42 AM
1

A superficial reply I could give is "date more girls that are your type". But you really need to get over your neediness. You have a lack of self-respect, and that's ultimately what you need to learn. I would suggest reading "No More Mr. Nice Guy" if you already haven't done so.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 06:31 AM
1

If you want to create an online dating presence, it's pretty critical. My suggestion with social media is that it's an element of "building your empire". Post pictures with cool people, doing cool things, or of cool photos. The most important part is getting women to like your photos as this builds social proof. For others on TRP, obsessive use of social media interferes with a person's goals and more important hobbies. Looking at it from another perspective, no social media use lends an air of …
/r/askTRP11/06/16 06:05 AM
1

Th guy didn't give a fuck about what other's thought of him - that's a pretty key ingredient of an alpha's outlook.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 05:59 AM
2

Start dating new women (plural). Force yourself to do it. You'll come to realize that "the one that got away" is a flesh and blood human being as every other chick. You'll smack your head thinking why you even felt that way.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 05:58 AM
5

Correct answer. You're*
/r/askTRP11/06/16 05:55 AM
1

"As much as a nice grilled cheese sandwich?" Treat any indications of commitment with humour.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 05:54 AM
2

Just make it seem like you need to get going, but that you want to quickly get to know her. "I have to get going soon, but tell me what do you do?" "I know you've gotta get going, but what's your story?" "I have to get back to work in a bit, but where are you going?" Just let the conversation flow naturally. Don't get too hung up on sequencing the sentences. Just play it by ear and follow the general guidelines.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 02:28 AM
2

You pay for sex - I get it for free ;)
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 02:26 AM
2

Lol...hire an escort. GTFO
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 01:39 AM
14

Here's my summary of day game: Constraints: Women are busy during the day. You should be busy during the day. You can't be as wild or outrageous as you can be in a bar/club environment. That being said, you have to alter your game to fit the circumstances. Approach a chick and compliment her on something more unique than a superficial quality. Telling her you think she's cute, beautiful, gorgeous, etc. is something she's heard many times and has lost steam in her mind- all it demonstrates to her…
/r/askTRP09/06/16 03:30 AM
2

It's a journey.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 11:04 PM
15

Do what other guys don't do: don't act nervous don't avoid eye contact (look at her, smile, and don't look away) - don't stare, but ignore her for the most part socialize with EVERYONE except her (instant social proof) and she'll start working to get your attention after every other dummy has tried to get her attention (and failed), you can start a casual conversation with her get her to do most of the talking (she needs to qualify herself to you) escalate throughout the party but remember to wa…
/r/askTRP08/06/16 03:49 AM
3

Thank you. Somebody gets it.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 07:32 PM
7

If you can, please include sources.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 05:49 AM
5

Guy doesn't give a fuck lol - women swoon over men like him (especially younger ones).
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 05:08 AM
4

His left hook is anything but beta.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 03:53 AM
1

Don't do roids.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 02:01 AM
1

Congratulations - you're perception of reality has evolved. You once thought of women and relationship in terms of what Disney movies, TV shows, music videos, etc. made you believe they were. Now, you see male-female relationships in terms that are based on reality, which is important because it helps you manage your expectations. Focus on your goals, hobbies, health, finances, etc. and understand that having a woman (or women) in your life is like gravy on an already awesome meal - it isn't the…
/r/askTRP07/06/16 01:53 AM
3

Too butthurt. Would a man of abundance even waste his time with a chick that isn't reciprocating attraction when there are many, many other women in his stable? If she doesn't like you or is being a challenge, call her bluff. Ignore her.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 01:48 AM
3

I want to smash my head against the wall when I read stuff like this. Let me dissect this for you so you understand: practically begging me to join them at a music festival a province over. You need to go that far to score pussy? I'm strongly leaning towards going, partly for the invite but mostly cause I wanted to go already. Don't kid yourself...you want to go because of her. Issue is, it cost the equivalent of 100 usd to go and I can only manage one day due to work, the money is pittance to s…
/r/askTRP07/06/16 01:45 AM
3

This is horrible advice and it's this kind of shit that gives TRP a bad name. Under no circumstance should you physically harm anybody (man or woman). You are just asking for all kinds of legal problems.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 03:09 PM
1

Read this book and apply the principles to the T.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 08:41 PM
1

I'm at 5'11 and 165 lbs at 15-17% BF. I feel I should go up to 170 to look my best and I think that would be a reasonable goal for you too. Right now we're just a tad bit too lean.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 08:02 PM
3

After reading through all your points, it's abundantly clear what the problem is. You are out of shape. Your #1 priority right now should be getting into shape AND eating a clean diet. Once you take care of both those things, you will notice an improvement in your skin, your hair style, the way clothes fit you, less sweating, etc. Don't try to go after the symptoms, solve the root cause.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 07:59 PM
1

At some point you will have to tell Mom and Dad that you ARE going to do what YOU want to do. They will obviously react, but ultimately it comes down to YOUR response to that reaction. If you acquiesce, they it will only reconfirm their power over you. But if you choose do what you want, they will stop after they realize they have very little "control" over your life. It's your life. Do what you want. Make good choices.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 07:56 PM
6

Honestly. That was brutally painful to read. It's amazing how people overcomplicate something that should be so simple. It should've gone something like this: Guy: When are you free to grab a drink? Girl: X day. Guy: Great, let's meet at x bar at x time. Girl: Sounds good :) It really isn't that fuckin' complicated.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 07:51 PM
1

The fact that you don't have more important things going on in your life and that you need to "guess" what's she thinking indicates that you haven't fully understood the alpha male lifestyle. Who cares if she's busy or not? Read the sidebar and stop fixating over women. You were chasing her, and it should have been the other way around.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 07:46 PM
8

Rollo Tomassi wrote a great analogy about guys trying to get back with their exes. When you throw something into the garbage, and you try to get it back out, three things happen: You get messy. Your neighbours see you. Even after you found what you threw out, it's never the same value as before you threw it into the garbage. Sorry man, but moving on is the only choice here.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 06:44 PM
3

"You mean as gorgeous as me straight out of bed?" Don't feed her ego. Show her who's boss. Shut down the shit test swiftly and efficiently.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 05:38 AM
1

You're exhibiting classic sniper mentality - a form of oneitis. You care so much about your strategy towards this chick, that you're gonna end up cockblocking yourself. You'll eventually know when she's here, stop waiting for it. When she is here, casually say hi and quickly arrange a hang out. If she's down, great, if not, who the fuck cares? Get it?
/r/askTRP04/06/16 05:34 AM
0

Why the fuck do you even care? She's a plate.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 05:30 AM
3

Why isn't she sleeping over with you...?
/r/askTRP04/06/16 05:29 AM
1

Stop porn and virtual imagery of beautiful women. Stop masturbating. Start working out to regulate hormone levels. Cut out bad food (same reason as #3). Stop giving a fuck and enjoy the moment (stop overthinking sex and be present).
/r/askTRP31/05/16 04:38 AM
1

Read the sidebar. Your comments demonstrate that you have a lot to learn, and a single question will do you no good. Sorry man, but "not big on flirting", "unless I know the person" is just amateur commentary. You'll get there, but read the side bar! Also, I would recommend reading the book of pook.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 04:35 AM
1

AKA my modus operandi every time I go to Vegas!
/r/askTRP31/05/16 04:32 AM
1

"Uh-huh" A little indifference to her stupid questions/comments will go a long way - it demonstrates that you don't give a fuck about her childish state of mind.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 04:31 AM
2

When I was trying to explain TRP to some of my male friends, they all laughed at the concepts. They suggested I was really out of touch with reality in terms of how social dynamics work. So we went to a bar. I made out with a girl within five minutes of talking to her. They were suddenly singing a different tune asking me how I did that, what I said, what you're supposed to do, etc. If at first you can't convince him to change through your words, open his eyes through your actions.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 04:29 AM
1

She probably was too high to remember. And while we're on the subject, chicks that get high are fucked. She's low value, so just move on from that.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 04:26 AM
9

Yes. Finish it. TRP teaches you to not give up. What you've written is a thinly disguised laundry list of excuses. Bite the bullet and be a man. Figure shit out. DO IT.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 04:24 AM
2

If you have solid proof, get a lawyer, and divorce her ass.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 04:23 AM
2

Afghanistan - picture that.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 06:56 AM
3

I am a middle eastern man. I smash white pussy on the regular. The only thing getting between what you want in life (money, women of a specific race, success, etc.) is the bullshit lie you keep telling yourself. Eliminate all self limiting beliefs in your life and your ego, and you will experience some of the greatest things in life.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 02:57 AM
2

Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. This is one of the finest books for gaining mental mastery.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 12:46 AM
3

Calm down, you imbecile.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 04:29 AM
1

There's a fine balance between letting her do whatever she wants in the context of a relationship, and you having enough self respect to know better than to take that relationship seriously once she exhibits careless and disrespectful behaviour. Just leave her ass and she'll feel the sting of her stupid mistake.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 04:25 AM
2

Don't try to control a chick. If she showcases her IG to everyone, that's her call. Just know that she lacks the respect that you deserve if she wants exclusivity. All you can do is take the high ground and not take her seriously. Women are like cats - the more you chase, the more they run away. Give her space, but have some self respect. Plate her. Find other women.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 10:46 PM
0

Go for a kiss - a simple yet effective compliance test. Keep kissing and increase intensity. Kiss her neck, and grab her waist while doing this. Slowly make your way to her breasts and caress her nipples softly. Slowly draw your hand on her inner thigh and make your way to her spot. Rub it through her pants and then slowly go into her pants and rub her clit. Signal to her that you want to go to the back seat - a simple glance over or statement "let's go to the back" should suffice. Make sure you…
/r/askTRP18/05/16 05:47 PM
1

Real simple: most of these things you've mentioned don't matter. Live like a stoic or live a sad life. The choice is yours. May I suggest you look into stoicism and inner-game.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 04:03 AM
8

LMAO - she's asking to have her cake and eat it. "Agree", plate her, and fuck other women.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 07:07 PM
-1

"Bring up your ex again, and you'll be grabbing bowls by yourself" (with a smirk) This response indicates two things: You have no interest in hearing about her ex. You'll leave if she brings him up again (she'll never bring him up again).
/r/askTRP12/05/16 06:07 AM
3

There are times when humour is required for shit tests and then there are times when explaining your boundaries is required. You should have asked her why she lied to you. Regardless of whatever "explanation" she gives you, tell her that if she lies to you again, you will leave. It's opportunities like this where you draw your boundaries firmly. Women respect a man who is willing to walk away from a relationship, AND MEAN IT. Edit: On further consideration, you should leave her. She's a teenager…
/r/askTRP12/05/16 04:26 AM
1

As I understand it, heels make a woman appear taller and more intimidating. My manager has worn heels for years, but had recently undergone surgery for an injury to her ACL - she wears flats now. Go figure.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 04:17 AM
3

This is right up there as one of the greatest self limiting beliefs. I'm not saying some girls don't have racial preferences, but to use that as an excuse for not getting poon is old and tired. If you increase your SMV, you will score pussy no matter what your race is. Up your game, son - that is the biggest factor that determines whether you can score pussy or not, regardless of your location.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 05:14 AM
24

No, what he's suggesting is that the only thing getting in the way of what you want is your self-limiting belief system. "Oh she's so hot she probably already has a bf" "She doesn't like guys like me" "It'll be so awkward for me to say 'hi'" "I'm not smart enough to pursue my goals" "I'll never be that muscular" Get it now?
/r/askTRP11/05/16 05:08 AM
8

She should see a gynecologist.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 05:03 AM
4

Women aren't evil - they've just been dealt a different hand than men. You have to understand what that hand is, not resent them for having that hand. This kind of commentary is what gives TRP a bad name.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 05:21 PM
14

GF breaks up with YOU. Immediately texts ex. Lies about it. Tries to shift blame on by suggesting that you're not "listening" (as if this is all YOUR fault). Stands in front of your place for 8 hours (assuming this true, you are dealing with a complete psycho). You need to leave her childish ass and find someone more level headed. In order to do that, YOU need to clean up your act as first. TRP does not endorse abusive behavior, so you kinda started this chain of ridiculous events. Man up. Move …
/r/askTRP09/05/16 06:01 AM
1

Take screenshots of all communications - she seems psycho.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 06:02 PM
2

Arguably this is the way to go with every chick, but I agree this is especially true for shy/introverted girls.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 03:58 PM
1

Unless you are targeting different muscle groups, lifting 6x a week will lead to overtraining, which leads to poor gains. I strongly recommend you read Michael Matthews' "Bigger Leaner Stronger".
/r/askTRP06/05/16 09:38 PM
10

don't fidget when you drop the punch line, look away so it doesn't look like you're looking for a reaction (approval seeking) slow down your movements seem bored (don't overdo this) touch her casually (e.g. tap on the elbow) have good posture strong eye contact, but don't stare (if you need to look away, look to the side, not down) deepen your voice (speak from your chest, not your nose) get her to do most of the talking go in with the attitude of "Does she fit the bill" not "what can I do to im…
/r/askTRP06/05/16 08:32 PM
-2

Building rapport is what you do with a client, your neighbor, or the cashier. Sexual chemistry is what you need to build before you should attempt any ass grabbing. You don't want to mislead anybody on this subreddit to think that after a few minutes of conversation (i.e. "building rapport") you should grab a girl's ass... I know what you mean, just be careful with the semantics.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 05:33 AM
3

Sometimes you have to stop reading into things too deeply, which seems like a common thing here. You said she woke up around midnight after falling asleep after dinner. If I did that, I would be groggy as fuck, and that sounds like what she was. How can anybody's sexual performance be good under those circumstances??? She's not wrong when she says she was tired. Fuck her when she's awake and alert next time.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 05:27 AM
-2

You may have gotten away with grabbing a chick's as and turning her around, but I would definitely not do that unless there is a decent amount of sexual chemistry. Do that to some random chick and see what happens...
/r/askTRP03/05/16 05:15 AM
10

Do what I do with my perfectionist mother: ignore and don't engage. She'll eventually realize you are unshakeable in your ways.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 04:57 PM
3

To add to that, solid 10s are usually self-absorbed narcissists. You should realistically settle for a 7-9.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 03:16 PM
0

Wrong. Text her that you had a good time and pray she texts back in agreement (they almost always do). Otherwise, you lack the necessary evidence to back you up in case you run into a false rape accusation.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 04:09 AM
5

I've always wondered if the act of shopping is a hardwired activity in a woman's mind similar to gathering (e.g. picking berries from a bush) in the hunter gatherer days. Edit: Found something that supports this idea https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/out-the-darkness/201402/why-men-dont-shopping-and-most-women-do
/r/askTRP03/04/16 05:06 PM
2

You wrote a novel about her. One-itis bud. We've all been there.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 04:56 PM
0

The gym
/r/askTRP16/03/16 11:08 PM
2

Plate her. Plate others. Have hobbies. Work out. CHASE GOALS.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 12:51 AM
2

So then text her to meet up, and if she doesn't bite, wtf cares?
/r/askTRP15/03/16 07:24 AM
7

What are you rambling on about??? Just fuck her. She's not LTR material on a count of her doing coke. While we're on the subject of coke, get off that shit.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 06:54 AM
3

It's a well known fact that excessive alcohol consumption leaves your feeling depressed afterwards. Just don't party frequently and you'll be alright - your health and your bank account will thank you. I'll tell you what gives you the opposite feeling - improving yourself, meditating, exercising, pursuing goals/hobbies, and just about anything that provides a slow and steady dopamine release in your brain.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 01:42 AM
2

Every now and then you see a gold nugget of wisdom on TRP - this is one of them.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 01:09 AM
1

Read the book of pook. Very good read.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 12:39 AM
5

Last minute flaking on first dates. At this point, I pretty much expect it, and always have a plan B; but, what a blatant form of disrespect for someone else's time. That's time that could be planned for hobbies, goals, chilling with friends, etc., but instead, I reserved that time for her flaky ass. Next.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 11:09 PM
5

"Calm down, Junior" But my favourite to put PMSing men in their place (assuming you know his name): "<<name>> baby, stay cool." -- makes him look like a child. Works like a charm every time.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 04:48 AM
5

The more you tell her to stop, the more she'll want to do it. As everyone else says, next. She might come back, in which case you ignore or plate her. You're 18 - you have your entire 20s/30s ahead of you.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 09:23 PM
1

You don't need to worry about anything other than downgrading her to plate status - any opportunity for a threesome is good in my books!
/r/askTRP04/03/16 09:45 PM
1

"That's nice."
/r/askTRP28/02/16 11:04 PM
1

I have other examples of this working really well. I'll post them when I get time.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:44 PM
1

No problem dude, glad I can help.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:42 PM
1

You'd be surprised how many change their mind. You've gotta put your ego aside. Sun Tsu wrote in the art of war, if you understand yourself and your enemy, you will never lose a battle. Chicks may not want to hang for a bunch of reasons - personal problems, hang ups with existing relationships, moodiness, feel shifty about themselves, etc. It never hurts to try later on down the road - you have nothing to lose is the way I see it so long as you don't over invest.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:41 PM
0

Betas don't get laid - I did ;)
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:38 PM
1

Most women don't like being called randomly. It's too awkward, especially if she's in the middle of doing something. Most chicks text and it gives you the advantage of thinking before responding.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:38 PM
2

I may very well be wrong in my approach, but it has worked numerous times. This is just one example. The way I see it is it plants a very powerful seed in that I view the interaction in sexual terms, which sets an important tone but also filters out the prudes. I agree with your comment about the "lols" - good feedback. Much appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:36 PM
1

This is it - on the surface and by taking a literal definition of beta vs alpha, the language is beta; however, I've controlled the frame by inducing her into wanting to meet me ASAP. She's clearly turned on, and that's what counts. It's very easy for me to be aloof, spread my message timing out, use very little words, etc., but that's boring. Women, especially experienced ones, see right through that stuff. As you've pointed out, the crux of this approach is being unapologetically sexual. That'…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:04 PM
3

Good call - I've been weening off that lately
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 04:12 AM
5

Movie theatre, park, dinner, car, anywhere really....the key is to just be descriptive about HER emotions and what SHE's feeling at the moment. Works like a fuckin' charm. You describe your actions as dominant.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 02:57 AM
1

Strange - I'm able to using my phone.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 02:09 AM
2

I agree. Sticking to logistics only is a bit like learning to ride a bike with training wheels. It works, but it only gets you so far. As you become more advanced with this stuff (believe me, I'm still learning), you can get a little more creative, and that's where the texting fun begins.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 07:05 AM
1

Women basically respond positively to good game no matter what their age is. They may have their own preferences, but you should not adjust your game based on a woman's age.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 05:08 AM
6

Start seeing other girls. It's the sure fire approach for getting over your oneitis. Think like the stoics: You are simply a spec in the grand scheme of the universe. Your problems are insignificant compared to everything else that is going on. She's just a flesh and bone human being, this isn't a movie, so get over it man.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 05:06 AM
2

That's your queue to say, "I've got to get going. What's your #?" Conversations are not meant to go on and on. There has to be a definite end, and it's your job as the leader to lead it to a useful conclusion during a cold approach.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 05:01 AM
3

Women are attracted to men who are the top percentile of men. Top percentile of men do what other men don't do. Most men are afraid to walk away from women. Therefore, she is attracted to your actions (or inactions in this case).
/r/askTRP25/12/15 04:58 AM
3

Don't date feminists. If TRP teaches you anything, they are trouble down the road. In fact it's one of the first few questions I ask when dating a girl: whether she's religious or feminist. Both are red flags, and are immediate deal breakers.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 04:54 AM
5

God damn it, are you still going on about your LDR? She's basically rejected you with her response. Let it go. It's over. Move on to other women (preferably local). Stop posting about LDRs.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 04:49 AM
3

Smirk, don't smile. Think James Bond vs SpongeBob Square Pants. You should only smile if something GENUINELY makes you happy.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 04:25 AM
9

Your perceived belief that she has one-itis for you is irrelevant. One-itis under any condition is intolerable and crippling. Honestly, you should know better than to pursue and waste your time on a long distance relationship. You plated her, it didn't quite work out, so you should move on and meet new women. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 04:20 AM
6

People join TRP to improve themselves and a natural corollary of that is success with women. You're going down the path of dark triad, which is neither endorsed nor dismissed from a RP perspective - it is what it is. In my opinion, don't become an anti-social douchebag, which it sounds like what you've become. Be a cool alpha who radiates good vibes but doesn't take shit from people - not least of which, women.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 04:15 AM
21

LDR...no point in reading beyond that.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:56 PM
3

Can confirm. If there's any consolation, it's that we've all been there. OP, some day when you're an alpha stud who sees the game for what it truly is, you will look back at this and laugh.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 06:02 AM
2

Thank you, the only guy who understood my post lol
/r/askTRP22/12/15 02:46 AM
2

Do this
/r/askTRP21/12/15 01:15 AM
1

Save up money and move to a bigger city. Plenty of things to do, and plenty of fish to catch.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 12:53 AM
4

This may sound cynical, but she might have some kind of visible STD that she doesn't want you to know about... Wrap it up, son.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 02:56 AM
1

You know George St. Pierre the UFC fighter...the guy who was l almost undefeated for about 40 fights? He was bullied as a kid. There's always a silver lining in all of life's problems. Let him learn some form of martial arts to let him channel all that anger and frustration into something useful.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 02:50 AM
2

Don't seem so eager.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 02:45 AM
2

She needs a reason to prove to you why she's worth your time.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 11:14 PM
14

Thinking this was a sign she wasn't interested in me I immediately moved on. This about the only right thing you did. Three years later I miraculously see her on the same train as mine. Seeing a girl is a miracle to you? This is where this starts to sound fishy. admit to her that she was a huge crush of mine at the time. NEVER admit you have a "crush" on a girl. This is pedestalization. I ask her for a second chance and she says yes You "asked" for a "second chance"?? She should be the one who f…
/r/askTRP19/12/15 10:30 PM
1

Couldn't have said it better myself.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 08:45 PM
0

"Hey, suppose you want to meet up?"
/r/askTRP19/12/15 05:11 PM
1

Really nice car, really nice clothes, really respectable job, really good style. Congratulations, you've qualified yourself as a beta provider. You need to project an alpha lover vibe, not a provider vibe. Most women will interpret all of those things as trying too hard; other women will just use you...
/r/askTRP19/12/15 06:18 AM
1

let's hang out tonight? It's vague, and worse, it's a question. Don't ask her whether she wants to hang out or not. TELL her that you WANT to hang out at x at y time. e.g. "I want to grab a drink with you at x place at y time." The questions need to be laser sharp focused and direct. This subtlety will increase your odds of getting a date because it shows you are taking the lead and sounds more confident. Hope this helps.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 06:15 AM
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I upvoted this and couldn't agree more. The less you text, the more she wonders about you, the harder her hamster works. She will rationalize in her mind that she's attracted to you - the best part is, you didn't do anything! Attractive women do this all the time. You just need to beat them at their own game ;)
/r/askTRP18/12/15 02:21 AM
2

Good stuff. Just be careful about hitting the gym for two hours at a time. Overtraining will eventually lead to injury, which will sideline you for weeks or months.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 02:17 AM
2

A walk in the park is good. If you're looking for an indoor activity like bowling is fun. The key us to invite her out to join you for the fun activity. Don't ask her if she wants to do it. Phrase it like: "I want to check out x place on y day. It's pretty fun. Come join me."
/r/askTRP17/12/15 11:18 PM
0

Agree and amplify: "Yes, I sit their all day in a strip club wondering whether I should invest in mutual funds or go with bonds. I hear naked women are therapeutic."
/r/askTRP17/12/15 11:14 PM
1

Never do lunch dates. Too platonic. I know you're in high school, but you should try doing some one-on-one activity after school. That's your best shot at getting laid.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 11:09 PM
6

Platonic texts to be honest. DO NOT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT. If you don't learn this the easy way, you sure as hell will learn it the hard way.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 12:54 AM
0

Challenge women, in a teasing way. That's how you get away from being called a nice guy.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 12:49 AM
2

I can approve of the book of pook. It enhanced my game a lot!
/r/askTRP16/12/15 03:45 PM
3

I say this to anyone who wants to cut through all the BS and find out if a girl is attracted or not: Tell her you want to take her out and get her # If she complies, she's basically attracted. If she doesn't, who cares? You have your answer and you move on to the next one. Stop fixating over one chick and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 10:50 PM
2

You need to communicate to her, in a non-direct way, that you want to fuck her - telling her she's cute is a good way. Keep in mind, through out the entire interaction, that's the ONLY compliment you give. She is going to be qualifying herself the rest of the time.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 10:38 PM
1

You're welcome.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 04:36 PM
5

I know a guy who does this - just humiliating.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 05:15 AM
4

You need a general framework for cold approaching. Here's my approach: Walk up to her and tell her, in a genuine tone of voice, that you think she's cute. Ask for her name, and if she asks for your's, that's a good sign. Acknowledge her reality (any your's) by letting her know that you won't take too much of her time and that you've got to get going. Get her to qualify herself to you (very important). Ask her what she does, what she's passionate about, and follow up with questions that elicit po…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 04:34 AM
0

When you go deep in your mind and blow the cobwebs off that switch that reads "Giving a Fuck". Please switch it to the "off" position.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 04:23 AM
1

Ask Tell her you want to grab a drink with her sometime, and ask tell her you want her #.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 04:17 AM
3

Never pedestalize - very important point.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 08:20 PM
1

I would go so far to say that it's not even an opinion; it's pretty much the way it is, as you explain it. Never bring up exclusivity yourself - let it be her idea. She will bring up "exclusivity", being "official", "I love you", etc. You just continue to be a man.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 06:00 AM
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What's the confusion? She's attracted to you and she wants you to be her's. The choice is your's as to whether you want an LTR with her or to next her. Remember the golden rule: Women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. It was her decision to have sex with you and it's your decision if you want a relationship. Your call.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 02:29 AM
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sporadically so you don't seem predictable (this is important because when your messaging pattern becomes predictable, you seem boring and linear) when she's being nasty, moody, bitchy, etc. when the msg doesn't warrant a response when she does something that pisses you off and you want to apply dread when she does something to make you feel jealous
/r/askTRP14/12/15 02:25 AM
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Don't shit where you eat, and you're doing the right thing by not wanting to get get anything out of this. Only use agree and amplify to a girl you like. You're leading her on by doing that. Just ignore her and be aloof. Do it long enough and she'll get the message.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 11:56 PM
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It was mistake, but at least you can blame it on the alcohol. Keep in mind that women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. She should be seeking your commitment and not the other way around. Let those three words part her lips first.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 11:51 PM
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Generally, women do this for basically two reasons: They're terrible at managing their time. They're testing you. Either way, you need to make her understand your boundaries. You did the right thing by rejecting her offer, and now, she's going to respect you as a man, and not think of you as a pushover.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 12:10 AM
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she has exams this week so i have to wait for a while if this worked or not Girl's who tell you they're "busy" or won't be available in the near future are sub-communicating to you that they're not attracted. You should have read that sign and never looked back. and i asked 'is it fine? are you okay? Don't do this. Think of it this way: she should feel privileged to have you ask her for her number. By saying "are you okay" or "is it fine", you are placing her on a pedestal to make sure she's oka…
/r/askTRP13/12/15 12:00 AM
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It would be nice if we could all get specific advice tailored for every situation. Do x, y, z, spin around three times, and voila, the girl is yours. The only thing you can do is approach, say hi, tell her you think she's cute (in a direct non-beta way), and get her to qualify herself to you. Tell her you want her #, and if she gives it to you, great. If not, who cares, onto the next one. Have you read any of the material on the sidebar?
/r/askTRP12/12/15 11:55 PM
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When you go to a bar or club, stop over-thinking everything, and start having FUN. When you're joking around, laughing, having a good time, and generally not caring what people around you think, then women will pick up on this. They'll see you as somebody with a good vibe, which builds your social proof. When you have that serious demeanour, it reeks of an agenda and desperation - women don't like that. Have fun and stop giving a fuck.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 11:16 PM
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She needs to be worrying about you, not the other way around. Generally speaking, LDR don't work out. As a rational male, you have to accept this. Start approaching other women unless you want to set yourself up for failure.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 10:37 PM
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Ask questions that elicit positive responses and emotions. You want to condition her to associate those feelings with you. Ask her what's she's passionate about, how she feels about things she brings up, what she wants to do with her life, etc. Make sure you keep it light, don't get too intense or heavy. Throw in a few jokes here and there. When the time is right, touch her - gently. Even just poking her arm as you make a statement is good. Just don't overdo it. Lastly, make sure BOTH of you are…
/r/askTRP12/12/15 10:31 PM
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She has control over you, she knows it, and it's feeding her ego. Stop feeding her ego. Cut off all contact. HARD NEXT.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 06:10 PM
3

Any man who says "I am the shit" is not the shit.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 04:55 AM
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Rather than trying to cause drama with a chick who's already in a relationship, why not go for chicks who are not taken. This post reeks of a scarcity mindset. It looks like you still have a lot to learn my friend.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 04:52 AM
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You should be wanting to get your shit together for yourself - not some chick. If you keep playing the what-can-i-do-to-impress-her game, you will always end up chasing your tail.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 07:20 PM
1

They're not mutually exclusive concepts. Your SMV is directly proportional to how little you give a fuck.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 04:29 PM
1

It's true, but it depends on OP's history of masturbation to pornography. Assuming this is something he's done for a very long time, it takes far more than one week of abstinence from masturbating to pornography for your brain to rewire properly to overcome ED.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 06:29 PM
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Get off porn. It desensitizes the reward centers of your brain which ultimately sends signals through your spinal cord to your penis to release blood into it. The more desensitized your brain is to the images of naked women, the weaker the signals are to your penis. Check out r/ nofap.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 02:31 PM
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I swear I'd kiss you if I wasn't straight. This is really useful stuff. Asking some girls if they want to head to your place and pregame before you go out dancing is almost unfair, especially if your house is located directly next to the bar. This one works wonders, because even if you don't escalate right then and there, she's already seen the inside of your place, so she knows you aren't a psycho. She is already comfortable with the idea of being at your place. Then throughout the night as you…
/r/askTRP30/11/15 01:40 AM
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That's a good way to look at it. Could you prescribe some good pointers for getting her back to my place? At what point do you suggest it during the date? How do you ask her?
/r/askTRP29/11/15 11:30 PM
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That's a good way to look at it. I just think there's such a huge emphasis on confidence, that it causes you to constantly keep score of the things you say and do, which in the grand scheme, probably don't matter as much. You're right, it's usually the small stuff. For example, I accidentally spilled a bit of my drink on the table and when the waitress came by, I apologized for the mess. My date then said "That was your queue to ask for a napkin"...d'oh. It's just stupid things like that I over-…
/r/askTRP29/11/15 11:28 PM
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This the crux of my question. Is this a question of poor SMV or AWALT???
/r/askTRP29/11/15 11:07 PM
2

There's two sources of self-doubt I have (and I'm working on them): I'm not confident enough to lead like a man. There's always small things here and there that I screw up during the date that I try to replay in my head after and learn from. I'm 6'0 tall and 160 lbs. You could say that I'm "in shape" but I feel like I could be more muscular. I really am starting to see the wisdom behind the "do you even lift" mentality on this subreddit.
/r/askTRP29/11/15 11:02 PM
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I usually go in for the kiss towards the end to avoid any awkward rejection - e.g. if I go for the kiss during the date and she gives me cheek, I would feel awkward through the rest of the date. Admittedly, I've suggested going back to my place, and they usually say something to the effect of "no". At that point, I feel it's just too awkward to keep pursuing. This is not to say that I haven't banged a girl on the first date, I just find after many dates, this is starting to become an unreasonabl…
/r/askTRP29/11/15 10:56 PM
1

He's no bro
/r/askTRP28/11/15 07:20 AM
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Only after sex
/r/askTRP28/11/15 12:06 AM
1

For fuck's sake, touch her and caress her. Start of with innocuous touches on her arm and slowly work your way around her non-errogenous regions throughout the night. Go in for the kiss when she stares at your lips. Escalate, escalate, ESCALATE.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 11:57 PM
3

Jesus Christ...400 grams of protein per day??? Why in the blue hell do you need that much protein???
/r/askTRP27/11/15 11:49 PM
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You don't react because in the grand scheme of things, why does it matter? You're an adult, not a teenager anymore. Stuff like that shouldn't phase you.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 08:15 PM
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There's a difference between being needy and taking the lead. You want to share your presence with her; you do not need her presence. When she reaches out to you, ask her when she's free to get together. Then tell her you "want to take her to x on y date at z time". If she says yes, great. If no...meh.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 03:02 AM
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Stop giving her attention, flirt with other women, work out, live an awesome life...who cares if she notices? Your outcome-independent vibe will most likely retrigger her attraction for you, but like I said, you really shouldn't care :)
/r/askTRP18/11/15 08:16 PM
1

Thanks for the advice. Just curious about your last comment, what do I need to be careful about?
/r/askTRP17/11/15 05:19 AM
1

Never EVER give off a relationship vibe with a chick. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. A 'relationship' infers some form of commitment, so it's a woman's job to pursue that type of thing with you and hopefully get you to accept her appeal for exclusivity. Your job is to just to escalate, fuck, have a good time, and repeat. Here's a good line that I always use that just gets the tingles going in a woman: If she confronts you about what you're looking fo…
/r/askTRP13/11/15 11:30 PM
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I like this quote from Marcus Aurelius - one of the greatest stoic philosophers: People try to get away from it all - to the country, to the beach, to the mountains. You always wish that you could too. Which is idiotic: you can get away from it anytime you like. By Going Within. Nowhere you can go is more peaceful - more free of interruptions - than your own soul. Especially if you have other things to rely on. An instant's recollection and there it is: complete tranquillity. And by tranquillity…
/r/askTRP13/11/15 10:50 PM
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Just tell her you texted her a few days ago. If she doesn't reply or still acts aloof, don't respond...move on to another chick. Dude, you are conveying a non-abundant mentality. If an alpha was banging 10 chicks, do you think he would care if one of them played stupid games with him? No, he would ignore it, and move on to the other chicks. As an aside, if she picks up the vibe that you simply don't care, her hamster will start rationalizing to her that she might've screwed up with a man of valu…
/r/askTRP13/11/15 10:34 PM
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Yeah, that raised a bit of an alarm bell in my mind when I read it. I just met her one time lol
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:01 AM
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I injured my rotator cuff and I haven't done any upper body exercises in over half a year. It hurts, but there's always a silver lining. It forces you to acknowledge reality and your own fallibility. It makes you smarter in how you train, and in turn, is can enable you to grow stronger in the future. First thing when injured: See a doctor. He'll do some simple diagnostics andrequisition an ultrasound to figure out what's going on under the hood. Once that's assessed, and depending on the severit…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 03:21 AM
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This is literally one of the finest comments I've seen on TRP.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 06:39 AM
1

Grow a beard and dress more rugged. I get the sense that you have a high maintenance look, which most likely gives off a gay vibe. Also, if you already do so, don't smile so much. Smiling is a subconscious form of submission. Don't mistaken this for smirking.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 02:18 AM
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Your post reads like you still have a lot to learn: Fighting at a bar and bragging about it on here gets you no points. If anything, alphas know how to avoid fights. Hitting on another guy's gf - Dick move dude, dick move. Who the fuck cares if she's interested or not? The fact that you're still engaging and talking about an ex means you still have a bit of one-itis.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 10:23 PM
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Women are fickle. They do get bored. Becoming too nice, too available, too predictable will cause her to lose interest. Dread + move on to other chicks. As you say, she is a plate after all.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 01:52 PM
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She either likes what she sees or she doesn't. You can't negotiate attraction. Escalate and fuck. If she doesn't want to play along, move the fuck on.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 07:15 PM
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There is an endless supply of local women if you've got good game and can maintain an alpha frame - suggesting that you should keep in touch with some long distance chicks indicates a scarcity mentality. Forget them and move on to other chicks.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 08:26 PM
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Read Marcus Aurelius' book called "Meditations". It will teach how to remain stoic in difficult circumstances. When a woman or anybody angers you or tests you, you just need to realize that it's really just that - a test. Once you become concious of this, it becomes easier to deal with it.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 02:54 PM
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Losing your virginity to a hooker in the hunter-gatherer sense is meaningless. Society works so hard to implant a lot of things in people's minds that, in the end of the day, are totally meaningless. From a physiological standpoint, your dick doesn't care about what her profession is. Just make sure she's not some cheap hoe that you can potentially get an STD from. Don't kiss her, don't go down on her, and make sure you cover up.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 03:01 AM
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See hookers. They will keep you pleased and will keep things confidential/drama-free - it's their business to do so.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 03:26 PM
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Why in the blue fuck is your wife instructing you on which shoes to buy?? What are you, her personal doll?? You tell her to go find something to buy in another store and you go shopping for shoes on your own. Dude, man up.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:47 PM
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You act like a man by confidently flirting with women you find attractive. Whether you have a nice job or make decent coin surprisingly doesn't have as much an effect on women as we men like to think. If you feel your game needs work, then work on that. Get her #, meet up, escalate, and fuck. Thinking that you can only score women in college or that it's easier during your college years is a self-limiting belief. There are boatloads of single beautiful women out there waiting to be approached by…
/r/askTRP04/10/15 04:02 AM
0

The house of who gives a fuck?
/r/askTRP04/10/15 03:56 AM
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Could it be anti-slut defense or a test to figure out if you can take the lead like a man should? I've always agreed with the thought that sex has to always be the man's fault.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 03:47 AM
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Any willingness on your end to keep chasing her will only solidify her rationale to stay further away from you. Go radio silence. If she really likes you, she'll come back to you. If she doesn't, then you still win because you realize she didn't really feel attracted to you in the first place and you live too awesome a life to care about that shit. You just move on to a better girl. Honestly man, this is a case of one-itis - it keeps your mind and spirit in chains. T I'll leave you a quote from …
/r/askTRP23/09/15 05:08 PM
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If you try to love a woman the same way she is meant to love a man, you're doing it wrong. You are the gate keeper of commitment, always precarious in your feelings for her. She should want to chase you; nor the other way around. Women will argue with you until they're blue in the face, but there is an incongruence between what women say they want and what they actually want.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 09:46 PM
2

12 steps of dread if you want to have sex with this broad.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 09:41 PM
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You're lucky. I learned the hard way by trying to chase an ex in the most beta way possible before learning TRP...I'm still trying to erase that escapade from my memory heh
/r/askTRP16/09/15 05:48 PM
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There's a nice analogy about chasing after exs: It's like trying to find an item in the garbage that's already at the curb: You get messy as fuck trying to find it. Your neighbours see you doing it. Even if you do find the thing you're looking for, it's lost its value. Time to move on bud. It's good that you posted here because a community of people with an objective viewpoint can give you a better sense of perspective.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 03:11 AM
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The book of pook is pretty damn good for fixing your inner game. Of all the resources I've perused, it really changed my way of thinking about game. Here's the free source: https://bookofpook.neocities.org/
/r/askTRP15/09/15 02:07 AM
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It's too much white knighting to care about the girls. They've been disrespected, they walk away, nothing happens. The end. By letting something like this get to you to the point where you need to post in on this forum means you haven't mastered your mental frame. I'm not judging you because, frankly, it's not something that's easy to master. Just let stuff like that roll off your shoulders because you lead too awesome a life to care. Next time somebody says something like that, just remember th…
/r/askTRP15/09/15 01:45 AM
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"Easy there...I haven't even seen you in person yet. See you Tuesday ;)" It's all about frame control. Make her feel guilty for seeming eager. If you reciprocate in a way that demonstrates you're equally or more eager, you lose power and she loses the tingles.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 07:14 PM
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Deep house. Bitches love deep house.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 04:53 AM
1

You could do that, and if she gives a counter offers with a different date, it's on. If she gives some wishy-washy non-committal response, then the attraction isn't as good as you think. Remember, when a woman feels attracted to you, she's opening doors for you, not closing them.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 06:24 PM
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Not AWALT. I've texted women several days later, and they didn't feel butthurt about it. Remember, this is the proverbial "honeymoon" phase where small behaviors evolve into bigger things down the road...
/r/askTRP12/09/15 06:23 PM
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If a girl gives you flak for not responding within a time period, it's a red flag in my opinion - a precursor to crazy/clingy behaviour down the road. Proceed with caution. She's looking to see if you'll buckle and apologize (operate within her frame) or be a man and let it roll off your shoulders. "I was busy saving the world. Sup?" "Uh-oh...hope you're not the stalker type lol" Your best option: ignore the comment and ask her "when she's free to get together again"...texting should be used for…
/r/askTRP12/09/15 05:58 PM
1

As a general rule of thumb, service workers usually say nice things/smile to make you feel good so that you come back to shop. That's not to say she wasn't interested, but you would need more IOIs than an innocuous compliment.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 04:05 PM
2

The BITTER COLD TRUTH is the answer lies in the question itself. The approach IS the best approach. What you say is immaterial; it just depends on WHO is saying it. TRP teaches you to improve your physical and mental strength. Women usually make the decision whether they want to fuck you or not within the first 5-10 seconds of meeting you, abd this decision is largely based on how manly she PERCEIVES you to be. It's just a matter of going through the motions and making small talk that escalates …
/r/askTRP12/09/15 03:59 PM
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Escalate and fuck. If she doesn't play along, move the fuck on.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 03:43 PM
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Dude, you've already answered your own question. She's a plate, and by definition, it means you're not looking to get anything out of her other than sex. Who cares if she's seeing some other dude, just keep banging her and expect nothing more than that in return.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 03:40 PM
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There are guys who look alpha in cheap clothes and beta in expensive clothes, so there's no reason to worry about wearing things that look expensive. I would argue that wearing expensive clothing will signal the WRONG message if you can't own it (e.g. attracts the gold-digging, high maintenance divas). If you work out and get fit, almost anything will look good, but keep these pointers in mind: Wear the right god damned fit (not too baggy and not too tight). If you get jacked, you'd be surprised…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 03:06 AM
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I hate to say this, but you should've fucked her on the couch
/r/askTRP08/09/15 11:49 PM
1

DGAF...it's easy to understand, but HARD to practice. You need to master your inner-game before you start implementing outer-game to score pussy. Abundance mentality ALWAYS.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 05:22 AM
1

She's testing whether I'm going to supplicate to her demand, which I not only NOT do, but I reassert my frame by suggesting that I'm smarter than her. Flip the script when shit tested.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 07:12 PM
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My pleasure. Learn, practice, share, repeat.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 02:43 AM
2

No shirtless pics. They're not actually not that necessary. Check out my edit to the post and you'll see what pics I post.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:54 AM
1

My pleasure. Use everything you want.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:53 AM
1

I'm not perfect, and I'm going to keep mastering this craft. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:53 AM
1

Because she wants to know how convenient it is to come over to my place to fuck. If I had a roomate or lived with my parents, she might have second thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:52 AM
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It takes a lot of reading. What you see is the result of MANY MANY mistakes and painful internal reflection. You will learn if you stay focused.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:51 AM
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No problem man. I was where you are before. I had no idea, and it honestly felt strange to say some of the things I was seeing other people say. Growth requires pain, and stepping out of your comfort zone is painful at first, but it will feel better. Keep improving yourself brother.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:50 AM
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Thanks bro, glad I can help.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:49 AM
3

Texting is not meant for complete sentences. You need to expunge that thought. Unless you are writing to your parents or your boss, save the grammar.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:20 AM
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Because it shows that IDGAF....don't write text messages in complete sentences. It just looks like you're trying too hard.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 08:32 PM
5

Hmm, I like the nutella line...I think I'm going to use that :)
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 03:13 AM
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hahaha...you guys are too much!
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 02:43 AM
3

Making your anxiety known to her in any way shape or form will only signal to her that you can easily become unglued by her interaction with other men. Women don't like that and it is usually the excuse they need to cheat on you. Maintain frame and don't allow it to bother you. Abundance mentality, ALWAYS.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 05:09 PM
1

I did, and I get it, a boost in testosterone will definitely help in attracting females not only because it increases muscle mass, but it also makes your behaviour more manly. I'm just wrestling with the concept that you need SOME nurturing traits in order to KEEP a woman. I keep reading that the whole dark-triad approach is great for short-term relationships, but is counter-productive for LTR. I guess you get where I'm going with this. I have no problem dating multiple women and spinning plates…
/r/askTRP09/08/15 03:53 PM
1

lol wut
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:33 AM
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"No big deal. Let me know if you change your mind." Leave the door open..
/r/askTRP10/07/15 06:46 PM
1

Those Autistic men from The Big Bang Theory....hahaha, good one. I see your point.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 03:55 AM
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I understand what you're saying, but would it not make sense to start befriending alphas to get first-hand experience in terms of their attitudes, mannerisms, way of speaking, etc? I appreciate everything I'm learning through the Red Pill, but I also feel like it would be helpful to see how this stuff is applied by the pros.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 12:16 AM
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I appreciate what you're saying, and believe me, I try to be as diplomatic about it as possible, but I feel like their potential conversion to a more alpha outlook through my constant persuasion is A LOT tougher than integrating with some alphas.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 11:44 PM
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Correct, do not initiate contact. When she does contact you, joke about the broken phone. Then quickly try to setup the next date. "Babe, it's great to hear from you. When are you free to get together again?" . . . If she responds with a wishy washy answer: "Great, let me know when your schedule's tighter." If she responds positively with "X, Y, or Z date." Then you tell her to get her butt over to your place, and bring a bottle of wine. Have fun, hook up. Like a game of chess, easy right?
/r/askTRP28/06/15 11:38 PM
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Dude...RESIST contacting her. Go splash some water on your face. DO NOT CONTACT. You will hammer the last nail in the coffin of this relationship if you do.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 11:29 PM
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You're right. I've noticed the girls in the group subconsciously feeling attracted to me (e.g. eye contact, hair twirling, etc.). Don't get me wrong, it feels good to be "the leader of the losers", but I really want to start meeting other people who are more alpha. I feel I can learn a lot from their mannerisms, attitudes towards life/women, etc.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 11:26 PM
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I feel a few things: All my pictures on facebook are with them. I get the feeling if I meet a hot chick (>8/10), and she connects with me through facebook, the house of cards will fall when she sees I'm only hanging out with beta losers. Going out with them is also a detriment because when we go to places like bars, events, etc., I noticed that women are less likely to pay attention to us because of how nerdy we are. They always seems to disagree with the advice I give to the single guys in the …
/r/askTRP28/06/15 11:21 PM
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Think of it this way: Women are like cats. If you've ever had a pet cat, one day it's rubbing against your leg and purring, the next day it's mia, roaming the neighbourhood. Eventually, the cat does come back and purrs against your legs; however, if you keep chasing the cat, what does it do? It runs the hell away. Constant chasing is one of the most unattractive qualities a guy can exhibit to a woman. Remember, she needs to be chasing you MOST of the time.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 11:15 PM
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Avoid confrontation. Just keep it playful. Say "I'll keep you busy when you're not with him ;)". It shows that you're not affected by this other dude. Either way, if she makes it clear there's another dude in the picture, always keep the door open in case you want more of her pussy. Start approaching other women. Let it go. Trust me. I've been where you are, and it's EXTREMELY tough, but you WILL get past her.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 11:10 PM
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No...ask her what's wrong with her phone? She has your number, her phone works, she could've contact you...simple, right?
/r/askTRP28/06/15 10:45 PM
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Radio silence that shit. Let her run back to you...if that's what you want. Resist the urge to contact her. AT. ALL. COSTS. You are in a hole right now. Every self-initiated contact digs you deeper into this hole. Start dating other chicks ASAP.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 10:30 PM
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If she's really into you, do you wait longer or text sooner?
/r/askTRP16/06/15 03:14 PM
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You almost have to be like a TV interviewer. Get them to talk about themselves more than you talk about yourself. This achieves two things: It alleviates your need to talk so much (great for the lazy). When a person is given the opportunity to talk about him/herself, this subconsciously causes that person to associate you with a good feeling - everyone likes to talk about their own life. (Note: this is really effective with seducing women). You just need to smile, throw in a few light hearted jo…
/r/askTRP14/06/15 06:49 PM
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I got tired of her shit and it lead me to believe that she was using my attention for her own narcissistic needs. Her initiated texts would never materialize into any sort of meetup, so I cut her loose.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 03:53 AM
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Jesus Christ, that's an amazing way to look at it!
/r/askTRP07/03/15 09:53 PM
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Good point. A relationship should not become the end-all-be-all of a man's life. If I approach a relationship in that respect, then I think the needy/clingy behaviour will dissipate. Thanks man!
/r/askTRP07/03/15 07:22 PM
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Amen brother.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 04:47 PM
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I think the one thing I left out in my description is that she was always really polite/nice in her responses, but that's no excuse for my beta behaviour. I will block her out of my mind, and you're right, that's probably what is happening. She wasn't LTR material anyway to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 05:59 AM
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You know, I thought about the last part your said. It wasn't really my fault that she was being flaky, and I should've nipped it at the bud there...but my sense of attraction for her that had built up over three months got the better of me. I guess I just need to develop a seonse of perspective when it comes to these things.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 05:58 AM
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You're absolutely right. It's not just a burden, it's mental torture. I accept that it was her who dumped me and not the other way around. Thanks for the advice man.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 05:57 AM
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You're right. It's as if I'm trying to negotiate attraction here. It doesn't work, so I'm going to stop. Thanks for the advice!
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 05:56 AM
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That's a clever statement :) I'll keep that one in my back pocket in case it happens again! Thanks dude.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 04:30 AM
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I think you're both right. It's just so sudden, and we were really decent towards each other, that it's hard for me to suddenly become so nippy towards her...but I see your point.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 04:30 AM
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Already deleted all the texts. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 04:28 AM
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You're right, I really liked her to the point where I became needy. She seemed perfect to me, but fuck...I bet there are loads of women out there like her waiting to be approached by me. I will not make these silly mistakes again. No more needy texts. Thanks brother.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 04:28 AM
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Your advice is the best of all. Thanks.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 03:43 AM
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Got it, thanks man!
/r/askTRP14/12/14 08:39 PM
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Thanks, man. You're right, she does seem high maintenance and I did get the impression throughout the date that she loves money and is very career focused, which put me off a bit too. I will definitely incorporate more physical contact the next time, within reason (i.e. interpreting her IOIs). Lastly, the next time I go out on a first date, I won't be the first one to text back. I'll leave that to her. If she does contact me again, I'll invite her to something I've already made plans for with so…
/r/askTRP14/12/14 07:32 PM
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This is eye-opening advice. Should I have escalated with a kiss to the cheek in the end? Should I have waited longer to contact her again? How should I have contacted her? I'll ask her out once more this weekend using your advice.
/r/askTRP14/12/14 06:56 PM
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