Plate of few months suddenly busy. Ironically she was doing nothing but sitting at home. Found that out the next day.

Followed what the sidebar said and tried again a week later. Again she said she was busy but her voice was perky and she was laughing/flirting during the short 2-3 minute call.

Now I wont contact her again. It is upto her.

Since I wont initiate the Talk that they want so badly and they wont either, its a stalemate.

So do plates just slowly fade out and ghost or outright say its done etc.