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| 3 | I go out to dance with my girlfriend, guy “friend” of ours asks me in front of her if he can dance with her… what’s the best response?If this was a salsa/bachata type thing then you're way overreacting. Just take a break and grab a drink, or go dance with other girls. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 04:14 PM |
| 5 | Why are girls getting pregnant in their party years?Religious, conservative, small-town, etc girls get married early. Not uncommon to see engagements in college. Same thing for girls with military boyfriends. Covid also has had a huge impact on relationships. A lot of uncertainty (including financial) so timelines accelerated and people moving fast. People getting covid dogs and having covid kids. I think a good chunk of these couples are going to break up in the next year as things go back to normal. Anecdotally: I'm not sure what's going on med… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Found out girlfriend has had a MMF threesomeMeh. Plenty of people start to act out a fetish/fantasy then regret it partway through. I'd still keep an eye out though. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 03:59 PM |
| 5 | How to go about splitting rent with ltrThis conversation should have been had before she moved in. 50/50 is nice in theory but not realistic. At minimum she should be paying either her old rent or 25% of your current rent, whichever is greater. If she works less than you I would also expect her to contribute around the house. Based on your description, if you ask her to start paying rent she will probably break up with you. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 04:16 PM |
| 25 | Any good cologne recommendations?I use Versace Eros. Always get compliments. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 05:08 AM |
| 1 | High value guy - thought I had vetted LTR well - she cheated with a fat loser.Some people are just self-destructive :/ Also, it's probably a lot of pressure being with you. She can take it easier with him, if that makes sense. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Accidentally found out the list of conquests of the girl i am seeing.Dude even if you didn't care about her n-count, 26 is way too old to be making lists of the guys she's hooked up with. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Does the 80/20 rule apply to women too?Yeah it gets more competitive every year. It's especially tough now since you need to be attractive enough to get a girl to risk covid lol. I think things will definitely be easier post-pandemic and everyone is trying to party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Does the 80/20 rule apply to women too?Absolutely. But on dating apps there are way more men than women AND guys will swipe on a lot of girls. So on Tinder, I see it as 80% of guys will reliably swipe right on the top 20% of women. As you get closer to the bottom percentages of women, less and less guys are swiping right. Average women (the middle 50%) still get likes, but the women at the top are getting the majority. However there are so many men, with a range of standards, that even women at the bottom can still get matches. While… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 07:08 AM |
| 2 | Does the 80/20 rule apply to women too?Right. I agree on you about average girls vs average guys. I'm saying that if we switch the desired currency from what men want (sex) to what women want (attention/validation) then I think we could see an 80/20 rule for women. So 20% of women are getting 80% of the followers, likes, relationships, resources, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 06:40 AM |
| 11 | Does the 80/20 rule apply to women too?If the 80/20 rule applies to men, by definition it can't also apply to women. But I could see a corollary where 20% of women are getting 80% of the attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Slowly entering LTR with some lower SMV but very street smart, stimulating broad. Need advice.Right now you're focused on her background. The family stuff is way more concerning than the drugs and tattoos, to me at least. Attraction and compatibility don't really matter too much when considering LTR, because at bare minimum you should have that with girls who are just plates. (It's mentally exhausting to be performative RP man with a girl you don't actually vibe with, and if she's not attractive then what's even the point?) What you really need to look at is respect and value. Does she r… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 02:59 AM |
| 4 | 2021 Predictions for the Sexual Market [Warning Politics]The author did a podcast with Sam Harris as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/20 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Where should I game during pandemic as an 36M guy?Maybe they're not perfect 10s but every girl I'm arranging a date with is attractive. It's also zero investment to just make a profile and scope things out. I can't imagine that the quality of girl you're going to get from approaching on the street is anything special. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Where should I game during pandemic as an 36M guy?Better than cold approaching during a pandemic. I have a date lined up for tomorrow. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Where should I game during pandemic as an 36M guy?Dating apps. A lot of girls on Hinge. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Genuinely curious if women can understand where men are coming fromRight, and those are some nuances that are often lost in the reddit AITA/relationship-advice social drama discussions. The problem is that we (and the husband) have no way of knowing if she has a legitimate reason to not do anal OR she's just not as sexually attracted to her current bf/husband. One possibility is that she did this whatever sex act with a past boyfriend and hated it, but felt obligated to because “that’s what good girlfriends do”... in which case no it’s just likely going to caus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 04:42 PM |
| 11 | Genuinely curious if women can understand where men are coming fromThe dinner date is a good analogy. When I was younger I would take a girl to dinner on the first date. Now I no longer do that. But just because a current girl doesn't get taken out to dinner immediately doesn't mean I like her less. I think where it breaks down is in situations where a woman is dating multiple guys simultaneously. And in that same time frame she is make the relationship prospect wait while having sex with the supposedly less important men. The other similar situation is the ste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 07:28 AM |
| 5 | What are the best colognes?Go to the mall, get some samplers, see what you like. Important thing is to see how they chemically interact with your natural scent. If you have any plates it's a fun way to kill an evening. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 09:59 PM |
| 2 | The hottest girls I’ve gone out with turned into FWB. Less attractive girls don’t want to date.Exactly. This is the equivalent of a girl trying to friendzone you or shit testing too much and you peacing out. They can sense a lack of genuine interest. If you have more attractive girls you can fuck, why are you bothering with these girls in the first place? | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 09:46 PM |
| 3 | LTR'ing a girl that was the side piece?We all do dumb shit in high school. But also you're a fucking idiot if you believe her about n count. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/20 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with RacismRecord the next meeting. Be professional and don't engage when he says something racist. Afterwards get a second opinion from POC friends to make sure it's not all in your head. Then report him with the evidence to your college's office for diversity/equity/inclusion/etc. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Is It Disrespectful To Make "Boyfriend Material" Men Wait?I mean, it's the same thing as a guy deciding to start making girls wait before taking them on expensive dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 05:34 PM |
| 4 | My gf hit meAlternative answer: Life isn't always black and white. It really depends on the context. You said she's supported you through some hard stuff and that some heated things were being said, but that's incredibly vague. None of us were there. I'm not saying violence is ok, but if she literally saved your life and then you said something really fucked up and offensive to her then I can see why she would hit you after 2 years without incident. You need to decide if it's worth working through this. But… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 01:30 AM |
| 41 | Catch-22: if she puts out quickly for you, she’s not relationship material because it means she’s easy and can’t be trusted in an LTR. If she doesn’t, it means she’s done it with other guys but not for you and sees you as relationship and possibly even bb material. What do?Time until sex is arbitrary. Logistics plays a big part and those are always variable. As long as you're not waiting for a month it doesn't matter. If it's just a plate, who cares if she fucked Chad on the first date and you on the third. Get your dick wet and be on your way. If it's a relationship, you should be focusing on the quality/enthusiasm of sex and how well she treats you overall. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 09:15 PM |
| 1 | What’re you guys doing on dates now?See if there's a drive-in movie place open. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 06:14 AM |
| 1 | When she says “Let’s get to know each other here first” and it’s derivatives on tinder, instagram...I've had success just chatting for a few days then moving to a meet. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 12:37 AM |
| 2 | When she says “Let’s get to know each other here first” and it’s derivatives on tinder, instagram...I've had success just chatting for a few days then moving to a meet. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 12:36 AM |
| 15 | Gay men?Why do some men hit on women that they know have boyfriends and have clearly told them that they're not single. Sometimes it works. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 09:21 PM |
| 3 | How can I dress like a man with eyeglasses without looking beta?Ditch the thick black square hipster glasses. Nowadays the trend is round/aviator lenses, frameless or thin gold frame. If your eyesight is bad and you need thick frames, then clear frames are a good look too. Play around with different shapes and see what looks good on you. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 05:49 PM |
| 12 | What's with all the out of touch old women that think Porn/video games are the root cause of the rise in sexlessness?Except the drive is far different from 40 years ago. It'll take way less gas, you can ride in the comfort of AC and a full sound system, GPS can navigate you to the point of basically driving blindly, and if you get into an accident you're exponentially more likely to walk away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/19 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Has your penis size affected your plate?(M18)I mean If 55th percentile isn't big, then 45th is small. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 12:31 PM |
| 5 | American men under 30 are getting less sexSimilarly, I've seen some people say that 80/20 is applicable twice. That is, within the top 80% girls and 20% guys, the top 64% of girls are hooking up with the top 4% of guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | are looks really all that matters?Now you're switching the topic from "which sex judges looks more harshly" to "which sex derives more value from looks". Let me rephrase my statement: Men care more about looks, but women have a higher standard for looks. The main component of a woman's SMV is her appearance, but plenty of men are fine with average looking girls. Men have multiple components to their SMV, but women aren't satisfied with an average looking guy unless he can make up for it in other tangible ways. So yes, you can ha… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 03:52 PM |
| 1 | are looks really all that matters?Sure, but you were asking where there was proof that women judge men harsher for looks. I'm pointing out that on the platform solely based on looks, men are judged harsher. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 06:36 AM |
| 1 | are looks really all that matters?Nah not even that. I mean the objective fact that women get exponentially more matches than guys. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 04:21 AM |
| 1 | are looks really all that matters?Tinder | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:16 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle when you and your buddy are into the same girl at a bar?The deal is I let him go first and I wingman. But if he's fucking up/she's not interested then I swoop in. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 07:20 PM |
| 3 | N count for LTRI mean, it's basically only 2 guys a year since she turned 18. Doesn't seem excessive. How she acts is way more important for an LTR than n-count. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 02:19 PM |
| 5 | Is indoor bouldering good for a date?If you lift regularly you will almost always be the biggest guy in a climbing gym. Most girls can barely do V1s, if at all. You'll be plenty impressive getting V3-4s even if some scrawny chalk monkey is doing a V8 next to you. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Why is it I lose my drive every so often?Melatonin/ZMA really help me wind down for bed. Also help suppress appetite if you tend to snack before bed. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 05:55 PM |
| 4 | Is banging chubby girls worth it?I thought women fuck up and date down? That's the whole basis of AF/BB. Although I guess for HB10s since they're already at the top they just stay in their lane. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 11:25 PM |
| 2 | white dude; is gaming black girls different?Nah. So many white girls out there breaking their backs tryna convince you they got booty. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 03:54 PM |
| 14 | Anybody else noticing more blackpill/incel-esque posts making it onto the main sub?Blackpill = looks are the only thing that matters. The name is based off Redpill - basically another paradigm shift. It goes hand in hand with incel thinking. We saw more in the past because incels was shut down and they migrated to various other boards. More recent posts I would attribute to Braincels getting more popular. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you stop masturbating without no sex?Fapping when you have plates is way different than fapping in a dry spell. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 09:07 PM |
| 7 | Bulking while bodybuilding makes my ass feel and look really fatJust the ass? Go with it, girls like it. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 08:54 PM |
| 2 | What cologne do you wear?Versace Eros is good too | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread May 07For me, I just set a clear line between "party drugs" and other drugs. So I might experiment with coke, molly, and psychedelics, but opiates, crack, meth, etc are all off limits. But tbh I've never been tempted by any of them anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 04:21 AM |
| 0 | In med school. Friend says girls are accusing me of touching them and I don't know what to do.She doesn't even want to be in the same room as me. I think hooking up is a stretch. You're second point makes more sense. I made a change last semester, I'll just bring things down even more. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 07:40 PM |
| 0 | In med school. Friend says girls are accusing me of touching them and I don't know what to do.Why? She's attracted to you. You're the second person to say this. I didn't consider it a possibility since she became upset very suddenly. We'll be apart for the summer so I think that will help cool things down. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | In med school. Friend says girls are accusing me of touching them and I don't know what to do.I don't know. You might be right. But we've been friends since August when classes started and was/is one of my closest friends here. I feel like we've been drunk together enough that if she was interested she would have made a move. If it was spite or jealousy, what's the end game? We stop being friends? | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with racist jokes and breaking frameI'm not white. It depends on what they say. Something actually funny? Referencing a black twitter meme or something. Agree and amplify. Ignorant but harmless? Like saying they're almost as tan as you or whatever. Acknowledge it and redirect. "Sure bro" They're usually just trying to connect with you and while you shouldn't encourage it, it's not worth making a scene about. Someone making a low effort joke to get a rise. Just turn your back on them and roll your eyes. Girls are hypersensitive to … | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 03:13 PM |
| 5 | What are side hustles you have worked on in your spare time that bring you extra income on top of a full-time job or study?Freelance graphic design. I'm in grad school and everyone always needs help making flyers and designing shirts. It's not consistent but I can make an easy $50-100 for a few hours of work. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 04:56 PM |
| 10 | I have been in NoFap for a month already...Cumming early (and going for round 2) is better than not getting it up. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Tinder just sent me a notification showing me how well I'm doing on itDon't overdo it. Dancing at the club isn't a performance, you just need to be able to move in time with the music. Easier if you're grinding with a girl and can just match her. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 01:55 PM |
| 10 | Tinder just sent me a notification showing me how well I'm doing on itNot OP. I stopped aiming for same night lays a while back. Difficult logistically and I would rather stay with my friends. I try to make a strong first impression and set up another date for later. About 50% success rate. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 01:50 PM |
| 1 | TRP Advice on dealing with non trp men and building a stronger social circle with men?What are those inside beliefs? Do you just mean RP opinions? | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 06:12 PM |
| 1 | TRP Advice on dealing with non trp men and building a stronger social circle with men?Being able to provide value without being supplicating. For the purpose of friendship with guys (and people in general), "value" is primarily a good time and secondarily support. Knowing how to tone down some of the RP alpha fucks mentality. Guys won't be your friend if they can't be comfortable around you, either regarding themselves or their sexual prospects. As opposed to gaming girls, becoming friends with a guy is more straightforward. More pull, less push. The general process is the same: … | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 03:00 PM |
| 11 | Stop Light Partys?Buy a random color solo cup (teal, black, orange, purple, etc) and use that. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 08:09 PM |
| 1 | LTR is threatening to leaveOf course it's possible, and I believe you. But in most cases it's not a good idea. So don't hard next her, because she has a point. You just soft next understanding that depending on how stubborn she is this is probably the end of the relationship | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 05:29 PM |
| 1 | LTR is threatening to leaveFor the record, if any guy posted on asktrp about his LTR still being friends with an ex, literally every single comment would be calling it a red flag/dealbreaker. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 04:17 PM |
| 8 | What makes a girl a "slut"? Is it just n-count?One of my big problems with normal TRP plate strategy. You screen girls primarily for sexual availability then say AWALT when they inevitably fuck up. One solution is to find a low n-count girl and train her to be more sexually open. I think that's a little naive, but whatever. Personally, I just proceed with girls as normal. I never ask about n-count. If we have sex the first night she's not eliminated from gf consideration. If we don't have sex by date 3 it's not the end of the world, assuming… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 04:01 PM |
| 13 | "Do you have a big dick" shit testAre you familiar with the term "micropenis"? | /r/askTRP | 15/02/18 06:57 PM |
| 5 | First FWB, returns from trip and is now distantYou have oneitis "Just text me when you're done being busy." That was your cue to set up a meet. Don't overthink it. In my experience plates always wobble when you/they go on a trip. It can be tricky to reinitiate and if the relationship was fragile to start then they usually break. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 02:28 PM |
| 1 | How to manage plates when you're busyI was skipping the gym and opting for bedroom cardio but I don't like doing it unless I have a high certainty the girl isn't going to flake. Assuming you only see one girl a week, that's still 4 days to exercise. Also, you work out late anyways so you would have ample time to hit the gym if a girl flakes. I have other girls I could attempt to start spinning but not really the time to do it without them quickly dropping. I was hoping some of you guys had experience with this. I usually do social … | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 08:03 PM |
| 10 | How to manage plates when you're busyGonna assume you can't see girls on the weekends. Understand that right now you have different priorities. Focus on school and don't stress yourself out. Nothing wrong with monk mode for a bit. Skip the gym once a week and have them come over and leave early rather than they spend the night and leave at 5am. Or you go over to their place and not spend the night. Lie to the last girl about your relationship goals and keep hooking up with her. Personally when I'm very busy I either go monk mode or… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 04:25 PM |
| 18 | What does TRP actually want from women?Sure you have. "How can I convince my friends TRP works?" | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 02:19 AM |
| 9 | Lifters of /asktrp, what is your diet? I need some easy to cook, staple-type meals with recipes / instructions.Broccoli is way better roasted. Toss broccoli with salt, pepper, and a small amount of olive oil. You can also add minced garlic if you have time. Spread them out on a sheet pan. Bake at 420 degrees for 20 minutes. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 04:27 AM |
| 2 | How do I find a job for 20 days?Maybe drive for Lyft/Uber. Plenty of holiday parties going on. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/17 09:21 PM |
| 1 | The “Too Busy” Excuse (Screenshot Included)No response or an "ok" is best. I think the vine response seems butthurt but if she's really into memes it could be the right move. Definitely don't confront. I agree about soft next. Just go contact and see if she reaches out. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Butt winkPause at the bottom. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Newly Single: Safe Sex vs RawNever said it was foolproof. Last line of my original comment said it was still risky. I don't think it's wrong to say that career women who originally insist on condoms are a safer bet than trashy/post-wall women who will let you fuck raw right away. And I'm not sure how you're different when you literally just said you're fucking a girl raw without birth control. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/17 10:15 PM |
| 17 | Newly Single: Safe Sex vs RawWell I'm convinced. Your one piece of anecdotal evidence has completely refuted my statement. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/17 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Newly Single: Safe Sex vs RawShould have made this clearer in the post. Generally smart, career women in their 20s want kids even less than you do and are religious with their birth control. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/17 09:50 PM |
| 13 | Newly Single: Safe Sex vs RawAs a rule, girl who let you go raw are not girls you want to fuck raw. If she lets you do it, she lets everyone. I agree, condoms suck. But if you want to spin plates (and especially if you fuck randoms) you gotta suck it up. Going raw is one benefit of LTRs. Generally you find a smart girl who insists on using condoms, then after building some comfort she'll let you go raw. Use the heat of the moment to your advantage. And the hotter you are, the more she'll want to go raw. ONLY IF SHE'S ON BIR… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/17 09:33 PM |
| 9 | Girlfriend who wants to travelYou already spent 7 sexless months with a virgin, what's a few more? | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Girl reached outMe neither. I think it's a good middle ground between ignoring and validating her. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Girl reached outSome girls just like to see how far they can string a guy along. Just say "No thanks". If she apologizes/insists on trying again then the ball is more in your court if you decide to set something up than if you had agreed when she first reached out. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/17 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Just a Southern California thing or do Middle Eastern women in the US really hate dating men of their own background?Meaning that even if these groups and subcultures aren't explicitly racist (and sometimes they can be; plenty of stories of fraternities saying racist slurs and harassing students), they are dominated by white people and therefore white people are going to be more comfortable there socially. It's a loop. Part of it is also culturally and financially: minority parents are far less likely to have the disposable income to pay for their kid's music festival ticket/fraternity dues/camping gear on top… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Just a Southern California thing or do Middle Eastern women in the US really hate dating men of their own background?No, it's big in So Cal. Part of the problem is that the race and culture are so linked, and if a middle eastern girl wants to (understandably) leave the culture that also means leaving the race. The more liberal/diverse a city, the more segregated parts of it become. A great example is San Francisco: huge population of asians and indians but the social scene is dominated by hipsters and bros. So when a girl wants to do fun things like music festivals, frat parties, camping trips, etc. even if th… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone remember the video of Gay Lube Oil being interviewed where he shows his inner beta?I have some issues with him too but I remember he showed up on some kind of group interview/reality show and had great presence. And at the end of the day he's one of the few ballsy enough to put a face to the name. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/17 10:52 PM |
| 11 | askTRP Megathread October 11"At this point I'm more of a coach." "You've got an eye for talent." "I've never even talked to a girl." etc. etc. Honestly anything that's not a serious answer will work. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/17 07:14 PM |
| 8 | So how do I become attractive to black girls? Black Label Logic - How to become attractive to my type of women?The problem right now is that you have different groups with not much overlap. Sleazy/demure. I'm not sure what you mean exactly but I'm gonna assume you mean a girl who is modest in public but wild in bed. Black girls with big butts Girls into anime and video games. Girls who do things outdoors. Categories 1 and 3 go hand in hand. Attractive girls in the nerd scene like to keep up appearances while getting down in private. But then there's the problem of supply of hot nerdy girls (small) vs dem… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/17 04:08 PM |
| 1 | What are your best tips for spicing up things in the bedroom?Pinch of cayenne | /r/askTRP | 22/09/17 01:03 AM |
| 1 | What parts of RP do you disagree with and why?Choosing girls primarily on sexual availability then saying AWALT when said girls inevitably fuck up. Overestimating the importance of "game". My short fat balding Indian friend fucks loads of hot girls with no proof ever shown. Physical attraction is the most important factor in successfully dating women and game/frame is more about avoiding the wrong things rather than doing the right things. Thinking you can spin plates for 30 years then somehow start a family at 50 with a HB8 unicorn in her … | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Getting into an LTR to become more sexually experienced and confidentI'd do it. A few months of decent, regular sex and walk away with confidence and experience that you can then apply to other girls. You just need to be able to walk away when the time comes. However I'm curious how you're going to set up a relationship when you can't keep a plate. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 11:16 AM |
| 14 | LTR kissed another guy while drunk.lol ghost her | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Can you guys share some of your kino moves?Some say her teeth are still flying to this day. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 01:05 AM |
| 2 | "I'm old enough to be your mother"These are terrible. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 04:02 PM |
| 1 | What are your favorite TRP threads that maybe have slipped under the radar a bit and aren't incredibly high-ranked? And who are your favorite TRP users?Same feeling you get when watching him speak. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/17 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Anybody have any stories of getting an STD from a hook-up? It seems nobody I know has ever gotten one.Yeah bud, it's a numbers game. You have some leeway because you're a guy (urethra vs whole vagina) but eventually you'll get caught up. Personally I dislike condoms so I'm very particular about the girls I hook up with, and only ditch the condoms once trust is established. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/17 09:10 PM |
| 5 | Anybody have any stories of getting an STD from a hook-up? It seems nobody I know has ever gotten one.Examples? It's self explanatory. The guys I know who use Tinder heavily without condoms (3 of them) are all pretty wrecked STD wise. Herpes and gonorrhea. I've seen one in the locker room and his shit looks pretty bad to the point I really don't understand how girls willingly fuck him raw. The guys I know who fuck around on Tinder and DO use condoms are healthy. I only know 2 guys who don't use condoms and that's only for a set group of plates. They use condoms with new girls. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/17 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Anybody have any stories of getting an STD from a hook-up? It seems nobody I know has ever gotten one.Almost every guy I know who regularly fucks randoms without a condom has some kind of STD. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/17 06:11 PM |
| 11 | How come some guys who are conventionally ugly get pussy like crazy?Ugly billionaires get laid. Autistic models get laid. Their strengths make up for their shortcomings. Just like there is a top 1% when it comes to money and looks, there's a top 1% when it comes to "vibe", charisma, force of personality, and energy. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/17 01:29 AM |
| 4 | Anybody bang multiple Black Girls? What're they like compared to white/asian/indian girls?Yeah obviously. Almost none of the girls I hooked up with in college ever cared about condoms. I'm just responding to the other comment saying black girls are walking petri dishes. If you're worried about STDs during casual sex then it doesn't matter what kind of girl you're fucking. But honestly, since at my school black girls were usually excluded from the almost entirely white frat party circuit, I would say they're arguably cleaner. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 06:59 AM |
| 7 | Anybody bang multiple Black Girls? What're they like compared to white/asian/indian girls?I mean that a black girl in college isn't 9 times as likely to have an STD as a white girl in college. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 06:43 AM |
| 13 | Anybody bang multiple Black Girls? What're they like compared to white/asian/indian girls?I've hooked up with plenty of black and mixed girls. Current gf is a light skinned solid 8. Don't listen to the STD fear mongering. That's a ghetto thing, not a black thing. Trailer trash white girls are filthy too. Just make sure she's college educated and you'll be fine. Obviously with the same protection you would use for any other girl. Honestly I really like them. A lot of fun to hang out with. Know how to dance and got great taste in clothes and music. Great bodies, great skin. Give better… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 05:15 AM |
| 18 | Ltr gets kissedThe kissing bandit? Loooool will the streets ever be safe?? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 08:34 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys write about in your journal?Cute boys in algebra class | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Meeting a tinder date before she gets a tattoo.Holding some girl's hand while she gets tatted sounds like a terrible time. Should have told her to come by after to show it off. Never meet up with a girl before she has other plans, kills any chance to escalate. Example: If she has dinner plans, aim for drinks after rather than coffee before. This girl is a lost cause, especially if she hasn't responded. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/17 11:45 PM |
| 27 | I understand about doing Push/Pull with women. But whens the right time to do Legs?Deads on Monday with back. Squats Wednesday and Saturday. That way if things get messy in the weekend shuffle legs still get hit twice. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/17 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Considering the statistics behind Game, isn't it a waste of time?TRP is a big group with a lot of different opinions. I think blindly approaching 50 women at a club or on the street is an incredible waste of time. Yes, social game and game are different, but you need both. Game isn't useless. I think PUA guys have low rates because "game" is all they have and the product they're selling isn't great. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/17 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Considering the statistics behind Game, isn't it a waste of time?If you cold approach 50 women, sure. But if I'm at a house party or an event (someone else mentioned screening), game means that when I approach 10 women I get 10 numbers. I honestly can't remember the last time I asked a girl for her number and didn't get it. Then solid text game means when I contact them, along with the good first impression, 5 actually go out with me. And 2 or 3 end up hooking up with me. That's why game is important. You can coast by on looks and status. (And I firmly believ… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/17 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Cubicle vs Sales JobsTRP loves suggesting sales jobs, but not everyone has the hustle for it. Maybe a cubicle job will stifle you, but in its own way a steady paycheck and set hours can be freeing. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 03:56 AM |
| 7 | An AWALT Classic - Girl breaks up with her bf for living too frugally only to find out he's actually loaded, a year later the story's changed to her breaking up with him for "lying by omission".Scenario: For 10 months you date a really great girl who treats you well, but is about 40 pounds overweight. You talk to her about health and the importance of sexual attraction, but she says she's happy how things are. You break up with her, she says nothing. Two months later, she's lost all the weight and looks great. Do you want to get back together? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/17 03:13 PM |
| 3 | An AWALT Classic - Girl breaks up with her bf for living too frugally only to find out he's actually loaded, a year later the story's changed to her breaking up with him for "lying by omission".Just for the sake of argument: If you dated a girl for 10 months and only got vanilla sex, then found out she's secretly a freak, what would you do? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/17 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread July 03I agree. After 2 or 3 solid hookups, girls are much easier to get a hold of. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/17 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Giving up porn: Straight away or slowly move from my fetish porn to vanilla and then quit?They have "sissy training" videos on various sites to ease you into cuckoldry and other emasculating shit. I'm pretty sure there are videos to help you undo it. Idk how effective they would be but it might help. I just did some googling. Check out ReverseHypnosis on Pornhub. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/17 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Giving up porn: Straight away or slowly move from my fetish porn to vanilla and then quit?After a week of abstaining, plain vanilla porn is gonna look a lot better. You can wean yourself off masturbating with porn, but cuckold shit and other extreme fetishes need to be quit cold turkey. Limit masturbation to once a week until you can find a plate or 2, then stop entirely. I think there may be specific videos to "undo" cuckold fetishes. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/17 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Good opening line when meeting my girls mom for the first timeWhen meeting a girl's mom or friends they always drop the line "I've heard a lot about you." Mom: NPL, nice to finally meet you. I've heard a lot about you. Me: eyes wide It's all lies. Mom: Ha no it's all good things! Me: laugh and roll eyes then it's definitely lies. Boom. You're in. Only get to use it once per girl though. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/17 11:56 PM |
| 6 | Is sex with a condom really that safe? How likely is pregnancy or disease?blowing into your own used condom | /r/askTRP | 31/05/17 09:20 PM |
| 3 | TRPers in their 20s: What do you guys actually do with your lives outside of working?Some days its just work, gym, eat, then Netflix/Xbox until I pass out. On more energetic days I draw/paint or I'll cook something elaborate. But most days I can at least get a few sketches in to stay sharp. I also like to schedule stuff with my plates during weekdays. On weekends I'm much busier with my social life. There are always parties, concerts, and events going on. Museum trips or checking out a new spot to eat. I love nature and the outdoors and I go camping once a month. Sometimes rock … | /r/askTRP | 28/05/17 12:21 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys find out about past lovers and why do you care?Check my reply below. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/17 09:26 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys find out about past lovers and why do you care?Promiscuity doesn't make girls shitty, shitty girls tend to be promiscuous. If you have a quality, relationship-minded girl then it's unlikely that she's slept around. Basically that if shes girlfriend material and wants to play that role, then most of her time will be spent in monogamous relationships rather than hoeing around. So rather than trying to get a girl's n-count (impossible and makes you looks bad), you look for related behaviors. Drug abuse, theft, dishonesty, obesity, violent behav… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/17 09:25 PM |
| 12 | why do i look pregnant after i eat.how is babby formed | /r/askTRP | 17/05/17 02:45 AM |
| 22 | So even white guys with red hair say their looks are unfavorable to women, what kind of look is favorable to women then?https://i.imgur.com/OCU6c5o.jpg | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys trim your pubes?I take an electric razor and trim everything down on the lowest setting. In the shower I get the shaft and sack with a standard shaving razor. Never had a cut. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/17 02:39 AM |
| 5 | I'm not convinced self improvement and focus gets girlsYou can get work done and still party on the weekend. They're not mutually exclusive. Guys here say "don't do it for girls, do it for yourself", which I think is thinly veiled bullshit. But in this case it applies: drinking 5-7 days a week is gonna kill you. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 08:50 PM |
| 19 | How do guys rationalize feeling good about having "mediocre bodies" and being "slackers"?Would you rather have one cookie now, or two cookies in an hour? Easy choice to wait it out. How about one cookie now or two cookies next year? Much different. Hard work is...hard. Diet and exercise don't have immediately tangible benefits, but you can enjoy a bag of chips this minute. Logically we all know that it would be better to be in shape, but that's an experience outside the frame of reference for these guys. They can only imagine it in the abstract. The only aspects they're familiar wit… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 05:04 AM |
| 1 | The part about race and SMV that gets most guys who take the red pill is more or less being told their race sucks.In a lot of places, especially in the dating scene, white people set the trends. So trouble with white girls can also manifest as problems with ethnic girls. Personally I find middle eastern girls attractive, but I have almost no luck dating them and ironically have an easier time with white girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/17 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Repost r/sex analysis: do women NOT prefer seeing good abs when giving a BJ? Why?My penis is actually normal sized, but the incredible amount of pubic hair makes it look smaller. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Repost r/sex analysis: do women NOT prefer seeing good abs when giving a BJ? Why?Shitty, but good motivation to lose weight. Contributed to my RP awakening. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Repost r/sex analysis: do women NOT prefer seeing good abs when giving a BJ? Why?In the past when I wasn't as lean I had several girls go cold when I took off my shirt. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 07:48 PM |
| 1 | What are "kino stacks?" Has anyone on here heard that term before?1: Can you elaborate on the right way to do things, though? This is where you get into "approach at a 30 degree angle" nonsense. There is no universal 'right' way. It depends on the girl and the situation. Sometimes I literally physically pick up a girl and move her, other times I just lightly touch her arm to emphasize a point. The key is that any movements I make are natural. I'm not psyching myself up before I touch her like I'm about to jump off the high dive. I'm not stiff with the motions … | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 04:42 AM |
| 3 | What are "kino stacks?" Has anyone on here heard that term before?RP awareness is a passive 20% buff :) First up your appearance (lifting and grooming) so women are more inclined to engage you physically. When I'm at lower bf% women hug me more often, sit on my lap, reach for my hand, etc. Makes it easier to escalate from there. Best kino guide is more of a mentality. You need to be more comfortable casually touching women. The opposite of hover hand. Women can sense your uncertainty and fear of rejection when you hesitate in your movements. Don't be afraid to… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 12:59 AM |
| 7 | What are "kino stacks?" Has anyone on here heard that term before?For now. Might get nerfed in the next patch. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 12:46 AM |
| 1 | what is the sexual strategy if you're a guy of an ethnic group that is perceived as low SMV?OP of those posts here. Some guys are beyond help. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 12:16 AM |
| 3 | What are "kino stacks?" Has anyone on here heard that term before?Each successful kino adds +2% to your chance of having sex. If done within 5 seconds subsequent kinos stack. So when your hitting on a girl hit her with 40 different kinos in a row for a guaranteed lay. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 12:10 AM |
| 3 | How will being black at college affect me?I disagree. Dress it up for them but don't whitewash yourself. If girls want a guy that acts white, they'll just find a white guy. There's a reason popular culture takes so much from rap, hip hop, and black culture in general. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/17 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Should I mention my career (doctor) in my online dating profile?Ok that makes more sense. I'm starting professional school in the fall and everyone talks like your life is over for 4 years. Was wondering if it was just students being lame or putting on a front for the tours. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/17 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Should I mention my career (doctor) in my online dating profile?How did he have time for that in med school? | /r/askTRP | 13/04/17 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Height is a big part of SMV. My mom is 5'2". My dad is 5'6". I'm 17 and around 5'5"-5'6". My uncles are tall and some of my immediate male relatives (grandfather, uncles, great grand fathers etc) are tall. Realistically how tall do you think I'll be?I didn't finish growing until I was 22. All things are possible. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/17 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Competitive sport for upper body building?Great way to blow up your forearms though | /r/askTRP | 06/04/17 04:02 PM |
| 9 | Explain this shit to me. I saw a fat, short, brown, below average looking dude with a 9 GF.......Maybe he's an orbiter. Maybe he's got a 9 inch dick. Maybe its Maybelline. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 08:28 PM |
| 2 | How do you make your cum taste better?More water. Less sodium. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 06:25 PM |
| 22 | What do you do if you dont like hookup culture/clubs/bars?Social circle game | /r/askTRP | 23/03/17 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Is going down on a girl a blue pill move?It's fine as long as she has a feminine penis. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/17 05:27 AM |
| 2 | How do you build a social life from scratch?First off most people don't care about "substantive" subjects. It's good to be informed and offer information/opinions when relevant but if you try opening to people about the Spanish Armada or whatever you will (correctly) look autistic. Friends are like girls in that it's a numbers game. You're gonna have to meet a lot of people before you start getting anywhere. The party idea is good. Get numbers in class, meet guys at the gym, join some clubs, then mass text everyone. Have a good time then … | /r/askTRP | 11/03/17 12:20 AM |
| 5 | [Strange Question] What is the consensus on crying in front of your woman, but NOT in a breakdown sense?Lik dis if u cry evrtim | /r/askTRP | 08/03/17 07:56 PM |
| 8 | How to pick up girls if you're good lookingBesides tech schools, colleges are in general 60:40 female/male. I wouldn't be surprised of a 1:7 ratio at some schools, especially in less urban areas. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/17 10:42 PM |
| 1 | History major about to graduate in one year looking for career advice.LSAT and law school but only if your grades are stellar. Competition is fierce for jobs and the cost isn't worth it if you're not at a T1 school. Take science prereqs at a local college and do med/pharm/dental school. MBA and go corporate. Someone with more knowledge should be able to talk to you about trades/sales/coding. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/17 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread February 27I guess I was asking logistically, less so for game. When going out I almost never see girls in that 5'9"+ range. I'm 6'3" so I can pick them up easy if they're alone, I just can't find them. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread February 27LMAO red eye for the blue guy | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread February 27I think the hardest part is going to be finding pictures of people at various stages. I can take a picture of my own eyes when I'm rested and hydrated vs hungover and show the difference in clarity and color, or how my face looks different clean shaven vs stubble vs beard. But its tough to find a set of photos online with same positioning and lighting to highlight the difference | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread February 27Would anyone be interested on a guide/criteria for choosing a girlfriend? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread February 27Where do you find these girls? I love tall women but they're rare and usually dating someone 6'6" | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread February 27I've been thinking of doing the same thing for a while, but it involves using photos of myself to highlight how specific improvements helps - so it'll almost never happen. Can't wait to see what you come up with. Optimizing your physique, hair, skin, teeth, eyebrows, facial hair, hydration, aesthetic, etc can make anyone at least a 7. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 01:58 PM |
| 7 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread February 27I disagree. You enter a woman's frame when you let her dictate the conversation, in this case avoiding the topic of meeting up/sex (aka what we want). Chad asks her to Netflix and chill and she responds what time? Girls like directness and boldness, just not from betas and orbiters. If a girl rejects you because you were too up front, she was never down in the first place. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 01:51 PM |
| 32 | How do you guys deal with girls that make conversation on text after you plan a meet up?You want to maintain interest without overtexting and seeming too available or making yourself look beta. This is where text game comes into play. Text back sporadically. Light answers, aka don't say anything serious or reveal information about yourself. Tease her and make jokes. Avoid filler words "haha/lmao/lol/maybe/i think" etc. Send her a meme if she's one of those girls. Not every text needs to be some calculated RP pantydropper. If she asks how your day is going you can just say something… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/17 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Gay friendsAs others have said, great as party friends who provide access to girls. Ultimately unreliable for serious friendships. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/17 08:54 AM |
| 64 | What are your go to physical touch ice breakers?AKA give you a list of kino moves. Important to remember that kino can build attraction but can't create it. Here are some of my favorites PM me for more. -classic arm around the shoulder when you sit on a bench or couch. Dont hesitate AT ALL. Just go for it like she specifically asked you to do it. -light touches of her leg when you guys are sitting side by side -grabbing her hand/wrist while checking out jewelry or a tattoo -holding her hand to lead her through a crowd/hand on lower back to di… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/17 07:42 PM |
| 6 | Getting raging hard too fast.Plenty of dudes here posting about ED and nofap, enjoy it man. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 02:21 AM |
| 4 | Why is it like pulling teeth for men to admit on here, the reason why they don't approach me is because I am black?She (or some guy) has posted these pictures before. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Be the serious guy or the clown ?Depends on the type of humor. Women respond really well to sarcasm, which is the basis of A&A and overcoming a lot of shit tests. Acting really goofy and pulling pranks might make her laugh but won't really build attraction. Likewise on being serious. Being strong and stoic in a crisis is good, having a serious talk with her about your fears is not. You can't be entirely serious or funny. Not only will it bore her, it's incredibly different to pull off. You need to know when which one is more ap… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/17 04:01 PM |
| 1 | How do ugly guys get women over attractive guys - what types of qualities would these physically ugly men possess that make them attractiveWomen pass over "attractive" guys when they are defective or lacking in some way: complete lack of game, no money, social outcast, too alpha/no comfort, etc. When an ugly guy can provide those qualities when a more physically attractive guy cannot, then a women will choose the ugly guy. Of course, some girls care about looks over everything and raw physical attraction is most important. Fucking with broke/jobless/loser guys because they're hawt. Also those male model Tinder posts floating around… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/17 04:14 PM |
| 1 | UnderwearKirkland Signature Boxer Briefs. Cheap, durable, comfortable. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 09:44 PM |
| 5 | How to identify former Indian or Asian slut?A bunch of shit talking with no real advice. Here's my list: -A pattern of interracial dating. Look for Instagram shots/"couple selfies" with white or black guys, group pictures of house parties/beach days/camping and hiking trips where there are only white guys -Any pictures or references to festival and rave culture. -Smokes weed, recreational drug use -Extensive traveling abroad -Heavily into the arts scene or studied in college with nothing to show for it. (ie if she doesn't have a porftfoli… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/17 04:21 PM |
| 6 | How attractive is powerlifting to girls?Depends. Guys who rely on game are gonna tell you it doesn't matter. Guys who rely on looks and physique will tell you it's vital. From personal experience, girls don't care how much you can deadlift if you don't look good. Watching your diet and hitting the gym for an hour 3x a week will be enough to maintain attraction, and is a better use of your time (SMV wise) then obsessing over an intense powerlifting routine. 2plate squat and six pack beats 4plates and a gut every time. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/17 10:51 PM |
| 3 | "So, what are you looking for?"A sea route to India | /r/askTRP | 02/02/17 02:15 AM |
| 1 | What are your requirements before you turn a plate into a LTR?No black flags (violent, hard drug use, etc) Pleasant to be around Respectful of me Respectful of herself | /r/askTRP | 01/02/17 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Do you pay for your date?Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. Depends on the context. $4 for some coffee isn't a big deal. Also if I'm dragging her to an event for my benefit then I'll pay, but usually the girls I date are pretty good about splitting costs. However I NEVER take a girl out on a dinner date before we've had sex. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/17 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Moving to Los Angeles in your 30s. Right move?I love LA. You can find anything there, hell, there's a restaurant that sells bug-based dishes. You know the name? | /r/askTRP | 23/01/17 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Successful wingmen, how did you do it?Build rapport and have fun energy with girls, but do so without outshining your friend or making him look bad. The most important thing is to make him look good in a natural way that doesn't feel forced. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/17 04:52 PM |
| 8 | Post your witty tinder bio here."I fill out scantrons in pen." | /r/askTRP | 14/01/17 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Degrees worth pursuing?It's much easier to go from more technical to less technical than the other way around. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/16 10:50 PM |
| 3 | How to have fun when you got nothing to have fun?Switch up your exercise. If you're bored with weights, supplement with running, rock climbing, martial arts, etc. You have the right idea with an instrument. Or get some pencils and start drawing. Start putting more effort into your meals and up your cooking game. Foreign language. Coding. Khan Academy. Etc. You have options. The mobility challenge could be the cure to boredom in and of itself. See how far you can get on a bike or public transit then hang around downtown. Museums, book stores, p… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/16 12:19 PM |
| 5 | Will hot blondes always be the most desired in the sexual market place in the USA or will this change in the future?From a scarcity point of view, natural blondes will always be in demand. But more so as a fetish rather than the mainstream (just as Asian girls are now). From a taste/preference point of view, current trends are moving towards a more ethnically ambiguous archetype. I'm sure you've seen it on Instagram. Naturally tan, curly hair, full lips, strong eyebrows, wide hips/big ass. There are thousands of that kind of girl on Instagram, and a lot of the girls with huge amounts of followers fit that mol… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/16 06:04 AM |
| 0 | how is men pumping and dumping any different then women riding the cock carousel?Unpopular opinion: it's not quite as different as some of the guys around here like to think. Double digit level guys can keep it together for a serious relationship, and actually perform much better than men with less experience. But it's ridiculous to think some pussyhound with a 200+ notch count is gonna be able to easily settle down with a girl and 2.5 kids. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/16 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Good movies to put on laptop when being with a girl after going out?Comedy or horror Edit: Watching Westworld now, any HBO/Starz show would be good too. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/16 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Do Tinder girls swipe more in the summer than winter?Like I said, cuffing season. Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year's, Valentine's with snow and cold weather. Girls generally want a guy they can lock down for a bit and do cute couple shit with and get gifts from. Sweater parties, ice skating, cuddling by the fire, etc. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/16 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Do Tinder girls swipe more in the summer than winter?Cuffing season is a thing. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/16 05:28 PM |
| 100 | Piece of advice to anyone struggling to get over a bitch.Only a dog goes back to its own vomit | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/16 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Why are Indian men so openly creepy and lack social boundaries online and offline?Solipsism combined with a totally inaccurate view of Western women. They'd be more than happy to fuck all the Eat/Pray/Love white girls skipping around their countries. It doesn't occur to them that the reverse isn't true. Furthermore, a lot of propaganda and misinformation has convinced these guys that Western society and Western women in general are depraved and debauched. Which may or may not be true, especially compared some of these countries; but again they miss the critical point that sai… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/16 03:12 AM |
| 2 | How to Become a Good HostThe first step is actually increasing attendance. Doesn't matter how great a host you are if nobody shows up. People in general are flaky/lazy/non-committal so you need to factor in 30-50% of the people you invite not coming. Most obvious way is to invite more people. Don't just rely on "friends". Guys from the gym, people from class, girls you meet out, etc. Another way is to increase your SMV. Getting a girl to come to your party is like getting a girl in your bed, the more attractive you are … | /r/askTRP | 20/11/16 04:34 PM |
| 2 | As a white man, do I need to approach black women differently?No. If a minority woman is gonna hook up with you it's because you're white, not despite it. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/16 06:18 AM |
| 24 | Am I fucked up for wanting to sleep with another mans wifeIt's validation. You're so attractive that women will cheat for you. Also many of us have histories of rejection and cheating from women. By being the Alpha that steals a woman from her man we can get back at our past selves while mitigating our fears of those scenarios occurring in the present. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/16 06:28 AM |
| 2 | How to JUST fucking DO IT?Regret is worse than rejection. I got blown off by 3 different girls this week but at least I can look at myself in the mirror knowing I gave it a shot. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/16 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Which areas are the most interesting for an Aussie guy to spend 6 months, in America?A lot of the Cal states are commuter schools so there aren't big party scenes. But San Luis Obispo has a decent amount of stuff to do and is also a really good school. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/16 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Which areas are the most interesting for an Aussie guy to spend 6 months, in America?Arizona state is a big party school, you'd have fun there. Florida is usually a good choice. Which Cal State? | /r/askTRP | 28/10/16 04:20 PM |
| 2 | What markers of a woman are a good indication of sexual skill?Messy room | /r/askTRP | 19/10/16 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Could it be a problem that I prefer fat women?What the heck is an uppercase A ass? | /r/askTRP | 18/10/16 10:40 PM |
| 6 | Why are so many on TRP strongly against the partying and drinking lifestyle? Do you agree with them? What if some guys on TRP want to engage in it?Some of it is sour grapes. They never had the opportunity to do it and are now unable so they try to convince themselves it's not worth it. Then there are guys who actually did live that party lifestyle and burned out or got bored with it. Nothing wrong with wanting to party but the second group has a point. Eventually it does get boring, it's the same people at the same parties/bars, and you realize you're spending a lot of time and energy on things that aren't substantial rather than adding va… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/16 03:43 PM |
| 6 | What are the best gems you've learned since you've been on TRP?Actions, not words. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/16 03:21 PM |
| 7 | Does being a sports fan make you more alpha?Nothing more alpha then wasting 4 hours sitting on your ass watching superior physical specimens make millions of dollars. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Some women won't put out until the 3rd+ date. How do you handle the rejection?Lose the battle, win the war. As long as you're not spending money or doing boring shit you hate, it's not the end of the world if you wait 3 dates. There's a thousand and one reasons why a girl isn't down to fuck on the first date and getting butthurt and nexting a girl because she won't immediately put out gets you nowhere. "But I bet she fucked Chaddd on the first date" Yeah she may have, or she may not have, but all throwing a bitch fit does is make sure that you never get the chance. Just s… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Is it just my experience or do French chicks really love non-white guys?I've always done well with French girls. Brown guys fill the niche in France that Black men fill in the US, and enjoy some of the "taboo" benefits. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/16 12:54 AM |
| 7 | Unfuck yourself?For graduate/professional schools they will ask you to explain gaps in education, so make sure you have a good excuse. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/16 04:17 AM |
| 12 | Are scars bad for my SMV?Usually girls dig scars, even ones from operations. There are a few guys who will go full Evo psych on you and say that it's proof of poor health and thus poor genetics and girls will subconsciously be turned off. Honestly it's only gonna be a turn off if you're insecure about it (unconsciously reaching for it, covering it with your hand, awkward body posture, etc.) Have you thought about covering it with a tattoo? | /r/askTRP | 07/09/16 05:33 AM |
| 3 | Can a short Indian guy date girls who aren't his race if he is ripped?I guarantee if you look like that picture you'll be drowning in it. But I'm guessing you don't. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/16 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Why is it always black women who get shafted in dating when there are good looking onesNot sure what you're saying. I guess my points made sense? I agree with you about Arab dudes, but Arab girls aren't any better. "Persian Princess" exists for a reason. And I'm North African. Caramel skin, curly hair, killer brows, light eyes...meaning I tear through girls like you ;) | /r/askTRP | 31/08/16 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Why is it always black women who get shafted in dating when there are good looking onesLike you mentioned, less attractive women due to outside factors. Remove the overweight/ghetto/generally unattractive black women and you're left with proportionally less women. Black people are generally seen as the most masculine race. Athletic, "hood culture", etc. Compared to Asians as the most feminine. Nerdy and model minorities. This gives the corresponding sex a boost, while the opposite gets the shaft. Black guys and Asian girls can do well interracially but tough tits for Asian guys an… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/16 04:09 PM |
| 8 | GF slapped meI've been there; if it happens once it'll happen again. Hard next. NEVER contact her again. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/16 05:42 AM |
| 1 | What are must have body products for men?Pine tar soap did wonders for my skin. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/16 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Slim/tapered jeansI'm 6'3" with big thighs/butt and whatever calves. American Eagle Flex, Barbell, Buffalo Evan line are all good. If you want something cheaper I recommend Levis 513 and their Chino, and Marc Anthony Slim (it's 1% spandex and like $40 a pair at Kohls), but the waists are gonna be pretty loose so make sure you have a tight belt. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/16 07:35 PM |
| 17 | Whos more picky about looks, men or women?Men care more about looks, women have higher standards for looks. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/16 12:50 AM |
| 2 | It's mostly gay men who find me attractive.Exactly this. 80/20. You're attractive enough for gay men, not enough for women. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Why don't we pinpoint a man's SMV?A dude who doesn't earn much will tell you how unimportant income is. Another guy who does earn a lot will intentionally hide this fact to avoid gold-diggers, which is smart and correct if you are shooting for LTR, but also verifies that he could pull in more pussy if he let on about income. I think this comes down to the transactional nature of a woman's sex. That is, there are times a woman has sex out of attraction and times she has sex out of pragmatism. The basis of AF vs BB. It just depend… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Neckbeards, nice guys, incels and TRPFunny part was how the women shown on fatpeoplehate were obese whales while the guys being made fun of were regular skinnyfats. | /r/TRPOffTopic | 04/08/16 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Which of these photos should I use for Tinder?You look the best in 19. Definitely use 3. I like 5 too. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/16 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Do the guys that are further along on their journey desire a place for discussion that the main sub can't effectively host?I like visiting asktrp to keep my skills sharp. I think it's helpful seeing different scenarios and the possible ways of handling them. Now that I'm several years into TRP, I get less and less out of the main sub. When I'm actively spinning multiple plates I check it out more often for the AWALT reminder, but I find it to have a negative effect when I'm in a dry period. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Advice on working at all female workplace?Keep your head down and maneuver to a new job as soon as possible. My manager and all my coworkers are women. It's exhausting. Remember that women only respect men they're attracted to, which is a dangerous line to walk. They will hold you down and give you as much work as possible. The manager gives the girls preferential treatment. There are plenty of days where they're all gossiping on their phones on the clock while I'm knee deep in some bullshit. Use the experience and paycheck to leverage … | /r/askTRP | 18/07/16 04:24 PM |
| 2 | What is slutface?Average/slightly above average attractiveness. Enough to get male attention (for sex) but not enough to be legitimately good looking and be validated as a "hot girl". Heavily applied makeup and revealing clothing. Trying to maximizing her sex appeal. "1000 cock stare". Vacant expression and dead eyes. Combination of being pumped and dumped so often and the effects of a hard party lifestyle. The constant use by men takes an emotional toll on them and the copious amounts of drugs/alcohol/late nigh… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/16 02:46 PM |
| 2 | What are the "must have" appsI like ColorNote. Helps me stay more organized. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/16 06:38 PM |
| 3 | What to reply if she says 'we're moving too fast'?"I'm built for speed" | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Why are women the selecters and men the competers, and what would cause a reversal of those roles?I can see that happening. I'm just not sure if bottom tier men dropping out of the SMP is going to have that significant of an effect considering the current 80/20 dynamic. It might just increase selection on guys, creating a new top 20% in the new, smaller population of men. The guy who would buy a sexbot likely isn't engaging with women, so his removal won't really affect the average woman's experience. There needs to be an overall decrease in the male population. War works because, unlike wom… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/16 08:48 PM |
| 40 | Why are women the selecters and men the competers, and what would cause a reversal of those roles?Basic biology. Male reproduction: easy and cheap. He has millions of sperm and produce them daily. Female reproduction: expensive and time consuming. She only has a certain number of eggs, and pregnancy involves her being very vulnerable for 9 months. Therefore women are very selective in who they mate with, while men care far less. Reversing this trend would require a massive decrease in the male population or a massive coordinated male movement: both of which will never happen. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/16 05:02 PM |
| 17 | Good first date idea for a girl with a morbid sense of humor?Stick a finger up her ass. When she tells you take it out, say it's not your finger. #2spooky | /r/askTRP | 26/06/16 02:20 AM |
| 1 | How To Stuff Your White Meat Into Asian GirlsIf you're actually interested, I've already written a guide on that if you check my submission history. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/16 07:51 PM |
| 5 | How can I increase success with middle eastern girls as a white male?Don't try to connect with her about her homeland or background. All its gonna do is make your job harder. I see white dudes talking to Arab girls saying bullshit like how much they love hummus. Best case scenario you look incredibly thirsty, worst case scenario you look straight ignorant. Accept that you're a white dude. Don't hide it. Be as aggressively white and stereotypical as possible. A middle eastern girl is dating a white guy for a reason. Ethnic girls want the frat parties, blue eyes, m… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/16 01:47 AM |
| 0 | Ex texts: I miss you"Aim better" | /r/askTRP | 11/06/16 02:30 AM |
| 2 | I start school this fall. What advice did you wish you knew before you started?Keep your options open academically and professionally. What that means is go for the most technically proficient major available to you. As a CS major you can pursue a career in that field OR if your interests change you can enter the business world or go to law school OR just say fuck it and go paint in a loft. If you were a business major you can do corporate, law, or something creative BUT a technical IT job is beyond you. As an art major you're even more limited and would be pretty much scr… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/16 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Do you only have hobbies because girls like guys with hobbies?Cooking/baking and painting, mainly. Although don't get me wrong I was in a Pathfinder group for years and I've got about $500 worth of boardgames. I'm not saying they prevent me from getting laid, but that wasn't the question. Vin Diesel and The Rock don't get laid BECAUSE of those hobbies. Girls like me because I'm tall, I work out, I have tattoos, and I don't call them the next morning. Either my hobbies are irrelevant because they'd be hooking up with me anyway (and trust me I know plenty of… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/16 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Do you only have hobbies because girls like guys with hobbies?Girls don't hook up with me because of my hobbies. At best they're convenient fuel for the hamster to convince her she's not a shallow hoe. At worst they work against me since most of them aren't stereotypical alpha male activities. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/16 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Exercises for sex.Oh-Susies, planks (regular and straight arm), yoga poses that stretch out your hips and back | /r/askTRP | 22/05/16 09:19 PM |
| 13 | Dating downIn her mind if you're dating her, you're not dating down; she's at your level. So then you get all the regular bullshit of a relationship except now she's not even that pretty. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 05:31 AM |
| 1 | How much does getting to low bodyfat change your face?You have full cheeks but a thin neck. Face looks fuller but the jawline is still exposed. As a pretty boy your bone structure is already more defined to start with, and your jawline will look better than some equivalent dudes regardless of BF. Like a guy with more defined abs will have them show at a higher BF% | /r/askTRP | 27/04/16 02:25 AM |
| 1 | How much does getting to low bodyfat change your face?For various reasons I've never been that low BF%, I was speaking from observation/anecdotal evidence. I apologize if my post made it sound like I was speaking from personal exoerience. However, I'm at ~15% and cutting now, and the difference between 20% and 15% was pretty drastic. I lost mass from my neck and cheeks. Jawline became much more defined and cheekbones became more prominent. I didn't have a "fat" face before, but you realize that many of the stereotypical markers of male facial attra… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/16 10:08 PM |
| 3 | How much does getting to low bodyfat change your face?Assuming you're not underestimating your body fat -- and most guys are -- face gains stall around ~20% body fat, then pick up again at around 15%. 8-12% is when you really see your cheekbones and jawline pop. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/16 09:50 PM |
| 5 | "Why do you like me?"Your strong work ethic and can-do attitude | /r/askTRP | 23/04/16 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Have any of you fucked a dyke/butch lesbian?Only happened twice. Her explanation/hamstering was that it's about being attracted to the person's "energy", not the man. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Going to a festival this weekend, tips on festival girls?I just did Weekend 1. I don't have the time right now but I'll PM you some real advice later tonight. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Going to a festival this weekend, tips on festival girls?Coachella? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 02:10 PM |
| 4 | How do you handle a born again virgin?Born again virgins almost always relapse so escalate as normal. IF you want to take it slower, make sure there's regular progression. (First date make out, 2nd get some titty, 3rd get a handy, etc.) Lie to her about how nonjudgmental you are. Obviously she never goes beyond plate.** DO NOT SPEND MONEY ON HER. If things stall, run dread game. If that doesn't work, or if your gut tells you something's fucky, just bail and go no contact. Generally the juice is not worth the squeeze. Source: I hook … | /r/askTRP | 13/04/16 10:42 PM |
| 6 | I notice that I enjoy sex a lot more with girls that are attractive but more "trashy" and "lower class" as opposed to girls that have that clean classy vibe, any reasons for this?Sometimes, especially after drinking, you just want to eat something greasy, fried, and covered in melted cheese...not some fancy filet. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/16 03:38 PM |
| 9 | An acquaintance of mine is good looking, but so beta that he repulses girls. Looks do matter, yes, but being beta can stop even the good-looking guys from getting pussyEvery woman has a minimum threshold for looks, game, status, etc. You don't have to be a male model or a PUA master, but those minimum requirements still need to be met. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a new lifting routineFace pulls are mainly prehab, helps stretch out your shoulders from all the pressing motions on push day. But you make a good point. I'll occasionally sub in rear delt fly, especially if the rope isn't available. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/16 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a new lifting routineNo idea if that's true or not, maybe someone else can chime in. But yeah front squats should be fine, I just prefer back squats since it's easier to go deeper. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/16 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Looking for a new lifting routineFound a decent PPL guide on Reddit but I can't find it now, here it is with my modifications. 6 days a week but I'm in and out in an hour. PULL Deadlift 1x5, maybe a 1RM after if I feel like it OR 5x5+ bent over row. 3x8-12 good deadhang pullups 3×8-12 seated row 5x15 face pulls Superset 3x8-12 dumbell curls and dumbell shrugs 3x5 chin ups PUSH 5x5+ flat bench press OR OHP 3x8-12 flat bench press OR OHP 3x8-12 incline dumbell press 3x5 weighted dips 3x8-12 chest fly 6x15 lateral delt raises 3x8-… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/16 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Interested in how ugly I am.Let's do it | /r/askTRP | 10/04/16 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Finding Time for Hobbieshttps://archive.today/4pBD2 | /r/askTRP | 06/04/16 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Why Women Hate Weak MenThere's a really crazy book called Man After Man that explores what humanity evolves/devolves to in the future. It's very speculative and probably not very scientific, but a very quick read if you want to scope it out. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/16 04:00 PM |
| 4 | Guys buying other people drinks?You've never bought a round at the bar? God forbid a man get some drinks for his friends. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/16 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Sub dedicated to hot guys here?Just browse r-ladyboners | /r/askTRP | 21/03/16 12:26 AM |
| 2 | How long after swallowing the pill did you see results with women?Becoming a better person does not make you a more attractive romantic option. Getting a 4.0GPA is good. Learning to play an instrument is good. Taking a BJJ class is good. These things all make you a better person, but are worthless for getting girls compared to a six pack and a charming personality. If your goal is women (and for most of us it is), "working on yourself" is worthless if not done in the correct order. The imperative thing is looking good and smelling good. Afterwards you can use … | /r/askTRP | 19/03/16 06:32 AM |
| 2 | How long after swallowing the pill did you see results with women?Part of it was immediate. I remember reading through a list of common shit tests and my jaw dropped. I had heard them all so many times before. Other things took a bit longer. The concept of plates was completely foreign to me and it took weeks for me to become accustomed to having multiple girls simultaneously. Professional matters took the longest. I swallowed the pill about two years ago and only now am I on the right track professionally and educationally. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/16 04:13 AM |
| 2 | What's the best way to use LSD?Honestly I really can't tell you since I've never had a "bad trip" before. At least not in the stereotypical sense. Also I don't really fuck around with crazy 1mg doses. I would imagine it less as "my body is covered in spiders" and mote "I want to get off the ride". LSD lasts for hours and it can be too much stimulation for some people. In terms of more realistic bad trips which I have more experience with: Because normal logical functioning is impaired you can panic/get anxious if you don't ta… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 01:22 AM |
| 50 | What's the best way to use LSD?Since everyone else is too cool for drugs, here's some real advice. 4 tabs is a lot for your first time, 2 should be enough for you. If possible, find a good and trusted friend to take the other 2 tabs with you. LSD helps to break down the ego and social barriers so you don't necessarily get the full effect by yourself. That is, bouncing off each other will really help you understand yourself and social dynamics. Of course, you almost definitely will end up apart for segments so don't worry abou… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/16 04:46 PM |
| 10 | Are fat girls always so unhealthy?Exactly. Follow that with 3 days of some bullshit maple syrup/lemon juice/cayenne pepper "cleanse" before breaking down and eating half a pizza in one sitting. Then the weekend comes, which for most girls involves 2 nights of binge drinking, a Saturday spent lounging in bed watching Netflix and snacking, then a 4000 calorie brunch Sunday morning. Rinse and repeat. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/16 09:21 AM |
| 15 | Are fat girls always so unhealthy?90% of girls are chronically sick or "tired", which is unsurprising since they never exercise and have terrible eating habits. Fat girls take those flaws to the extreme, so no wonder their health is even worse. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/16 08:23 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone here lost weight then started going to a gym, solely to attract/get women ?I was an athlete in high school and college, so I was lifting prior to TRP. But now I also pay attention to diet and aesthetics. I would definitely cut back on lifting if women didn't care about muscles. Right now I go rock climbing about once or twice a week, so that would then become my main source of exercise. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/16 06:02 AM |
| 1 | When I procrastinate, I do X (lets say I read /r/askTRP), it relaxes and de-stress me. How can I condition myself to do and have the same psychological effect on me, activity Y instead?This is good advice. For me specifically, I notice that if I stop at home after work I get caught up in nonsense and am likely to skip my workout. I identify my "X" behavior as going home. The solution for me was to make sure I always have my gear in my car so I can head straight to the gym after work or class. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/16 06:42 AM |
| 2 | were any of you guys virgins by choice?Much respect. I've known very few guys who are actually virgins by choice, although usually they end up biting the bullet with a LTR. How do you reconcile the fact that (if you do decide to get married) your wife will almost definitely not be a virgin? | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 06:51 AM |
| 9 | [FR] How to tell if she wants attention or if she wants the D: the story of my neighborTo be fair, plenty of girls will rub their hookups and conquests into an orbiter's face. Remember to use your best judgment and context is key. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/16 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Do pheromones work?Part of that has to do with your body chemistry. Similar to how eating a lot of pineapple will make your semen taste better. Regular exercise and less salty, sugary processed foods will greatly improve your natural aroma. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/16 04:18 AM |
| 7 | What is TRP's opinion on Trans folk?I don't think there is a standard TRP view on trans people. As a subset of the larger feminist/SJW movement, I would expect there to be a lack of approval of them. But honestly everyone is going to have their own opinion. Some see FTM as the ultimate penis envy, and MTF as absolute omega level "men" who can't hack it. I am ambivalent towards them, but I would never ever consider a trans person for a romantic or sexual relationship. Personally I think it is mental illness, but acknowledge that at… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/16 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Question on Roissy, can there be multiple alphas in a group?Yes, in the sense that you can have multiple kings in the same room. No, in the sense that one kingdom cannot have two kings. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/16 06:00 AM |
| 1 | The typical question: "I got a girls number. help."Like she followed you from club 1 to club 2, then to the fast food place, then to your house. I definitely would have teased her/made stalker jokes. If that was something that was mentioned, I would say something like: "Thought I saw you in class today. Still following me?" But like I said, I don't know you or this girl or the vibe from the night so she might eat that shit up or she might cringe. "How's it going?" is the boring choice but it's also the safe choice. Important thing is not to over… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/16 04:04 AM |
| 1 | The typical question: "I got a girls number. help."Sounds like she was into you (assuming you didn't pay for her food). You couldn't get her to stay at yours? I'm assuming the sorority house curfew is why you didn't spend the night at her place. You can just jump into logistics. If you haven't hit her up I'd do so today and make plans for tomorrow or Friday night. I don't know what's the schedule of frat parties/registers so use your best judgment. As for opening text, you spent enough time with her that you can do better than "how's it going?".… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/16 01:50 AM |
| 1 | The typical question: "I got a girls number. help."First determine if your aversion to meeting up is because you actually don't want to see her or rather because you're scared. You don't need some super slick Tinder line for a first text. Unless you have a specific scenario you can riff off of (you had an inside joke or she was obsessing over something or whatever) a basic text is fine. "Hey its XX, how's it going?" For example I just met a girl this past Saturday then texted her Sunday evening. 3 day rule is nice in theory but personally I'd ra… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/16 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Is acting "white" as a black male ruining my potential?The main thing is vocal exercises to deepen and strengthen your voice. Speak from the diaphragm. And of course you need to be as built/muscular as possible. Then there's the obvious/standard TRP like frame/game and dressing well. The main difference is that you have a different aesthetic available to you. Even if you're going for the smooth black stereotype, you can still rock piercings (stick to ears), tattoos, clothing, hairstyles, etc. that a white guy can't. Quick shortcut to results: Carry … | /r/askTRP | 03/02/16 09:40 AM |
| 3 | Is acting "white" as a black male ruining my potential?Generally black guys aren't a preference, they're a fetish. Girls want the rap lifestyle, thuggishness, "street cred", etc. It's all stupid, vain, and generally inaccurate shit...so pretty much exactly what girls like. And if it's not the hip hop black guy, then it's the hipster, underground music, streetwear black guy. Either way it's not some plain white dude. By 'acting white', you're taking away all the usual reasons a girl would date/fuck a black guy and only leave her with the social ramif… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/16 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Should you even go out with a girl if you can't fuck her after?No car? | /r/askTRP | 27/01/16 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to get a girlfriend that is both your girl and friend?I seriously don't get it. Sounds like you're just saying the same thing 3 times. Anyway, you have to have realistic expectations from your girlfriends. I don't expect my buddies to suck my dick, and I don't expect my girlfriend to go rock climbing and play Xbox. That doesn't mean you can't share interests. But I find that girls absorb the interests of their man rather than develop them independently. For example, I'm into horror movies and invariably every girl I've been involved with has gotten… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/16 03:25 AM |
| 5 | Is it possible to get a girlfriend that is both your girl and friend?What is the difference between 1, 2, and 3? | /r/askTRP | 26/01/16 10:43 PM |
| 2 | How do I deal with this strange shit test?If you also take the dance class and are going anyway, then just take the jacket. If not, then just keep it safe until she gets her shit together and comes over to pick it up. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/16 05:40 AM |
| 9 | Where is all the advice on how to pick up women ?The supposed reasoning is that rather than learning game ("PUA tricks"), one should instead cultivate high SMV which will lead to interest from women. On the one hand it would be nice to have some more actionable advice. Most of the game/frame writing is focused specifically on not fucking up rather than building attraction. On the other hand, my opinion is that if a girl loses interest because of some trifling technicality (you called the next day instead of 3 days, you paid for her coffee, you… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/16 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Need workout advice (have specific health/joint issues)Glucosamine if you're not already on it. Rehband knee and elbow braces. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with a physical insecurity I cannot change...38" waist here. Just work it. Girls grab my ass all the time. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/16 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Male Model Tinder ExperienceRelax chuckles. Shoe lifts wasn't the right word. I'm talking wearing boots instead of converse. Getting dress shoes with a bit of a heel. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Male Model Tinder ExperienceYou can't change the face you were born with (without surgery), but you can definitely improve your appearance. Understand that most men put minimal effort into their looks and hygiene. Even moderate steps will put you ahead of the pack. And if you go beyond that, I honestly believe that if a guy really, truly puts 100% effort into his looks he can be at least an 8/10. Shredded, muscular physique (the most important) Intensive skin care and hygiene Optimization of hair (long vs short hair, beard… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Plate flaked and wants to reschedule. Need to calibrate response.Thanks. The last 2 months have been really busy with work and school so my free time has suffered. I'm only just getting back out there now. I've already gotten some numbers so hopefully I can start building shit back up. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/16 08:48 PM |
| 2 | TRP and Glasses.As a corollary to the other responses, your prescription is also a factor. I have really poor vision, so when wearing glasses my eyes look 2x smaller. At that point it's not an issue of glasses vs no glasses but rather facial proportions. I get much more interest when wearing contacts. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/16 06:27 PM |
| 6 | "I'm really drunk/fucked" What does this really mean?Translation: I'm absolving myself of responsibility for whatever happens next. It's not her fault you guys hooked up. She's not a slut she was just sooooo wasted. Ignore and escalate. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/16 04:17 AM |
| 1 | OKC: Asked for her number, she declines and says "How about you give me your number"Yes. Conversing with OP gives her attention, validation ("this guy is still talking to me"), and entertainment. Basically she feeds off his energy and reaps benefits, and by keeping it online she does so entirely on her own terms. On a dating website she can interact with him at her leisure, a phone number gives him direct access into her life. Note the last line in the post. She says "I was going to text you". It's a completely empty gesture. Why not just do it and text OP? That should tell you… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/16 05:59 PM |
| 3 | How can cum more?On top of that, start taking ZMA and get plenty of water. After a week of that, without jacking off, you'll blow like a firehose | /r/askTRP | 08/01/16 04:54 PM |
| 9 | OKC: Asked for her number, she declines and says "How about you give me your number"Every woman who's taken my number without giving me hers has never contacted me. It's a soft rejection. She wants to keep interaction online, which isn't real and therefore "safe", and giving you her number would jeopardize that. Taking your number is a token gesture meant to encourage you without requiring anything substantial from her. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/16 01:10 AM |
| 3 | FWB/plates and Oral sex/sexual health/STIsNo he means a dental dam. Don't pull out a roll of fucking cling wrap hahahahaha | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 02:19 AM |
| 1 | How old were you when you lost your V-Plates?20 with an HB8 pole dancer that my BP moves somehow worked on. Was so nervous I could barely get it up. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 09:37 AM |
| 1 | LA Wings?I think most guys are too worried about doxxing to actually meet up. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 12:19 PM |
| 1 | LA Wings?I think most guys are too worried about doxxing to actually meet up. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Crippled bro trying to get laid!Roll with it. Crutches are a permanent arm pump haha | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Help with co workerFine Her: "Hey paperlion60, , can you give me the number of co-worker so i can switch shifts?" She needs a favor. Not a sexual overture. Me: "no" Kind of annoying in the workplace, but I guess you're standing your ground. Her: "You're NOT nice" -(emphasis on the "NOT"). Could be a shit test, most likely her just pouting to get her way... Me: "Here is his number ....." Which works. You immediately cave. What's the point in saying no if you're gonna fold right away? Her: "Thanks! he said yes, he's… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/15 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Need Quick Game Advice: Meeting girl in a couple hoursIf you fucked and there was alcohol, tears, etc. then I would text some random mitigating BS the next day to cover your ass. Otherwise wait a few days, then hit her up to make new plans. Limit meetings with plates to once a week. She may or may not reach out to you first, you can choose to respond or not, but don't get sucked into a conversation unless your text game is stellar. (You asking this question implies that yours is not) Once you've hooked up a few times you can make light overtures in… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/15 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Need Quick Game Advice: Meeting girl in a couple hoursKeep conversation light and based on your environment. If you're at the bar you can talk about it, drinks, other night spots, etc. Avoid "interviewing" her, but let her do most of the talking. Standard ratio of 2:3. Don't reveal too much about yourself. Don't be afraid of silences/natural lulls. Make jokes, tease her, be flirtatious. If she's dressed in a specific way (too fancy, too slutty, etc.) you can comment on that. You've met her before so there should already be some rapport. Just build … | /r/askTRP | 17/12/15 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Need Quick Game Advice: Meeting girl in a couple hoursYou really should have been reading the sidebar/browsing the sub. Anyway, it depends on the vibe. "Standard" RP itinerary is take her to a bar by your house, flirt + kino, maybe go for a walk, then take her back to yours and escalate. Same concept, but just go back to hers instead. You'll have an excuse since your car is there (assuming you drove). Be cool, don't overthink it. Don't spend the night. Don't text her until you're ready to make plans again. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/15 12:47 AM |
| 7 | Help with co workerYou're reading too much into it. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/15 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Lied to my gf of 6 months about my partner count. Feeling guilty about it.You have oneitis. Why is her time as valuable as yours? Why is your sexual history her business? How do you know she's been totally honest herself? Yes these are double standards, but TRP is about prioritizing YOURSELF. This isn't some fundamental lie that can come back to bite you. (Ex: told her you grew up on the streets when you're really from the suburbs). Being honest might make you feel better, but all it's gonna do is fuck up your dynamic. There is no positive outcome from you telling her… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/15 12:37 AM |
| 2 | So.. Never?There was a post on the main sub a while back. Basically someone acting like a big alpha caveman ("Gronk") trying to swing his dick instead of offering anything useful. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/15 05:46 PM |
| 14 | I always start to doubt whether she is actually attractive.There are girls that I'd fuck but I wouldn't take out in public. Don't know who originally came up with this but there's a 4 level scale based on public opinion. 1 - wouldn't fuck 2 - would fuck secretly 3 - would fuck and admit to it 4 - would fuck and brag about it | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 10:24 PM |
| 8 | Don't care about girls = get girls, care = get girlsThis is something I struggle with as well. The first step in overcoming this is having abundance. Note that I didn't say 'abundance mentality'. You need an actual abundance of women. Having multiple women will naturally decrease your investment with new girls, no matter how cool they are. Fake it til you make it works on random sluts you don't care about it, but that's where you apply a mental mindset to a physical reality. In this case you apply the physical reality (abundance) to a mental mind… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/15 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Hips and lower back are sore and tight the day after fucking. What alternatives to squat and deadlift do you guys use?Make sure you stretch thoroughly both before you work out and on your rest days if needed. Most athletes and weightlifters actually have fairly poor flexibility, especially around the hips. For squats and deadlifts make sure you specifically target your hip flexors. The best stretch I've found is a yoga pigeon pose. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 03:48 PM |
| 4 | Does dressing nicely actually help? Getting some conflicting feedback...There's a difference between dressing nicer and dressing better. High quality, fitted t-shirt and jeans beats an off-the-rack suit. But this is something you already mentioned. Two potential reasons: More hood/thuggish look that's different and more appealing to women than the standard button down BS every dude wears to the bar. Boots give you an extra bump in height, and the baggy clothes furthers the impression of size. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 04:06 AM |
| 2 | What is a good way to isolate a girl from her friends at a small party?Sick reference | /r/askTRP | 06/12/15 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Is being boring something you're born with?I'm on mobile so I can't give you the actual link, but I submitted a guide on being interesting to the main subreddit. It's in my submission history. It's a long read but worth it. TL;DR There are two aspects of being interesting: internal and external. Internal interest is based on distancing yourself from the normal lifestyle of media consumption and focusing on productive hobbies and enriching experiences. External interest is based on being humorous and charismatic so that you more easily co… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 12:37 AM |
| 1 | What is some advice you were giving before finding the RP that you thought was really good and insightful but is actually balony?Being upfront and honest. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/15 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Hb9 wanted to use my bathroom.She just needed to pee. Don't read into it. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/15 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Hb9 wanted to use my bathroom.Need more info. Did she stop and chat for a bit or did she head straight for your door? Was your place on her way or did she have to detour? Did she go somewhere else after? | /r/askTRP | 25/11/15 08:46 PM |
| 18 | Found out LTR was a prostitute. More in text, story gets strange, need adviceShe comes from a good family with money and is intelligent enough to get through a technical degree on her own merits, yet she still decided to become a prostitute. And not even just a regular prostitute: she participated in orgies, extortion, and theft. Like this isn't some hooker with a heart of gold who was in a rough place and had to make ends meet; this girl grew up in the damn suburbs and actively sought out this depraved life. And even with you being RP aware she hooked you in deep. She h… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/15 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Tips for picking up older women?The social lives of most girls in their 20s revolve around alcohol. It will be very difficult to run with them while you're underage. I've noticed a preference on TRP for teenage girls. Might as well scoop them up now while it's easiest. Being RP aware will put you miles ahead of the other boys. Just speaking practically: your window for easily picking up 16 year olds is much much smaller than your window for picking up 25 year olds. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 02:38 AM |
| 6 | What would you do if a plate gave you an STD?I wouldn't say shit. Cut her off completely. That pussy isn't getting any cleaner. Unless you sincerely don't give a shit and want to keep fucking her. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 02:29 AM |
| 2 | What would you do if a plate gave you an STD?Exactly. Calling her out will only incite drama and allow word to spread. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Can women develop oneitis?Alpha widows | /r/askTRP | 21/11/15 11:51 PM |
| 8 | Being physically attractive is really it, guy uses Chad on tinder and get guaranteed replies from womenYou're approaching female standards with a male mindset. What she refers to as "chunky" we would consider flabby/skinnyfat/Dad-bod. What we consider chunky to be (aka fat fucks) are largely invisible to women. Similarly, women's idea of an "average body" for a guy is much more physically fit then our male standard of an average body. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/15 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Being physically attractive is really it, guy uses Chad on tinder and get guaranteed replies from womenHahahahaha more so that I just generally look like shit unless I specifically clean up. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/15 12:56 PM |
| 11 | Being physically attractive is really it, guy uses Chad on tinder and get guaranteed replies from womenalthough if you're devilishly handsome, just not being fat would also render you to be on the attractive spectrum among the girls I hear a lot of this sentiment from girls. Sometimes openly, sometimes when they think no one is listening, sometimes when I'm beta-in-disguise. Girl 1: Ugh, XX is sooo hawt Girl 2: He's always covered up, he could be chunky Girl 1: Yeahhh, but the FACE collective swoon | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/15 06:39 AM |
| 2 | Definition of a red flagI guarantee that homeboy she caught chlamydia from didn't have to take her on some vacation before he hit. Normally I'd advise you go nuclear and try to salvage a lay out of this before you burn the bridge and move on, but with the chlamydia cherry on top of this shit sundae what's the fucking point? Hard next. This girl is poison and if you never saw her again it would still be too damn soon. Also, for future reference a girl never gets vacations or the "girlfriend" label before you've had sex. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Double chin at low body fat what can I do?Also look into orthodontics. Might be a less drastic/more cost effective method than surgery. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/15 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Race to the Top 2: Electric Boogaloo (The Red Pill Guide for Minorities)There's a difference between being open-minded and being desperate. If you want to arbitrarily limit your sexual options then that's your prerogative. Are you saying you'd take a mediocre white girl who fit the "blonde bimbo" mold over an attractive black or hispanic girl? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Race to the Top 2: Electric Boogaloo (The Red Pill Guide for Minorities)Yes, you can and should go for any women you want, wherever you want, but if you want the biggest bang for your buck (pun intended) you’ll know how to strategize. Work on your reading comprehension. A lot of guys don't care about a girl's race. That's who the suggestions are for. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Race to the Top 2: Electric Boogaloo (The Red Pill Guide for Minorities)Liking blondes is one thing, wanting a "blonde bimbo" is another. If you can't make that distinction then the guide is wasted on you. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Are european women different from american women? (in the sense of TRP) (AWALT)Same girls, different outfits. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/15 11:23 PM |
| 2 | What is the red pill goal on lifting?What are climb ups? | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Zinc supplements - heard they're good for increasing testosterone and sex drive. Some questions for those who take them.I use Optimum Nutrition. You can find it on Amazon. Huge loads, crazy dreams, sleep like a log. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 06:01 AM |
| 5 | College major giving me anxiety"Doing what you love" is overrated. Most important part is making a living. I started off as political science. Was a huge waste and now I'm struggling to catch up as pre-med. The important part is to understand the flow of ability/aptitude/qualifications. You could theoretically take an engineering degree and go into corporate work, you can't take a fine arts degree and go to med school (at least not without prerequisites). In my case specifically: if I had taken bio from the start I could have… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Europeans on TRP, how is SMV like in Europe in regards to race/ethnicity?I would imagine that Middle Eastern and South Asian men would fill the same niche occupied by Black/Hispanic men in the US. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Accidentally set up 'dates' with two different girls for Friday night.Might be too difficult if it was you alone, but your friend is there too no? Very doable. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/15 06:35 AM |
| 3 | Rules of male friendshipA man's got to have a line. Set boundaries and enforce them. It really depends on your own preferences and choice. Maybe you tolerate getting physical with each other, or maybe one punch is an untenable sign of disrespect. Are ex-girlfriends fair game? Do you consider 'borrowed' cash to be a gift, or is it a loan that needs to be promptly recompensed? Figure out your 'rules', articulate them clearly in the normal course of friendship, then terminate the relationship if those rules are broken. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/15 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Race to the Top 2: Electric Boogaloo (The Red Pill Guide for Minorities)Obviously you didn't ready the post carefully since I clearly say several times that you should approach whoever you want. Let's say you're getting dinner. The Italian joint is selling plates for $18, but the Arab place has a $5 combo while the Mexican truck is selling plates for $3. Now maybe you really fucking love Italian and you're fine paying that much, but a lot of guys are just trying to grub and don't have a preference. Now if you do love Italian the goal would be to make enough money th… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so rude, stuck up, and have a stand offish attitude?If a 350lb greasy troll of a woman came up to me and sexually propositioned I'd be very disgusted. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/15 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Race to the Top 2: Electric Boogaloo (The Red Pill Guide for Minorities)Incredibly few men are TRP aware. I've definitely gotten some white guys riled up just by poking fun at their flannel. You're absolutely right that racial shit tests aren't anything special. Just reminding guys that there's plenty of ammo if you want to banter back. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Race to the Top 2: Electric Boogaloo (The Red Pill Guide for Minorities)I completely agree, but some of the guys holding out on the marriage debate seem to think that they'll be fine as long as she's not white. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Race to the Top 2: Electric Boogaloo (The Red Pill Guide for Minorities)I fucking love Boston. I was there visiting last year and I had a great time. I made plans to go see the Singer Sargent murals at the library and invited this cute little Italian girl to come with me. She gave me this resounding "Fuuuuuuck no" and told me to just stop by her apartment when I was done hahaha | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Race to the Top 2: Electric Boogaloo (The Red Pill Guide for Minorities)Not exactly. Like, a light-skinned Punjabi can be successful with white women, just like a light skinned Persian or Lebanese man. A more medium toned Indian can be successful with Hispanic women. However, a darker Moroccan or Egyptian can use their mixture of Arab and Black to their advantage when dating black women. It's not about the actual skin color. So I'm not sure if a very dark Dravidian could get that same benefit. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Race to the Top 2: Electric Boogaloo (The Red Pill Guide for Minorities)It applies to "blacker" Arab guys because some of us do have more African features like very curly hair or fuller lips. Essentially passing as exotic mixed black. Black women like this because modern Black American culture also idealizes Caucasian features and considers mixed black and "lightskins" to be the most attractive. So while white hypergamy harms you with white girls, it helps you with black girls. I'm not sure if a super dark Indian would benefit from this, but it's generally true that… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Being a short man has a lot of women calling me "sweetie", "honey", and "darling" right off the bat.Absolutely man, glad to help. If it makes you feel better, one of my plates called me 'cupcake' today. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 03:35 AM |
| 18 | Being a short man has a lot of women calling me "sweetie", "honey", and "darling" right off the bat.I'm 6'3" and girls call me that shit too. It just means that they're overly friendly or overly comfortable with you. Honestly man 99% of what girls say is meaningless bullshit. As long as your getting laid and you're personally/professionally accomplished then who the fuck cares what girls say. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/15 07:11 PM |
| 2 | The one harsh red pill truth every single guy that isn't white has to be aware of.Not in Newark or the bigger cities. I'm talking Kinnelon and Freehold. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/15 11:55 PM |
| 5 | The one harsh red pill truth every single guy that isn't white has to be aware of.Boston, Providence, Jersey | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/15 11:50 PM |
| 2 | The one harsh red pill truth every single guy that isn't white has to be aware of.Yeah I've never had a problem hooking up with French girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/15 09:23 PM |
| 17 | The one harsh red pill truth every single guy that isn't white has to be aware of.Honestly every minority man has a different experience. I have a hard time with white girls in LA, but I do fine on the East coast. But plenty of guys find the opposite to be true. Perhaps it's the concept of "model minorities". Blacks and Hispanics do better in liberal areas while Indians and Asians do better where it's conservative. For what it's worth, I'm North African and I get much more play when I pass as mixed black than I do as an "Arab". | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/15 09:09 PM |
| 2 | A plate of mine texted me a long text saying basically "I don't want to commit to a relationship right now, I want to keep my options open." Why does this bother me so much?In these scenarios you determine what she wants, and then make sure she doesn't get it. In this case she either wants the validation of locking you down OR you crawling back to her and getting rejected. Don't respond at all. Since you said you have other plates that you like better I would just soft next and wait for her to message you. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 01:14 AM |
| 5 | A plate of mine texted me a long text saying basically "I don't want to commit to a relationship right now, I want to keep my options open." Why does this bother me so much?Female trying to rewrite the situation. Since you won't commit to her, she's trying to frame it as her not wanting to lock herself down. "You can't fire me...I quit!" Female equivalent of a dude saying "she was ugly anyway" after she shoots him down. It's a power play with an element of female dread game. She's playing into your natural instinct to mate guard by telling you to act fast if you want to lock her down, because if you don't soon some other guy will. And as an added bonus she reframes… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Hookah game?Oh absolutely that was a big move in college haha. Then isolate/escalate later. I just think it's weaker 1 on 1, after you've picked her up. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/15 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy & MicrohomesIf it's like most colleges, welding and woodworking will be by sculpture and fine arts. Plenty of young liberal girls running around, and plenty are already hooking up with dirty old hippies haha. A clean, fit, gun-shooting martial artist is going to be a breath of fresh air if you can get past the shit tests. Otherwise try a meetup, especially one geared towards camping/hiking/backpacking. Any girl who can handle roughing it in the woods isn't going to turn down miniature luxury. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/15 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy & MicrohomesThe way I see girls gushing on FB about all the trendy microhomes and tree houses they see online (pinterest, tumblr, toxel, and here on reddit) leads me to believe it shouldn't be a problem. Once they walk in and see the fixtures and tiling should be enough to shut them up. How old are these girls? It's mainly 30+ year old women (aka post wall) that care that much about material property. If you can maneuver yourself into circles with younger women I think you'll have much more success. In high… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/15 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Hookah game?Never really works for me as an after-party thing. Takes too long to set up and heat the coals, during which time she loses interest OR you have already escalated so it's pointless. Also if it falls/gets knocked over its a big hassle and a huge mood killer. Works fine when you're making moves on a girl at a party/kickback. Shotgun the smoke then kiss her. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/15 07:33 PM |
| 1 | White guy with dreadsHippie chicks are gonna love it but tbh I've never met a white guy with good looking dreads. Generally if he pulls it off its because he's a hot guy who could pull off anything. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/15 04:51 PM |
| 0 | Wealthy man hides past to find a good girl = Liar. Slut hides past to find beta provider= OK.Ok superstar how about you explain why | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Wealthy man hides past to find a good girl = Liar. Slut hides past to find beta provider= OK.So she can fuck right off if she has an STD, and you can fuck right off if you're poor. Same concept. Men want sexual ownership, women want provision. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 06:45 PM |
| -7 | Wealthy man hides past to find a good girl = Liar. Slut hides past to find beta provider= OK.Ok then playing Devils Advocate, how is a woman's sexual past any of your business then? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 01:29 AM |
| -13 | Wealthy man hides past to find a good girl = Liar. Slut hides past to find beta provider= OK.I'm not saying it's unethical or immoral. But in this scenario he's deliberately leading her to believe the condo is his main place of residence. There was that recent post about the guy with the gf who gave massages/handjobs. Technically, she didn't lie. She never said she wasn't a prostitute. She just neglected to mention it. Now lies of omission are a big deal, no? At the end of the day, lying is lying. Girls don't always deserve the truth, but don't misrepresent the reality of the situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 10:12 PM |
| -34 | Wealthy man hides past to find a good girl = Liar. Slut hides past to find beta provider= OK.He's absolutely lying to her. He's not wrong to do what he's doing but he's very clearly/actively misleading her about his living situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 08:53 PM |
| 1 | what is a good reason to not drink alcohol?Just get a single vodka/soda and sip on it all night then when people offer you more just say you're driving. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/15 05:19 PM |
| 9 | Any good posts about male fashion?It mainly caters to the hipster/liberal crowd, just the standard reddit demographics. Also, most of those outfits would look much better if they were on physically fit men. They look shitty because the guys look shitty. Seriously just look at the posture on #6. Although that SuperJew/Blade outfit looks pretty fucking horrendous. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/15 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Is "you're too tall" a shit test?"Don't make me come down there" | /r/askTRP | 16/10/15 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Lifting and traveling in SE AsiaWas in Asia for a month earlier this year. Get the app YAYOG (You Are Your Own Gym) and follow it as best you can, you'll probably lose strength but you can at least maintain some size/definition if you use proper form and volume. Also food is a lot different in Asia. Generally cleaner than western food and also portions are much smaller, so you're gonna have to try pretty hard to get chubby. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/15 06:56 AM |
| 2 | Never underestimate the power of walking away/radio silence. It works wonders when a girl is behaving how you don't like.Ahh I see so you're talking about a period of no contact after you physically eject her. I can see that working. Especially since you taking her home/making her leave is a punishment and rejection in itself. The problem with doing that via text is that I'm not in a position to dictate the situation like that, ie I can't 'make' her go anywhere. All I have is a withdrawal of my time, energy, and presence. So for maximum efficacy I have to maintain that absence until she breaks first and messages m… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/15 10:36 PM |
| 5 | Never underestimate the power of walking away/radio silence. It works wonders when a girl is behaving how you don't like.Generally I don't have experience initiating a soft next in person because when I'm physically present I can successfully defuse the situation/put her in place to the point where it's not warranted. However girls get a lot braver behind a screen, and likewise my game isn't as strong, so my main experience is soft nexting via text or messaging. So usually what happens is that the girl gets pissy for any number of reasons. I said something "offensive", I didn't do some bullshit she wanted, or she'… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/15 08:02 PM |
| 10 | Never underestimate the power of walking away/radio silence. It works wonders when a girl is behaving how you don't like.In my experience it doesn't work if you initiate contact. You have to wait for the girl to hit you up first. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/15 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Tips for for pussy eatinghttps://youtu.be/7ToGjYYJCoM Pro level is coordinating your mouth with your hands/body. Push/pull. Hit the erogenous zones in time with the movements of your lips and tongue. Also when a girl says she's close, your natural instinct will be to speed up. Don't fucking do that. Just keep doing exactly what you were doing (same tempo and movement) and she'll cum within 5-10 seconds. Most guys fuck it up but if you have the jaw strength to keep it up she'll cum again almost immediately after. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/15 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that 20% of men get 80% of women?A more accurate way of looking at it is that 20% of men are having 80% of the sex. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/15 08:11 AM |
| 2 | Is it true that 20% of men get 80% of women?That's right, you can't forget statistics and standard deviations. 68-95-99.7 and all that. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/15 08:09 AM |
| 37 | Guy is annoyed that his girlfriend forces him to become friends with her past fuckbuddies. AskWomen: "Ugh, man up and stop complaining!"Scarcity mentality/oneitis. You don't want a relationship with this kind of person. The OP knows this deep down, but he's too invested in the girl to drop her. He's asking the question to seek external validation either to justify continuing to see her or to leave her with the group's approval. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 03:26 PM |
| 108 | Woman complains in TwoX how her ex LTR was disgusted about her riding the CC. They conclude that he is abusive for having standards and making her feel bad about her past, and mostly for ruining the fun of riding the CC for her.Women are solipsistic, meaning they assume that what is true/attractive for them applies to everyone. A woman would be ecstatic if she found a man with plenty of prior experience with women (preselection) and just had fun with them, but now after meeting her he's decided that his fun is over and he wants to seriously commit to her because she's so special and perfect. They don't understand that a man couldn't care less about a woman's commitment. They want her sex, and how valuable is that sex i… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/15 10:58 PM |
| 8 | Why do most women have such awful taste in music?That's less women having good taste and more women mirroring the interests of men they find attractive. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/15 04:47 PM |
| 0 | Guys on here that aren't white, do you also see your results changing dramatically based on what state or region of the country you're in?My theory is that LA has a sizeable enough Middle Eastern population with some unattractive (albeit generally true) stereotypes. Hairy, slovenly, poorly dressed, too much cologne, sex-obsessed/thirsty, etc. So those perceptions color my interactions with girls from the outset. In places like Boston and Providence where the vast majority of people are white, there's no significant minority community to interact with and create those stereotypes. So when I meet girls they judge me on my own merits… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/15 01:46 AM |
| -1 | Guys on here that aren't white, do you also see your results changing dramatically based on what state or region of the country you're in?This question isn't that ridiculous. I live in LA and don't really do that great with white girls here. However, whenever I'm on the East coast (Boston, Rhode Island, Jersey) I'm tearing through them. I'm running the same game on equivalent girls, but I just do a lot better. Similarly, I spent a month in Thailand earlier this year and I was almost exclusively hooking up with French (aka white) girls studying/travelling abroad. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/15 01:20 AM |
| 2 | How do you know if a woman is a slut or not?Plenty of Egyptian sluts in the states. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/15 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you practically have to be a Chad to have success with the hot blonde airhead bimbo types?I wrote up a guide specifically for minorities. Check out my submission history. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/15 06:56 AM |
| 10 | Women have better communication skills? Bullshit!I think you're really overestimating what a female 2 looks like. Girls hit on Chad waaayyy more than guys hit on ugly obese girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/15 07:19 PM |
| 11 | Women have better communication skills? Bullshit!At that point their SMV is so low they're essentially excluded from normal life. How could they possibly develop normal social skills? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/15 07:05 PM |
| 2 | LTR having coed sleepoversJust went camping last night. 3 guys and 1 girl in the same tent and no one hooked up with her. But to be fair we all got there at the same time, no one randomly showing up at 1am. And the girl is NOT in a serious relationship. If the guy looks like a bitch (low SMV) he probably just arranged the positioning to sleep next to your presumably attractive girlfriend and try and make moves, and nothing may have happened. See if you can suss things out but this is a red flag regardless of if she hooke… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/15 04:25 PM |
| 3 | How would you define feelz before realz in relation to trp?♪Beauty and the Chad♪ | /r/askTRP | 28/08/15 07:05 PM |
| 10 | How would you define feelz before realz in relation to trp?What you're describing is hamstering. Just the mental gymnastics a person performs (because both men and women can hamster) to avoid cognitive dissonance and justify their actions. Feels before reals is a similar idea but more specifically refers to how a woman will not act according to the reality of her situation, but rather will act according to her feelings. The two often go hand in hand. For example, a woman has a serious boyfriend but then meets Chad at a party. She wants to sleep with him… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/15 04:50 PM |
| 5 | Question about shit tests and "Lets just be friends"It's incredibly unlikely OP will be able to use her more than she'll use him. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/15 04:59 AM |
| 24 | Women get stupid little dogs and baby them because they should've had kids already.And they're equally shitty at raising and training them, except now it's 60 pounds of muscle instead of 5 pounds of fur. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 04:22 AM |
| 10 | 20-year-old "sugar baby" charges men $500 a date, sees as "empowering"Every girl does that shit. White, black, brown, purple, whatever. 21st century war brides. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 04:32 AM |
| 5 | When to Stop?There's a difference between giving 110% and "chasing the night". Giving 110% is good. It means you're not cutting corners and allowing yourself to realize your full potential. You don't half-ass your workouts, studies, etc. Chasing the night is bad. Instead of allowing things to progress naturally, you awkwardly force them and end up unsatisfied or even worse off than before. Giving 110% means doing that last set of lifts even though you're tired after work and just want to go home and relax. W… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/15 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Skinny, cute white girls post sorority recruiting video; feminists and diversity police wild out!Absolutely, same at UCI, CSUN, and plenty of other schools. But when you get to schools where Greek life dominates like USC and LMU (ie private liberal arts) then you find that the frats and sororities are overwhelmingly white. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/15 02:08 PM |
| 1 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 1]Absolutely man. And for me since I'm on 5x5 derivatives it always keeps me on track. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/15 01:23 PM |
| 0 | 15 Reasons To NOT Date A Single MomThey're called Alpha widows for a reason. Like it or not you'll never be able to live up to the dead. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/15 11:20 PM |
| 6 | Women's Hierarchy of Feelings, Dog Shit, and BaseballAhh okay. So alpha widowing applies when a woman is transitioning from alpha to beta (aka hitting the wall), not a younger woman still on the CC. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/15 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Women's Hierarchy of Feelings, Dog Shit, and BaseballHow does this tie into the prevalence of alpha widows? It seems that with women's mercenary sexual nature they wouldn't get hung up on previous partners. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/15 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Going to France today girlfriend broke up with me last night how should I open/approach french girls at bars/clubs as a foreignerFrench girls are pretty open and many of them speak English. Just approach them how you would an American girl and enjoy how much easier it is. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/15 06:16 PM |
| 1 | What do you consider a HB5 through HB9?Yeah in retrospect it still wasn't objective. Went through and made some changes. Just goes to show just how much personal taste varies, but bear in mind that the HB6 had a much much higher quality photo than any girl save the HB9. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/15 09:18 AM |
| 3 | What do you consider a HB5 through HB9?Yeah even when I was trying to be objective it's still kinda hard. The first HB8 was supposed to be an example of hotness mainly based on body. Anel Rodriguez is a much better example of an HB8. I can't really excuse the 3rd HB8. She's a legit model who I think is a 10 (at least in her other pictures) and I thought I was being objective rating her an 8. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/15 09:12 AM |
| 4 | What do you consider a HB5 through HB9?Ahh I've seen that picture before. I guess that paragraph was just subconsciously in my mind, but I didn't purposefully copy it. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/15 06:35 AM |
| 10 | What do you consider a HB5 through HB9?I'm very much of the opinion that there's no such thing as an HB10. There are just 9's thst fit people's niches/tastes/fetishes. So for example if you like Asians then an Asian 9 would be a 10 to you. Likewise if you liked redheads, mixed girls, goth chicks, etc. Secondly, take everything with a grain if salt on TRP. There's a lot of bullshitting going on in FRs. That said, no one is giving you any examples so here are mine. Excuse the few examples since I'm on mobile. And disclaimer, I'm not re… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/15 02:58 AM |
| 2 | What happened to that fictional post about the Russian gangster? One of the funniest things I#ve ever read."Gene Smoke" by Miracle Jones | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Right approach to a fucker on the bus?That's the thing, you never assume. Next time it won't be some ghetto dude on the bus, it'll be a guy in the club and his whole crew is a few feet away. I'm not saying don't practice groundwork. If you DO find yourself on the ground you need to be able to handle things. But if you want a martial art more suited to a street fight stick with muay thai, judo, or regular old boxing. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Right approach to a fucker on the bus?There are no rules in a street fight. They are almost never "fair fights" or truly one on one. You might dominate the other guy on the ground, but then his friends come by and stomp your head in. A few good kicks can be devastating. Better to stay on your feet. More situational awareness, better ability to combat multiple opponents, and most importantly allows you to more easily run away. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Right approach to a fucker on the bus?This is terrible advice. NEVER take a street fight to the ground. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/15 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Does being alpha really mean anything other than being good-looking?I'll admit he hasn't really been aging well since LOTR, but he's very obviously a handsome man. Even pushing 60 he looks better than 90% of the dudes who browse here. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/15 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Can high SMV ethnic men in the United States do as well as tall handsome white guys?If all other variables are completely equal a white guy will do better than an ethnic guy ~90% of the time. The solution then is to: Make sure everything else is NOT equal. More game, stronger frame, better body, more money, etc. Avoid girls who care more about race. (Sorority girls, country girls, hipsters, and ironically most feminists and SJWs) | /r/askTRP | 10/07/15 07:10 PM |
| 26 | My girlfriend left out the number of guys she blew in her partner count...37 Fudging her partner count is a red flag, but if we dropped every girl that did it none of us would ever be in relationships. It was just a blowjob, so it doesn't count. She was on vacation, so it doesn't count. Didn't cum? Black out drunk? Small dick? "Emotionally vulnerable"? Doesn't count! It's shitty, but ubiquitous. Grass is green, water is wet, women lie. It's a fundamental fact of life. This is one of those tests you need to handle preemptively. When she tells you her partner count in a… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 02:09 AM |
| 3 | What is the difference between a plate and a booty call?Absolutely. FWB do actual friendly activities together Iike movies, lunch, camping, museums, day trips, etc. Plates are pretty much restricted to your or her residence or date outings at the coffee shop, bar, or club. Basically you actually like hanging out with FWB while a plate is just sex. The big difference between GF and FWB is exclusivity (at least from her) and being "official". She gets the public validation from being your official girlfriend, you give her more attention than you would … | /r/askTRP | 20/06/15 01:54 PM |
| 5 | What is the difference between a plate and a booty call?I believe the general heirearchy is: One night stand Booty call "Plate" Friends with benefits Short term girlfriend Long term girlfriend Fiancé Wife The sluttiest and least attractive girls are at the ONS end while the beautiful and virginal girls are at the wife end, although most RPers are against marriage. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/15 01:14 PM |
| 1 | The Rule of 2's: How to avoid OneitisCombination of amused mastery ("I know you're a flaky bitch but I will generously grace you with my penis") and like a subtle sarcastic disdain ("I know all your excuses are bullshit and I'm one strong breeze away from heading out the door.") You're pretty spot on as to why a girl boomerangs. Either she attempted to swing onto another guy and failed (and you're just backup) or she just wants some attention and validation and wants to see how much she can squeeze out of you. More rarely you did s… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 08:51 PM |
| 1 | The Rule of 2's: How to avoid OneitisMainly PUA type stuff. TRP is very broad and detailed with technical information, philosophy, MRA stories, advanced theories, individual FRs, and so on. It has solid content, but it's much milder than TRP. Would be a good introduction for new guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 08:37 PM |
| 7 | The Rule of 2's: How to avoid OneitisShe can put up a stack or keep walking. Aka she plays by your rules or you're picking up your ball and going home. Don't humor her, respect her, supplicate, or concede ANYTHING. She marginally entered your frame by hitting you up. If you dick around or meander you transfer power back to her. Immediately you want to make moves. "Meet me at X place at Y pm." Anything she says that's not an eager and resounding YES is her trying to draw you back into orbit. Any sexual hesitation (besides normal LMR… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 03:00 AM |
| 9 | The Rule of 2's: How to avoid OneitisThe idea is that every woman CAN be bought for $5 of PUA trickery, it just depends on the man who's buying. Insert Brad Pitt here. So yeah, you can pay $1000 for the privilege of holding her maiden hand, but last week Chad fucked her up the ass for a ballpoint pen and half a Snickers bar. If you have to pay $1000 you've already lost even if you 'win' her, just because it's incredibly unlikely that's her price for every other guy. AWALT. If she really liked you the price would be lower. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 12:06 AM |
| 21 | The Rule of 2's: How to avoid OneitisI always used to do 3 just for the sake of poetry, but if she says no the second time it's almost guaranteed she'll say no the third. This way you can walk away with your head high and keep a semblance of frame if you run into her again. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 11:55 PM |
| 3 | How have you guys gone about building a strong frame?Frame is essentially your confidence + composure + sense of humor + attitude, filtered through the context of your personality and values. The easiest way to build confidence is to give yourself reasons to be confident. Be fit, dress well, make money, be smart, etc. If you look good with your shirt off, then you'll be less self conscious around women and more comfortable escalating. If you're well read and educated you'll be more confident while talking to other people. If you're big and strong … | /r/askTRP | 10/06/15 01:46 PM |
| 1 | What is probably the worst area in the USA in terms of women and game?"Ay man u gotta cig??" I fucking hate this city. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/15 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain to me why there are posts of indian/pakistani guys always saying they can't get the attention of white women constantly?There are girls of every race hooking up with white guys. I'm saying Indian girls are the most likely to do so, and to avoid other minorities. While Arabs and Hispanics hook up with white guys, they also hook up with black guys and within their own races. I would argue that in the white/black/Hispanic/Arab exchange that men of those races can participate. In the white/asian/Indian exchange, minority men are excluded. I think it's a stretch to say that hook up rates and marriage rates are proport… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/15 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Can someone explain to me why there are posts of indian/pakistani guys always saying they can't get the attention of white women constantly?http://cdn.okccdn.com/blog/raceattr/scores2009.png?v=1 Showing that black and Hispanic women have preferences for their own race, although it does show female Hispanic preference for whites as well. Although usually in these metrics Indians are lumped in with Asians and Arabs are lumped in with whites. We're not talking about marriage and cohabitation. The general RP context is casual dating/hooking up. The reason white/Indian marriage is so low is because white guys don't want want to marry Ind… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/15 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Can someone explain to me why there are posts of indian/pakistani guys always saying they can't get the attention of white women constantly?The majority of black and Hispanic women prefer black and Hispanic men. Dating site metrics confirm that. I'm middle eastern and while a good amount of the women avoid Arab men, white hypergamy isn't totally rampant in the sense that other minorities get some action. (Exhibit A: the Kardashians) The only possible exception is Asian women. But because the Asian-american community is so well established and to a certain degree noninclusive, there's a sizable amount of Asian women that exclusively … | /r/askTRP | 09/06/15 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Can someone explain to me why there are posts of indian/pakistani guys always saying they can't get the attention of white women constantly?There are a lot of negative stereotypes against them, and very few masculine/dangerous ones. Latino guys have machismo and cartels, Asians have kung fu and triads, Arabs have oil money and terrorist groups. What do Indians have? Bollywood? Furthermore most Indian guys do very little to increase their own SMV. I see plenty of Asian and Hispanic guys in the gym, but almost no Indians. Although to be fair, one thing I've noticed is that Indian girls tend to have the most hypergamy when it comes to … | /r/askTRP | 09/06/15 01:51 AM |
| 6 | Take a page from a gay man's bookMen aren't as picky as women. Obviously our attraction is more largely based on raw physical attraction than women, but our standards are much lower. Women only consider 20% of men to be attractive, but I would argue that men consider ~60% of women to be attractive. Maybe even more if you're fine with "average" girls (plain faced, chubby, etc.) When you apply that same mentality to gay men, the heterosexual sex disparity disappears. They have relatively more options within the community because … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 12:36 AM |
| 3 | "Is that what you tell all your dates?""Only the pretty ones" Edit: Just saw you already said it. Just deliver it confidently. In my experience she will focus on the other "pretty" girls rather than you calling her pretty. Alternatively you could take it the other direction and say "only the dumb ones" with a big ol smirk. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/15 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Three-Ways in Los AngelesThe biggest problem in LA is logistics, so make sure you operate somewhere close to home. Bitch shields are pretty high here, so make sure your looks and approach game are stellar. Especially if you're trying to pull a girl from the club. Girls are generally more receptive in bars, although I honestly can't say which venue is best for picking up a ONS threesome. Picking up a 2nd girl for a threesome is a lot different than cruising around with a male wingman. Do you have any plates you can pract… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/15 03:11 PM |
| 79 | LTR Question: How to ask a girl to be your girlfriend without compromising frame?You don't. If you're high value enough she will constantly be pushing for commitment, which you offer at a point you deem appropriate. If she's not foaming at the mouth trying to lock you down, then you're obviously missing something. Lift more. Reassess your status. Take a step back and examine any shortcomings in your game/frame. If she's legitimately not interested in a LTR at all that's a huge red flag and you don't want her as your girlfriend anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/15 12:02 PM |
| 1 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [FINAL]Hey! The main thing to focus on is that mentality is for making new friends, not so much on how to interact within the context of an established relationship. For example, let's say you meet a girl and hit it off. Then a few days later she invites you to go to an art show/baseball game/bar crawl/etc. Some random thing you'd rather not do. You could refuse...but who knows if you'll have a second chance. We all know that girls are so fickle and oftentimes we only have a small window of opportunity… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/15 04:34 AM |
| 8 | "Such Is My Nature"Is it ridiculous? In reality, girls only have about 20 years and yet they still squander them. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 09:22 PM |
| 11 | "Such Is My Nature"Well if we're trying to bring reality into this then the parable would end with the girl finding out that while she was playing in the dirt and clay, other girls had already built their houses on stone. And even if she could find a spot to build on, all her tools are old and rusted. There's nothing wrong with variety and finding out what you like, but time is a finite. This is what girls don't seem to understand. I've heard it said before that if women had 1000 years of youth and beauty, they'd … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 09:08 PM |
| 16 | "Such Is My Nature"Careful now, that mentality of "trying many things to find what I like" is the justification girls use to ride the CC. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Alpha Men are Lions, Beta Men are SpidersHyenas are badass. Spiders are creepy. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 05:23 AM |
| 34 | Girlfriend on tinder: what's the Red Pill way to go about this?...is this a real question? You fucking next her yesterday. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/15 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Is it a good idea to hit on the girls who've known you for being blue pill?You can't just immediately start gaming girls who knew you well during your BP phase. Most likely you will seem presumptuous and weird them out because the natural inclination of a girl is to keep a beta a beta. Then not only are you still not getting laid, but now you have a bad rep in your social circle. Give it a few months, or even a few weeks, of you lifting, holding frame, and getting new girls. Once they see that you're capable of attracting other women and that your confidence is not a m… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/15 04:27 PM |
| 1 | A girl with a hijab said 'we should get to know each other better' so confused..The hijab doesn't mean shit, look at her clothes. There are girls who wear the hijab with their thongs riding up just like there are girls who wash down jizz with sacramental wine. If she's dressed very trendy and stylishly, with tight clothing or leggings, high heels, a lot of hair or skin showing, heavy makeup, etc. then just proceed normally. Keep things clean/deniable in public and you'll be surprised how dirty she gets in private. If she's dressed more demurely, with loose or heavy clothing… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/15 08:00 AM |
| 7 | "Pavlov on Plates"Very interesting. I really enjoyed reading this. I just have a few questions. The following night, I sent her a text clearly stating my parameters: it stated that we both needed to cut back on smoking, and we could only smoke after fucking. It seems counter-intuitive to be so blunt after such careful and subtle machinations. I'm sure you're aware of this, as you mention that people tend to plot and rebel when pressed. If your frame was less solid I can see her blatantly refusing simply to assert… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 12:14 AM |
| 2 | You know those men who stare at girls whom women complain about? I am one of them. So genuine question: What do I do with my eyes? (Or how do I stop obsessing about women?)Maybe teenage girls won't be making out with posters of that guy in their bedrooms, but he's really not that bad. He pulls off the shaved head look very well. If you get down to 8-12% body fat your jawline and cheekbones will really pop out. You could be much more handsome than you think. That childish behavior I described is a reactive energy. Every day life has a multitude of stimuli and they dictate your responses. Jumpy behavior shows you are buffeted by them and are indecisive on what to do… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/15 03:06 AM |
| 25 | You know those men who stare at girls whom women complain about? I am one of them. So genuine question: What do I do with my eyes? (Or how do I stop obsessing about women?)For the most part it's not the staring, it's the low SMV. I've never heard a girl complain about a hot guy looking at her. Keep lifting and losing weight and you'll be fine. The other issue is that "kid in a candy store" behavior. Quick, excitable, jerky, wide eyed, etc. That behavior is worrying enough in a small child, but in a grown man it's disgusting. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/15 01:42 AM |
| 2 | RP Speculative Fiction/RP Media in general -- Recommendations & DiscussionWe try to avoid discussing media on TRP because it's counterintuitive to analyze fictional scenarios with real world ideas. That being said, you can learn a lot about a society by the media it produces and what its people choose to consume. And sometimes it can help to internalize RP ideas when they are presented eloquently and aesthetically. Novels: Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin, The Count of Monte Cristo TV: Mixology Comics: Girls by the Luna Brothers, Y: The Last Man, and one specific scen… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/15 09:45 PM |
| 9 | Chad Thundercock Jr. (The mark of the whore)The same thing as it says about a guy who sleeps with many women. Men and women are different and should be held to different standards. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/15 04:10 AM |
| 3 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [FINAL]Damn. Just check out my submission history and they should all be there. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/15 07:02 PM |
| 8 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [FINAL]Part of it is picking your friends better. Your always going to clash with guys who are fundamentally different than you. This is what I meant by the beta/BP guys who will drag you down. They have that crabs in the bucket mentality and will never allow you to enjoy yourself or work on themselves. What I meant was that you can't pursue friendship with men the same way you pursue a relationship with a woman. With women you have to be constantly guarded with your attention, validation, thoughts, an… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/15 12:21 AM |
| 4 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 3]When I first started I was up at 6am to make sure nothing went wrong. 3 weeks in and I had everything down to a science. I set one alarm at 7:55, then two separate alarms at 8am (one I have to walk to) so that I was definitely awake. I would shower the night before, after I got back from the gym, so it's not like I needed a full deep cleanse in the morning. Washing my face, putting in my contacts, and brushing my teeth took MAYBE 10 minutes tops. My suit, shirt, and tie would all be hanging read… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 11:48 PM |
| 5 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 3]Time management wasn't something I was originally going to cover, but many commenters asked about how they could fit everything into their day. You make a good point, but people like to hear the sizzle before they eat the steak. Draw them in with the fun stuff before hitting them with the work. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 04:36 PM |
| 3 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 3]I think timers are very effective for a single large project, like writing a term paper. I agree that they're not always effective, which is why I mentioned saving relaxation for the end of the day. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 04:30 PM |
| 3 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 3]I was interning at a law firm. Commute took 20 minutes. I don't eat breakfast and I would lay out my suit the night before. 30 minutes was more than enough time to wash up, change, and head out. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 04:27 PM |
| 3 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 2]Elliott Hulse made an excellent video. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 09:25 PM |
| 7 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 2]Ok, I see what your problem is. It's not about mixing and matching different pieces of stand-up to different scenarios. With Bill Burr piece, don't focus so much on the joke itself. Focus on how he turns a basic observation ("inexperienced pilots are usually entrusted with smaller planes") and presents it in a humorous way. Notice how he exaggerates certain aspects while downplaying others. Learn from the tone of his voice and pay attention to when he is loud vs quiet, fast vs slow. Watch how he… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 08:42 PM |
| 12 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 2]You're absolutely right about the ratio of rational to emotional. The appropriate ratio changes constantly depending on context. If you and I are on a rooftop having a heart-to-heart discussion at 2am, our conversation would be very substantial. Maybe 90% serious and 10% humorous. Compare that to us playing a drinking game with some girls. In that case I would argue the proportions get flipped, with 90% being humorous and 10% serious. Just barely enough logic and rationality to add weight to the… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 07:40 PM |
| 3 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 2]It's too big to all fit together. Just look at my submitted posts. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 03:07 PM |
| 2 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 1]Part 2 will address that. It's not as difficult as it seems. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 02:42 AM |
| 4 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 1]Alright, you made your point. However, I think these should posts should remain so people can see the conversation and rationale behind the edit. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 07:02 PM |
| 7 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 1]I know it's stupid. I immediately say so afterwards. The point of including that isn't to recommend it so much as it is to illustrate that ALL experiences, from the productive to the life-threatening, will broaden your worldview and expand your frame of reference. We are all human. Bad things will happen to us; either through our mistakes, poor decisions, or simple bad luck. But rather than wallowing in our failures and misfortunes, we can learn from them and ultimately emerge from the ashes eve… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 06:32 PM |
| 29 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 1]That's a fair criticism. What you mentioned is why I separated hobbies and interests. Hobbies function mainly as an SMV boost. The point isn't to converse with someone about them. The fact that you do them makes you more interesting. With Jiu-jitsu, you don't discuss the intricacies with people so much as you impress them with your discipline, prowess, and "badass" appeal. When it comes to women, the benefit of my painting isn't my ability to discuss trompe l'oeil and color theory. Women are sim… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 05:21 PM |
| 32 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 1]Part 2 directly discusses being funny, charismatic, amusing yourself, and making conversation. Part 1 is about the product, Part 2 is about the packaging. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 04:52 PM |
| 11 | So you’re a boring fuck: How to become interesting in 3 Easy Steps [Part 1]This is a planned 2-part series on how to become more interesting. It began as a concise guide that quickly became much more comprehensive. TL;DR If you’re on TRP chances are you’re a boring Reformed Beta. You can become not boring by having tangible skills, cool interests, and exciting life experiences. Maintain an active social life. Watch stand-up and well-written TV/movies to develop your sense of humor and become funnier. Practice approaching and have conversations with as many people as po… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 04:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you have enough energy?Interesting. Thanks for clarifying. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/15 03:09 AM |
| 1 | How do you have enough energy?What do you mean by cycling caffeine? | /r/askTRP | 12/04/15 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Ear piercings and TattoosPretty much. Some people fly out to other countries just so one specific artist can do their tattoo. Thousands of dollars. Tattoos are like toilet paper: you get what you pay for. Yeah I agree sometimes they take their own trolling too seriously. It's an online blog, not 60 Minutes. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Ear piercings and TattoosIf she's an IG model then it's almost certain that she's gonna be into tattoos. Just make sure it's nothing basic or played out. Barbed wire, kanji, barcodes, koi fish, anything tribal (unless you are of that tribe/people), Monster symbol, etc. Although to be honest most hoes won't even care as long as the ink looks good. Remember that tattoos are permanent and it's not worth getting a shitty scratcher in some dude's garage just to save a few bucks. There are obviously reasons not to get tattoos… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Ear piercings and TattoosThen you can consider a tattoo or piercing more seriously. My point is that body modification is not a quick fix if you're fundamentally unattractive in some other way. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Ear piercings and TattoosI have several tattoos. All but one are covered by a t-shirt and shorts. I have a septum piercing as well, but I can flip it up to hide it. They are a definite SMV boost. Tattoos and piercings are sexy for a variety of reasons: they show that you are a decisive man who makes permanent decisions, you have a tolerance for pain, you have disposable income, and that you are dismissive of authority and being "proper". All of these traits are attractive to women. On top of that, they are a great opene… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Ear piercings and TattoosThink of a stereotypical neckbeard in some basement. Now imagine him with diamond studs or gauges. Is he any cooler? Shit, let's throw in a septum piercing and a tattoo sleeve too. What about now? Any kind of superficial accoutrement (and yes, even though they are body mods tattoos and piercings are ultimately superficial) requires a certain amount of authenticity to pull off. If you're a little beta bitch, getting an earring won't change that. You'll just look like the same little bitch, except… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 07:10 AM |
| 1 | How would you describe the physical feeling of..Just because one woman rejected dread game 10 years ago doesn't mean it's ineffective. It's one of the most useful tools at our disposal. A man's greatest power is his ability to walk away. Dread game is a direct manifestation of that ability. Remember that there are different levels of dread game. Soft dread like working on your fitness and upgrading your wardrobe, hard dread like spending nights out alone and flirting with waitresses, and even nuclear dread like issuing ultimatums. ("I'm havin… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/15 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How would you describe the physical feeling of..That's because you and I are unplugged. The natural response from betas and women when they feel something slipping is to hold on tighter. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/15 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Erection problem with new girlsIt doesn't sound like you have problems getting it up. Whack away, my friend. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/15 09:42 PM |
| 1 | How would you describe the physical feeling of..For me it was never terror. That seems too intense a feeling. Dread sums it up nicely. We call it "dread game" for a reason. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/15 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Erection problem with new girlsIdk what to tell you. Just find a low SMV girl to practice with and get comfortable. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/15 07:05 PM |
| 4 | How would you describe the physical feeling of..I'm assuming you mean the suspicion that she is cheating. It's a general sense of anxiety. Something is bothering you that you can't quite place. Some guys talk about the pit in the stomach, but I find it to be entirely mental. Closest scenario I can describe is when you're trying to relax but you KNOW you're forgetting something vitally important. You go over the mental checklist and everything is fine but that feeling of consequence is looming over your head. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/15 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Erection problem with new girlsAt least three days, a week is ideal. At least to get over that initial hump. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/15 06:00 PM |
| 4 | Erection problem with new girlsModerate what you drink. If you're out on a date you shouldn't be getting very drunk anyway. Abstain from masturbation beforehand to increase your libido. Essentially get yourself so horny it overcomes any anxiety. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/15 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Cologne?Interesting. It might be a bit overpowering to just wear musk on its own but I think it might be effective if mixed with a mild cologne. I have two from Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab; they're blends of different smells. Port Royal and Bayou. Personally I like the way they smell, but they're very polarizing to women. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/15 01:52 AM |
| 3 | Cologne?Hahaha I can't tell if you're joking. You actually wear animal musk? I actually have some oils but I always end up smelling like my grandma's purse. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/15 01:48 AM |
| 8 | Tall guys, what are some ways to exploit and make full use of your height in game?The "slow rise" is one of my favorites. Basically any situation where you're seated and a girl is standing. Girls will almost forget you're tall if it's not immediately visible. You get a little bit of banter going, then slowly stand up until you're towering over her. Very physically imposing move, her eyes will go wide, and she'll be all over you. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/15 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Hang-out suggestions if girl is under 21?I agree that you're getting too hot for this girl, but Jesus Christ no one is giving you anything practical. Art museum (LACMA is a bit overwhelming, I think Hammer and Geffen are better) BYOB and bonfire at Dockweiler cruise to Ktown and do hookah + boba old LA zoo is super cool movies at the Hollywood cemetery scoop her up on the 2nd Thursday and do art walk night swimming at the Standard head to Griffith and make out on the observatory balcony grab sandwiches from Bay Cities then goof around … | /r/askTRP | 26/03/15 07:51 AM |
| 8 | Shit tests....from my best friend's wife?Wizard of Oz reference. Basically calling her a witch. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/15 08:52 PM |
| 59 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesAs a relatively devout Catholic let me tell you that modern church girls are only slightly better than your average sloot. Most people would be surprised at the amount of whoring and partying that goes around. If anything they're even better at hiding their past. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Am I weird for like pubic hair on girls?How many men had beards 10 years ago? How many women cared about having a big ass? Tastes change. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/15 10:04 PM |
| 2 | New to RP, how to respond to questions about partner countI think saying midget instead of amputee is funnier and less likely to freak her out, while still being taboo/deviant. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/15 05:14 PM |
| -1 | Where to meet 18-19 year olds as a guy in his mid 20'sThis is super fucking sleazy but extremely effective. Sexual strategy is amoral and all that jazz, but most people will look down on you if they discover you do this. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/15 02:55 AM |
| 1 | GF going to a uni exchange...If she's living with her mother, then you can just accept it/ignore it and reconnect in 4 months. If not, you should just end it. It's overwhelmingly likely she'll cheat or "make a mistake". Girls are always having sex. If it's not with you, then who's it gonna be with? | /r/askTRP | 16/03/15 02:53 AM |
| 3 | Recommended Reading: Y The Last Man (A Graphic Novel)If you're looking for another great comic with RP themes I highly recommend Girls by The Luna Brothers. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 12:39 AM |
| 7 | Feminists around the world are in mourning today as /r/TheRedPill fails to make "most toxic" subreddit listI've never heard it. Usually girls throw around words like misogynist, rapist, asshole, loser, virgin, etc. Sometimes 'apologist' if it's a college debate or something. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/15 08:42 PM |
| 6 | What are some pushpull/one liners/shit test answers you use to show off your frame?Is this the part where I pull you close? | /r/askTRP | 14/03/15 04:37 PM |
| 11 | What are some pushpull/one liners/shit test answers you use to show off your frame?These just come off as tryhard and annoying. I can see them working as an organic response to something she says, but not just vomiting them out during the silence. This is the equivalent of shaking the keys to your Porsche in her face. Cool bro, we all get it. At that point it would be better if you just drove a Camry and shut the fuck up about it. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/15 04:30 PM |
| 10 | Sarah Kaplan blames 'gender gap' on alpha traits, or as she describes them, 'the least attractive personality traits'Narcissism isn't so much thinking you're the best kid on the playground, it's thinking you're the only kid on the playground. Men are hugely more empathetic than women. Solipsism and narcissism go hand in hand. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 10:14 PM |
| 12 | The Fat Dancing Man, body shaming and feminist chess moves.Well now you're venturing into N/AWALT type thinking. While it's not impossible that he's sexually active, the fact is that it's overwhelmingly likely someone that overweight is repulsive to women. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 06:59 PM |
| 1 | "I wanted to cry on his shoulder, not the other way around."The key point is that women do not mentally/emotionally mature past 18, so we can expect most women to react in a similar way. Furthermore, with the Captain/First Mate dynamic necessary for a LTR, expecting consolation from your girlfriend is no different from expecting consolation from your child. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/15 07:10 PM |
| 1 | "I wanted to cry on his shoulder, not the other way around."Are you attributing women's nature to a cultural influence? Animals crave efficiency, and in our natural state human are loathe to do any more work than necessary. RP men pride themselves on their ambition and drive but don't forget that most men's horizons are limited to videogames, weed, and porn. Just like every man doesn't reach the height of his full potential and achieve amazing success, not every woman is doomed to mediocrity. I think our current culture takes the natural tendencies of wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/15 06:42 PM |
| 21 | "I wanted to cry on his shoulder, not the other way around."There's nothing wrong with her wanting to cry on his shoulder. I'm arguing that as a man he should know better. They're going through the same shit, but when he came to her she was resentful rather than supportive. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/15 02:46 AM |
| 28 | Been seeing a lot of ugly men with beautiful womenCould be anything. He's BB, he's rich, he's a sex god with a huge dick, he's the most interesting man in the world, he's pure dark triad, etc. Don't forget girls into specific subcultures. Hipster girls like the guy in skinny jeans and a beard, while hood girls would just laugh if he approached. As a presumably straight male, you might not be a great judge of male attractiveness. I've had female friends swoon over some goofy looking guys while scoffing at men I thought were very handsome. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/15 01:49 AM |
| 1 | What's your explanation for Hugh Jackman marrying an average-looking woman 13 years older than him?It's not that she can't get a lover, it's that obvious affairs defeat the purpose of the beard. Eventually someone will find out and alert the husband/confront the wife, which results in the revelation of the husband being gay. Sure she can keep things on the downlow, but total discretion is harder than it looks. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 10:23 PM |
| 17 | What's your explanation for Hugh Jackman marrying an average-looking woman 13 years older than him?That's a valid point, but remember that being a beard isn't really a very desirable position. You're not getting laid often, if at all, unless you venture outside the marriage and risk indiscretion. The hotter the woman, the more entitled she becomes, and the harder it is to maintain her. I never met a gay guy with a hot beard because only unattractive women tolerate it. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 06:29 PM |
| 24 | What's your explanation for Hugh Jackman marrying an average-looking woman 13 years older than him?Well if she's a beard then why does it matter for her to be attractive? Might as well marry someone whose company he enjoys. And from a practical standpoint, it might be more pragmatic to be with a less attractive beard than a beautiful one. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Judge rules man must pay $30,000 in back child support for a child that is not his because it was his responsibility to "prove otherwise".From my understanding he was notified, and when he went to visit her to dispute paternity she wasn't at the provided address. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 12:10 AM |
| 4 | Buzzfeed: Women's Ideal Body Types Throughout HistoryIt's less dark complexion and more dark triad. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 11:50 PM |
| 35 | Buzzfeed: Women's Ideal Body Types Throughout HistoryThey often throw out this picture to show how "curvy" she was. Not only is she still more slender and shapely than all the fatties and hambeasts, she was actually pregnant when this picture was taken. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 11:47 PM |
| 4 | Is it fucked up that I do this?Well there's nothing more tangible than compliments and approaches from women, which is more than many guys get. The problem with this system is that inevitably you're gonna find yourself in a "dry spell", and if you excessively rely on these behaviors for validation you might fall apart when they stop. It helps that you're aware of what's going on. Just be sure to measure yourself objectively in your own regards, separate from what other people tell you. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/15 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Is it fucked up that I do this?Hey man whatever swings your string, as long as you're cognizant of the effect external validation has on your self-worth. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/15 06:45 PM |
| 10 | AskReddit gives hundreds of examples on how women will hide things until after marriageYou're right, but don't forget there are a lot of lonely betas out there without much experience who just take whatever they can get. Also porn leads us to believe that most vaginas are relatively presentable but there are some nasty coochies out there. I think it's very possible that there are cis vaginas nastier than trans vaginas. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 07:00 PM |
| 7 | AskReddit gives hundreds of examples on how women will hide things until after marriageSome people can never pass, but some guys are just slighter and more delicate and take to it better. With all the Tumblr SJW bullshit nowadays kids are also more exposed to that mindset earlier on and begin transitioning earlier, which lends itself to a more convincing appearance. I once saw a gallery of a bunch of images from 4chan of Trans people transitioning. Legitimately like half of them were totally convincing and I wouldn't ever doubt they were cis women. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 06:25 PM |
| 12 | AskReddit gives hundreds of examples on how women will hide things until after marriage"I get a little dry can we use some lube." So many male-to-female Trans people think potential partners don't have to know. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 05:01 PM |
| 1 | TanningMaybe tanning is safe but take care of yourself when you're outdoors. Wear sunscreen. At the very least it'll keep your skin looking good. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill PoetryTalk to me tenderly, tell me lies; I am a woman and time flies | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 11:29 PM |
| 45 | "You only use me for sex" shit-testPatrice said it best: "Pussy's not all I want, unless that's all you got." | /r/askTRP | 07/02/15 04:21 AM |
| 2 | [Serious Discussion] What about AMALT ?But take into consideration that any talent, skill, or quality present in any desirable capacity confers status in and of itself. The Hottest guy in the room has status just like the Richest guy or the Smartest guy. Even from a purely physical standpoint the Halo Effect is very real. Hypergamy is essentially women wanting to date "above" them, in any aspect. Yes they want a man who is wealthier and classier than them, but also more attractive and more intelligent. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill Strategy for the Less EndowedThis conversation was like 3 years ago so I'm sure things have changed. I'm on mobile but otherwise I would link some examples of the stuff I talked about. I try not to watch too much porn but I've noticed that there's a lot more "amateur" girls vs heavily modified porn stars. From personal experience, how would you say girls handle large dicks? I'm about 7" and even then a lot of the time I hit cervix or the girl has to take a break. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/15 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill Strategy for the Less EndowedI found out a lot about this when I was shooting the shit with a porn producer I had done some (unrelated) work for. When I say gimmicks I don't mean they're making average dicks look big, they're making large dicks look even larger. Most porn actors and actresses are very short. Women are routinely under 5 feet tall. Men over 6 feet are rare, and also don't work out their legs, which means thinner thighs. This makes the dicks look proportionally much larger. Second are tricky camera angles and … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/15 03:27 AM |
| 52 | Red Pill Strategy for the Less EndowedProps for saying you have a smaller dick. I swear the way everyone talks around here I wonder how they get in their car without slamming the door on their MASSIVE MAGNUM DONGS. We get it bro, women cream their panties at the mere sight of your turgid manhood and the slightest remembrance gives them orgasmal flashbacks so intense they faint at their cubicles. A lot of it comes down to perception. Women are terrible with figures and numbers and often have no idea how big the dick they're fucking a… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/15 12:33 AM |
| 22 | Older players (late 40s/50s & up), tell us what you would do differently if you could go back 20 years looking through the RP lens.A hooligan's game played by gentlemen. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 06:18 AM |
| 14 | Pair starts an open relationship. The husband isn't allowed to deliberately search for a partner. The wife comes home a week later with a bruised anus after having never allowed her husband in there. Should he end it?Your time/energy/affection/validation/etc. is a scarce resource and should be treated as such. Only very worthy girls are allowed to benefit from it. You don't take a booty call out to brunch. You don't introduce a plate to your parents. Why would you put in work for a girlfriend who fucks other guys? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 05:39 PM |
| 3 | You Have No Idea How Easy It Is For Good Looking MenA slick haircut and a skin care regimen will also do wonders. Maybe get your eyebrows done too. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/15 10:44 PM |
| 7 | Being bi and Red PillWhat kind of girls do you pull this on? In my experience women tend to look down on bisexual men as romantic partners, citing promiscuity and "dirtiness". Straight guys, especially if they are stereotypical "Alphas", are often shamed if they have a gay encounter. However, this could very much be one of those "watch what women do, not what they say" scenarios. Any particular reason why you still hook up with women? I imagine not having to rely on them for sexual gratification would be a massive r… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 11:21 PM |
| 12 | Why I advise all RP men to rebootJoshua Tree is another great spot if you're in Southern California. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 06:02 PM |
| 1 | How I buy drinks and get resultsAsking for kisses and hugs doesn't sound very sexy. Then you buy a girl 3 drinks with no guarantee of anything happening. That's $20+ spent on every girl you try this on. This seems like a beta strategy where you ply a girl with conversation and drinks and hope for the best, AKA the shit most of us did in our BP days with no success. He's a rich foreigner in Korea so I can see how this might work over there, but I sincerely doubt this would work in the US. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 05:27 PM |
| 0 | this is how we date now?Feels a little too "le wrong generation" but the author makes some good points. The internet and ubiquitous connectivity have fundamentally altered the way we approach relationships. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 04:25 AM |
| 0 | How I buy drinks and get resultsThis seems like a really desperate and needlessly complicated way to pick up girls. How often do you fuck these girls? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 04:16 AM |
| 10 | A Message to our Asian FriendsThen why not scoop them up when they're 21 working on their Bachelor's? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Double Standards in TRP / Race-threadMore data from OKcupid. Black women rated black men most attractive. Also, as you stated before, black women were the least desired. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Double Standards in TRP / Race-threadI'm not arguing that they're not the least preferred. I'm saying it's inaccurate to claim black women are entirely unattractive. Personally, mixed/half-black girls are my favorite. Just because other guys don't share my opinion doesn't invalidate my preference. If a girl sleeps with 9 white guys and 1 black guy who does she prefer? Exceptions to the rule do not disprove the rule. You're arguing like a feminist. I prefer Latinas to white girls but that doesn't mean I never go after a white chick.… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Double Standards in TRP / Race-threadThere are plenty of beautiful black and mixed girls in the US. Where do you think all those rap/hip-hop video girls come from? If you had any experience with black women you would know the large majority prefer black and mixed men. They also prefer Arabs and Latinos to white men. Beyonce, Halle Berry, Rihanna, Taraji Henson, Gabrielle Union, Kerry Washington, Jada Pinkett Smith, Alicia Keys, Angela Bassett, etc. They all married/dated black men. You just pulled that Hollywood line out of your as… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 07:44 AM |
| 1 | How TRP helped me avoid a race traitor Asian girl.Well race is largely more of a social construct than a genetic one. The genetic differences between different races are absolutely miniscule. To put that into perspective, men and chimpanzees are 98% identical genetically. Men and chickens are 95% identical. We think there are huge differences between races but they are caused by absolutely miniscule alterations in the genome. You can find two "black" populations in Africa that externally look similar but in fact are more genetically dissimilar … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Double Standards in TRP / Race-threadWhite guys hook up with Latinas fairly regularly so it's not a big deal if a white girl hooks up with a Hispanic guy. It's an accepted trade off. On the other hand, white guys don't hook up with black girls. Either they don't find black girls attractive or black girls don't like white guys**. So they see a white girl hooking up with a black guy as an incursion on their territory with no benefit, i.e. there is no left over black girl for the white guy. Asians/Indians get so butthurt because while… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 06:53 AM |
| 29 | The proud feminists of AskWomen shamefully admit that they get horny for Dark Triad men.Not the OP, but this is the same reason women slut-shame. When a woman sleeps around, it devalues sex for her entire group. Men tolerate a woman's bullshit because they want to fuck, and that tolerance diminishes when her friend is giving it out for free. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 05:05 PM |
| 4 | How TRP helped me avoid a race traitor Asian girl.Trust me, I know exactly what you're talking about. It's the same with Middle Eastern girls. The problem is that the idea of "race traitors" is a very polarizing concept with a lot of supporters and detractors. Many white guys aren't familiar enough with Asian/Indian/Whatever-American culture to see race betrayal in action up close and personal, so to them it's a non-issue that only race-whiners care about. Plus they benefit from minority women riding the CC and can't really see the issue from t… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 11:38 PM |
| 6 | How TRP helped me avoid a race traitor Asian girl.The question then is do we have an obligation to procreate within our race? If there is no obligation then there can't be betrayal. I would argue unless you are a member of an endangered ethnic group (Native American, for example), there's no real duty to procreate within your race. And even if you're part of a dying breed, if you want to have mixed-race children that is totally your prerogative. There's a difference between simply having interracial children and using your own race as BB fallba… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 11:23 PM |
| 8 | This could be the future for YOU if we let feminists get away with "rape culture" BSA friend of mine was going on a run when she was grabbed off the street, thrown into a van, tied up, and raped. The rapist took photos and forced her to pick three contacts in her phone to send them to. False rape allegations are real but so is actual rape, you fuckboy. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 11:10 PM |
| 15 | How TRP helped me avoid a race traitor Asian girl.I made a thread a while back and commented on "race traitors", and it sparked a lot of controversy and discussion. "Race traitors" exist, but I believe the term is overused. If a girl sleeps, dates, or marries outsider her race, that doesn't make her a race traitor. If a minority woman idolizes another race and dates them exclusively, that doesn't make her a race traitor. If a woman does the above while also denigrating and disparaging men of her own race, then she's a shit person with self-este… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 09:36 PM |
| 11 | Never date a woman who won't do sexual things with you that she did with her other partners.I think the big difference is that it's "on the table". | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 03:49 PM |
| 6 | Turns out there are more than cultural reasons men have historically valued low sex counts in womenUtilitarianism is a moral framework. His answer might have been a bit concise, but he did what you asked. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 05:18 AM |
| 2 | My Stance On WomenExcellent post as usual. Would you mind sharing some of your artwork? I've noticed TRP has a decidedly technical/business trend, with a few musicians and writers thrown in, but very few fine artists. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/14 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Do women only stare at you if you are good looking?Fair enough. And I agree that the "read the sidebar" was unnecessary. But if you remember that male catcalling video that was floating around recently, people were checking out that guy with zero indication of his wealth and status. He could have been a child molestor or a CEO. If we're discussing women staring at men it's almost entirely looks based unless he rolls up in a Lamborghini. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Do women only stare at you if you are good looking?That's not immediately apparent just from looking at a guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 09:42 PM |
| 42 | [48 Days of Power] Day 23 - "Concentrate your forces."At first glance this law seems mainly applicable to business. The Paretto principle does not only concern women. Just like 80% of women fuck 20% of men, 80% of your business (and revenue) will come from 20% of your clients. Example: During the Gamergate scandal, Intel pulled ads from Gamasutra and I believe other websites as well. Rather than trying to appease the mainstream majority, they appealed to the small percentage of gamers (mainly men) who are actually buying their products. And once th… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 04:17 PM |
| 2 | acting like boyfriend material before you have sex almost guarantees failureWow. This is absolutely profound. I first read this last night, but it had such an impact that I came back specifically to post this comment and thank you. It's such a simple metaphor, but incredibly insightful. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 04:08 PM |
| 8 | Is it time again for male-only colleges?Yeah I had the bad luck to visit once. Never again. The girls are all very unfortunate looking. It was just a miserable place. Anecdote: When I was there I sat through an LGBT "film" festival with literally some of the worst, most masturbatory garbage I've ever seen filmed. And my favorite movie is Van Helsing so you know my standards aren't that great to start with. One was actually a soft-core Winnie the Pooh themed gay porno. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 04:54 AM |
| 5 | Is it time again for male-only colleges?There are already plenty of all-women colleges in the US. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 12:57 AM |
| 6 | [48 Days of Power] Day 21 - "Play a sucker to catch a sucker - seem dumber than your mark."If you're lifting and working out, people might disregard you as a dumb jock or meathead. You don't have to actively trick people, just don't bother to correct them. People let all kinds of things slip if they don't think you're smart enough to pay attention or, more likely, follow their power talk. Personally, you can use this with people you have just met and learn all kinds of gossip and information about the social dynamics of their group, if they don't think you're sharp and observant. Bonu… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 09:32 PM |
| 6 | Ask Anything Friday - 12/05/14If they're asking because they want to know if you're getting girls: "I'm dating around but nothing serious." If it's a boss, family member, priest, etc. who wants to know if you have a nice girlfriend: "No, I haven't met the right girl yet." | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Ask Anything Friday - 12/05/14When you're "gaming" people (for lack of a better term) a good tactic to get them to like you when you first meet is to learn their name and remember it. This is reinforced by dropping their name repeatedly in conversation. Maybe she's doing something similar? Drops your name in conversation and you grow fonder. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 05:40 PM |
| 10 | Ask Anything Friday - 12/05/14One of the side effects of going RP is that your friend group will diminish. Sometimes you just drift apart, but most of the time you lose tolerance for the leeches and toxic people in your life and you cut them out. On the positive side, your remaining friendships become even stronger, as will any friendships you make in the future. You're lucky that you have other friends to fall back on. I would minimize contact with white knights and orbiters and spend more time with the other group. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 05:34 PM |
| 5 | Ask Anything Friday - 12/05/14That would be great. Just be careful about posting pictures, doxxing is a real threat on here. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Ask Anything Friday - 12/05/14Use cocoa butter on your skin starting yesterday. It doesn't remove stretch marks but it does prevent them. Halloween costume next year. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Ask Anything Friday - 12/05/14There is monk mode as isolation and there is monk mode as abstinence. What you need to do is monk mode as abstinence. Keep going out with her and having sex, but cut out the videogames, TV, junk food, porn, aimless internet, and whatnot. Pick up a new skill or hobby. Take on more hours at work. Hit the gym harder. You're not cutting out "fun", but you a limit your instant gratification for longer term goals. Of course, you could run some dread game and drive the hamster crazy if you stopped havi… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Ask Anything Friday - 12/05/14"Freedom is not a matter of place. It is a condition. I was thankful for the prison, and the lack of liberty was very pleasing to me, for those days were passed in the path of service, under the utmost difficulties and trials, bearing fruits and results." - Abdu'l-Bahá | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Black Knighting 5Although you can't beat classic cheesecake for caloric density, I think it's too much work to make just to fuck with girls. My personal favorite is cheesecake brownies. You don't have to deal with the crust, springform, waterbath, and cooling, but you still get plenty of calories. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 06:15 AM |
| 9 | Americans on TRP: How was your love/sex life in college like vs after it?I just graduated this past May. It basically comes down to volume. It doesn't matter how hot and alpha you are, if all you do is sit at home you're not gonna get laid. Unless you are so mind-blowingly attractive girls give you IOIs at the ATM and the supermarket. When you're in college you are surrounded by young, attractive women. Class, clubs, athletics, even just sitting in the quad. Then you have multiple parties every weekend filled with those same girls, and they're all getting drunk, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/14 02:55 AM |
| 0 | Terry Crew: masculinity was a mask to hide behind in order to avoid vulnerability.Wrestling and rugby come to mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/14 05:10 AM |
| 24 | Male-female friendships are never equal; one side is always the orbiterBut can you count on them in a pinch? I have a few female friends, but when shit hits the fan I know better than to rely on them. Close male friendships are very much "ride or die", as they are forged through trials, tribulations, victories, and other shared experiences. Female friendships, even amongst females, rarely ever reach that level of intensity. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/14 10:48 PM |
| 1 | 50 Shades of Grey is Actually Kinda Great [Example]Great reply, thank you for the thoughtful response. I like the economic spin you put on it. I've noticed RP is all about the high-investment/long-term goals. Videogames and porn on the couch gives immediate pleasure, while working out and investing in your career offer much higher rewards in the future. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/14 08:20 PM |
| 2 | 50 Shades of Grey is Actually Kinda Great [Example]Just curious: how would you handle the situation in that thread you posted? What would be an RP way of diffusing the situation? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/14 04:39 AM |
| 1 | RP truths in a comment about modern TV love interestsJust stick to the graphic novel. There isn't even any comparison. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/14 01:29 AM |
| 2 | TRP as a gay man?Well there's the basic idea of the "RP lifestyle", which is one that produces value. That's easy enough to understand, and is applicable to anyone regardless of orientation. Lift, be healthy, make money, be interesting, etc. etc. That's all gonna be the same if you're gay or straight. What do you think is different for gay men? What specific information are you looking for? I'm not asking rhetorically. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/14 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Game Cheat Sheet [/r/trpgame repost]Just be careful not to go cross eyed. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/14 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Getting ripped and drinkingI believe you, but how often are you getting hammered after 25? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/14 06:09 PM |
| 7 | Results of Working OutThe general consensus is to to post a shirtless picture, but only if it's organic. That is, avoid the bathroom selfies and put up a beach picture instead. That being said, if your body is good enough girls aren't gonna care how it's presented. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/14 07:59 AM |
| 9 | Results of Working OutBut look at that guy. Lame haircut, stupid expression, ultra nerd glasses. If he went to a good barber and ditched the glasses, he would look fine. I don't get girls either when I'm wearing my Poindexter glasses, ratty clothes, and my hair is a mess. You have to clean up. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/14 05:32 AM |
| 30 | Results of Working OutAssuming you are not grossly overweight (that is, you are moderately chubby or skinnyfat), you can achieve an acceptable physique in less than 6 months with heavy lifting and a diet that isn't total shit. By acceptable I mean a general sense of muscularity and denseness to your body. Solid arms, flat stomach, no love handles, a moderate v-taper from both the front and the side. Something like 18% body fat. You're not gonna get any second looks, but you can take your shirt off without embarrassme… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/14 05:23 AM |
| 26 | Results of Working OutDon't pull that bullshit. I go to a shitty corporate gym with only one squat rack, but it's only 10 fucking dollars a month. Even if you can't find something that cheap, you for sure can find gyms for $20 or $30 a month. No way you're finding something more expensive unless you're specifically searching for some trendy designer gym with a juice bar. Even if you're making minimum wage, that's barely half of one day's pay. If you legitimately can't find a gym, you still have plenty of options. /r/… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/14 03:26 AM |
| 55 | Results of Working OutHonestly, looking good and being fit is the best way to get women. People always talk about game and status as being more important but I disagree. Game lets you close women and keep them around, which is obviously important, but looks is what attracts them in the first place. Likewise, status and money will put you into contact with more girls, and more attractive ones, but does little to actually get them into bed if you're weak and out of shape. Unless you like being BB. I'm not saying you ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/14 02:39 AM |
| 7 | Getting ripped and drinkingThere were plenty of guys in college getting shitfaced every weekend who still looked fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/14 02:24 AM |
| 3 | "Gyms should get rid of mirrors and ban Lycra to encourage more fat people to lose weight, the Public Health Minister has said."This sounds interesting, would you care to elaborate? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 08:30 PM |
| 5 | 3 Reasons Why You Will Never Make GainsOf course your muscles need time to recover, but most people aren't lifting intensely enough to need a whole week. On SL you have plenty of rest. If you're doing the split I mentioned above, that's two days of rest in between specific workouts. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 09:17 PM |
| 2 | 3 Reasons Why You Will Never Make GainsAt minimum you should be lifting 3 days a week. If you're doing split training (push/pull/legs) you could even be in the gym 6 or 7 days a week. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Monday Field reports - been a while, what do you got?Wow that touch sensor thing is some bullshit. I didn't know you could have a mini fridge delivered, that sounds great. Thanks for the tip! The music thing is spot on. I usually just bring a portable speaker out with me whenever I travel. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Monday Field reports - been a while, what do you got?Nice FR. What do you mean "have a fridge delivered"? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 09:54 PM |
| 8 | FR: The Neighbor Girl, Part 2You're absolutely right. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men the gatekeepers of commitment and intimacy. We don't respect either who give it up quickly and easily. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 07:59 PM |
| 2 | If Squats Aren't A Part of Your Lifting Routine, They Should Be, or Why You May Want To Try 5X5 StrongliftsThey're a little pricey but I've only heard good things. Buffalo also has a good pair for quad heavy guys. I'm on my phone but I'll send you the specific fit when I get to a computer. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 07:50 PM |
| 4 | If Squats Aren't A Part of Your Lifting Routine, They Should Be, or Why You May Want To Try 5X5 StrongliftsYou ever try out Barbell jeans? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 05:20 PM |
| 2 | If Squats Aren't A Part of Your Lifting Routine, They Should Be, or Why You May Want To Try 5X5 StrongliftsI got some Rehband knee sleeves. Alongside with very thorough warming up they made squatting a lot less stressful on my knees. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 05:18 PM |
| 2 | If Squats Aren't A Part of Your Lifting Routine, They Should Be, or Why You May Want To Try 5X5 StrongliftsElliot Hulse has a great video about why he only does front squats. Since it's very difficult to do them with improper form, they really highlight any shortcomings you have in your squat. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 05:15 PM |
| 2 | How A Man and A Woman Became Billionaires in 2 Different WaysWow. Powerful stuff. Thanks IM, you've given me a lot to think about. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 02:45 AM |
| 36 | Thoughts on crying?Who are you trying to impress when you're alone in your room? If life has you feeling down and you need to cry it out, then don't be ashamed. That being said... Never EVER cry in front of a woman. It doesn't matter if it's your wife, your plate, your daughter, your coworker, or your neighbor. There is nothing women despise more than a weak man. Whether accurately or not, they will judge you as weak if you become that emotional in front of them. Men might become uncomfortable if you cry, but are … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 11:07 PM |
| 10 | How A Man and A Woman Became Billionaires in 2 Different WaysI think most quality women, however few left there are, would not consent to pregnancy without marriage. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 08:30 AM |
| 6 | How I ended up on TRPThis has parallels to the "bowl of skittles"/yes all women/not all men arguments. I'm not saying you're wrong, but it's worth noting that both sides can make the same kinds of arguments and rebuttals. Two of my best friends are gay, and they are absolutely stellar people. One is straight-passing and you would never know he was gay unless he told you. On the other hand, I had a gay friend in college who prided himself on "outing straight boys" and made it his mission to seduce men who were suppos… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 08:38 PM |
| 3 | A Swift Kick in the Ass (Don't be like this guy)Wow, that part about the dark playground is absolutely true. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Why is it or isn't okay to have sex with your friends sister?It's all about intentions. There's a difference between a one night stand at a party versus sex after serious dating. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Never work with children or animals? Never work with women.Wait, we're not supposed to work with animals? When did that happen? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 06:28 PM |
| 6 | TRP: How unheard of is it for guys on an American college campus to have a sexless college experience?A lot of people watch stuff like Blue Mountain State and get a false idea of what it was like. There were basically 3 levels. The first was the huge programs like football that brought in millions of dollars. The second was sports that still competed at the varsity level but weren't as popular or 'sexy'. The third was shit like sailing that people managed to get recognition for, but were basically glorified club sports. I was second tier. We had a lot of practice, a lot of working out, a lot of … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 04:31 PM |
| 1 | TRP: How unheard of is it for guys on an American college campus to have a sexless college experience?Well 50/50 in that dorm, but in other dorms on campus it was a more dramatic split. If it was 50/50 with guys who WANT to party, imagine how it was in the engineering floors and study dorms. Campus wide it was about 20/80. What most blue pill types don't understand is just how important fitness is when it comes to getting girls. I've never met a guy with a 6-pack who couldn't attract at least some women. However, part of it was also about money. At my school the fraternity dues were averaging $3… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 12:28 AM |
| 1 | What should you do if you're not going to University?Gonna second that shitty places point. I have a buddy who works as a fisherman in Alaska. The work is brutal but he's making well into six figures. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/14 08:30 PM |
| 0 | TRP: How unheard of is it for guys on an American college campus to have a sexless college experience?The issue is that plenty of guys want to brag and talk shit about getting laid (whether accurately or not), but if people are striking out they keep that shit to themselves. My freshman year I got placed into the "party" dorm. It was the closest to the Greek row so everyone who wanted to join a frat or sorority signed up to live there. Almost every girl who decided to rush found a sorority, but it was an even split between the guys with half getting bids and half getting nothing. The difference … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/14 08:23 PM |
| 1 | TRP: How unheard of is it for guys on an American college campus to have a sexless college experience?Absolutely true. The only reason I wasn't in a fraternity was because I was a D1 athlete, and even then there were plenty of athletes who said fuck it and joined a frat on top. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/14 08:02 PM |
| 0 | [REPOST] The Red Pill Constitution [Updated]/u/sexuallyfrustratedM has a submission history FILLED with race whining far beyond anything I've ever said. He is a hypocrite. I may say unpopular things but at least I stand by them. You, on the other hand, are weak-willed and insecure boy who deletes his own submissions out of shame. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/14 07:34 PM |
| 2 | [REPOST] The Red Pill Constitution [Updated]I'm addressing both of you. I'm the last guy to whine about race. I wrote a whole guide for minorities on how to go out and get laid. (I'm assuming you read it since you commented on it) Everything I mentioned in my comment was simply stating facts. My belief is that while race whining gets you nowhere, it's also unproductive to flatly say race doesn't matter. It's a white man's game, and you have to use everything you can to your advantage if you want to compete. In your constitution you talk a… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/14 05:46 PM |
| 13 | [REPOST] The Red Pill Constitution [Updated]I always see /u/Artemisnotfowl pop up whenever race is mentioned on TRP repeating the same words: he's 6'3" and does fine, minority guys aren't getting girls because they're short and skinny. I think that's just as ignorant as the guys hopelessly crying about their race. The obvious truth is that while you can get girls while being short, out of shape, beta, poor, and/or a minority, none of that is ideal for attracting women. It's better to be tall than short. Better to be muscular than skinny. … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/14 08:41 AM |
| 3 | An Objective Examination of the "Race Traitor"Best years being her youth. Basically 18-28. Fun times being travel, activities, adventures and all the cool shit that isn't boring LTR "Netflix and take out on the couch". Of course it includes sleeping outside the race, but again it's more than that. It's a little hard to explain if you don't see it first hand. The issue isn't interracial sex. It's the mindset where the sex comes from. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 07:22 AM |
| 8 | An Objective Examination of the "Race Traitor"...yes. It wouldn't be used. Likewise, if she only dated white guys and then also married a white guy, she wouldn't be a race traitor either. "Race traitor" doesn't refer to sleeping outside her race. It refers to viewing other races as superior/exciting/etc. that get her best years and the fun times, while her own race is the stable, boring fallback. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 06:59 AM |
| 5 | An Objective Examination of the "Race Traitor"The issue isn't fucking outside her race, it's coming back for the BB. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 06:33 AM |
| 1 | How to "lift" without a gym?/r/bodyweightfitness is a good place to start. Other guys have mentioned that. Honestly though, the "easiest" and best way to get results is regular weightlifting. Check Craigslist, Amazon, or a sporting goods store for weight lifting equipment. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Man creates a video with him walking through the streets of NYC as a reply to the earlier version of the lady walking through NYC. Results are unbelievable!Dude I am 6'3". Trust me. Of course it makes it easier that I am tall but it's never automatic. There was such a huge difference for me before and after getting in shape. If there is one thing that gets you girls it's muscles. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/14 02:39 AM |
| 6 | Man creates a video with him walking through the streets of NYC as a reply to the earlier version of the lady walking through NYC. Results are unbelievable!While height is an undeniable advantage, being tall does not automatically get you hot women. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/14 07:45 PM |
| 11 | Sex on Campus: She Can Play That Game, Too. Writer explains the trend of more younger/college aged women wanting casual sex and abandoning LTRI'd rather put my dick in a pile of cow shit then eat some. Idk. Both are disgusting. I hate these fucking hypotheticals. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/14 12:16 AM |
| 9 | Woman wears a GoPro camera in New York city to show how much she suffers "Street Harassment" Wants you to donate money to stop these heinous acts.It wasn't even his face it was his ridiculous haircut. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/14 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Woman drops boyfriend because he lives frugally. Later finds out that he's a heir to a fortune based on oil.I was looking into real estate as well. The problem is that prices in LA are very expensive. By the time you get into affordable areas, they're not very desirable. We were looking into buying property in "up and coming" areas. Basically find shitty neighborhoods that are just starting to show promise and buying now while prices are cheap. Then in a few years after the area has been gentrified start making profit. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/14 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Woman drops boyfriend because he lives frugally. Later finds out that he's a heir to a fortune based on oil.He's employed at Target and living at home after graduation. He has another job offer lined up, but not in the sciences. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/14 04:28 AM |
| 37 | Woman drops boyfriend because he lives frugally. Later finds out that he's a heir to a fortune based on oil.Good luck buying 40 acres of land with money from a paper route, but I get what you're saying. It's not too late to start now. A buddy of mine with a bio degree is having trouble finding work. Instead of being content with his current retail job he's scoping out biomedical stocks so he can invest. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/14 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Do men in Western society who miss out on young love (high school and college) and sex ever mentally recover?Sure, if we're talking sorority girls at a big private university in the South. But most girls aren't in that group. I'm not saying hot girls specifically are easier in college. I'm saying that in general the way college is structured makes it easier to meet girls and hook up with them. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Do men in Western society who miss out on young love (high school and college) and sex ever mentally recover?College has thousands of girls living in a relatively small area and parties every weekend. Logistics are insanely easy. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 08:25 PM |
| 1 | A quick primer of being more physically attractiveYou're right, that's an important distinction. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 06:34 PM |
| 21 | A quick primer of being more physically attractiveMy mistake. It seems you are correct. Source: http://primate.uchicago.edu/1999JCP.pdf | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 06:33 PM |
| 4 | A quick primer of being more physically attractiveSeriously? Apes, and almost all other mammals, show their teeth as a sign of aggression. People talk about amused mastery and cocky-funny all the time. How are you gonna pull those off without smiling? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 04:51 PM |
| 31 | Do men in Western society who miss out on young love (high school and college) and sex ever mentally recover?The truth is that it will never be a better place to hook up with a large number of attractive girls as it is in high school and college, but it's not the end of the world if you didn't slay pussy then. I think it's a combination of rose tinted glasses painting an idyllic picture of high school (easy classes, close friends, tons of free time) along with regret about how they handled themselves. I think every RP man would do things differently if they went back to high school. But there's no reas… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 07:47 AM |
| -1 | How to maintain a fuck buddy in 13 stepsYeah you'll still get laid but if you want to avoid those bullshit "what are we" conversations and potentially dropping the plate it's good to keep your emotional distance. Even just sending goofy texts or funny pictures can be too much. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Race to the Top: A Guide for Low-SMV MinoritiesI edited section 5 to include half-white minorities. In general it's a great advantage if you know how to use it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Race to the Top: A Guide for Low-SMV MinoritiesBut look at those two examples: high cheekbones, strong jaws, aquiline noses. Of course minorities can be good looking, but often when they have 'milder' features and don't look especially ethnic. Compare them to Jay Chandresekhar, Aziz Ansari, and George Lopez. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Race to the Top: A Guide for Low-SMV MinoritiesI think with that it's because some Middle Eastern and Latino men don't necessarily look very ethnic. Some of them look like exotic white guys. You said that Middle Eastern/Latino guys who aren't ugly do relatively well, but ask yourself if "not ugly" really means "not ethnic looking". | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 08:45 PM |
| 6 | Race to the Top: A Guide for Low-SMV MinoritiesBlack or white, both have a distinct advantage over Asian, Indian, and Middle Eastern men, whom this post is mainly directed at. But I agree in the sense that this is the 7th point I mentioned: knowing your demographic. I am North African, and thus look exotic mixed black. Black and mixed girls absolutely LOVE this look and I do much better with those girls than an equivalent white guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 07:08 AM |
| 39 | Race to the Top: A Guide for Low-SMV MinoritiesCongratulations on your success, but you miss the point. From your post, it sounds like you're an attractive guy in that top 5% I was talking about. At that point this guide is worthless. Not all minorities will easily achieve your level of success, especially with your height. This guide was for average minority guys who have been following TRP but not quite achieving the results they're expecting. I am also 6'3". I wasn't in a fraternity, but I was a D1 athlete. Granted my school had a fucked … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 06:59 AM |
| 4 | Race to the Top: A Guide for Low-SMV MinoritiesYou don't have to do anything you don't want to man. That's the beauty of TRP, but maybe figure out why only black girls like you. I didn't get them for girls, but tattoos definitely make me more attractive to women. Do it for you, not for girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 03:18 AM |
| 29 | Race to the Top: A Guide for Low-SMV MinoritiesWhile I, and other minorities, would fuck a white girl, we wouldn't do so exclusively and look down our noses at same race girls. The "race traitor" is a very specific type of carousel rider, with insecurity stemming from a place of racial self hatred. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 02:35 AM |
| 4 | Race to the Top: A Guide for Low-SMV MinoritiesHaha I meant the 5 inch lifts. Glad to hear it man. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 02:19 AM |
| 14 | Tinder FR - Who actually needs plates anymore?I know guys that use it, but the girls they pull aren't really that hot. The problem with Tinder is that it massively enables a woman's hypergamy. There's no point in settling for you when a hotter guy is a few swipes away. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/14 06:52 PM |
| 5 | Predictions for the FutureYou'd be surprised. A surprising number of patients die every year due to doctor/nurse/pharmacist error. They're already working on automated robots that can run tests/take samples from you and give you an accurate diagnosis. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/14 06:19 AM |
| 4 | TheRedPill is delusional about ageYeah, not even 16 year old girls want to hook up with 16 year old boys. Back in high school girls were always going after older college guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/14 07:02 PM |
| 6 | The number of partners before she's no longer considered LTR material.Spot on. My cousin is like this and she is an absolute angel. Still a virgin at 23 and happily engaged to a great guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/14 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Ethnic minorities on TRP, can you share your experiences and tell your story?I think the statistic is something like 1 in 9 black men in their twenties is incarcerated. It has a really profound effect on dating in the black community. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Ethnic minorities on TRP, can you share your experiences and tell your story?Makes sense. White guys will feel threatened and see you as moving in on "their" territory. Minority girls will feel threatened by a white girl moving in on their safe bet. I am decently good looking, 6'3", buff but not jacked. Not model status but solidly above average, especially for my race. I have darker skin + light eyes and girls really like that. It goes both ways. I've seen white girls pass me over for shorter, skinnyfat white guys with weak chins, simply because they were white and frat… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 01:26 AM |
| 5 | Ethnic minorities on TRP, can you share your experiences and tell your story?North African, so look mixed middle eastern/black. Los Angeles Like me: black and mixed girls, hispanic girls, some middle eastern girls. Dislike me: Asians, most white girls, 'liberal' middle eastern girls. Culturally/groupwise: I think it only has any appreciable affect on the preferences of white girls. For example, both a ghetto black girl and an educated black girl will both like me. Both a FOB asian and a 4th-generation asian girl will both dislike me. For white girls, if they value 'image… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/14 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Self-entitled skinny-fat women, especially IndiansWhat do you want man. 2/3 of women are overweight or obese. Forget the gym, these women are desirable just by virtue of not eating ice cream for breakfast. Is it fair? Of course not, especially considering how much women lust for muscular bodies. You can either suck it up or break away. If it really makes you THAT angry you need more hobbies. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/14 04:46 AM |
| 2 | asian and indian guys who have dated interracial, how much hate did you get and how did you handle it?There is no difference in appearance. I can get a regular blonde white girl. Not easily, but doable. But the second she has a trust fund, sorority sisters, and a Starbucks addiction it will never happen. I can't get an Asian girl either but I'm not putting them down. There's a reason for that. Ask yourself why that sorority girl is worth getting with. You're pedestalizing. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/14 09:16 AM |
| 1 | asian and indian guys who have dated interracial, how much hate did you get and how did you handle it?Not personally. Maybe it could happen, if the guy was buff and rich. But I mean...why would you want to get with that kind of girl? I get it if you like white girls, even blonde girls, but that blonde sorority Marthas vineyard basic bitch? I can't stand that type of cookie cutter personality. They are literally a dime a dozen. I know this sounds like sour grapes but those girls are so bland and out of touch with reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/14 03:50 AM |
| 1 | asian and indian guys who have dated interracial, how much hate did you get and how did you handle it?Yes but very few to that point of regularly meeting her friends and hanging in random groups of people. Still enough to get a general idea. Never any blonde sorority types. If her family has a "summer home" forget about it. If I hook up with a white girl -- forget dating -- she's goth or alt, a West coast liberal hipster type (who are surprisingly racist), or girls who just got back from study abroad. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/14 02:29 AM |
| 4 | asian and indian guys who have dated interracial, how much hate did you get and how did you handle it?Middle eastern but look mixed black. Black girl = black guys always start shit with me and tell her to get with a "real nigga". But respect to them for being upfront. Other black girls will try to poach me. Middle easterners will give me shit for "bringing a nigger around". White girl = other white girls get uncomfortable and assume I'm dangerous, tell her she can 'do better'. white guys are cool and friendly up front but make terrorist jokes behind my back. Easily the most racist group towards … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/14 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Can I get TRP's strategy for Social Circle GameCan you elaborate a little? Do you mean getting into a friend group and meeting girls through the group? | /r/trpGAME | 03/10/14 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Where were these teachers when I was in school?I went to a Catholic high school with a lot of prominent alumni in the community; it would get covered up. It was usually female teachers who also coached with male players so there was always some plausible deniability, late practices and whatnot. The teacher would be quietly let go or the student would be asked to "withdraw" aka expelled. There was one instance of a male teacher with a male student. No way would a Catholic school ever let that get out. I can think of only one time where it was… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/14 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Where were these teachers when I was in school?This shit happened all the time at my highschool. The race varied, but it was always varsity athletes. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/14 06:20 PM |
| 11 | Mom shocked that young, "very pretty" girl chooses confident son over "introverted" sonI have a younger brother. If there is a girl he is seriously interested in, I do my very best to help him get her. Regardless of if he gets her or not, she becomes off limits. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/14 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Fraternities must now be co-ed. Will sororities also be co-ed? It seems male exclusive organizations are being shunned and vilified. I simply don't understand this.Because the sororities would pay people to clean up and garden for them while the fraternities spent money on booze, parties, and other shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/14 02:41 AM |
| 3 | [FR] The Carousel Never Stops or: Why To Never Have a LDRLooks, preselection, and frame. Dressing well and lifting puts me ahead of 95% of the guys in her circle. I'm not even super cut but compared to all the out of shape guys (skinnyfats and obese) I look even better. Her boyfriend looks like a skeleton with a gut. Likewise, dark jeans and nice shoes make a huge difference when guys are showing up in baggy shirts and sneakers. We're not close, but she knows me well enough to know I regularly hook up with attractive girls. Most of whom being much pre… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 09:18 PM |
| 3 | [FR] The Carousel Never Stops or: Why To Never Have a LDRIt wasnt about me applying TRP, more illustrating RP principles like hypergamy, AF/BB, hamstering, AWALT, etc. Even so, playing it cool is RP in the sense that you're operating with an abundance mentality. If I had openly pursued her like the other guys at the party she wouldn't have stayed. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 07:47 PM |
| 29 | [FR] The Carousel Never Stops or: Why To Never Have a LDRHaha of course, but we gotta work to make that happen. Girls just need to send three texts. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 04:40 AM |
| 28 | [FR] The Carousel Never Stops or: Why To Never Have a LDRNot totally out of the question. She was with him overseas for 6 months so for sure nothing happened then. Otherwise she pretty much just stays at home, goes to school, and goes to church. Or she's a lying hoe. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Question: What isn't a shit test?I don't know if that's the best way to go. For example, if a buddy asked you how many women you've been with you would probably give him a straight answer, as opposed to deflection if a woman asked you. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 12:54 AM |
| 12 | I Saw A Woman Lose Her Cell Phone And Cry For An HourNo a girl I know just got a new Galaxy! NAWALT!! | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/14 10:27 AM |
| 5 | [FR] TRP works, but it cost me my LTRBecause I'm a giant fuck. Live and learn. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 07:35 PM |
| 4 | [FR] TRP works, but it cost me my LTRAs I mentioned in another comment, I'm not claiming I DID anything RP, but talking about domestic abuse, men's rights, the pussy pass, etc is something that happens a lot here. Being on TRP has definitely strengthened my views on those topics. Trying to discuss those topics is what led to the break up. You're absolutely right that I fucked up and was tactless. I acknowledge my mistake was responding to her seriously at all and I note multiple times where I could have walked away. But hindsight i… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 05:15 PM |
| 0 | [FR] TRP works, but it cost me my LTRShe just sent me this and I'm trying to decide what to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 05:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] TRP works, but it cost me my LTRMaybe, maybe not. She just sent me this and I'm deciding if I should respond or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 05:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR] TRP works, but it cost me my LTRMost of the news outlets said that it was only in the recently released second video that we see the full punch. Based off the first video, his wife's testimony, etc it seemed that a lifetime ban was heavy handed. At this point I'm over the whole discussion. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 04:42 PM |
| 2 | [FR] TRP works, but it cost me my LTRNone taken! I had thought the second video showing the actual punch had only been leaked recently, thus the life time ban. The point is that even if my logic had been totally sound, arguing with a woman is just not worth it. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 04:38 PM |
| 0 | [FR] TRP works, but it cost me my LTRI was sleeping around, she wasn't. She wanted to be exclusive and I was enjoying my time with her more than random hookups so I agreed. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 04:33 PM |
| 0 | [FR] TRP works, but it cost me my LTRI didn't post the rest of the conversation but she said if I apologized for what I said then she would come back. I thought I broke frame too much to make it work and I just haven't responded. I consider that a "next" in my book. I'm not claiming I DID anything RP, but talking about domestic abuse, men's rights, the pussy pass, etc is something that happens a lot here. Being on TRP has definitely strengthened my views on those topics. Trying to discuss those topics is what led to the break up. Y… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 04:29 PM |
| 3 | [FR] TRP works, but it cost me my LTRThis is exactly that. Don't be like me. Serious question: what else do you call it when you date someone exclusively? "Steady, exclusive plate" seems silly. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 04:22 PM |
| 1 | [FR] TRP works, but it cost me my LTRThis post doesn't show it, but I'm always very dominant and assertive. Tell, don't ask. I would always plan dates and outings and I would always take the lead in bed. I never ignored her input, but girls (and many guys) hate making decisions. When you take the lead, girls will follow. Furthermore, I would always (lightly) call her out on her bullshit. The problem was that this time I took it too seriously. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 04:21 PM |
| 2 | [FR] TRP works, but it cost me my LTRI'm cringing too. The problem is that there was no single turning point where I decisively lost frame. We frame shit tests as obvious questions like "are you a player" etc., but "did you hear about ray rice" is much more insidious. Funniest part is she was literally texting me for cooking help right before. Your response would have been great. I fucked up, but hopefully others can learn from my mistakes. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 04:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] TRP works, but it cost me my LTRThere's a difference between arguing with a friend and arguing with a plate or LTR. The dynamics change once sex is on the table; every debate has the potential to become a power struggle. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 04:08 PM |
| 5 | [FR] TRP works, but it cost me my LTRThis girl would have bitched me out if I told her to "fuck off with that shit", but you're absolutely right. Literally every time she sent me some article or baiting comment I either ignored it or made a joke. I don't know what possessed me to actually respond seriously. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Get girl home was too drunk to closeI get really bad whiskey dick, so what I do is at some point during the night I decide if I'm going to get drunk or if I'm going to hook up with a girl. If I'm making moves on a girl or out with a specific one then I cool it with the drinks. Get a good buzz going but leave it at that so you're still functional in bed. If you're out with your bros having fun feel free to get tipsy or drunk, just keep it together and don't be a sloppy blackout mess. Hit on girls, get numbers, whatever, but accept … | /r/askTRP | 03/09/14 11:50 PM |
| 1 | The "men love more than women" paradigm is studied by psychologists and confirmedMany people, men and women, see children as an extension of one's self. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/14 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Blue Mountain StateI don't know what his mindset is by the end of season 3, but for most of the series he just wants to graduate and then go be a gym teacher. He's very lazy and tries to get out of all work and responsibility. Not maximizing your potential =/= red pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/14 05:04 AM |
| 1 | 3 for 3 this month, first date sex.Strange as it seems I've heard very good things about grilled/seared watermelon. Apparently it becomes more savory than sweet with a texture like an ahi steak. | /r/trpGAME | 28/08/14 04:35 PM |
| 8 | 2 girls, 2 different situations, looking for 3rd party perspectiveHere's my perspective: First off don't brag about getting numbers. They're pretty much worthless. Girls hand them out like Halloween candy. Second, lay off the weed if it's interfering with your ability to tell time. You did well with the first girl up until you saw her at the store. "I told you I didn't want to." sounds a bit combative/butthurt, and clearly false since you were down at the beginning. Something a bit more mellow like "something came up" or "I made other plans" would have been be… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 10:48 PM |
| 12 | This is popular new song about how awesome it is to be fat and love yourself. Passing it off as booty.Amen. I'd be all over the girls in this video. Too bad none of the fatasses on FB look anything like them. Interesting how the kids in the video are normal and healthy. Although I suppose your usual fat kid wouldn't be able to pull of those dance moves. And notice it's the thin white dude that the girls are all over while the fat ethnic guy is the goofy comedy relief. Hahaha I guess only women get to have "curves". | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/14 11:48 PM |
| 6 | The Problem With PUA/Seduction Explained Pretty WellSimple, chicks dig power. Who do you think is gonna be more physically capable? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 05:52 PM |
| 29 | Plenty of Fish Out There - Not the website, the analogyAs my father used to say, "Plenty of fish in the sea, but a lot of whales too..." | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/14 04:20 PM |
| 13 | American Women are WhoresI agree completely. I minored in fine arts in college (yeah yeah I know), and it was always the least talented girls who dressed up the most. Like wearing fur coats, bandeaus, and stripper heels to fucking drawing class. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 12:40 AM |
| 2 | RP How To: Party Host GameOoooo. Do you ever use Songza? They have Game of Thrones themed playlists. http://songza.com/concierge/game-of-thrones/533de75dc9df251f03bb87dc/ | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 09:26 PM |
| 29 | A tale of hypergamy and entitlement.Black women from day 1 grow up hearing from their single mothers that "niggas ain't shit". Of course they don't respect black men. And then of course they hook up and have kids with the same kind of Alpha thugs and hoodrats that walked out on their mothers and the cycle continues. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/14 12:18 AM |
| 1 | RP How To: Party Host GameLooking forward to it! | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 09:39 PM |
| 1 | RP How To: Party Host GameI end up doing 3 or 4 bigger events a year, with a theme and some serious planning. Those are the ones you have to space out. In the months in between I throw smaller parties that I can put together in an hour if need be. You're right on the matchmaking part. I played a D1 sport in college and one of my good friends was in a sorority. One night I brought all the players over and she brought all her sisters and people were hooking up all over the place. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 06:17 PM |
| 3 | RP How To: Party Host GameI agree, you can't just be throwing basic parties all the time. That shit will get old really fast and everyone loves a theme. I usually like to have around 4 themed parties a year, with a bigger crowd, along with smaller, easier parties the rest of the time. My Halloween parties are legendary, and I throw one every year. This year I also threw a Mardi Gras party that went over great as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 06:11 PM |
| 2 | RP How To: Party Host GameAbsolutely! Honestly, the specific look doesn't matter so much as how it's executed. If it's high quality, stylish, and well-fitting, you can pretty much wear whatever you like. If you keep that in mind, you'll look better in jeans and a t-shirt than the dude in a baggy, off-the-rack suit. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 06:01 PM |
| 2 | RP How To: Party Host GameI usually put something together on Soundcloud or find a mix off the site. I'm not entirely sure how Spotify playlists work but for a Soundcloud playlist you can control the order the songs play in and then have a single URL you can send to people. EDIT: Here are some Soundcloud mixes depending on what you want. -Chillwave -Trap -Deep House You have to read the mood of the party and play the right music. You're essentially acting as DJ. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 05:44 PM |
| 2 | RP How To: Party Host GameYeah I've thrown parties both in apartments and actual houses. One time in college I had 80+ people over for a party thrown out of my bedroom! Shitty idea in retrospect but the point is that you can fit a lot more people into your home then you think. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 05:42 PM |
| 7 | Monday field reportSo what happened with Susie after? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 01:29 PM |
| 114 | RP insights being straight at a gay partyI was at Pride yesterday and holy shit is it a different experience. It was so strange being complimented and pursued by people. But you're right about the bitch shields coming up. Even when I was being downright rude guys would still try to make moves. I was shocked when a gay friend of mine told me he had stopped counting sexual partners after 150, but it's so easy to hook up when you're gay. It's a different culture. Anyone who says men and women have similar sex drives is deluded. The funny … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Accepting bad looksI'm at the point right now where 9 times out of 10 if I want a specific girl I can get her. And these are attractive girls, like 7s and above, I don't fuck around with unattractive girls. Conversely, the last time I used Tinder I got only 4 likes in one week swiping right on everyone. Your situation is not as bad as you think. 30 likes is not bad at all compared to how some guys have it. Just keep lifting, dressing well, and doing interesting shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/14 09:24 PM |
| 16 | College Guys: Stop thinking PUA, Start Thinking "Social Game" and "Be Extroverted to the Extreme"As someone who just graduated I can tell you this is EXCELLENT advice. Eventually it got to the point where every weekend I'd have 20+ people hitting me up either letting me know what parties were happening or asking me where I was going. Unless you're a D1 football star, this is the easiest way to be the hot shit on campus. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/14 04:48 PM |
| 33 | Black lesbian feminist calls out mainstream feminism on it's selfish agendaWomen being publicly sexually assaulted during the protests in Tahrir Square while those around them cheer on is rape culture. Non-consensual "bride kidnapping" in Kazakhstan and Kyrgyzstan, where unwilling women are pulled onto horseback, is rape culture. 12 year old and younger girls in Congo whose brothers are brutally killed before their eyes, and then are forcibly raped next to their still-warm bodies is rape culture. A white, college educated women wasting her tuition money on a liberal ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 08:55 PM |
| 2 | What are your guys' opinion about writing poetry for women?In general you should make art for yourself, and then if applicable share with others. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 08:02 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] Why is discussing game at the level of TRP/Seduction so taboo compared to everything else?People have no problem saying, "Yeah I suck at sales because I just can't deal with people all day like that. It's just not my thing talking so much," or "Yeah, I'm terrible at large social events. It's just too loud for me and I get social anxiety in really large crowds." However, you'll rarely hear someone say, "Yeah I'm terrible with women because I'm a loser who can't get with women." Admitting one has failed at those other things is no big deal, because it doesn't really define a person so … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/14 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Awesome, concise advice found on /b/... of all places.That sucks. At least I know why she turned on me, even if there was no logic behind it. I'm surprised you were able to go from FWB to friends. I've rarely seen that happen successfully. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/14 01:56 AM |
| 54 | Awesome, concise advice found on /b/... of all places.This happened to me with a female friend of mine. Honestly considered this girl one of my best friends, and this was after RP so it was a real, true blue honest friendship. The transformation from friend to bitch was so fucking abrupt and absolute I couldn't even believe it. I was honestly heartbroken. Thanks to RP I don't blame her for anything or bother being mad, but I'll never allow myself to get that close to a woman ever again. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 10:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First Date since swallowing The Red PillAt my college there was a student athlete notorious for hitting on girls. He would hook up with a lot of them but strangely never with the same girl twice. It turns out that even though this guy was good looking and had girls interested, his penis was literally the size of a tube of chapstick. They called him 'toothpick'. You'll be fine. If you're still insecure learn to use your fingers and mouth. You get good enough and by the time you get to the fucking it won't be an issue. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 09:03 PM |
| 1 | You should host parties and lots of them.Amen. Almost all of my BP hookups were by virtue of hosting parties or living in a party house. Closing is infinitely easier when your bedroom is a few steps away. And after swallowing the pill, house parties were like a buffet. In my experience, there is no game like host game. Your home is your element, and you can use that to your advantage to really shine. If you have problems with club game or day game or even closing after a regular date hosting a party is a much simpler way to get laid, a… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/14 09:10 PM |
| 2 | FR: Escaping the Friend Zone...but not reallyFor me, this was just an opportunity to get it out of my system. I had cut her out of my life for a reason. Just because I had oneitis for her doesn't mean she wasn't a shit person. Even when I was BP I still knew she was shit but put up with her anyway because she was hot and my crush was anything but logical. Yes, I COULD go back to her, but I have other girls in my life who are more attractive, more interested, and just plain better people. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/14 09:18 PM |
| 6 | FR: Escaping the Friend Zone...but not reallyOooo that second one would have been perfect. Yeah you're right and I agree, I didn't handle things nearly as well as I should have at the barbecue. But that's why I do these field reports! Gotta see the good and the bad so the vets can stay sharp and the newbies can learn something. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/14 04:23 AM |
| 7 | Regarding: masturbation and videogames.I think once a week, if you haven't gotten laid, is good. Keeps me sharp and on my toes without driving me crazy. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/14 04:12 AM |
| 5 | FR: Escaping the Friend Zone...but not reallyI guess I wasn't super clear. Most of our mutual friends know that I always had a big crush on her, so when we finally hooked up word got out fairly quickly. At least among my close friends who also know her. Her lying about us sleeping together was her saving face in front of people I don't care about and embarrassing herself in front of the people I do care about. Edit: Also, I was pining for this girl for over 3 years. Enough was enough. I just wanted things to be over with her you know? Some… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/14 03:58 AM |
| 8 | FR: Escaping the Friend Zone...but not reallyYou're right on the first point. I let my oneitis get the better of me and I definitely should have been more vocal. But let's be real, can you really ask a girl to try harder? That's like asking a girl what she likes in bed. I just assumed she would get into it like every other girl. As for second, I just didn't think it was worth it. Why rock the boat? I got mine, that's what matters. Anyone there who was actually my friend knows what went down; no point in trying to convince everyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/14 02:20 AM |
| 2 | FR: Escaping the Friend Zone...but not reallyYep :/ Well at least I'm done with her! | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/14 10:08 PM |
| 3 | FR: Escaping the Friend Zone...but not reallyThanks bud. I'm going camping with a buddy and some girls next week I'll probably write something when I get back. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/14 10:04 PM |
| 9 | FR: Escaping the Friend Zone...but not reallyHaha I wish. But I'm pretty sure it's the first time I said it bluntly and not whined "why won't you hook up with me??" | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/14 09:54 PM |
| 3 | FR: Escaping the Friend Zone...but not reallyI find sex to be a two way street. You ever try to jackhammer a girl while she's just lying there? She went in my bed with the mentality of not enjoying herself, probably because if I was a great fuck it would undermine the whole narrative about us she built in her head. Who knows? Maybe she was enjoying it. All I know is that I didn't have a good time. It was just me attending to her the whole time. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/14 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Same thing, different ends of the gender spectrum.Holy shit that parable is spot on. Not sure if it would actually convince any girls but it's a very concise and accessible explanation. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/14 11:20 PM |
| 13 | Should I get an apartment with girls or guys?There will NEVER be toilet paper. I swear to god I think they just burn it or something. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/14 06:06 AM |
| 3 | Million Ways to Die at The WestI wouldn't say that. It's a funny enough movie and has some RP ideas but it's still just another bullshit "BP gets the girl narrative". | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 06:21 PM |
| 3 | What bad habits may one acquire if you so to say "make excessive use of red pill"?What do you mean? Should guys currently in relationships just continue being BP/end them outright? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/14 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Musichttp://youtu.be/3H2HKdTpgeI The singer is fairly BP, but the message of the song and the situation with him and his girl is Red Pill to the core. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/14 04:16 AM |
| 4 | Woman on TwoX whines that she's only attracted to douchebags. White knight commenters rush to soothe her and say that she's a "victim", and maybe she should give nice guys a chance?Yes, but in my experience gay guys are very realistic about their attractiveness and the kind of guy they can get. Yeah they'll pine after hot people just like the rest of us, but there's no inflated sense of self like some girls have (ie. Not many gay guys that are 5's think they're 8's) Some have that mentality of "loving themselves as they are" but the guys they hook up with are just as scrubby. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/14 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Why Women Aren't Into Nice Guys (amusing, somewhat majority compatible introduction into some red pill ideas)Elliot Hulse made a great video about this concept. Don't be nice; be KIND. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/14 04:08 PM |
| 2 | FR: Good frame can't always replace SMV, but bad frame will destroy itThis shit is so true it should be in the sidebar. That plate with the boyfriend was Persian too. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/14 11:25 PM |
| 2 | FR: Good frame can't always replace SMV, but bad frame will destroy itYeah I was struggling to get the idea across and still keep the title concise. The craziest thing is that on paper this guy should have been killing it. He had all the ingredients for a high SMV but it was like he had negative game. Everything that came out of his mouth made him look worse. Hot guys can usually get away with being awkward or weird ("Awww he's just shy", "wow he's so eccentric", etc.) but his attitude was just too unattractive. I think in this scenario hitting on the unattractive… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/14 11:23 PM |
| 11 | FR: Good frame can't always replace SMV, but bad frame will destroy itHaha oh lord I didn't even realize. He seemed more the "paid porn subscription" type rather than "shooting spree". | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/14 06:25 PM |
| -1 | I'm not ashamed of my blue pill past: Why the blue pill -> red pill transition gives you the best of both worlds.I can definitely see that being the case for those warrior poet types with multiple talents (the physicist who cooks, the athlete who plays an instrument, the doctor who paints, etc.) But I think that for looks it's a different story since it's random genetics and not something you really have to work for. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/14 06:15 PM |
| 37 | I'm not ashamed of my blue pill past: Why the blue pill -> red pill transition gives you the best of both worlds.A lot of people, especially redditors, see life like an RPG character sheet and that everyone is supposed to be "balanced". In their minds the alpha has high strength and charisma so naturally he must have low wisdom and intelligence. They think that life is supposed to be fair like that, and you can see them hamstering when they see guys who are attractive AND talented. What I love about RP is that it spits in the face of that idea and emphasizes the importance of being a well rounded man. Stro… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/14 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have experience with getting their SO or female friend to lose weight?In my experience fat girls that lose the weight go through a really slutty phase right after. Also she could easily rationalize that if she got attention from YOU when she was fat, what kind of guys could she pull now that she's thin. Maybe your frame is strong enough that she would stick around after losing weight but it's a very fine line you need to walk. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/14 05:00 PM |
| 8 | She’s Beautiful. She’s Successful. She’s Childless. She’s Not Crazy. So Why Is Misee Harris Single? (hint: hypergamy)Probably the crazy eyes. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/14 04:49 PM |
| 2 | A little test to see who she is attracted to - use sparingly.Hasn't it been about 10 seconds since we last looked at our strawberries? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/14 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Lets compile some not so obvious tips and tricks to be socially dominant.It's probably better that it never happens, but I always enter a kind of 'fight mode' whenever I hear a loud noise or a scream. I don't scream or flinch but I just zero in on the sound and look immediately direction it came from. Eyes narrow, nostrils flare, etc. I like to think of it as being more predatory then rodent-like. Like a big cat or a wolf. You wouldn't make a sudden move around a carnivore, and no one should be making sudden moves around you. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/14 05:54 AM |
| 3 | The type of men who do not believe TRPToo many chiefs, not enough indians. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/14 07:17 PM |
| 37 | Internet Porn harmless for adolescents, sex researchers find. Adolescent boys know how to responsibly dose their porn consumption. Porn does not harm their real world sexual behavior, might even increase sexual competency.It's not that porn contributes to more partners, STIs, abortions, etc., it's that porn provides too much stimulation to be healthy. Literally whatever fucked up fetish you got you can indulge online, and the more you watch porn the crazier stuff you start getting into. You could argue that porn alone won't cause this, but let's be real you're not watching porn unless you're rubbing one out, and that causes problems. Porn-induced ED is a huge problem for many guys in their 20s. If you're getting … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/14 09:38 AM |
| 1 | How not to approach women at the grocery store (x-post from r/cringe)I feel you on Tinder. I have no problems picking up girls in person, but on Tinder I get maybe one match a week. Usually with some beat looking Indian girl. I just ended up deleting mine. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/14 06:28 AM |
| 4 | Psychology Today article advocates crying !Roofies! when drunk girl makes out with her male friend.I've found good cop, bad cop to be one of the most effective wingman strategies. The trick is to be mean enough that there's zero chance she'll be into you and not your buddy, but not so cruel as to scare her away entirely. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/14 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Went to my first house/college party after swallowingHahaha homie I'm just as brown skinned as you are. It's true that the benchmark standard of attractiveness is the white male (just look at Hollywood), but it's all about confidence and being happy with who you are. I realized I was never going to be one of those Abercrombie models so instead of killing myself over it I decided to embrace who I was. Tall white dudes are a dime a dozen but if you walk in as that cool exotic motherfucker who does his own thing people will take notice and will gravi… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 12:33 AM |
| 6 | Went to my first house/college party after swallowingNo I agree. I guess I would say as objectively as I can that I'm a 6 or a 7, with +2 or -2 depending on who you ask. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Went to my first house/college party after swallowingExactly. The guy that girl ditched me for on Halloween was only 5'6" but dressed like Hollywood and was the captain of her dance team (+power). When he called she went running. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 02:55 PM |
| 7 | Went to my first house/college party after swallowingThe ring comes out and I wear long sleeves when I need to. But you're right, like I mentioned in another comment it sometimes turns girls off. Most importantly though is that I look the way I do because I WANT to, regardless of what others think. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 02:49 PM |
| 11 | Went to my first house/college party after swallowingThat's a very good point, I didn't really think of that. Treat whores like queens and queens like whores and all that. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 07:02 AM |
| 19 | Went to my first house/college party after swallowingDidn't actually fight anyone that night. It was a long party (10pm-3am) with over 100 people. Not that far fetched IMO | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 06:54 AM |
| 12 | Went to my first house/college party after swallowingYeah I get what you're saying. Maybe it's just all in my head but this was the best night I've had in a while and I had RP on my mind so I'm inclined to attribute my success to red pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 06:51 AM |
| 54 | Went to my first house/college party after swallowingWoke up with a miserable hangover, packed my shit, my buddy and I dropped the girl off at her place then he took me to the airport, sappy goodbye, the end. Or is this a shit test? Agree and amplify lol. The girl woke up and begged me not to leave but the aliens were attacking and I was earth's only hope. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 06:47 AM |
| 16 | Went to my first house/college party after swallowingI don't really fall neatly into the 1-10 scale. I'm very racially ambiguous and I get referred to as "unique/exotic" rather than handsome and I have very polar attractiveness. Girls that are interested are VERY much so, and girls that aren't REALLY aren't. The tattoos push those two ends farther i.e. girls that would find me attractive are more attracted and vice versa. Of course I'm fairly tall and I work out regularly and that will work wonders regardless of your facial attractiveness. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 06:41 AM |
| 26 | Went to my first house/college party after swallowingDon't know what to tell you bud. I had a great time that night and just wanted to share my experience. I definitely have plenty of other stories that are considerably less flattering but I doubt anyone wants to hear those. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 06:33 AM |
| 14 | Went to my first house/college party after swallowingFunny enough, I hooked up with 3 girls on Halloween too. Although I didn't get far with the first 2 and I already mentioned how the last one turned out. You get enough hormones and alcohol together in an enclosed space and a lot can happen. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 06:30 AM |
| 7 | Went to my first house/college party after swallowingYeah yeah I know this is pretty much fluff but I just had to spread the good word | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Tattoos are for trashBut these are all photos of terrible tattoos. It's like if you posted a photo of a female bodybuilder and said that women shouldn't go to the gym. I think, just like anything else, tattoos can be attractive if done tastefully and in moderation. Here are some examples that aren't garbage: http://i.imgur.com/or1K71u.jpg http://31.media.tumblr.com/d599bb3c7896a08ee21203266cbbdaa3/tumblr_mnhorxQV631rbz3alo1_500.jpg http://i.imgur.com/MvdZsWr.jpg http://i.imgur.com/txGXhmT.jpg http://imgur.com/a/vEik… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/14 02:11 AM |
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