Hi guys.. long time reader of TRP here. I have to admit though I still struggle with this stuff cause I feel like I’m inherently an altruistic person and do not like hurting people’s feelings. Sometimes I wonder if I’m on the spectrum too cause I sometimes have a hard time reading people and am not sure if I’m picking up the right vibes or not. I’m no incel, but I don’t have strong rotations and while I can occasionally get girls who show high interest, I have a hard time maintaining and building relations with women without my ego getting involved.

Here’s the scoop.. this e-girl (typical alternative Instagram ho who posts thirst traps) started following my IG page. No idea who it was cause I use IG to network and show my artwork. I eventually follow her back and we occasionally DM back and forth. We have a few interests in common and she’s pretty cute with a nice fat booty so I hit her up for a date.

We go out for drinks and she’s showing all sorts of IOIs. Dates going well and good convo aside from some creepy boomer hitting on her and buying her drinks- which I just let happen cause I didn’t wanna ruin this girls free red wine hook up. After the date, I walk her to the car.. we kiss then she invites me into her car to make out. I start sucking on her titties and rubbing her pussy from the outside of her leggings, dry hump, eat her pussy and ass.. then we decide it’s time to go home. I was trying to fuck but I’m ok with not doing that on a first date so we part ways. Successful night.

The girl retains high interest DMing me every day always initiating conversations. I never initiate and usually reply a few hours later cause I’m busy with work and my passions in life. Try to schedule a date a week later- flake, another flake and another... inviting this chick to an art exhibit, Halloween party/show dinner etc.

3 weeks later we meet up again at her house. This is where I got the vibes I should lose this girl. She tells me she met up with some random chick earlier that day who ate her pussy. Then she mentions her GF hooking up with some dude and she was invited but decided not to go.. But says it in a manner that’s kind of rubbing it in my face. She’s being kind of rude and very masculine. I go inside her apartment and it’s fucking messy as hell (huge turnoff to me). I noticed she hid a bag of pills really quick too under her couch. I feel like at this point I should’ve just walked out...

But I cuddle with her and watch a movie like a beta bitch anyway. I started touching her tit and she made a stink about it. Whatever I back off a little and just watch the movie. She’s getting a little closer so I try to initiate a make out and she’s not interested. Whatever.. continue watching movie. I fell asleep for a little bit and when I woke up I told her I was leaving. She walks me to the door and I just walk right out without a hug or anything cause I wasn’t about to reward this bitch giving me shit the second time we get together.

She DMs me asking why I’m mad, blah blah.. I told her I found her to be rude and disrespectful and have a very low tolerance for that bullshit. She tries to flip it on me saying I’m mad I didn’t get laid and that’s all I want from her (true lol). But I said she’s full of snit and flipping this on me cause I simply called her on her BS. I invited her to do a ton of different stuff that she rejected but she invites me over her house. At this point I just said “fuck this” unfollowed and blocked her.

I’m not sure if I did the right thing here. But at this point I just found this bitch to be a toxic headache, possibly with STDs and not worth the pursuit. I don’t know if I handled this in a red pill way or reacted to her frame like a little bitch. Ultimately I think I dodged a bullet here, especially hearing what some people in my social circle knew about this girl, but part of me still feels beta for not sealing the deal. On the other hand- I have friends who got herpes from similar types of chicks so I feel like I came out on top.

What do you guys think about this situation?