I have couple of questions. I used this quarantine time to improve myself, working out at home gym in the garage, healthy eating, sleeping and reading sidebar. Still in the process though.

I have just couple of questions, which i want to specify some details.

IOI's.

Now since the lockdown is over, I am getting a lot of IOI's when i go to some restaurant or a bar. As directed by AMS, i don't go hunting. I go to have good time or a great meal with my friend. IOI's i mean girls looking at me when i enter the room and looking away when i turn towards them. I think that's because i look way better than i used to before March, and i renewed my wardrobe.

Long story short, IOI's tell me that the girl is interested, even if she gave me a one second look and then looked away, correct? So, right away approaching a girl that glanced at me, doesn't it seems like i came there to hunt and i just saw a girl look at me and i right away jumped towards her? Doesn't that go against the "i'm here to enjoy mytime" theory?

Being Alpha

Since a lot of approaching tips are to tell a girl, "hey, what's your name, you look cute, i thought to come over and say hi" - TBH this doesn't sound alpha at all and kind of breaks your frame, in my opinion. Shouldn't an alpha be a bit let me say "rude" in a good way?