It's critical to let a woman pick up a sexual vibe from your text approach as early as POSSIBLE. The problem, as some of you may have encountered using dating apps and text, is that women are put off by gratuitous sexual advances - dick pics, "Down to fuck?", "Let's be fuck buddies", etc. The reason why is because you haven't ESCALATED. Believe it or not, texting actually is part of foreplay, and any sexually active woman will tell you how much they value foreplay. The opposite approach, which is being a nice guy who is afraid to be sexual....well, you should know by now where that takes you - if not, I encourage you to read the sidebar.
The conventional wisdom on TRP and the manosphere is to use texting for logistical purposes only, and this certainly has its merits - you want to present a busy alpha abundant mentality. Also, things can go sideways if you don't know what you're doing; however, once you advance in your journey towards masculinity, you will start having fun with texting. As an important part of seduction in this day and age (almost all women in their 20s and 30s prefer texting as an initial form of communication), it's important for you to master this skill set.
Long story short, I met a woman at a club - solid 8.5-9/10. I was tired, so I just got her number and walked away. A couple days later, I tried to set up a drink date with her, and she flaked, so I let it go - no big deal. Fast forward EIGHT MONTHS later, and I suddenly texted her again via Whatsapp. Now before you think this is beta behaviour, it's not - you should leave women in the 'back burner to simmer' while you actively pursue other prospects. A woman may have no interest in you at a specific time for a million reasons that have nothing to do with you, but then magically, she's suddenly available and receptive some time later.
Here's the text conversation that ultimately culminated in a first-date lay. There are a few important takeaways here:
- Be patient - don't move from 0 to 100 in your text.
- Be sexual in a way that describes what she will feel - but also see point 1.
- Tap into her emotions by taking risks - a descriptive role play scenario is an incredibly powerful way of tapping into her emotions. Think about why 'Fifty Shades of Grey' is so popular.
- Keep escalating towards a useful conclusion - get her to agree to a date ASAP.
- As the leader, you end the conversation - don't let it linger.
- Most importantly, have fun!
http://imgur.com/hPlNg3F
Edit: Direct link in case link above doesn't work http://i.imgur.com/hPlNg3F.jpg
Hope this helps some of you guys in your Red Pill journey!
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