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How can I increase success with middle eastern girls as a white male?

Jillian_de_Luc

June 17, 2016
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Title How can I increase success with middle eastern girls as a white male?
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Jillian_de_Luc

Upvotes 5
Comments 14
Date June 17, 2016 10:20 PM UTC
(10 years ago)
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[–]Plan_of_Action 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

As a fellow white man reading this I'm sure you're triggering a fuck load of Indian dudes right now. Lol

[–]Jillian_de_Luc[S] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Haha, why is that? LOL

[–]Glennus626 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because all they do is come onto trp and whine about never getting the time of day from any shade of woman because they are a) not a doctor, b) do not impress her family, c) do not lift, d) have a small penis due to be a smaller asian/indian guy, etc., etc., etc.

[–]needless_pickup_line 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Don't try to connect with her about her homeland or background. All its gonna do is make your job harder. I see white dudes talking to Arab girls saying bullshit like how much they love hummus. Best case scenario you look incredibly thirsty, worst case scenario you look straight ignorant.

Accept that you're a white dude. Don't hide it. Be as aggressively white and stereotypical as possible. A middle eastern girl is dating a white guy for a reason. Ethnic girls want the frat parties, blue eyes, music festivals, flannel shirts, etc so make sure you can provide that.

[–]rubenbrasil 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This. I think there was a post on RedPill about how to pull asians as a fucking white male. Itd be the same approach. But if youre too lazy to read it, its basically be a fucking white male. Thats what she wants. The same way you want a Middle Eastern chick. You dont want her acting like a white girl. Just be a channin tatum-type alpha jock white boy that barbeques and hangs out with your boys.

[–]inaddictaquate 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Say naughty things like, "I'm going to make you eat in the middle of the day during Ramadan."

They're the same. They're women craving it.

[–]lionofthejungle 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

As a middle eastern guy, I hate dating middle eastern girls. It took me a long time to figure out why, but I finally realized that they were looking for something 'different' when we date - like they want to start a family or something. They play that prudish angle so hard, which is why I basically stopped dating them altogether.

North American chicks are the best - easier, less clingy, and less dramatic.

[–]Jillian_de_Luc[S] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

I get where you're coming from, but I met some girls with great personalities who are pretty westernized, so there not that clingy and their expectations are more rational. I find North American chicks to have horrendous personalities which makes even initiating sex fucking worthless. I'm also not trying to date some muslim girl who's trying to convince me to convert to her religion and propose marriage. I'm more interested in non-muslim Middle Eastern chicks, I find them physically attractive. Any advice with that?

[–]lionofthejungle 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well my experience indicates they are quite stuck up and prudish. They are also very narcissistic in so far as always feeling the need to be excessively dolled up - they just cake on the make up which is another turn off for me.

Overall if you want to experience the headache, give it a shot.

PS: they're pretty lame in bed.

[–]Kosnagoo 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Depends on the type of Middle Eastern girl of course, as they range all across the spectrum. As previously commented, women universally do want a masculine man in charge of his shit. It really depends on your location that you are, and where and how the Middle Eastern girls are bred.

Just try to picture their fathers. Middle Eastern dads and men are one of the most complex men to understand. Just look at Saudi Arabia and how they treat women as property. Then imagine you grow up as a man (in already male dominant household), get married to a woman your country has taught you should be treated as objects, and then have a child that turns out to be a girl. The one thing that you have been restricted from talking to, touching, laughing with.. the whole shabang.

Middle Eastern girls are my favorite. Cheers!

[–]Jillian_de_Luc[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm interested in dating non-muslim Middle Eastern girls. The issue is that I'm hesitant to initiate any physically contact since they keep talking about the expectations of their parents etc.

I'm pretty in charge of my shit, just not sure how to break the cultural barrier. Any advice on that ?

[–]Kosnagoo 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Do you want a long term relationship or just a fling? I would recommend to consider learning a little bit about the culture. Just learning to say "hi" in Arabic, Persian, Lebanese, what have you, can go a long way for them. It's great for opening and after some small talk and having her explain the rest of her culture to you, it will paint a good picture of her ideals and values, leaving you to decide how you want to spin it.

Middle eastern women are probably the most sexually repressed women. Don't be afraid to initiate any physical contact, as they are secretly begging for it. That being said, you should start slow and build up the physical contact gradually and nonchalantly. You almost want to make a statement that in white people culture, they touch a lot. Slowly bring her into your world and lead by action! Don't be the typical white knight white guy. Cheers!

[–]durrycharger69 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women universally want one thing.

A masculine man in charge of his shit.

I don't know the specifics, but really if you have that down under and lift, then you should have no problems.

[–]alphakari 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Depends on how americanized she is, if she's mildly frustrated wearing a hijab all the time, etc. That said, arab immigrant fathers are ultra protective of their honor, provided vicariously by their daughters. Real talk, have heard fathers tell their daughter to do things from drop out of college to telling them over the phone that they intend to burn the house down on account of them dating a black dude.

It really depends how immersed in her culture/religion she is. In the end though, if you give her tingles, it's all the same rules.

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