I'm learning from TRP about plate spinning. Clearly a lot of men think it's ideal to have multiple sexual partners and be openly non exclusive.

This sounds like polyamory to me, but from what I've heard, TRP trashes polyamory because it allows women to sleep with other men and be non exclusive (which I suppose means agreeing to being a cuck).

"Cuck" is tossed around as an insult but I'd like for someone to explain exactly why it's bad. Doesn't it mean giving women the same non exclusive freedom that men want? It seems as though TRP expects women to be cucks but doesn't expect men to be cucks. Perhaps this is exactly the theory, in which case someone should explain why women should be exclusive and men shouldn't. When you're spinning plates, do you actually expect all those women to only be fucking you? If not, are you a cuck that doesn't know it?

Of course, I'm a man, and I'm not gay, and I know the basic feeling of jealousy that can come out of knowing your women is sleeping with other men. That feeling of jealousy doesn't seem unique to men though. If men want to be non exclusive, isn't the obvious trade off that they allow the women to be non exclusive?

How can not wanting to be exclusive and not wanting to be a cuck be reconciled?