Just link me and/or provide your help and thoughts

Edit: Specific usecase: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9dgayy/i_have_a_female_roommate_and_i_know_she_likes_me/e5hgdyk?context=3

Girls who can fuck up your social rep by ignoring their interest and turning them away due to salt. You don't care for them but they orbit you due to their interest. Rejecting them or even simply ignoring them turns them against you cause of sour grapes and they'll spread spin stories about you