Why does it seem harder to get dates?

817illdegradeu · 2019-10-07T21:13:01+00:00

Tinder and bumble flooded the market with cheap dick

Edg3head-41 · 2019-10-07T21:24:39+00:00

Its easy to get laid in college, you’re surrounded by people who just want to fuck, when your out of college there are less of those types of people around you all the time. Numbers game

red_philosopher · 2019-10-07T21:33:55+00:00

It's probably a sort of confirmation bias combined with the radicalization of the SMP.

In the last 8 years your standards have probably increased. I've noticed a big difference between the women I used to date and pull 8 years ago in comparison to now. Once you land those 7/8/9/10s, you spend less effort fucking around with 4/5/6s. And 4/5/6s are much MUCH easier to score a date with.

The SMP has been revolutionized by digital technology. There's plenty on this topic, but women basically get to have the pick of the litter on a daily basis. If you hit on a girl today, she may already have a date lined up every day of the week already.

All in all though, I don't think it is substantially more difficult.

frognads · 2019-10-08T08:10:30+00:00

You're in social circles with less single people than the students you used to hang out with. That's typically how it goes in student towns. Go somewhere with more single people, and of course raise your smv.

celincelin · 2019-10-08T05:13:45+00:00

You’re older and look worse, for one thing.

Title	Why does it seem harder to get dates?
Author	no-fan-of-your-sass
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	October 7, 2019 8:38 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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