TLDR: Female knows I'm entertaining other options and attempts to invite herself over under utilizing plausible deniability(PD).

Chick is HB 7.5, 5'1" nice T&A but lives 40 minutes away.

Matched with this girl on tinder a month ago, quickly got her number and have turned down/ flaked on dates last minute. I keep it ambiguous and tell her I'm taking care of business, truthfully I just dont want to drive that far. Anything further than 20 minutes is a no-go and my plates can swing by.

She gets mad at the rejections, then I'll soft next her for a couple days and re-engage getting her wanting the cock again.

As of late she has been getting thirsty and has been willing to drive here, so fast forward to tonight..

She says at 7pm .. "Can I come over tonight, I just want to beat you in mario kart" "soo bad" ..(ignored)

130am .. "can I come sleep at your apartment" "My roommate and his girl are keeping me awake" "im getting cranky"

Just to reinforce this chick has made her intentions clear and provided me plausible deniability(PD). Why haven't I accepted ..

You know why ;) ... options

So question, how have/would you balanced a chick that wants the D but I want to keep the plate on reserve? How often do chicks provide PD for you?

Bonus Question, girls with guy roommates, she didn't tell me this before what are your thoughts?