When will the red pill ideas start taking affect on women?

asstaxticks · 2014-08-24T09:36:59+00:00

I don't think you'll get a good answer. Most posters here are older, and the few teenagers that do come here are trying to learn just like you. Redpill is a game of experience. Plus teenagers are fucking stupid and they don't know what they want.

flatox · 2014-08-24T13:34:10+00:00

observe. analyse. discuss. conclude. Let the other teenage TRP'ers know.

Become the guy you're looking for.

Serres · 2014-08-24T09:49:46+00:00

Meet people around your age in places where they would go to to improve themselves.

If you don't lift start now.

/r/ketogains/

There is a bunch of Tom Leykis content on YouTube go listen to it. Also Patrice Oneal.

Do you have any RP like male role models in your life who you can talk to in person? If not seek them out.

People in a party setting may have bias toward certain kinds of people. They go there to shop for those people. If a girl has her mind set on getting a guy dressed up as dangerous, badboy thug if you are not that you are wasting your time gaming her when there are better women more worthy of your effort. If you want those women then you need to become a stronger archetype even in show of what they fantasize about, but as I mention above if you go to places where people go to improve themselves, such as libraries and gyms, you can find better people who may have no interest in "thugs" and prefer other people of genuinely strong character.

If you do really want the people who go to parties then lie like they do. It's all an act, but you can do it better. Remember that all relationships, all attraction is shallow. Become any kind of person you want to be when you go to parties, become the perfect bait. That's what women do already try to do with makeup.

You may be doing things which are not immediately obvious to you which are putting people off. Consider the "Supreme Gentleman" who thought he was doing everything right, but anyone else could see that he put off the most creepy vibes.

To answer your question, yes, red pill behavior works on people of any age even people who are aware of "the red pill" fall for redpill behavior. But there can always be special circumstances. Such as older women wanting to secure a pure beta provider instead of playing around with red pill guys who they know won't given into what they want. The thugs you speak of may have stronger, more aggressive behavior which can be seen as redpill behavior by accident.

raceAround126 · 2014-08-24T10:29:56+00:00

It's odd. I started thinking, "I'm 30, this TRP doesn't work for people in my age bracket".

To a point, we're both right. But to a point, we're not quite as right as we think we are.

I thought I'd never have one night stands, I'd never have girls trying to get with me or doing favours for me to get my attention, I never thought any single girl in my life would ever want anything to do with the likes of me.

I heard before in my life (when girlfriend hunting), "when you stop looking, that's when it happens and you find someone." Of course, that advice came from girls, but now it seems like it's a slightly warm version of TRP.

I fully don't give a shit about women coming to see me or making efforts for me. I've had ten years of a relationship which was, well, fucking dire. I kick myself for sticking it so long. So after an experience like that, not giving a shit was easy!

But it's amazing. I have a second mobile right now simply for women! I found that giving my main number out to random sluts was causing problems for real contacts (work, clients, etc.) Last night, I was hanging with my neighbour downstairs (a dude) and a couple of his friends. We were watching movies, shooting the shit.

I left about midnight and came up to my flat. Looked at my pussy phone and I shit you not, options of three different women who were practically begging to come over.

If you told me this shit 3 years ago, I wouldn't have believed a word of it. It's eerie how much not giving a shit and just concentrating on yourself and being straight up about your intentions and not deflecting when argued down just works! It just works at any age.

Don't get me wrong. I don't find picking up 18 year olds all that easy. I've had one who was actually a really really sweet girl, so I did go easy on her. But I don't find it easy to pick up 18 yo randoms. My success range is about 23-27. But, it's a good range. They're kind of out of that stupid phase and kind of eager to please.

You may find (just as I've gleamed from other posts) that you may get some success for women around mid 30s. Hear me out. They're well trained sexually, I doubt very much they'll be looking at you as a provider. If you have a decent body, go and hit it! Getting trained on technique isn't a bad idea!

From your description, are you currently oneitis'ing a girl right now? It sounds like you're using TRP as a formula and attempting to integrate this with this one single girl and, whoops, she saw straight through your frame and is now giving you the finger and getting a random dick. And she knows you'll still try again.

Maybe I'm way off, but maybe I'm not. And don't worry, there's not many on these boards, me included, that probably hasn't done the same thing. I made the mistake of treating TRP as a formula rather than a straight up piece of lifestyle advice. Added to that I've had oneitis plenty enough too, just like many others, and scoured the world trying to find that one secret enigmatic formula that would make her get naked for me. Newsflash, you're the problem and there's no formula.

Anyway, good luck. TRP takes a while to get down and sometimes it comes back up. I've had 30 years of blue-pill beaten into me from education to movies to upbringing. It's a difficult thing to shelve off. But it's worth it.

KyfhoMyoba · 2014-08-24T19:33:02+00:00

I think you mean 'effect' not 'affect.' And RP ideas have always affected all women at all times, it's just that you haven't passed a certain threshold level yet.

At your age, females tend to value almost exclusively appearance/looks, but in just a couple of years, other factors will become at least as, if not more valuable to them. Specifically, frame (and others). Frame can be a little difficult to describe (this is an invitation to do your own research) but it's short for 'frame of reference'. Always be congruent with your frame, i.e., if you set the frame that you are the prize and you constantly kiss her ass, then you are being incongruent with your frame.

Some things you can do now to prepare yourself for the next couple of years: 1) Become popular. Add value to all interactions with people, but don't be a suck up - tease. Especially the hot girls. Remember everyone and their details. 2) Lift. Eat right. 3) Pursue your passions/hobbies, i.e., get a life. 4) Chicks get the tingles for intrasexual competition (see #3). 5) Learn how to earn money. At some point, especially if you want kids, you're going to have to add the BB track. (Note that I said 'add' not 'replace') 6) Learn Game. Lots of free stuff out there on file sharing sites. I'm partial to Speed Seduction^TM, but a lot of other people seem to think that it's difficult to learn/implement. Real Social Dynamics (RSD) is really good stuff, and they have a lot on YouTube. 7) Be outcome independent. 8) Don't avoid confrontation. (#4 can help with that).

Title	When will the red pill ideas start taking affect on women?
Author	reds-under-the-bed
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Date	August 24, 2014 8:15 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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