Why do some develop oneitis?

mikerate · 2019-08-13T23:55:50+00:00

Lack of abundance.

RAGNAR_GZ · 2019-08-14T03:32:30+00:00

Even beyond lack of abundance, it’s the idea ingrained in us that there is someone out there for us. The whole soulmate fallacy.

It’s hard to see sometimes in the trenches when you have the feels for a girl, but there isn’t just one person that’s right for you. There are many someone’s out there right for you, if your goal is marriage.

bluepillcarl · 2019-08-14T04:00:58+00:00

I dont believe that it's always just "lack of abundance". Culturally many of us while growing up are pushed to believe in 'doing the right thing' ie abstaining from sex before marriage, only having one partner, finding the one true love.

innerspeaker88 · 2019-08-14T15:33:12+00:00

Most people create oneitis when you dont know the person that well and therefore you dont see any redflag that makes you believe shes only human too.

I have my oneitis. But ive learned from the past and im keep banging other girls hard.

This week im gonna bang 3. Starts tonight 😀

Title	Why do some develop oneitis?
Author	Workguy77
Upvotes	8
Comments	6
Date	August 13, 2019 11:51 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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