Hey guys ive been reading TRL quite a while but ive a problem, my daily routine is always the same and not quite fun, i go gym then go to work (my business, developing mobile apps) and i go twice per week to dancing. But the problem is i dont meet many girls regularly cuz my social life is not very active in my city (Istanbul), therefore when i meet someone and spend some good time, i fall for her very quickly and i keep thinking about spending time with her cuz i feel like its an escape from daily life, but this only make things harder, like a week ago i slept with a girl but all i did was hugging her and sleeping, i somehow did not want to fuck.. I just don't want to invest someone emotionally and just bang and go... How can i get into this mindset? I ve already read sidebar.