I'm 32 years old and not afraid to approach. I get numbers all the time either in person or online. In the last couple years I find it almost 75% of the time I never meet up or even have sex with any of these women. I keep the texting mostly to logistics. I think part of it is that I'm at the age where people are busy and alot of free time is rare for most and most of that free time is spent with friends, fam, or other dudes in the rotation. I really dont have a huge friends/social circle anymore as most of my friends are married. So i cant really pluck women off my social group

My most recent example is I got this girls number at a bar. We met up once after and things went well and kissed. She will initiate texting and every time I ask to meet up she has shit going on. I try to create and maintain an abundance but its almost impossible when 75% of them are flaking. So what is your rule, 3 attempts at hanging out and then next?? Give me some advice