Where should I go from here?

alpha-secretase · 2016-06-03T20:19:21+00:00

The 5 Pillars of Improvement: Physical - Intellectual - Vocational - Social - Financial.

Pick what's most important to you, but if you want to be well-rounded improve on all of them.

You're reading and lifting, that covers Physical and Intellectual improvement.

But What are you doing to improve your job situation, your social skills and your finances? Maybe its time to improve your social skills maybe join Toastmasters, or improve financially, focus on developing passive income. TRP has posts on all of these, pick and choose what you want to do.

And why haven't you gotten with your plates? If you don't close they're not plates, seems like your orbiting from the way you wrote it.

poochman · 2016-06-03T20:49:17+00:00

Lift more. Up it to 4 or 5 or 6 days per week if time permits. Use the negative depression you are feeling (I've had it) and try to channel it into the gym.
Approach. Approach. Approach. You are not wasting your time with woman. Like anything approaching and talking to women takes practice and repetition that no amount of reading can replace. Every rejection makes you better next time. I worked on negging specifically and that helped me get over a hump in this area. Try to analyze specifically where failed approaches have gone wrong and improve.
Escalate past making out if you know the girl is feeling you. Get her in your place and keep going.

Title	Where should I go from here?
Author	FCBLegacy
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	June 3, 2016 7:19 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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